These are from the same photo set on Flickr, taken at a local beach here in Orange County:
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See Also: Why Asian Girls Like White Guys II
These are from the same photo set on Flickr, taken at a local beach here in Orange County:
Any questions?
See Also: Why Asian Girls Like White Guys II
I have given this topic considerable thought, and while no explanation can encompass all the variables of attraction (between people of same race or differing), I would say it’s an opposites-attract type deal. I’m a blonde white guy and I find Asians attractive (East, South-East, South-West), I find Hispanic women attractive, I find Black women attractive, and I especially find women of mixed-ethnicity attractive. Curiously, the women I am least drawn to are white blonde women (though I still love blonde women as well).
People from different backgrounds are interesting because there is more to learn about them. I don’t think it’s because I perceive them to be more docile or have other expectations of what an individuals personality is like based on their ethnicity, there are plenty of docile white women and I’ve encountered plenty of aggressive Asian women. I think it’s important to realize that people aren’t dating nationalities, they’re dating people; they met, they conversed, and something clicked. What kind of psycho would spend their time with someone based purely on the colour of their skin? Would you? Probably not.
If Asian women and white men are some form of cultural phenomenon (which I’m not entirely willing to concede, I don’t think it happens as much as people think it does) maybe it’s because that white men are the most prevalent and accepted alternative to Asian men for Asian women (race relations in Asia haven’t exactly progressed to Western standards…which also aren’t THAT great). Ultimately, it seems like a good thing anyway; I look forward to the day we’re all hybridized (well I won’t be, I’m probably gonna die a white guy but you get my point).
Simply put, Asian girls can’t get satisfied by Asian guys in bed. That’s why they go after white guys because they’re packin’.
I have only been with one Asian woman. What attracted me to her initially was that she was very cute. What held me was that she was so very bright. She had a great sense of humor. She shared my interest in music, she is a violinist and I am a cellist. We both played piano. We have been together for 12 years. We have one beautiful daughter. I didn’t want her because she was Asian, I wanted her because I thought she was the most wonderful woman I have ever met. I would have never believed that I could be so in love with my wife after 12 years, but there it is. I recommend that if you fall in love with a woman that makes your world better, you go after her, whatever her race.
i watched an interview and asian girls say its cus whites are tallr
Hi, i am male white+tan^^And i preffer asian girls becose i like them. Dont ask me why you know it lol. I respect asian guys and if they are small dick pfff and what? bla bla…Idk did my idea first in my head i will want live in Japan and have Japanese life i like their culture and history and everything^^in like year i saw everyone in youtube videos about jp girls says ,,I WANT GO TO JAPAN!”This are saying only americans what are bored of their american girls..I am from Europe^^. And if you think asian guys sucks and white are best you are rly meddle. IF you like asian girls and u are white dont say asians guys sucks they are not! I respect asian guys and asian girls. If is this reading any asian girl so …I prefer you girls becouse you are exotic to me and i am for you i like you^^Asian girls rulez š Thanks…And now white guys give me negative points….
I’m a white guy- a fucking good looking one at that . Obviously I stumbled onto this little cat fight in my search to determine the true reasons behind Asian girls always wanting my balls. I haven’t really learned anything that said Asian girls haven’t told me in confidence, though, so I suppose I’m wasting my time. I will say this before I go, though. Just like men, there are certain qualities women look for in a mate. They look for a good physique, strong frame, healthy musculature, high intellect, proportional features, etc. However, there are also some very specific features that, at least, some women look for in MEN. They want cut features, large eyes, a good head of hair, a healthy complexion (whatever her culture determines to be a good complexion, that is), masculine voice, so on and so forth. If white men have this more often than Asian men – and, because I have eyes and the ability to comprehend reality, I think they do – then more women, in general, will find them more attractive than their Asian counterparts. THAT IS REALITY. It isn’t racism. Living in Northern Virginia, I have many, many male Asian friends and even they, behind the honest young men they are, can admit these hard truths in a joking way.
Again, I get my facts from ASIAN MEN AND WOMEN. I didn’t make them up. I didn’t read them on some crazy blog. They have come straight from the mouths in question.
One more thing. I like Asian girls because they are A.) Smarter, on average, than the dumb as a brick black, latina and white girls I date, B.) Suck way better dick and are way more fun/comfortable in bed, and C.) Have the petite, hairless, tight features that I, PERSONALLY, look for in a girlfriend. My work is done here. Now the healing process may begin.
i think when i say i prefer white guys, its more for physical attractions. characterwise, i used to have this impression that white guys are all easy and big flirts and gets along with everyone. its only when i started dating them that i realised they are all different. and they can be as annoying as any asian men i know. also they can be really faithful and quiet as opposed to what i thought about them earlier on.
point is i think i get along better with white men because they dont judge what i like and what i do. they respect me and they actually showed interest in the things i indulged in although asian men may think its dumb.
i love my american boyfriend and he is the best person i have ever met in my life, white or asian, period.
WAKE UP SHEEPLE.
Im a white guy who has lived in Asia both north and south for six years and my wife is Japanese. PEOPLE ARE PEOPLE… Everyone is different, such shite topics amaze me and reinforce my thoughts regarding the small mindedness of the masses AKA Sheeple.
Some Asian woman like white guys or black guys but generally stick to their own nationality for partners JUST LIKE THE REST OF THE WORLD. Turn of your tv get a passport and go see, would be my advice.
ONE TOP THING ABOUT ASIAN FOR ME IS ASIA AND ASIANS ARE MOST OF THE TIME MUCH MORE PEACEFUL PEOPLE AND HAVE MORE RESPECT FOR THEMSELVES AND OTHERS THAN THE MAJORITY OF WESTERN CULTURES.
I married my wife BECAUSE SHE IS HER, not because she is ASIAN, when did critical thinking die????
@White guy in Japan –
So you’re saying that most Asian women IN ASIA are with Asian guys? Why do you think that is, bright boy? Ponder it for a moment, you’ll figure it out.
The only thing worse than stupid people is stupid people who think they’re smart.
Yea, Im white and I have been with 8 different asian girls (sexually). Also I have dated asian girls my whole life because I dont know they look better to me. You cant stereotype them all because all the girls I have dated are different. But I can say that I did have sex with all the girls on the first date, which I think is dumb because theres no mystery left after that. I have (am) kinda dating a girl from Japan and she says that Japanese men arent āstrongā like white guys. Thats not always the case, but everytime I have been to Japan, Japanese men tend to be more fashionable which would be protrayed as metrosexual in our society. Truthfully, I just think asian women are beautiful, ive been with ones that my friends thought were ugly, and ones that my friends thought were hot. But the funny thing is I kind of like dorky looking pale asian girls, thats my thing. But it is true for atleast Japanese girls, that some of them dont like their eyes or their features and what european characteristics. I think thats dumb though. People just like what they like , they look exotic to us, we look exotic to them, case closed
I have to agree here, this seems to always be the case with AF/WM couples. First night so tight, or not so tight. Most guys I know (white) sleep with them like they are fast food or something. The only ones who end up dating one long term are the short, fat, bald, over fifty guys.
inferiority complex of course
First of all, most people seem to have interpreted your question to mean that you are stating that Asian girls like white guys. Please people, this person is merely asking why asian girls like white guys. However I agree with the fact that some asian girls like white guys and pick white guys over equally qualified asian guys. To answer your question as to why…
Two of the major reasons are likely..
In society almost the entire upper class is composed of caucasian people. This means that caucasians are already associated with something that everyone wants (higher status). Higher status is desired naturally, we have evolved to desire it because it is beneficial for spreading our genes. Some people don’t realize that they are attracted to this. But if 80% of the upper class was Asian, or African American, this would be a different story.
The majority of people in North America are caucasian. This means that most if not all movies, tv shows, even the radio etc are dominated by caucasian people. The effect of the media cannot be underestimated. It is the outlet to the masses. Everyone in North America has access to it, and most people spend a lot of time watching it. When was the last time you saw an Asian male main character in a role that women/girls would desire?
The characteristics of caucasian people (if these “characteristics” can even be generalized in such a way) are very unlikely the reason for this effect.
Asian women offen moved out from their country into the white world and want to live.
I am an asian female from Hong Kong living in New york city for many years. I think the nice qualities educated nice looking asian guys are not very approachable. I am an educated nice looking cute asian girl and I behave like a lady. I wait for men to approach me and so far all the men who approahes are all non asian men, mostly white, black, and hispanic. I dated only one asian men out of nine men, and this asian man I had to make the initiation, and that was wrong for me. I shouldn’t have to beg. All he had to do is come up as a friend and tell me that he thinks that I am interesting and would like to take me out like a gentleman on first date. I am a working girl and I make very high income.
I ended up paying a dating agency for single professional asians to look for my professional asian husband at age 27, but most of the men there a non asian professional men. I couldn’t even find one nice professional asian man to marry to. I ended up marrying a white hispanic man who is a dentist. We have very similiar educational background and personalities.
The problem with nice asian men is that they all want a 5ft8 105 lb model looking asian girlfriend. I am not that. I am 5ft2 115lb with 34C and a cute face. I am not model looking. Non asian men and bad qualities asian men finds me attractive.
I still watch alot of hong kong tv dramas and admire all the gorgeous asian men on TV.
We talking about the US here? The majority of my american-born asian friends who grew up in predominantly asian communities ended up with asian spouses. Of note, they weren’t necessarily of the same nationality – their lineage just happened to be sourced from the same continent. If you raised these same people in more diverse environments, surely more interracial marriages would have occurred. You’re all just focusing on the isolated cases of af/wm couples.
Look at the big picture and you’ll realize theres probably more asian males on earth than the remaining world population outside of asia. Someone’s gonna get boned by the asian guy, have kids, and end up with more asian-ish guys and girls.
Same goes for the wm/af couples – their kids are going to end up looking asian as well. In other words, the pariahs of the superior white male society will eventually be their own product.
“sometimes, i just wake up in the morning hoping iām white so i can get an asian girl.”
Yeah right, Asian guys are getting Asian tang, especially from Filipina students who are desperate to belong to the “other” Asian crowd. They buy into this online community talk about pitying someone and giving it up to relieve their stress. Reverse psychology is just another way of hording the quality Asian girls for yourselves! Selfish bastards…
Who cares I’m white bring on that slanted pussy
And do the Asian girls who like white guys look like this?
http://www.japansugoi.com/wordpress/japanese-bikini-gravure-idols/
Cuts both ways! It’ simple, people want to be with attractive people, no matter what race.
Hi all,
I’ve read this whole thread and would like to add my point of view. I’m a Middle-Eastern guy, well-mannered, and good-looking. Asian girls (especially the immigrant ones) are my biggest passion, but it seems like this dream of dating one will never come true… Why? I’ll tell you my opinion: Asian girls (again, the traditional ones, not the Americanized) come from a very well-mannered culture and thus seek for husbands that are either of their own culture, or, if it happens to be a foreigner it MUST be white (Anglo-American). Why not dark-skinned? Maybe because they don’t want husbands that in this way or another are related to CRIMINAL SUBCULTURES of the Blacks and Latinos. I must say that I’m NOT a racist, but the subculture of the above mentioned groups significantly conveys a poor image on the group as a whole. That’s why female Asian immigrants don’t dare to even look into my eyes whenever we happen to cross each other. They see me as a Latino guy whom they want no connection with. That’s sad, but that’s reality.
Oh, and I also agree with many of you, guys, who mentioned the superiority and dominance of the whites on the globe as attractive features for the females – it’s Nature – more power = better chances to feed and breed.
Hi i’m a white 27 year old male in Australia, i’ve read this whole thread (at work cos i’m bored) because i’m off to Japan to teach next year. Well it was just a curiosity because whenever I mention i’m going there people start telling me how many Japanese girls i’ll be dating and sleeping with “because they love white guys” – my Mum even hinted at this *shudder*. However I have come to know in my 27 years that reality is usually very far from theory, and this sort of thing usually comes down to the sort of person you are, as an individual. I am attracted to asian girls, but I am attracted to all girls. I visited Singapore a few years back and did enjoy the feeling of being more exotic, i have never felt exotic in my life, usually white is seen as vanila or plain bread where i’m from, I caught more girls eyes than usual and managed to snag a kiss one night, from a white girl, from my home country ironically.. I didn’t know her previously.
On one hand I want asian girls to like white guys because I am white but on the other hand it seems wrong somehow. I’m not a playa but not a meek weirdo either, what I mean is, i’m not out on the prowl like most guys seem to be. It comes down to personality, I kid myself sometimes, there are a lot of super hot asian girls around (Sydney has a huge population of Asians) but if I don’t naturally click with a girl I know I won’t be able to stand the effort it takes to be around them, it was different when I was 22.
Anyway i’m off to get some first hand experience, keep the thread going in the meantime.