Wives of Spanking Husbands Club


From the front page of the Los Angeles Times 70 years ago today, Jan. 26, 1938:

Wives of Spanking Husbands
Form Girls’ Auxiliary to Club

SIOUX FALLS (S. D.) Jan. 25 (AP) — Wives of Spanking Husbands’ Club, organized in Sioux City, Iowa, and parent organization of fifty-nine such clubs throughout the nation according to its own figures–reached out for another slice of territory today.

The Iowa housewives who consider it a mark of esteem for their husbands to wield a disciplinary hairbrush once in a while, announced plans today for a junior auxiliary–Daughters of Spanking Parents.


A letter received here from Sioux City and signed “Rita Rae, general delivery,” told of plans for the new organization for which she claimed an initial membership of seventeen. Any girl above the age of 11 years is eligible to join, Mrs. Rae wrote.

“We think all parents should spank their daughters when they don’t behave,” Mrs. Rae wrote. “Some girls won’t admit it, but the really know it is better to get spanked than scolded and nagged. Spanking creates a better understanding between parents and daughters.”


Mrs. Rae is the president of the Wives of Spanking Husbands, which was organized last June 26 under the broad-minded slogan “Spare the hairbrush and spoil the wife.”

“Our husbands don’t beat us,” the Sioux City woman was careful to explain. “They just turn us over their knees and give us a good sound spanking.”

  315 comments for “Wives of Spanking Husbands Club

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    5 Mar 2009 at 4:39 am

    I am a spanking husband, I started spanking my wife soon after we married and on the advise of my father in law. It came about when I complained to him about his daughter, about her over spending, staying out late and behaving as if she was still a single girl. He turned around and told me that I was not being firm enough with her and that I should take her across my knee take her panties down and give her a good sound spanking because if I did not she was going to make my life difficult and unpleasant. I took his advise and 21 years later I am still spanking my wife when the need arises.

    We have a very happy,loving and caring marraige and all thanks to my father in laws good advise

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      15 Aug 2016 at 11:06 am

      do you use the 3 D’s or you have your own set of rules to be followed . My husband biggest would have to be attitude and putting myself in any danger . So when he caught me sitting in the dark by the lake by myself he felt that was a warrant for my Ass to be spanked and he thinks as well heat to the sest is the best

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    Mrs X
    10 Mar 2009 at 8:21 pm

    I am 25 and spanked by my husband, we married a little over a year ago, he is older than me by 20 years. When I have broken one of his major rules (overspending, lying, disobedience) he escorts me to his study with a firm hand on my bottom. He bends me over his desk, causing my panties to show, lifts my skirt out of the way and “warms my bottom” with his hand. Then he pulls my panties down and spanks my bottom, HARD. After that he removes a large wooden school style paddle from his desk drawer, pulls my panties back up for the first few swats and then lowers them again all the way and gives me at least ten wallops with the paddle completely bare until I literally fall into the corner clutching my behind. Later he takes me in my arms and gently rubs my sore bottom and helps me get my panties back up smoothing them with is hand over my swollen ass and patting me very lightly on the rear as we leave his study.

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    13 Mar 2009 at 10:16 am

    I am a spanking husband and spank my wife when she needs it. I really enjoy the posts from the womens poiint of view.

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    17 Mar 2009 at 8:43 pm

    I enjoyed the posts here. I’m 52, divorced and live in Happy Valley in Utah and I gotta tell ya, it isn’t easy finding someone who is safe and sane to spank you. I used to have a male spanker who was very good, but he’s in a serious relationship and his girlfriend isn’t into discipline/spanking, so I won’t see him again because I don’t want him to jeopardize his relationship. I’d sure love to find someone again…married or single for spankings only. If any of you on this board live in Utah County, or close by, and are open to spanking someone else (provided your spouse is okay with it), please contact me here first. I both like to be spanked with the hand, paddle, ruler, etc. and I’d like to get some real discipline spankings too. I need the focus on the homefront. You’re never to old for a spanking. Thanks.

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    20 Mar 2009 at 11:53 am


    Go to spankfinder.com to find someone in your area. It’s free to join and contact other members. You could also try groups, such as on Yahoo!.

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    21 Mar 2009 at 2:36 pm

    Jeannie….I dream of Jeannie…I may have already met you on the web…maybe I could help you. We should talk more. Contact me if you can…

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    21 Mar 2009 at 5:16 pm

    I live in Chicago, am a happily married lady at 42. My husband spanks me and I will be honest, when he travels out of town for extended periods of time, I cannot wait until he gets home. Luckily I have not had another man paddle me but I have come very close!

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    22 Mar 2009 at 12:33 am

    i’m a german girl, 24yrs, and my girlfriend and me like to spank each other very much => i dont like bloody asses, but red ones => so we us our hands, paddles etc !

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    spanked soundly
    23 Mar 2009 at 7:28 pm

    I was spanked all weekend because, i would not learn to just say ok and do what was aske of me. I am still wearing a sore bottom, but i dont question what my boyfriend says to do. When i know what he is saying is for the good.

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    controlled by wife
    24 Mar 2009 at 1:58 pm

    I am totally controlled by my wife.

    It all started when we were a couple before marriage.
    She took control in bed almost every time.
    I was never spank´t before my wife, and i thot it was fun to play.

    Won day she got angry at me and we started to argue.
    She did not like it at all and we had an argument for days after.
    In the end i asked her how we can stop this and she sad “i want to punish you”. Technically it was my fault but as a man i had a had time saying that i was wrong. I agreed because i loved her so much.
    We had many arguments but never as long.
    She told me to go to our bedroom and wait for her. She came and spank´t me over her knee. And paddled me over the make up table (man it heart). The same day she gave me all the rules of the house and from that day she control´d me and the house. Every time i did something wrong i was punished, most of the time in the same way.
    I realized that this is what i need. And we never argue´d agen.
    Mostly i get spanked twice a week depends on how i´ve been. But ad least wons a week. That is 1 of her rules even if i did nothing it keeps me strait.
    She tried less it dose not work.

    Now we have been marred for ten years and i love her more then ever.

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    6 Apr 2009 at 8:12 am

    I love being spanked by my boyfriend. He usually spanks me OTK. I just love it.

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    10 Apr 2009 at 1:16 am

    I got spank for punishment many times by my daddy and now by my husband. Daddy uses belt and canes. Husband uses cable as well. He spanks whenever and wherever I am naughty (atleast 4-5 time per month). Of cause, very painful. I hate it but I agree that it is needed for me to be good woman.

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    12 Apr 2009 at 8:38 pm

    I am a very attractive woman, 26 years old. My parents used to spank me growing up but not enough to be effective. I was a true brat, dressed like a slut, and men dropped at my feet. After dating about 4 years with about 15 guys, I realized something was missing. I began to think I was a lesbian. It just seemed that every guy I met was a wimp. Then when I was in college, I got really drunk one night and barfed everywhere then fell asleep. When I woke up the next morning I was on my belly with my wrists and feet tied to the bed. My roomie beat the living s— out of my ass with a hairbrush, paddle, thick leather belt and a tree branch. I can’t describe the pain. No matter how much I begged her for mercy she just told me to shut up and take my punishment like a “woman.”
    My butt was bruised and I couldn’t sit but I will say one thing—-I will NEVER get that drunk again…. EVER! That punishment was VERY effective, because I will NEVER forget the pain unlike my parents who used to give me a few swats +and the next day I forgot all about it. When I apologiged to my roomie the next day, she told me that she was spanked by her boyfriend quite often and he would never stop until she was crying and begging. NOW to the point about DD relationships. About 2 years ago, I met a handsome dude, who treated me like a queen, but before the marriage ceremony, he had already whipped my but with his belt numerous times and told me that I could expect the same treatment forever. We have been married almost a year now, and I have never been so happy. So what, stop bitching about being “abused” obey your husband and save your ass. My hubby has spanked me very hard for DUI, telling my boss that he was a neele-dicked, fat, bald, worthless piece of meat. I got caned for that one. The moral of this story is, wait for the right man who has a pair of b–ls and sets reasonable rules, and thank him for punishing you. One last example. Last week I told hubby that I needed to be punished. I admitted that I had started smoking again, after having quit for 2 years, and that I wanted to be punished so that I would be afraid to do it again.

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      Ben Dugan
      13 Jan 2017 at 1:02 am

      I agree with your roommate. She taught you a very valuable lesson that you will never forget. Now you are also right when you say stop saying abuse and just obey your husband and save your ass. That is very good advice and the women’s lib movement needs to hear that and feel that.

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    13 Apr 2009 at 8:10 pm

    I spank my wife whenever she is overtly disrespectful towards me or is disobedient. She usually gets paddled only about once every month or so, since she is an excellent wife. I’m blessed!

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    20 Apr 2009 at 10:36 am

    My husband spanks me when I am bad. He uses his hand, cane & riding crops. He punished me last night, which I did deserve. It was hard to sit down and I can still feel it today. I am glad he does spank me – some times I am desperate for a good spanking. It makes me feel much calmer and loved afterwards.

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    28 Apr 2009 at 1:44 pm

    My husband and I have been married 2 years now and I was the one that recently brought this lifestyle up. I firmly believe this has made our marriage so much better on so many levels. I have always thought of him as the hoh. I am glad we practice spankings and corner time because I need it, and I also know he loves me that much to want to do this. I will be receiving my maintence tonight and believe it or not I am looking foward to it because my behavior has been poor.

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    1 May 2009 at 9:27 pm

    Before I got married, my fiance’ introduced me to spanking. One night I came home like real drunk, and he whipped my bare bottom with his belt about 50 times. Then he made me stand in the corner for one hour. That was 1 1/2 years ago and I have never driven drunk since. I hafta say it worked much better than a fine. He has whupped my bottom many times, and doesn’t stop until I am crying and begging. Believe me it works!

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    24 May 2009 at 6:20 am

    i would love to have a man to spank me when i did wrong. I live in tulsa ok if there is one please let me know.

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    Heather Lottmann
    2 Jun 2009 at 12:26 pm

    I think I am in BIG trouble today.
    This morning a loan company decided to run the check that was 1500.00 because I never paid it in full. Needless to say, I am now in a bind to pay the bills my husband thought I was paying.
    I becane so angry that I went to the loan company and slammed the lady onto the counter! Yes the police came and they chose not to arrest me.
    Mother and wife pretty innocent looking but needless to say, I am thinking that my husband is going to punish me.

    Any comments.

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      31 Mar 2017 at 10:05 pm

      I am divorced now but once I had accumulated some bills he did not know about. He answered a collection call n found out about one of them. After a long talk I confessed about all of them. He came up with a solution to take care of them. Then he said to me “you know I have to punish you” and I knew I deserved it. He told me to strip down to my panties. He put me over his knee and began with a panty spanking. After awhile he pulled down my panties and spanked my bare bottom until it was cheery red all over. Then he made me get a wooden paddle he used to spank me with when I was naughty. He put me back over his knee and paddled me til my bottom we covered in bruises. When the spanking was over he told me to leave my panties down n stand in the corner. I stood there for the rest of the day. My ex spanked me whenever I was naughty over the 39 years we were together. That’s the only thing I miss about our marriage. Not that I am into pain but the spankings kept me grounded

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    2 Jun 2009 at 8:21 pm

    You must give your wife loving discipline (as in the Obey part of the vows) and swatting her bottom sure does the trick in my house. I spank my wife daily, OTk and panties down, a bare bottom spanking is a must. My wife has an ample backside and I find a paddle is the best way to “get through to the other end”. i think she should feel the seat of the chair zapping her pantied behind when she tries to sit or I have not done my job in reminding her who is in charge. I love my wife and patting and rubbing her well spanked behind is just one way to enjoy my handy work if you know what I mean. When in doubt give your wife’s ass a big smack, you won;t be sorry you did, but she might, and isn’t that the whole point? Applying a little heat to the seat works everytime.

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