Why Asian Girls Like White Guys II
9 Jan 2007 / Hostile WitnessAs in the previous example, these photos are from the same photoset on Flickr:
What could be worse than being an Asian woman in Asia and having to surrender your mystical Oriental hotness to Asian men? In no other race — white, black, Hispanic — are the women so much better-looking than the men.
Now you might say: What about Indian or Middle Eastern men? Aren’t they uglier than Asian men?
Possibly — but my point is that their women are incredibly ugly as well, so it’s a good match.
My wife’s cousin, also an Asian girl, agrees with my theory, but adds something I hadn’t thought of: Asian guys are boring, she says, because they’re all the same. They all have the same story, same parents, same college major (engineering or business), same, same, same . . .
haywire
10 Jan 2007 @ 10:40 am
funny…
I have been to the San Blas Islands have noted a similar trait…
The children are gorgeous and the adults are ugly as can be. It’s like they have a ritual to beat the crap out of everybody on their 16th birthday…
http://www.galenfrysinger.com/san_blas_kuna.htm
http://www.galenfrysinger.com/Kuna_women.htm
John
10 Jan 2007 @ 10:26 pm
But do the young gals like White Guys who are middle-aged professionals with silver hair and blue eyes? This is the question.
I miss my dear friend in Chicago. Her name is Iwen. She had a flash in her eyes, a quick and ready smile, she was eager to talk and had beautiful long silky hair and she wasn’t skinny (nor plump).
Lucky Dog
29 Jan 2007 @ 4:37 am
I am White-Blue eyes-yada,yada,yada and i am fortunate to be married to a lovely asian women 10 yrs. my junior. She says men from her country (Nepal) are not very warm and fuzzy. She wanted something different. No not a green card !!!!
Revolving Clown
16 Feb 2007 @ 10:22 pm
Asian girls are on the whole starting to find white women more and more attractive… Next time you go into town notice the increase in the number of white lesbians dating asian girls
Sekerah
2 Mar 2007 @ 1:46 pm
I don’t find most Asian men attractive either but I think your off when you say that Middle-Eastern men and women are ugly. Most Persian and Lebanese women I have seen are incredibly sexy looking. Middle Eastern guys have the same features as white guys, with darker complexions. Indians have really good beautiful features on their face, but their skin complexion is just tooo dark.
Angelina
10 Mar 2007 @ 4:15 am
My friends would agree with it. But actually, I am an Asian girlã…¡Korean girl who is in middle school age. I like both, western and eastern. People say I am look like western girl. Actually my boy friend is american.
jj
18 Mar 2007 @ 8:57 am
There is plenty of BEAUTIFUL Middle-Eastern women! I don’t know what the hell you are talking abput and it really makes me mad how some ppl really don’t have an idea that the world is the most beatuiful when it has ppl who differ from each other. However noone shoul say that one race or gender is better than the other. That’s just WRONG!!
David
31 Mar 2007 @ 2:36 pm
Man, This is the craziest thing Ive ever heard. Not because its absurd but it’s that I think the same thing, to me, in fact, I almost feel sorry for the guys I mean not only do they seem ugly compared to their women but they seem so soft and feminine compared to American men I wonder how the women feel walkiing through say a mall with their fragile little men. On the other hand I could just be jealous that I no longer have my beautiful asian princess?
Danny
15 May 2007 @ 9:30 am
There’s a girl at a china buffet who says hi when my mother and i come in, and her eyes are so mysterious to look into. It is like i forget what she looks like later that day. I have seen similar eyes on asian women, but not all. They are so round and cute, in a way. Anyway, I don’t know the best way to approach her or know if she is attracted to me. I talked to her once about horseback riding, but it took a long time to describe a horse and such. Do you think that she minds dating someone with her having only learned some english?
mrmillineum
23 May 2007 @ 8:52 pm
I don’t know I think that white women just are in it for the money definitely not the looks of white men
mrmillineum
23 May 2007 @ 8:52 pm
asian women in it for the money
Xyke
24 May 2007 @ 2:14 pm
Alright, first off, most of the comments for this blog made me laugh. And well, I guess second off (I’m not even sure if you can say second off in correct syntax) This blog made me laugh. And, thirdly…lastly…Finally, Hostile Witness made me laugh.
Why?
Because hostile Witness is a cunt.
And so are some of the commenters on this blog.
Oh, harsh words. But let me explain why.
Because of the blatant inconsistencies that a majority of the people have posted about people of other nationalities and races. See, it is easy to stereotype because you can make generalizations. For example, I can easily say that white men who date Asian women are fucking desperate lazy ass fucks. But I don’t, because they aren’t…well except maybe for Hostile Witness. But Hostile Witness apart, I don’t like to generalize.
We live in the fucking 21st century and people like you still have to be as backwards-minded as cavemen. Excuse me for using vulgar language, I just want to stoop as low as you for a minute so we can understand each other in lamens terms. There are plenty of handsome Asian guys out there, who by the way, and I am sure have a much bigger following of girls than any of you (and I) do. I can easily pick the nerdiest or queerest person form another race and say that that represents all of their race. I’m glad you picked the people you picked for your pictures because it shows how insecure you are about putting an Asian man who actually looks good up. Maybe it scares you that an Asian or an Indian or a Persian man may have more game than you.
It’s people like you that create the need for civil rights in this country. It’s people like you that make people miserable because you love to ridicule and judge. Its people like you that make me take time out of my day to make sure that your backwards, idiotic ideas do not penetrate and seep into the minds of people. Its the countless like you that created the Hitlers and the Pol Pots and have killed the Martin Luther Kings, the Gahndis, and the JFK’s. Its people like you that make me ashamed to live free.
Times have changed and if you think you are right, I challenge you to openely–not on a blog–to openly state your claims in public. If it works, good for you. If you are too scared, I invite you to crawl into the little hole you dug for yourself and continue blogging and spreading lies.
From a fellow human being to a racist,
Xyke
Fierce
24 May 2007 @ 2:17 pm
I’m an Asian guy so hot that I keep the ice age from occurring. I’m living proof that you’re full of bullshit ^^
Hostile Witness
24 May 2007 @ 7:55 pm
Hi Xyke –
Thanks for the post, although I would have expected something more intelligent from a UCLA man.
Which one are you in the photo — the short Asian guy or the really short Asian guy?
Xyke
25 May 2007 @ 12:07 am
Hi Hostile Witness, I’m glad you added the extra photos after I posted my comment, it just shows how well you can take criticism. I bet you’ll add photos to this one too, and if you don’t it would be just because I wrote this. I’m also glad that you stated that you expected something more intelligent, because as far as I can tell, I don’t see any proof or rebuttal to what I said. But thanks for furthering my claim! I’m not going to waste any more of my time on you.
-Xyke
Hostile Witness
25 May 2007 @ 10:56 am
Geez, Xyke, I let you crudely insult me on my own web site and now you’re saying I can’t take criticism?!
What a crybaby.
You want a rebuttal? Of what? Your comment was gibberish. I was talking about hot Asian girls and you went off on Hitler, Pol Pot and Ghandi, only one of whom is Asian.
Stick to the topic! Don’t they teach you anything at UCLA?
JD
25 May 2007 @ 1:33 pm
I’m AsianCaucasian(Chinese+Tibetan+Mong+Mongolian+Indian+Anglo), and I found the AsianCaucasian girls the most attractive, inside and out? Can anyone agree?!
Fugee
27 May 2007 @ 6:09 am
The guy who started this thread is so pathetic. He probably only just lost his virginity, because no white girl would give him the time of day. He feels like a conquerer now, and would like to gloat. Start growing some balls please.
cc
31 May 2007 @ 8:02 am
JD –
How about Asian girls with big tits? The best of both cultures!
gill
1 Jun 2007 @ 10:12 am
hi there,i found asian girls ugly for some reasons: they have flat bodies just like men! and ugly flat faces with ugly very narrow eyes..and are expressionless!
gill
1 Jun 2007 @ 10:14 am
i forgot to say they are smelly too!
nicolas
2 Jun 2007 @ 2:08 am
Are they rlly kidding?? Lebanese, Syrian & Arab girls r just gorgeous in general, they have the most amazing features, their features are so rich, its part of their mediterranean beauty
even the middle aged women some r so pretty and good for their age…their middle eastern features? yes, i would say so..no offense but middle eastern girls make american girls look rlly ugly, have rlly ‘flat’ & drowned out, nothingness of features…i just can’t describe how beautiful arab girls are…and some middle aged women (i don’t have a strange attraction towards them or anything) from arab nations, they make american, european mixed women of the same age look like overweight hags w/ chubby cheeks and unbearable sunburntness…all in all, tanned ppl, not to b racist, r usually sexier ALTHOUGH scandinavians from sweden or around there, they r gorgeeeeousss..more so than the girls, the guys w/ their blue eyes, skinny physiques (generally) & blond blong hair r so amazingly cute…!!!
Hostile Witness
2 Jun 2007 @ 8:04 am
Gill –
Smelly?! What grade are you in?
gill
2 Jun 2007 @ 11:49 am
yes smelly..whenever i get close to a chinese girl..i smell garlic..hahaha…i think they eat too much garlic and never brush their teeth!
Zhou
4 Jun 2007 @ 5:29 pm
I’m very proud of my race and i hate….HATE the “sellouts” as you pple call them.(im chinese guy). However, I hate “sellout” guys way more than “sellout” girls. To me there’s nothing more disgraceful as scourning your own race. Even if is to socially fit in, throwing away your heritage and doing things to make yourself appear white as well as joining in on the asain stereotypes makes me sick. you know the people im talking about…those fucking tools that work for hollywood to portray poor, disgraceful asians in movies and televison..and that sick fuck that appeared on american idol….that ugly piece of shit should go hange himself because hes just making money by giving hollywood what the want….some ugly asian guy they can make fun of…AHHH i hate those people, they dont deserve to call themselves asians. (they should all consider platic surgury like michael jackson…enlarge their eye, hair transplants, boob jobs, penis enlargements or whatever the fuck they think is wrong with themselves)
and for u fucks that are willing to marry asain women right off the boat…shame on you…if you cant even speak the same language, and u marry just to have a house cleaning sex doll, then you are one sick pathetic bastard. dont say ur helping them because you think u saved them from a crappy place…..what the hell makes u so damn self-righteous….using pitty as an excuse for self gain….you bastards make me sick
Everytime i read something like this i notice things related to sex like…asian women are tighter…they are more kinky….they crave giant white cock……..god damn it grow up, u sick fucks that turn such discussion into this stupid shit should be evoked of your online privileges
i really dont care if asian girls date white guys, maybe they prefer them… who the hell knows when it comes to things girls think about. So instead of trying to boost your own egos by saying asian guys have smaller dicks, all u white guys should just stop specualting stupid shit like that.
one other thing i’ve noticed is that asian guys call asian girls sellouts just because they are dating a white guy………u need to shut up and wake the fuck up….maybe if you actually asked them out before some other guy did, they’ed actually go out with u instead…calling girls of your own race sellouts based on situations you don’t fully understand is so damn stupid……..
asian Girls….if you are dating for love and a healthy relationship…power to you..but if your simply doing it to fit in and in the process you consider all asian guys as inferior to whites then i say to u you…. u are a real whitewashed mook thats a sellout to your race (dont blame the media unless you consider yourself a weak minded bimbo)
fianlly i would like to say that all asians should take pride in their heritage….the rich culture, the thousands of years of history…all the good stuff…dont stand for the crap white people put on tv…….and dont believe all the bad things America makes of the “evil” chinese government. If you’ve not lived in china and all your conceptions are from the american eduaction system, you have no right to talk about the matter.
Last but not least…..FUCK FALONGON for messing with peoples heads…though u claim ur trying to abolish the communist party in china…ur just a cult thats after peoples money….all u sickfucks dont and wont accomplish anything…..i just feel sorry for the people thats been brainwashed by the sick fucks
Hostile Witness
4 Jun 2007 @ 8:19 pm
Hi Zhou –
Your comment gave me a panic attack. Because you used the f-word — repeatedly — your comment went into a moderation queue, meaning I had to approve it before it went live. I approved it because you put so much work into it, but your language … could you clean it up a little next time?
I see you’re posting from an Ohio State IP address … what are they teaching in our universities these days?
luvu_luvunot
5 Jun 2007 @ 7:59 pm
what is this crap about asians being tighter, i tried asian and went right back to white queens …they r way tighter and asian girls r hairy! YUKKY never again
luvu_luvunot
6 Jun 2007 @ 5:36 pm
u know what thats right Zhou asians should take pride in their heritage and “rich culture” depending on where in asia your talking about.
Everyone should be proud of their heritage.
and gt of your high horse, we understand your really feeling depressed and trying to make ppl like your ” culture ” better .Its ok as long as you love yourself…LMAO
luvu_luvunot
8 Jun 2007 @ 8:49 am
where i am from theres alot of asian guys with white girls.
I dont know what its like there…but here,theres alot of sweet, beautiful, educated white women…
i hate how everyone thinks asiains are so special, if you were to live in china that “exoticness” would go away. anyone who hates on white woman is just jealous…
gill
9 Jun 2007 @ 6:02 am
i totally agree with you luvu_luvunot asians looks as if a train passed on their faces and bodies…and i think white men who go with chinese girls are gays…but this didnt discover about it yet
tom
9 Jun 2007 @ 5:24 pm
Zhou i love your ethnocentric rants more power to you by the way you make plenty of good points that i think about my own race.
SHAHIN
13 Jun 2007 @ 9:37 am
What could be worse than being an Asian woman in Asia and having to surrender your mystical Oriental hotness to Asian men? In no other race — white, black, Hispanic — are the women so much better-looking than the men.
HAHAHHAHAH
HAHAHHAHAHHAH
AHA
HAHAHAHHAHHAHA
HAHAHHAHAHAA!!
Now you might say: What about Indian or Middle Eastern men? Aren’t they uglier than Asian men?
Possibly — but my point is that their women are incredibly ugly as well, so it’s a good match
HAHAHHAH HAHAHAHAHHAHAHHHAHHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHHA HAHHAHAAHAHHAHA
gill
14 Jun 2007 @ 10:08 am
assian women are hot? and have mystical oriental beauty? how come? they are not even women! the only difference between them and men is that they dont have penis! and what? middle easten women are ugly? they are the hottest! their bodies are full of curves and feminity,they have wonderful sun kiss and mediterranian features, which is not sharp like europeans or flat like assians! i think you are lying yourself!
hottrain
15 Jun 2007 @ 10:13 pm
every woman is beautiful in their own ways, there are beautiful women in asian cultures, and equally beautiful women in western cultures. there are pretty women, and ugly women. and why do chinese girls go for white guys? maybe it’s just their preferences, why judge from what people look like? and to gill and luvu_luvunot- get a life. keep your racist comments to yourself you sick bastards.
gill
16 Jun 2007 @ 4:20 am
hottrain, you seem asian!
Kz
16 Jun 2007 @ 2:25 pm
For the fact there are ugly and beautifull ppl in each race, and ppl been saying asian men r worst, they have small dick, they are short, weak, and skiny and have flat faces. Well i’m assian, i’m from Kazakhstan but i’m ASIAN, i can’t say i’m short (6 ft), i have (6″) dick and i’m athletic build, and for sure i can knock down most of the black and white dudes in my hood. And one good thing about been asian is NO MONKEY HAIR on my body, clean and freshh,, and i allway gona be young looking, and police the don’t stop you, ther been many times i been driving drunk and hight, only couple of times they stoped me, and u know wt they said -”have a nice evening”-haha F””’ Sweet!
JazzyChojin
16 Jun 2007 @ 6:25 pm
Wow, so much hate and anger.
As a Black Man, I find Asian women attractive. But guess what? I find so many other women attractive too. I like thin women, but sometimes bigger women are beautiful too. Sometimes I see a woman with long hair, and it’s the bomb. Other times, I see a woman with short short hair, and she is absolutely goregeous.
Beauty is definitely in the eye of the beholder. However, GILL, to say that Asian women are not even women is just straight up ignorant. Maybe your “dude where’s my car/American Pie” movie flicks brainwashed you into believing there are no attractive Asian women around. But there are plenty. And yes, there are plenty of ugly ones too.
Same goes with White, Black, Latina…..etc. I see beautiful White and Black women everyday, but on the same day I will see so many MORE ugly White and Black women.
Gill, Back to your comment about Asian women not being women; let me just say, you might want to be real and rethink that. If she has a period once a month, loves shopping, and has indecisive decision making moments during the day, then you better believe she’s a woman; Black, White, Latina or Asian. The Asian woman typically might not have the “over-hyped” Perfect Hollywood image that has “brainwashed” so many men and women these days, but she is definately a woman. And petite Asian women are gorgeous.
As far as Asian women’s attraction to White men goes; well all I can say about that is I see all the time here in California. And it is unfortunate and disconcerting when I ask an Asian woman out on a date, but she’s reluctant, or just “isn’t interested.” But then later I see her with a White guy.
However, if that’s what she likes, then that’s what she likes and is attracted to. I will always be attracted to Asian women. But,in the end, it doesn’t matter, because I still have Black Women, White women, Latina women to choose from and make a connection with.
PZ_on_Earth
21 Jun 2007 @ 10:01 pm
I myself find generally european men more attractive than asian men, and I’m asian, but that’s just my tastes. Everybody is different, lets not generalize races here peeps. Who cares anyways, people are people. Some asians r hot, some r not, same with all racial types.
What matters anyways is personality
englishwhiteman
1 Jul 2007 @ 6:21 am
yeah its personality thats the thing realy. i agree with PZ_on_Earth. I find women from every possible ethnic group attractive and ugly. i suppose though i find darker women more attractive, its that opposites attract thing. i mean in england i’m not exotic, i’m attractive, but not exotic. i went to cyprus, where (to my mind) people look like a mix of medateranian and middle eastern. i was exotic there because i’m tall and blond etc. thats the way it is i think. you wanna shag your own people too, but for some people the ‘unknown’ is exciting. ever since i was a kid i found black women the most sexy, but my girlfreinds white. admittadly she’s very dark skinned. both her parents are white, but everyone assume one of her perents must be asian, even some bengali guy we met thought so. he also said i looked german, wich was annoying for an english person (bad history etc.) but realy, who the fuck cares. its an ineresting question tho. unfortunatly on the internet many un-interesting (un-intelagent) people have opinions too, which is annoying, but neccesary.
englishwhiteman
1 Jul 2007 @ 6:23 am
p.s. i realize i have bad spelling, and that some people will pick on that when all else fails.
marloow
3 Jul 2007 @ 7:19 pm
but i have to confess that most asian women that i know, even the so-called “FOB” have a sense of style and disposition that sets them apart from almost all the other women – black, latina, middle-eastern, white etc…..they can make a faded pair of jeans and a top look oh so chic….and that they often-times are not aware of how sexy they carry themselves makes them that more sexy…
sean
6 Jul 2007 @ 9:34 pm
middle eastern men and women look white? they are white -morons.
sarah
7 Jul 2007 @ 2:11 am
every race has its pretties and uglies
every person has their own perception of whats pretty and ugly
im mixed, my mom is chinese/thai and my dad is german. it breaks my heart to read stuff like this on the internet, on the “sole” reason of why interracial relationships exists, and even more, people start criticizing and calling races and cultures “ugly” because theyre just too ignorant, envious or closed off from the world to look into it more. oh well… the world isnt perfect ;]
sarah
7 Jul 2007 @ 2:13 am
and lol, is gill middle eastern? he sounds really… defensive lmfao
gill
7 Jul 2007 @ 2:16 am
i have a small penis thats why
Rikus
7 Jul 2007 @ 8:42 am
Well so far I see many “retarded” people… Making generalizations like that! Saying that all Asians have hairy bodies and other things they have no way of knowing.
So for part one of the morons reading this… So your penis is 6 inches you have an athletic body. I don’t want to shock you but… THAT DOESN’T DEPEND ON YOUR RACE. You aren’t born with an athletic body you can improve both of those not depending on your race. Some of you will try giving me statistics about the penis size in different races… well at least you will have one thing to be “proud” of.
For the second part saying that people from other races are ugly. I’ll make this a bit easier for the less gifted. Why don’t Dog males like Cat females and why don’t Cat females like Dog males? Don’t even try asking me for the answer clear an afternoon to think about it. I’m sure the rest got it by now.
I’m not nationalist but why is that when I read gills post i had a reflex saying… “pffft Yankee”
Someone give me an answer.
Oh and for the last part try thinking of different races this way. Everyone who looks different is a different race so that must mean that your neighbor who has a smaller nose then yours is from a different race too… doh me make smart. try saying now the other races are ugly.
If gill is still with us give me a description of your perfect women. As if i didn’t know that she has blond hair big bo… sorry almost gave the answer in your place.
Pardon my spelling.
Love,Rikus
Desirae
16 Jul 2007 @ 1:49 pm
I’m a Mexican-French mix and Im dating a white man. That being said.
He almost got married to an Asian women about a year and a half ago. He said that she was the worst sex he had ever had because she “didn’t know what she was doing”. I mean, Im just saying that because I want to put down the idea that Asian women are “tigers in the bedroom”.All he did with her was study. They never went out. She wasn’t very affectionate or opiniated. Boring.
He says Im the funniest, most beautiful, sexiest girl he has ever been with and that I have brought out more sides of him than anyone.
I agree with Gill…Asian women aren’t particularily attractive…they are flat. They almost look like pre-adolesecent boys.
I believe that women with curves are beautiful. Dark tanned skin…large dark or light eyes. Not pale…colorful…exotic,natural.
Middle eastern women are very beautiful. So are white women with their honey hair and fair eyes…Latin women are also beautiful and full of life…music, laughter and opinions. Asian women are non the less attractive. But they are not best.
SumDum Guy
18 Jul 2007 @ 12:09 pm
Me riky, riky asian girls.
Chrissie
20 Jul 2007 @ 10:15 pm
Reading things like this on the internet makes me very sad.. im half asian and i get this every single day of my life even from my OWN dad. It really never stops. All because of what is portrayed on the media. I wish it didnt have too be like this, judging a whole race because of a few people but i guess it will never end. We are the most left out race in the world. Maybe all of us asians should pack up and move to asia and leave all the whites, blacks latino’s etc together becuause it seems like noone wants us around. I think its a good idea.
Kora
21 Jul 2007 @ 5:43 pm
you are a pointless ass if thats your opinion… for starters… it isnt only asian girls that like western men… its western girls liking asian men… like Miku from ancafe who happens to be really yum to look at… or maybe even mana he looks better than half the pictures up on here in a dress and he is a guy! many actors and actresses look great for example…. theres the entire cast or the twins effect! who’da thunk it was poible? i drooled over the guy in that untill i had to get out of bed for work! i LOOOOOVE asians mainly because to me they are oh so mysterious compared to the boring lot i know… i mean my friend sasuke happens to be chinese he went out wth my friend sarah and they have been together for a few yrs.
my own family is totally mixed up!
i have chinese, black, irish, argentinean, english, latvian and korean in my blood and thats jut going up two sets of genes! all of thats in me and i dont see what you got wrong with asian girl going with western men… obviously you dont have the guts to as a girl do ya???
Kora
21 Jul 2007 @ 5:44 pm
i meant ask
Hostile Witness
22 Jul 2007 @ 12:22 am
Hi Kora –
I must not be as articulate as I thought. I don’t have a problem with Asian girls hooking up with white guys. I’m all for it. As it happens, my wife is Asian.
UglyAsianGuy
23 Jul 2007 @ 2:48 pm
I’m an ugly Indian Asian guy and your somewhat right, most of the guys of out race are kinda nerdy but some are fairly good looking. Indian Asians have feminine genes that’s why I hate being an Indian guy because I got girly eyelashes and man-boobs. Arghhh I’m such a disgrace to my race that I feel like killing myself=x
UglyAsianGuy
23 Jul 2007 @ 2:49 pm
No girl would ever really like me, I got feminine features=x and dark around the eyes.
Hostile Witness
23 Jul 2007 @ 8:15 pm
UglyAsianGuy –
And to think some people say that satire is a dying art form…
MABECORP
28 Jul 2007 @ 10:33 pm
Well, I read all the blogs! Wow we ARE some messed up humans aren’t we? Everyone’s giving their comments (which are good), however, in many cases, not all, others are STRONGLY rebutting and attacking each other opinion! I guess that is what this site is for isn’t it? Does anyone remember the old song “live and let live?” Please keep that in mind when someone post their thoughts, and even if THEY are narrow-minded, try to overlook that fault, because I believe in general we can get along and respect each others opinions.
Well, my opinion is this. When I look at women, I tend to go after what I am attracted to at the current time. I am sure a lot of people out there have dated several races, and even possibly gone back and forth, as I have. So what is the deal? Well it is all about what interests you then. If it is due to socio-economic to sexual reasons, it just doesn’t matter. If a union between two people is created and is successful (which is relative to each case), the I thinks it is great for those people and the world in general. On that note, currently and for the last 10 years, I find myself attracted to Asian women. I would not ever say they are the best in the world for everyone, but I will definitely say, THEY ARE THE BEST IN THE WORLD FOR ME!!!! Especially the Filipinas!, and Vietnamese, Thai, Laos, Indonesian, and on and on…lol (order not important)
Thanks for your time…
hostile witness's deadbeat mom
29 Jul 2007 @ 12:16 am
unfortunately, my son here got a lot of inept genes from me. therefore he was never able to establish a normal relationship with a white girl his whole life. as a result, like many loser/ pedaphilic white guys, he settles for the bottom of the female totem pole: THE ASIAN FEMALES.
its the only body he can handle. i mean what other girls have the build of a 12 yr old boy (except without a penis)
jakes
30 Jul 2007 @ 12:54 am
I never have any problem getting an asian woman nor do I have any problem getting mexican, white, and/or black chick. This is coming from an asian guy. To be honest, I prefer mexican chicks over asian. They are sexy and have more to show. Don’t get me wrong, I wouldn’t mind dating an asian girl.
Hostile Witness
30 Jul 2007 @ 8:54 am
Hi Jakes –
When you say “getting,” do you mean dating or do you mean S-E-X? What would you say is the secret to your success? I’m not asking for myself of course, more as a public service.
Desirae
30 Jul 2007 @ 10:02 am
Hey Jakes! MEXICAN GIRLS ROCK! I mean…I think there are so many hot latin women that alot of White men, and Asian men by association, are forgetting.
Shakira, Christina Agulara, Jennifer Lopez, Penelope Cruz, Jessica Alba, Eve Longoria…they all have a bit of latin in them if not full blooded.
I mean Asian girls are cool too, as I said before I am Mexican part french and I have a cousin who is half Japanese half Mexican but she doesn’t pride one race over the other. Thats a real women. By the way…shes got great curves! Not pre-adolescent boy body!
Hispanics are full of life, laughter, beauty, art and are opininated and not afraid to live a little…They are beautiful just as White women, Indian Women, Polynesian women, Black women. Asian women aren’t best. GET OVER IT WHITE MEN!
BeyondOurBorders
2 Aug 2007 @ 5:59 pm
I would like to comment that among foreign-born Asians living in North America, many are small, short, petite and feminine. Of course, these traits work in favour of Asian females but against Asian males. However, these traits do not necessarily apply to the Asians who were born in North America, especially if they grew up on a North American diet. In any case, it is usually the short skinny Asian dudes who will stick with their own race of women because they prefer women who are smaller then they are, and it is usually only Asian women who will meet this criterion. The taller and larger built Asian guys often do date outside their race. This is what I notice in North America.
As far as Asian men and interracial relationships go, we may fall short in Anglo-cultured nations like the U.S. and Canada. However, the world reaches far beyond North America. Asian men actually do quite fine in Latin America, the Caribbean and parts of Europe. I think one of the reasons for this may be that overseas Asian men who live outside of North America are more open-minded. They don’t have as much of the obnoxious “yellow pride” in them.
There is nothing wrong with Asian women preferring white men. It’s not like Asian women “belong” to us Asians. I personally find beauty in women of all races and kinds: Asian, Latina, black, white, aboriginal, middle-eastern, goths, emos, vampire chicks, etc.
The right answer
5 Aug 2007 @ 12:07 pm
Asian men have the smallest penis sizes recorded and have a smaller average then the rest of men that is the true reason why asian women go for other men
Rikus
5 Aug 2007 @ 2:35 pm
XD I so knew someone would say that… idiot. That’s not the reason and that’s not true. White men are treated as a fashion accessory and that’s why they are treated like that. If and asian girl would live in an all white society she would be treated like that too. (USA doesn’t count)
At least don’t act like the short fat immature 14 year old that you really are. Praise your penis in your hand and not on the internet.
13
7 Aug 2007 @ 6:45 am
Why are all you people thinking of the Asian girls having the body of a pre-adolescent dude?
You people are so close-minded and idiotic. How retarded. Obviously you haven’t seen alot of Asian girls who aren’t flat chested. Or flat butted or whatever.
For those of you using these pathetic ordering of ethnicity, you are one shallow person. Sure there are flat chested, small girls, but it doesn’t have to be in the category of Asians.
There are Latinos, Caucasians, and African Americans that are flat and there are actually Asians that aren’t flat and dead skinny.
Wake up people, your stereotypical images of races are WRONG.
Chi
10 Aug 2007 @ 5:50 am
Dasirae you mentioned that your boyfriend use to date an asian woman..sounds like you’re really jealous. You seem quite insecure in that category. There are beautiful women in every culture. But don’t start hating because you’re insecure about who your boyfriend dated before you.
Desirae
10 Aug 2007 @ 3:17 pm
To Chi,
First of all, my name is Desirae and my boyfriend didn’t just date an Asian woman he almost married one. I’m a little jealous that they almost tied the knot so to speak but I am not insecure. He tells me I am the most beautiful, funny, understanding,sexy person he has ever known. He says he has shown me sides of himself and told me things he has never been able to talk to anyone about. I know he loves me…so I have never felt the need to put down his ex to make myself feel better. So you are wrong there.
Secondly, I don’t hate Asian women. My cousin is Asian. Shes half Japanese and half Mexican and she is by far my best friend. I have even been to Japan when we stayed with her grandparents one summer. So I am not “hating” as you so ignorantly put it.
Thirdly, What I do hate is the obsession of Asian Women over all other women. The other day I overheard a middle aged Caucassian man talk to his friend about how he wanted to “get in on the whole Asian women thing because they are the pick of the litter right now.”
Needless to say I was COMPLETELY DISGUSTED. Its getting ridiculous. Asian Women are beautiful…some are but not all of them. They are not better then all other women.
Proud Asian Man
11 Aug 2007 @ 4:38 pm
White people look like shit! Stop insulting asian men you fags.
Lisa
11 Aug 2007 @ 4:40 pm
It is a persons own business if they don’t find a particular person or race attractive. Get over it, you can’t control people. Why is someone considered a small minded racist if they aren’t attracted to a certain race? Gee, grow up control freaks.
Asians
11 Aug 2007 @ 5:09 pm
Excerpted from UrbanDictionary.com
“On almost all other academic studies and scientific researches ever undertaken has proven that Asian penises are just as large as Caucasian penises. The average for both are approximately 5.5 to 6 inches. However, Asian men do not stray far from this average, whilst Caucasian men do. For every Caucasian man with a 9-inch penis, there is one with a 3-inch one. And for every Asian with a 7-inch penis, there is one with a 5-inch one. There are more Caucasians with large penises, but there are also more Caucasians with smaller penises, even smaller than those of many Asians. This fact has also been known for a long time, but stereotypes remain widely “accepted.”
I realize that Urban Dictionary is not definitely not a reliable source of information, but the definition sure as hell sounds convincing for opressed asian men everwhere.
Rikus
13 Aug 2007 @ 1:48 am
Hey, Desirae
You honestly think that your boyfriend would say that his last girlfriend was better than you?! Of course not if he doesn’t want to be left alone! Any guy will say that you are the best and so on and so on. Jesus, don’t be so naive!
Hostile Witness
13 Aug 2007 @ 7:48 am
Why is everyone picking on Desirae? She sounds hot to me. In fact, I’m going to start dating Mexican girls — there are lots here in SoCal — if my wife will let me…
Desirae
13 Aug 2007 @ 10:56 am
Thanks Hostile Witness….
To Rikus
(Cute name by the way. Is that Riku from Kingdom Hearts?) I believe my boyfriend because he was very honest. He told me things I wanted to hear and things I didn’t. He didn’t have to tell me everything he did tell me about his past relationship…but he has nothing to hide. He said that he and his ex weren’t particularily sexually active…and he couldn’t show her sides of him that he shows me. He has told me things about his past that he hasn’t even told his family…things that have caused him alot of pain…
Who am I to say he is lying?
After all, if she was really that great, he would be with her now. But he said he realized that she was not what he wanted…and he didn’t think he could ever meet someone like me. It’s been six months and he wants to move in…he bought me a laptop and a bike so we could go bike riding by the beach (one of my favorite past times besides video games)
He never went to concerts with her…(its obvious because he doesn’t know much about music) he didn’t go clubbing (we don’t even want to get into his dancing skills or lack thereof) they didn’t even go to movies (the last movie he saw before me was Finding Nemo) And while he was with her, he spent most of his time of World of Warcraft…he has a level 60 character to prove it. She was obviously not that exciting….and he loves me not because I’m ‘better than her’ because she wasn’t much to compare to…he loves me because I have changed his life. Asian or Mexican-French…does it matter?
Robert
14 Aug 2007 @ 6:11 pm
Well hey there,
I’m a mexican from South Cal, and I didnt read ALL of the posts but just enough. The only thing I disagree is that Asian Men and Middle Eastern men/women are ugly.
I am mexican and I find Asian women attractive, most so than any other race. This was before I saw the whole media and was exposed to the whole white men-asian women thing going on. Ive dated From most races. Hispanic, Caucasian, Indian, and of course Asian girls. Now I’ve already said that I prefer dating Asian girls and thats just me. I see nothing wrong with anyone else and I think that every ethnic background has beautiful women. But from my dating experience I have noticed that Asian women do primarily go for white guys. Just like I prefer Asian girls, Asian girls prefer white men. I sure as heck cant explain why I prefer Asian girls so i dont expect them to either. It is harder to date them, but I’ve been out with enough Asian girls to know that just because they prefer white guys, doesnt mean they’ll only go for white guys. I’m just happy I’ve had the opportinity to share relationships with the women in my life and I hope that my true love is out there and asian
jp
14 Aug 2007 @ 10:25 pm
the two best looking women in the world in my opinion are jessica simpson and marisa miller better looking than any asian models I’ve seen.
Tommy
16 Aug 2007 @ 6:33 am
Let’s get one things straight, all this talk abour race and shit is all old and boring. One thing that nobody mentioned is LOVE. Love is not a race is a feeling.
LeRoi Jones
16 Aug 2007 @ 7:38 am
Hey Tommy –
Love is an evil word. Turn it backwards. See, see what I mean? An evol word. And besides who understands it? I certainly wouldn’t like to go out on that kind of limb.
Rikus
18 Aug 2007 @ 3:47 am
…you know Tommy made a good point…
To Desirae
“I agree with Gill…Asian women aren’t particularily attractive…they are flat. They almost look like pre-adolesecent boys.”
“Asian or Mexican-French…does it matter?”
…i wonder what made you change your thoughts…
If i was a girl things that your boyfriend said would make me feel special and melt like chocholate (just what men want not what they think)
Oh and if he dumped his ex and one of the reasons was no sexual activity… well.. that makes me wonder what he wants out of you…
cj93070
18 Aug 2007 @ 7:03 am
i have to say i have dated a asain girl and i can say they are tighter than the white girls but i cant stop having my own race white girls are the best.
Hostile Witness
18 Aug 2007 @ 12:23 pm
I think Rikus likes Desirae.
Rikus
19 Aug 2007 @ 3:42 am
I think Hostile Witness is jealous XD
Jay
19 Aug 2007 @ 6:02 am
I disagree on the comment about Asian women being much better-looking than Asian men. In Hawaii I’d say that the Asian men here tend to look better than the Asian girls. LOL! That’s part of the reason I tend to go more for the multiethnic females instead. The Asian and White guys can have the Asian girls here b/c a lot of them aren’t that great. Quite a few major metropolitan areas in Asia and the U.S. mainland have had better-looking Asian girls than in Hawaii.
Desirae
20 Aug 2007 @ 9:47 am
To Rikus…(I’m going to assume thats Riku from Kingdom Hearts..I love that game!)= ^ – ^ =
I’m terribly confused…are you argueing that my boyfriend doesn’t love me? Or that Asian women are better than other women? I think your getting a little too defensive…
I agreed with Gil…Asian women aren’t particularily attractive…not to me. And I do think they (not all of them) look like pre-adolescent boys. I was saying, “Asian or Mexiacn-French, does it matter,” talking about my boyfriend…meaning he doesn’t care what race I am…
As I said before, he tells me things I do want to hear and things I don’t. He is always completely honest. And he didn’t break up with her because they didn’t have sex often. He really isn’t a shallow person. After all, he did ask her to marry him…And he was in a long distance relationship(she lived in Japan he lived here in California)for a year! He broke up with her for a number of reasons one of them being he didn’t love her anymore…their relationship died and she was not what he wanted.
Oh and my cousin (who is half Japanese half Mexican, she has family in Fukuoka) thinks all of this is hilarious…she says that “Asian women aren’t the best and that white men need to wake up and smell the tofu!”
Chuck
20 Aug 2007 @ 9:34 pm
May the future be bright and white, brothers!
All those ugly, stupid BROWN MEN should all be rounded up and sent to Mars or something (or a crematorium) I mean no-ones going to miss their UGLY, FUGLY faces.
God didn’t make them in his image, he ain’t brown or black or Chinese! He’s white, and proud of it. Why else are white countries so superior, and all these brown hordes wanna come over, huh? Only their brown, and yella, women should be allowed in I reckon (and young only). Middle-Eastern men should all be nuked, that’ll stop terrorism.
Robert
21 Aug 2007 @ 9:00 pm
To Chuck..
Dude you totally sound like a Nazi. Very racist comments. Not gonna say anything else, you’ll burn in hell regardless.
Anywho… ;b…. People need to start remembering that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Who you people think is attractive is not necessarily who everyone else thinks is attractive. I mean jessica simpson might be ok looking but she’s so duumb, shes the perfect example of a dumb blonde. And you know what, so are other girls from other ethnic backgrounds. They’re just not that well known for it. Asian girls arent the best in the world but neither is anyone else, its just a matter of preference. Ppl just need to realize that, otherwise we get retarded comments like my friend nazi chuck there.
Candy
22 Aug 2007 @ 1:09 am
may you & your wife be blessed with many sons. unfortunately by what you said, he’d be half asian & therefore ugly & boring. :/ hmmm. Let’s think before we speak, shall we?…
Candy
22 Aug 2007 @ 1:10 am
that was directed toward the author of that blog post.
not to the person above my comment.
Hostile Witness
22 Aug 2007 @ 9:48 am
Hi Candy –
I didn’t say mixed kids were ugly and boring. Actually mixed kids, or wasians as we call them here in SoCal, are usually pretty good-looking.
My son’s a handsome fellow if I say so myself, and not boring. My wife’s sister is married to a white guy in Australia…they have two attractive daughters who are not boring either.
No wait, we were supposed to be talking about men…
OK, Tiger Woods is half Asian, and he’s a good-looking young man. He is boring though, so maybe you can’t generalize…
Confused
23 Aug 2007 @ 6:05 am
Hi Witness…
Im confused, the site makes generalised statements and lots of claims that are not entirely founded and yet you say “maybe you can’t generalise.”
Its a little hard to take this blog seriously when its overall message is “Im right, you’re wrong, no matter what.”
I just wonder at the accuracy and credability, and ulterior motives, and obvious bias’ this site has… Oh well, we are all entitled to our opinion. Although opinions in the end, are not set in stone, and obviously, if a site like this claims truth, then it is clear there is an obvious surpluss of ignorance.
Snow White Queen
23 Aug 2007 @ 8:58 am
I think your iggnorance is pretty amusing,you talk smack about males of another race who are im guessing much better looking than you with better personalities also,I’ve seen plenty of very good looking,sexy asian males who are in no way shape or form boring….we all have different tastes when it comes to looks and what is considered fun and exciting,you probablly thought writing this blog was just that,I myself find it sad and pathetic you would write something like this but hey whatever floats your boat hun
hmm maybe I should write a blog about arrogant,iggnorant white guys?
Rikus
23 Aug 2007 @ 12:46 pm
To Desirae
(I have no idea what is kingdom of hearts)
I’m just trying to point out that it doesn’t matter what race you are!!! There is no “standart” look for women so you can’t judge what looks good and what doesn’t. I don’t know why but everybody thinks that a woman should have big boobs and a large ass… and they call it normal. I just don’t like this yankee fetish.
Desirae
24 Aug 2007 @ 10:23 am
To Confused
“I just wonder at the accuracy and credability, and ulterior motives, and obvious bias’ this site has”
Well…I’m sorry that this site is particularily low browed but there is somthing you must understand…this is just a forum, not a Parlimentary Debate…and when it comes to race and beauty…there isn’t evidence merely opinion. No one here is credible as no one is expert. Go elsewhere if you want some serious discussions.
To Rikus
Well Kingdom Hearts is a Japanese video game for the Playstation 2…Riku is the name of my favorite character…(i love video games you see…) And I agree. I believe that women of all nationalities are beautiful as Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder.
What I don’t agree with is that just because a woman is Asian she is suddenly irresistable…I don’t think that Asian women are the best. And actually…if we want to talk about “Yankees” well…most Americans like thin women with small breasts and small butts. Just look at our modern day models and actresses…
Hostile Witness
24 Aug 2007 @ 12:31 pm
Hi Desirae –
Lowbrow!? Ouch.
Some of the comments are lowbrow but I don’t see the site as being lowbrow. Did you know, for example, that there’s a whole page of poetry? What’s more highbrow than poetry? Opera maybe, but that’s about it.
Btw, my original point was not that Asian women are better looking than other women, but that Asian women are far better looking than Asian men, which is why they hook up with big, handsome white guys…
HazenRuneZXT4
24 Aug 2007 @ 6:27 pm
I’m an Asian girl… and my opinion is… I’d totally date an Asian guy. However… it is a bit scary when some of the said-Asian guys are “prettier” than most girls.
The problem with me is that… some of the Asian guys I know are just plain “beautiful”. Not handsome, not pretty, not cute.
But beautiful.
What am I talking about?
Sadly, there seems to be no middle ground for Asian guys @_@. They are either extremely attractive… or they aren’t at all (at least the ones that I’ve seen so far in my life… and believe me, there have been tons).
As far as I’m concerned though, race really doesn’t matter to me.
Though, if I could date THIS guy… I’d be in heaven:
Unfortunately for me, a lot of the hot ones are gay. Bummer… but I’m not surprised LOL!
HazenRuneZXT4
24 Aug 2007 @ 6:28 pm
The pics disappeared @_@!!!
Here’s the URL LOL!!!
http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r157/Tsukiko_Yukisuzu/Hero%20Jaejoong/157.jpg
Candy
25 Aug 2007 @ 3:39 am
Hostile Witness:
Sorry, but, I think you should make up your mind. Either Asian men are ugly or they aren’t. That includes your son, since the predominant gene will be Asian & I’m sure he has the slanty Asian eyes & all that. As far as the outside world goes, he’ll be considered Asian & by your own ignorance and your own standards, you have just called your own son ugly, boring & undesirable. The same goes for your father-in-law & all of your wife’s male relatives. Gee, how nice of you.
As for Asian men being unattractive or weak or whatever, I’d suggest you take a look at: http://www.asianhunk.net/ There’s tons of gorgeous Asian men on that site.
Confused- I agree with what you said.
Snow White Queen- I agree with what you said as well.
HazenRuneZXT4- You have good taste! Hero Jaejoong is really attractive!
You wanna see some “manly” (by western standards) Asian men? Check out this guy: http://male.thedailymodel.com/bae-yung/ or this guy: http://male.thedailymodel.com/brian-yu/#more-224
Maybe the author & the rest of the racist, ignorant people who believe this kind of bullcrap just happen to meet or come across the wrong types of Asian guys. You see what you want to see, not what is really there. You forget that martial arts come from Asia.. You forget that French/European women consider Asian men to be superior lovers.. You forget that on numerous occasions, the world was controlled by Asians… Some of the most feared swordsmen and martial artists were not big, bulky men… But they could very easily drop big, bulky men like flies.
Overall, I find this kind of talk to be very disrespectful, especially to those guys who are white & who are married to or going out with Asian women, because you’re basically calling your father-in-law an ugly, boring, undesirable man.. But at the same time, if it weren’t for him, you wouldn’t have an Asian wife or girlfriend.. Your wife/girlfriend came from an Asian man. You’re also calling your own sons ugly, boring & undesirable, because they’re half Asian & the Asian gene is the dominant one. Either Asian men are ugly, boring & undesirable, or they’re not.
Another thing to think about is that just because your kid has half caucasian genes, doesn’t mean he’s going to be considered caucasian. Most people will think of him as being Asian, because he’s all but guaranteed to have slanty, Asian eyes & a more golden skin tone, which means that when he grows up, he’ll have to face the exact kind of racism and ignorance that you guys are preaching and promoting on this website.. He won’t be able to go to you for advice or help, because you just won’t understand. You’ll be completely oblivious to it, and worse, you’ll have participated in making him feel bad about himself, because he’s Asian… His own dad will think Asian men are ugly and boring and undesirable…. Yet he has Asian sons… The irony!!!!
And you know, guys… I’m really sorry to have to tell you this, but, your sons really won’t be exempt from all of the prejudices against him from people like you. There’s a lot more people like you out there, who think Asian men are ugly, boring, undesirable, etc… So… If this is really how you guys feel about Asian men, you shouldn’t have children with an Asian woman, because your sons will be Asian and they’ll have to face this kind of racism, prejudice and stupidity on a daily basis, from people just like you, and it will hurt him. My suggestion would be for you to either don’t have kids with an Asian woman, or learn how to be more open minded, accepting and less blind and ignorant to the extent of your racism.
I feel sorry for your children.
Rikus
25 Aug 2007 @ 4:16 am
Who said that they’re irresistable?
Hostile Witness
25 Aug 2007 @ 10:05 am
Hi Candy –
I enjoyed reading your post, but you must live in Arkansas or someplace where there are a) no Asians; and b) no qualified biology teachers.
Slanty Asian eyes? Asian is the dominant gene? I love it! And I’m supposed to be the racist?!
Actually my son doesn’t have slanty eyes. Neither do my mixed-race nieces. Neither do any of the well-known mixed-race people I can think of off the top of my head: Tiger Woods, Johnny Damon, Dean Cain, Apolo Ohno…
My wife’s male relatives are in fact unattractive and boring but I can’t seen how that’s my fault.
As far as discrimination against Asians, I’ve never seen that. Where I live in Irvine, there are lots of Asians. My son’s school is about 60 percent Asian. We like them. They value education and good behavior, just like me.
You really should move somewhere where there are Asians and modern science instruction in the schools. Then you could form opinions based on something other than Asian hunk websites…
W
26 Aug 2007 @ 4:27 am
Obviously you haven’t lived where there are enough white people. I suggest you move to a place where you can actually see completely obnoxious and scrawny (or fat) white guys with every kind of loser-like features. Oh, wait. Forget it. Just look into a mirror.
Hostile Witness
26 Aug 2007 @ 9:16 am
Hi W –
What grade are you in? Do your parents know you’re looking at grownup sites?
Rikus
26 Aug 2007 @ 12:25 pm
This is a grownup site?!
Sonya
29 Aug 2007 @ 10:46 pm
Stumbled across this site and it’s pretty interesting. I guess I should give the lowdown. A man will never be able to completely figure out why a woman does what she does unless he asks her directly. Being a woman myself, I can tell you, we have complicated, downright ludicrous reasons for our decisions.
The rest is just speculation from men’s perspectives.
I am an asian woman of Chinese & Thai heritage. I am currently with a white guy. However, I’m not with him because he’s “white”. I am a college student. He and I met through a common hobby (video games – I kid you not) and we found we had a lot in common. I cannot tell you how many times he gets dirty looks from Asian guys and even Asian girls when we go to the movies or the mall or something. It is a little saddening to see people who are so BITTER about something that is really none of their business. They make these snap assumptions about us just because of race. They don’t know us, and assume that I’m only with him because he’s white. I’m sorry to say, but I’m extremely picky. Being a certain race is not enough to hold up a relationship for me. We just have a lot of similar hobbies — however none of those people who give dirty looks and say I’m a “sell out” will believe this. I’ve tried explaining to people. They are just so pissed off and angry — and for what?
When I see an asian boy with a white girl, I don’t give him dirty looks. In fact most of the time I try not to stare at people — it’s rude. Who cares what other people do, as long as they are happy? I don’t sit there and give him the death stare and think “wow he’s dating a white girl, he’s a sell out”. Give me a freaking break. How can some of you (the really angry Asian kids – yes kids because only the young ones have been emo angry at me) sit there, and make these judgments when you have no idea how the two people met, the circumstances behind their relationship. Talk to couples who are happy — there is almost always a story for them to tell about how they ran into each other or something. It is never just about “she was white and that was it” unless you’re talking to someone who has a mail order bride. People meet at work, at school, at the mall, the bar, the bookstore, the park…hell now they meet online and half of them don’t even see the pics until later.
How can some of you just sit there and say “sell out” when people meet in so many different ways in mixed quarters? You honestly expect everyone to just not mingle?
Just because you’re friends with someone who is different, or you are going out with someone who is different, this does not mean you’re “abandoning” your race. I still cook Asian food, eat Asian food, celebrate traditional events with my family etc etc. It’s mind boggling that so many Asian youths have this idea that if you’re going out with someone different, suddenly that means you hate being Asian. Nothing could be further from the truth.
Some of you kids need to educate yourselves about the dangers and pitfalls of self segregation. THIS WILL GET YOU NOWHERE IN THE WORKING (re: the real world where mommy and daddy won’t pay for your stuff) WORLD. You will never learn anything about people who are different if you refuse to talk to them, get to know them, hang out with them etc. I have friends of all different races and mostly, we’re all friends because of similar hobbies, or through school or work. It has nothing to do with race. Nothing angers me more than to see Asian kids who only want to hang out with each other because these are the same ones who cry about others being racist towards them even though they are self segregating. It’s ridiculous. And excluding yourself from other groups of people just because they are white/whatever other race is really going to hurt you in the real working world. You’re dreaming if you think you’re going to work at a place that is 100% asian for your entire career. Why not try and make friends with those people who seem so different?
The whole rant aside, and I realize I probably opened a can of worms, but for God’s sake it’s all freaking true. To the angry Asian kids who enjoy saying “sell out” and giving dirty looks: If you want to just hang out with each other, fine, but don’t get all up in arms when you see different people mixing it up. It’s bound to happen in modern society and heavily populated areas. You could always try mixing it up yourselves – oh wait that’s right… you’re racist and only want to date people who are exactly like you. What a conundrum. Asians who cry racism but can’t possibly be bothered to even so much as say hi to people who are not asian.
Oh and I can’t speak for the other women but here’s my deal.
I’ve dated chinese guys, filipino guys, latino guys, and white guys. Black guys were always out of the question — parents don’t accept them. My dad got robbed twice by young black men. The whole gunpoint thing didn’t exactly sell him on black people. It’s not a matter of the Asian girls not finding black men attractive. I see a black man posted about this. It’s a matter of the girls debating whether they are going to hide or lie about a relationship because their families will not accept that person. It’s sad, but it’s true. And most guys if they are serious, don’t want to be hidden from the girl’s family like some embarassment.
As for what women find attractive — you can’t ever nail this down to one or two factors. Me personally, he’s got to be 5′8″ or taller (this puts him a few inches taller than me – a huge must), not too fat, not too skinny. And before some Asian guys start crying, my 2 older brothers are both 5′10″ and 5′11″. I’ve known plenty who are 5′8 or above, so please don’t use this as some excuse for why you think you get unfairly rejected or something.
Basically no extremes one way or the other. The face is really important but you can’t rationalize this. This is like men trying to rationalize using their 1-10 scale of hotness on women. You just know if she’s hot or not. It’s the same for women in how they view men, and this applies to men of all races etc etc.
Oh and Hostile Witness I wouldn’t worry about people viewing your child/children negatively at all due to having some asian heritage.
Most people find mixed race people extremely attractive. Have friends who are half asian/white or black or latino or mixed asian or what have you. The ladies aren’t going to care what he is – if he’s cute he’s fair game.
Hostile Witness
30 Aug 2007 @ 7:54 am
Hi Sonya –
Thanks for the great comment. You wrote:
This isn’t specific to Asians…I’ve been trying to put my finger on this for years and could never quite articulate it in one sentence like that.
I hate it when the commenters provide better insights than I do…
Rikus
30 Aug 2007 @ 1:04 pm
Please from now on add the keywords you used to find this site at the end of your comment. (I want to see if anybody used the keywords Asians and Girls.)
Hostile Witness
30 Aug 2007 @ 1:17 pm
Hi Rikus –
Where are your keywords? You broke your own rule.
I can answer your question though. The words “girls,” “asian,” “white” and “guys” — in that frequency — do show up as search keywords fairly often in the server logs, sometimes in various combinations and sometimes with naughty words included.
Shame on all of you…
Sonya
30 Aug 2007 @ 8:16 pm
Rikus I regularly read modelminority.com and singleasianmale.com. Somehow on one of those sites, there was a cross link to this site.
After reading all of that whining and complaining, I really think some people need to pull their heads out of their a$$es and seriously do something about their seemingly “unfair” experiences of rejection. Clean up one’s image, start working out, take up new hobbies… the women will appear. Oh and the other thing is, for god’s sakes… have the guts to ask a girl out. Do not give cop out excuses for why you think she will say no before you’ve even said hi to her. Sometimes these things are self fulfilling prophecies.
“I’m not going to ask her out, she’s not asian so she’ll say no”
then turn around and think:
“man asian girls are such sell outs, they are always going out with other guys of other races…aka they are going out with anyone but me..poor little me…cry”
Women don’t want emo whiners. They want confident go getters. Race doesn’t matter when you think of it on a basic level like this. There are just as many white guys who are pathetic whiners too. People just need more confidence.
Desirae
31 Aug 2007 @ 11:06 am
I second what Sonya said. You rock! = ^ – ^ =
Robert
3 Sep 2007 @ 12:50 am
i third??? what sonya said ;b
yea talking to friends, the biggest reason these guys cant find girls is b/c they dont spend the time or effort looking for them.
wise man
4 Sep 2007 @ 9:35 am
hey chuck A scoundrel plots evil, and his speech is like a scorching fire.
virgin boy
4 Sep 2007 @ 10:30 pm
My goodness, i can’t believe this. People have time to read such a BULLSHIT thread and react . All of us should understand that such threads and comments are started by a FRUSTRATED loser who have nothing to do, have no way to vent out his anger. So, the best thing to do when you come across such a thread is just to ignore it. Even if you find people PATHETIC don’t try to enlighten them. They are just a bunch of FOOLS who love to play fool.
This discussion ,or whatever you wuould like to call it, has gone too far . Now it should be ended.
PS:: This crap was written by a pathetic and frustrated creature also.
Tyler
5 Sep 2007 @ 4:02 pm
asian girls are sexy =]
JD
5 Sep 2007 @ 10:03 pm
Desiae ’s comment about asian women are right on. There are beautiful and ugly women in all races.
But, there are more uglies in the asian race then most others. Even my mother said so. Oh, by the way, I am an asian male with a quarter of French. A very well adjusted asian American male. And no, we are not a self hating family. My mother is very beautiful, she’s definately not a typical looking asian person. Myself, I have complete confidence in my looks and routinely mistaken for a latino by people of all races.
Before all the “Asian-Pride” losers get all bent out of shape and start attacking my post, open your eyes and look in the mirrors.
It is what it is. I live in Souther California, the biggest concentration of asian in the US. I see asian everywhere I go, and most asian girls are flat ( face and body ). The ugliest tend to be Chinese and Koreans. Big round flat face with slitty eyes.
Oh sure, there are pretty ones too. About one for every 100 of ugly ones. It ’s really hard to find a complete package. If they’re pretty, they are usually short or flat.
I ‘ve dated women of all races: ” White, Hispanic, Asian, Black, even Persian ” . My current girlfriend is a Mexican and to me, she’s very attractive.
We ‘re only discussing physical attributes. Ofcourse, there are more than just physical attraction in a healthy relationship, but that is a totally different subject.
Tyler from above, ” Are you from the LA area and drive a VW ? “. If you are , then know you man, you have an asian fetish.
Rikus
6 Sep 2007 @ 8:09 am
To JD,
Don’t call them ugly just because you are a yank and think women should have giant boobs.
Elm
7 Sep 2007 @ 9:07 am
JD,
That means inherently, you’re 3/4 ugly by 99/100 chance.
Poor thing.
Moses
7 Sep 2007 @ 4:53 pm
U.S. Asian girls saclude themselves. Even more so, when you “put yourself out there.” Especially in N.O. I had the privalage to go to San Francisco,I was aproached by (one) a beautiful chinese girl,then she turned around and started dateing some random black guy. HAHA, am I lucky or what! I’m being sarcastic! I dono maybe they have there reasons. You’d go crazy tring to figure it out though. Any advice or comments hit me up at myspace.com/DYNASTY191 (pics are also posted)
Nicholas McCartney
7 Sep 2007 @ 8:32 pm
Hi, I’m white and I can say for certainty that I will not EVER procreate outside my own race. Why, you wonder. It is because I believe that no person should be left to the dog of impurity. I think it is sick the way some people try to capitalize off of others’ so called “weaknesses”. We are all weak in our own ways “racially speaking”.
Why, I do think that Asian people (women) are very attractive, but I believe the principal in purity of the race comes first and foremost as all different cultures. (mostly) every country brings something to the table of what is modern day humanity. The (mostly) is relative to me being an American first, humanitarian second and how these individuals hurt, maim and destroy more than they contribute. I am a Caucasian of a lighter hue consisting of blond a hair and eyes of azure and I would be damned if my genes are sullied by the likes of those who have darker features. Not that I think that other kinds of people are inferior to mine, brown or black hair I could understand, but take my eyes and I have nothing substantial to pass on. My existence would be futile as if I were better off slaying myself in my mother’s womb.I despise race traitors, or supremacists for these assholes offset the balance of all communities but most importantly show neglect and dishonor to people Who are heartfelt and diligent family aspiring guys and girls.. to think you have to settle ( for something less than their true potential). Thank you and I did not mean to offend. I love all different cultures and for true Love there is no countermeasure. I humbly apologize to all who might have found acceptance in true compassionate intimacy in another race. In fact out of good faith you can leave your comments/complaints to my Email address which is : Electric_brigand@sbcglobal.net
Nicholas McCartney
7 Sep 2007 @ 9:24 pm
Sorry, forgot to add, I’m a male of 6′2 and I would not settle for an offspring less than, unless by an inch or so. It’s just that a lot of males in my town of Lawrence,Kansas are sometimes 6′4 and “short” is not in the inevitable future, sorry about that.
J.Q
8 Sep 2007 @ 11:42 pm
For those Asian girls prefer dating white guys over Asian guys are truly sad, I believe the reason for that is many believe being with a white guy gave em a better perception from society point of view. Somehow put them in a higher class category (not the white trash type). I had a white girl told me once at the bar, she truly thinks the reason most white girls do not go for Asian guys are then think they might have a smaller dick.(she only assume that because the media and how society views Asian men) Here is a fun fact- National average is 6’, so my follow Asian brothers if u meet the min requirements, feel free go out there and feel confident explore it (not in a gay way thou). I am a little buzzed….lol
Nicholas M.
9 Sep 2007 @ 11:57 am
J.Q.
There are white women who’ll get into relationships with Asian men,(take that Japanese guy from Miami Ink) but these are “nice” girls. I wish the U.S. was full of these kinds of woman, but it seems the opposite. It’s not their fault really considering the way “we” have exploited them. The point is that any woman that puts emphasis on penis size probably isn’t worth much more in her current state than a hook-up or a late night booty-call.
If that’s what you want then go for it, but remember “pack those condoms”. Biologically speaking Penis size doesn’t matter (I won’t go into to that since most already know..) Of course since their are more promiscuous people today, there are more psychological implications involved. Sadly my friend 6′ isn’t going to please these girls…I mean my penis is longer than 6′ by 1.3′ and two ladies out of my 15 lady sexual history, commented that my penis was small, but here’s the kicker, they had sex with me anyway. another factor you have to add is girth which is physically more important than length. The most important thing for men to remember is if your not happy with your size, you can fix this problem via devices,techniques,or surgery(pills too although I’m skeptical..) The point is that “hook-up” girls aren’t worth it when it comes to marriage,family,etc. (in their current state) and of course these ladies can change(here’s hoping..) I converted to Christianity about two years ago, so cheers to you Lord. I’ve only fallen victim to my most depraved desires once with a woman since then. human-sexuality (such a burden) I’m 26 though and you might be younger than I so it’s only natural for you to want to explore it further, just take care and be wise about it, but I finally found a lady I can take it slow with and hopefully in the future I might be a husband and a father and that is all that is important to me anymore and I’m proud to say she’s Caucasian like me. By the way, why are Asians so happy all the time. I mean every time I see them particularly the females have radiant smiles on their faces. I know an older white guy who’s in a relationship with a woman from Thailand and always a smile on her face…on TV the same..What’s up with that?
Russian Gal
11 Sep 2007 @ 11:27 am
Wow your article is pure b.s. full of bigotry and ignorance. Who the hell are you to say that Asian men are ugly, or that Middle-Eastern men are ugly, and that whites are good looking? Beauty is subjective, it depends on who you ask. Maybe those Hollywood flicks brain washed you but in other regions of the world, many people would disagree with your views.
importchick
11 Sep 2007 @ 1:01 pm
Whoever wrote this original blog is an idiot, probably some frustrated racist white guy who thinks he can up his ego by ridiculing minority men. Sorry, but white privilege is dying and a thing of the past as we speak
Hostile Witness
11 Sep 2007 @ 1:10 pm
Hi Russian Gal and importchick –
I notice that you totally agree with one another, which is not surprising since you’re posting from the same IP address and are therefore the same person.
You seem to have a great sense of humor and must be a lot of fun on a date, schizophrenia notwithstanding…
Black_Adam
11 Sep 2007 @ 7:12 pm
This blog has desperate loser written over it.
Hostile Witness
11 Sep 2007 @ 7:56 pm
Hi Adam –
Fetch me another mint julep, you black rascal!
Russian Gal
11 Sep 2007 @ 8:13 pm
This blog definitely has desperate loser written all over it. Not to mention, he’s a bigoted idiot who can’t seem to think outside of his racist Hollywood-influenced “white is right” mentality.
ep
11 Sep 2007 @ 10:16 pm
Who gives a rats ass. I thought this was funny and thats all it is…fun random reading. All you sappy saps need to shut up and get laid.
lovelygirl
11 Sep 2007 @ 11:03 pm
what rubbish is all this..! every race they have the pretty one and ugly one. grow up kids,,grow up.
lovelygirl
11 Sep 2007 @ 11:03 pm
but most chinese have features that resemble a p,,, their fav food…hahahahah
girl
12 Sep 2007 @ 12:52 am
this was interesting reading…
I have to say that Asian guys have the hardest cocks ever… they are great
DeutcherTestosterone
12 Sep 2007 @ 3:57 am
First of all, I want to say that I LOVE this subject!!
THANKS TO HOSTILE WITNESS FOR BRINGING THIS UP!!!!!
I am a white guy, half German half Italian, which gives me the buff, well-built, aggressive, and silent-but-strong features of the Germans, as well as the sexy, smooth, deep-&-dark-eyebrow-equiped, and romantic features of the Italians. I have both. (These descriptions of national features are based on the average, and yeah, some stereotypism).
Anyways, I LOVE Asian girls SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO damn much!! RRRRrrrrRRRR!!!!! I was in Seoul, Korea, for a few months (I’m actually from California), and the girls there are beyond description, not to mention they are ENDLESS!!! So many babes!!! Having been to Japan and having seen so many Japanese girls as well, the case is the same!; Korean girls and Japanese girls have very unique features from each other, but that’s a whole nother subject. BOTH ARE VERY BEAUTIFUL.
As for the comments: I believe that Hostile Witness has not only a really good discussion outlayed, but his comments are mature and everything fits concerning them. Some of the others…NOT the case. For example, “Nicholas MacCartney” I believe has very weird opinion. Re: on that–We should all move toward mixture of the racial genes, marry someone who is not our own race (think outside of the fucking box, you know?!). I would suffer with a white woman, and here’s this: NO MATTTER HOW PRETTY SHE IS!!!!!!!! I want Asian or Latina. Period. Or a mix.
I liked Sonya’s comments as well.
I WAS NOT IMPRESSED OR INTIMIDATED BY Xyke’s COMMENTS, HOWEVER. I WOULD LIKE TO CHALLENGE THAT MAN TO A WRESTLING MATCH OR A CHESS GAME, SEE WHO’S THE PUSSY!!! WHITE MEN VARY LIKE EVERYONE ELSE, BUT I CONSIDER MYSELF WELL GRILLED, SEASONED…and even marinated. I UNDERSTAND THE WHOLE ASIAN-TOUGH-GUY MENTALITY, AND IT CAN BE VERY AGRESSIVE…BUT WATCH IT BUDDY–I’M GERMAN AND I’LL BE TWICE AS AGRESSIVE. (Bring it on baby)
Anyways I hope my comments impressed any single Asian girl out there who sees this
With fingers crossed I say my hellos and goodbyes, and leave this chat…It was fun.
P.S. It’s been scientifically proven that kids with mixed genes have stronger characteristics and healthier bodies as well as healthier DNA than single race persons. I don’t want fully white kids. Yuk. So, Auf wiedersehn and Ciao from DeutcherTestosterone (should have made it “DeutcherTestosterone-ItaliaPrettyBoy” but thats too long)
Alex
12 Sep 2007 @ 8:44 am
Just something to think about. Assuming your a white guy and you take your relationship with an Asian girl “all the way” to its conclusion your going to get married and have a mulatto son. Now I know a few mullatoo children and they look a lot more colored than white. So your going to have a son who looks Asian, and yet you despise Asian males and feel they are the least attractive men. So if you take your relationship all the way your going to be stuck with a son you consider inferior even though hes your own flesh and blood.
Hostile Witness
12 Sep 2007 @ 10:32 am
Hi Alex –
Geez, don’t they teach logic and critical thinking in the schools anymore? Saying someone is ugly doesn’t mean they’re inferior or that you despise them. It just means they’re ugly.
I don’t like to have to repeat myself, but I’ve already said that mixed-race Wasians are usually very good-looking.
Look up the word “mulatto” while you’re at it.
Alex
12 Sep 2007 @ 1:36 pm
Well saying that Asians are the worst looking males certainly suggests you consider them lower. And what are you basing good looking “wasian” males on? The sons of white males and asian females who I have met could easily pass for full Asians. So maybe you wont “despise” your potential son but you would consider him the least desirable of all male races, not the best father-son relationship.
mulatto
12 Sep 2007 @ 3:38 pm
The blog owner is obviously a fool who isn’t educated on the topic of Genetics. Caucasians have Recessive Genes, whereas Asians and Africans have Dominant Genes, which means that when a person is 50% White 50% Non-White, the person will still look predominantly non-White. So this blog guy is a moron to think that his “son” with an Asian woman will not strongly resemble a full Asian male, if not even pass for a Full Asian male. Notice that mixed people who are half white/Asian tend to look more Asian than white, particulary the eyes and hair, whereas they almost never pass as full White. Anyways, Asian Man and White Woman pairings are a growing trend, I am a Biracial Japanese/German woman myself, and actually think the whole “smaller Asian penis” stereotype is false, I’ve seen enough to compare whites and Asians and they are about the same on Average. However, I must distinguish Asian males as having Harder penis on average, which I prefer to size, because it creates more stimulation when having intercourse.
Hostile Witness
12 Sep 2007 @ 5:18 pm
Hi Mulatto –
You are so silly.
First of all, if you can find a credible scientific reference on that, I’ll eat my own head.
Second, just think about well-known Wasians for a minute — here’s a picture of Apolo Ohno to get you started:
He could easily pass for white…well, he could if his name wasn’t Ohno.
On the penis density issue, I’ll have to take your word for it…
sean
13 Sep 2007 @ 5:17 pm
we all know asian women are sexier than white women! some white women though, are still holding out! its only a matter of time til they realize the reality. asian women, are much more feminine- which men find irresistable. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
girl
14 Sep 2007 @ 2:30 am
what do you mean some white women are still holding out? holding out from hooking up with asian women??? (btw i am a mixed white girl)
i think it depends how secure or insecure the man feels about his own masculinity- if he is very insecure, of course he will tend to prefer a woman who is more feminine to build himself up.
In general, if I had to generalize from my extensive personal research, i would say that asian guys have much nicer bodies and are more fun to shag than white guys. But they tend to be more dominant, which can be a problem in terms of a long-term relationship.
girl
14 Sep 2007 @ 3:01 am
also, Hostile Witness, do you know anything at all about biology? dominant/recessive genes? I think you might be eating your head soon… hope it tastes yummy… but it seems to be full of messed-up ideas, so probably won’t be all that tasty…
Hostile Witness
14 Sep 2007 @ 6:26 am
Hi Girl –
That was a very funny comment!
Yes, I know all about dominant/recessive genes. I’m a college graduate, you know! They apply to things like hair color, eye color, certain diseases like hemophilia, etc.
But to say “Caucasians have Recessive Genes, whereas Asians and Africans have Dominant Genes,” what could that possibly mean? Being Asian is a dominant trait? Looking Asian is a dominant trait? It’s absurd.
On the bright side, if you or Mulatto can identify an “Asian-looking” chromosome, there’s undoubtedly a Nobel Prize in it for you.
Get to work!
Nicholas M.
14 Sep 2007 @ 10:25 pm
DeutcherTestosterone,
On what proven grounds can you say that a pure race relationship will have unhealthy offspring? That’s all relative to the two involved. Mulatto, the word dominant in Dominant gene sends me over the edge. If by dominant you mean that my children will have dark skin, brown hair and brown eyes. You are probably right, but in the context you make it seem like the traits are somehow superior to lighter features which I find repugnant. Black_Adam, you think that Hostile Witness is such a desperate loser, huh. Then how did you find such a back water blog. In fact all you people who try to talk S*** on the original poster are impudent fools for stating so in the first place because if you didn’t like it you should have said nothing!!! Muahahahahhaaaa!!!
dennis
15 Sep 2007 @ 8:40 am
Hi
I am a white guy with an Asian girlfriend. She tells me that the reason why she likes white guys is that we (white guys)eat pussy and Asian men dont and we have larger cocks but I think their
are also white guys with small cocks and Asian guys with big cocks. You just cant say all white men are this way and all Asian men are that way but one thing is for certain Asian men dont lick pussy. I do it to my Asian lady and drives her wild she loves it.She told her friends in China and they asked her if I could do it to them next time I am in China. So the lesson to be learned here Asian dudes is start licking that pussy
Ryan
15 Sep 2007 @ 9:15 am
ahahaahahaahha “mystical Oriental hotness” gahahahahahaaahah
to the original blogger, you are the MAN. your incredibly insightful views on asians have completely opened my mind and I thank you for freeing me from my own ignorance.
now down to business. do you know any good mail order bride sites? i need a little sucky sucky me so horny if ya know what I mean…..something with that “MYSTICAL ORIENTAL HOTNESS” your talkin about…don’t let me down!
Rikus
15 Sep 2007 @ 1:59 pm
The last to commenters are so… so… uh you get it.
SAID
16 Sep 2007 @ 2:44 am
i hate white people and i hate when asian girls go to shit white men
what are you talking that asian men are ugly!! you bastards of your white colour are so ugly and only because you have big digs the asians come to you because they are bitches..most of them!
I am arabic and i am proud of it and we are no ugly people. my english is bad but in my language i would bring you to tears you bastards!
RRR Puhh
Rikus
16 Sep 2007 @ 7:26 am
Damn this thread is becoming the ultimate moron register.
Each person has a certain feature he looks for in his other half and if this feature belongs to asians or arabs or whatever it doesn’t mean that there’s something wrong with him. And stop being “proud” of your race! All geramans please excuse me I don’t have anything against you but Hitler was proud of his “pure” aryan blood and look what happened.
I know it’s not the reason for WWII so don’t pretend to be a smartass.
Bubba McGee
18 Sep 2007 @ 5:56 am
I lived in Asia for 6 years, most Asian women I met were so sick of the typical Asian male that they flocked to white men. And the ones that didn’t would date you at the drop of a hat once you spoke to them in their native language. I know I was a pig when I was there, but it was too easy not to be. One of my girlfriends flat out told me that she would never marry an Asian man because she did not want to become a slave.
White men would romance Asian women and they loved that. One of my Chinese male friends called it ‘tricking’ them. I was like, WTF? Don
‘t you want to show this beautiful Asian woman some romance and affection? What would he suggest?, ‘you, come here, fuck me, have my children and be my slave. Do whatever my mother tells you to do for the rest of your life! now!’ Which is another facet of Asian marriage, the mother-in-law rules the wife; forever.
People who call this racsit do not know Asian culture.
My wife is Asian, and is very happy to be free from the constraints and restrictions of Asian culture and appreciates the love and affection she receives even though we already have children. Wow, that would be a novel concept for the Asian man; care for your wife past childbirth.
Yes, yes, it is not true for every single individual. But the stereotypes exist for a reason. Because there are a great number of Asian men who fit into them and gladly espouse them.
Frank
19 Sep 2007 @ 1:08 pm
Bubba,
If you were a ‘Pig’ in Asia (your own words) then you were tricking and mistreating Asian women. Of course they also wanted a piece of your money, greencard, and chance for a better life in America so I would hardly call them victims. While I agree that Asian men are not as romantic as White men, they also don’t BS and lie to Asian females to get them into bed as much as white guys do. Asian men also don’t go around labeling Asian women EASY like white guys do too. We just see them as women, you guys see them as Asian-women always bringing the race into it. This difference in mentality is the root of why WM/AF couples get little respect from society in general.
I agree with the mother-in-law and family thing. Asian in-laws and family culture can be suffocating.
NeilsFanclub
19 Sep 2007 @ 3:58 pm
I think I’m commenting on the reverse and I’ll try to stay general too as to avoid hostilities, since the initial post is most a “general” statement if I’m not reading it wrong. I am half polish and half-japanese. My sister is usually considered “cute” and I roughly get the same types of responses, but you know, it varies from person to person.
Asian women liking white guys over Asian men: Generally, I think most people like variety, difference, rather than “sameness.” In my family after the 3rd generation that was in the US I see more of my parents generation on the Japanese side marrying Filipinos, Chinese, or in the case of my dad, a polish woman (mom). In the next generation (4th) there is almost entirely marriages or relationships with non-japanese and non-asian. As in, most if not all of the people in that group married a white person or hispanic person but not a asian of any type. I’ll say for me, I was the same, I married a nice white girl. Easy to get along with and not as much “man-issues.” I noticed for me that I could not make it work or I found asian women, and hispanic women difficult to deal with of various generations (1 being born in the US, but parents from outside the US, 2-4 so-on born / raised in USA) because of gender politics or “man-issues” from their culture. And, here is my contrary point, I don’t find Asian women attractive either physically or for their personalities or lack thereof. Now ladies don’t get mad, this is just my “impression” or experience, its not a judgment on any of you as individuals. BUT, when I dated a filipina or latina it was such a hassle, too many games, and I never could figure out if they liked me or if they didn’t then they’d act like they did, but when I did they didn’t… uh headache. What do I find with “white girls” that I don’t with asian or latinas? Not as much headache, easier to get along with, more balance in gender roles. I don’t have to be ‘macho’ or always fighting for control.
What could be worse than being an Asian woman in Asia and having to surrender your mystical Oriental hotness to Asian men? In no other race — white, black, Hispanic — are the women so much better-looking than the men.
Middle Eastern / Indian vs. Asian guys – well my mom must have thought asian guy was cute otherwise there wouldn’t be me and my sis now would there? If Asian girls want white guys and white girls want asian guys or middle eastern guys it all works out right? Some middle eastern girls are very attractive along with an equal amount of indian women. In the end we all get somebody right? (hopefully) In which case their women are NOT ugly in the least. Google hot xyz girls where xyz is persian, indian, etc. Either way female beauty is as subjective as the attractiveness of men. You put a hot / sexy anything in front of the person who is into that and you are going to hit their turn on button.
Asian girl cousin not into asian guys? Uh, big surprise there. I go to the gym with a coworker. 6′4, 225 lbs, russian/german guy, totally buff. Who is always checking him out? Asian girls / latinas. White girls seem oblivious… So there you have my two cents from a half asian half white guy.
=N=
Lorango
19 Sep 2007 @ 7:21 pm
This comment is WAYYYY Late but i’d like to leave something anyway….
I think most Asians are quite beautiful. I am Filipina myself…but i don’t think there’s a general preference for a significant other. I think it’s just that with times evolving people are starting to date interracially and people just have to get over the initial shock of mixing so many different cultures together. I read a few comments and though the general consensus seems to tell us that yes, more asian women tend to go for white men, i don’t think it’s typically an issue. people have different tastes and when growing up in America or seeing what America has to offer, people’s perceptions change as well as their preference. Different cultures are intriguing and change will always prevelent now that the definition for ‘american’ is no longer just white people.
History has played such a huge part in how we preceive certain topics especially interracial marriages.
But i do think it’s degrading to generalize and insult asian men. I find asian men, particularly of the Filipino descent, to be attractive (at least most of them). Though asian men tend to be smaller in height and generally their figure, size isn’t everything, right?
just my opinion though!!
genius
20 Sep 2007 @ 8:28 am
The author of this thread is clearly mentally incompetent. May I point out the fact that Asian girls would have very similar genetic codes to those of Asian men, apart from the Y chromosome. So if the white guy were to have babies with the Asian girl, the offspring would have, by definition, half ‘Asian’ genes. So your kids would be half ugly too.
Back to the point, you’re probably too fat to date a girl of your own race. Further, it is also apparent that there are plenty of Caucasian girls who are interested in Asian men, not because they have degrees and qualifications in Engineering or Medicine, or that they have hot jobs in investment banking, in the medical or other professions, such as engineering. They like them because they are good people. You sir, on the other hand, probably waste tax payers money on mickey mouse courses such as Sports & Leisure, whilst consuming burgers, thereby increasing the burden on the State by virtue of developing cardiovascular pathologies; so your disease, ironically, will be treated by clever Asian Male doctors, whilst being funded by taxation of salaries of clever Asian Male investment bankers.
Hostile Witness
20 Sep 2007 @ 9:17 am
Hi Genius –
Why would you say I’m fat? I’m not fat. I’m 6′, 160 pounds.
Are you British? I notice you say “whilst” a lot. FYI, we don’t have taxpayer-funded health care over here, so even if I was fat, which I’m not, I wouldn’t be a burden on society anyway, so Ha Ha …
Stephen Harper
24 Sep 2007 @ 5:15 pm
I’m a white dude and I think you’re totally off. Look around…the only white guys Oriental Asian women seem to find are the ones that no one else wants (read fat, old or ugly). You comment on Middle Eastern/Indian women is the biggest shocker. Middle Eastern & Indian women are THE most beautiful women in the world. Don’t believe me? Just type “most beautiful woman” on google images and see for yourself. You’ll find mainly Middle Eastern or Indian women.
Asian women are too small and flat. I wouldn’t ever date them.
Rikus
25 Sep 2007 @ 5:37 am
…You can’t argue about taste…
very hurt
28 Sep 2007 @ 3:57 am
I really don’t get this. This post is just wrong in the beginning.
It began a whole “race” thing. And now insults are just flying everywhere. I seriously do not think about “oh this race is prettier, this race is fugly”, that’s just cruel. I am an Asian girl. I was really insulted when some people insisted that “asians are hairy…smelly…flat….look no different from men…”
I am not going to curse, because cursing does not put my point across.What i’m trying to get at is that everyone who commented seems to just immediately get all riled up to respond by writing down what THEY think, and actually forget about what we’re talking about. We’re talking about racism. Sterotypes.
It does not matter if a white guy goes out with an asian girl, ect ect ect. I really don’t get some of you who seem to have specific RACES for ANOTHER.
It’s human nature for people to think that an asian guy should only go out with an asian girl. To stay only in their own race. I think that is serious BS. I’m sure everyone will just say that they were placing their own opinons, and it’s their own thoughts so they make no difference; however, it does hurt people. I was truly offended by what some people said about asian people, or about anyone. What was that crap with Indian and Middle Eastern men and women being ugly? That is just terrible.
No race is superior to the other. No race is “hotter” than the other. These things just sprung up from stereotypes. I know that I’m pretty much repeating things that we all “morally know” but how come we still continue to insult each other, different races, and disrespect even their bodies and everything? It’s just wrong.
PE
28 Sep 2007 @ 2:55 pm
Hi Very Hurt –
You sound like a nice person. I hate to see anyone get upset over this stuff. I let Hostile Witness publish stuff on my site even though he’s angry and death-obsessed, has an odd sense of humor, and no one thinks he’s funny.
Here’s some advice — mentally sort things into two categories: 1) things within your control; and 2) things outside your control.
Then — if you want to have a really unhappy life — spend a lot of time fretting about the things outside your control, like the opinions of strangers…
ViolentAJ
28 Sep 2007 @ 9:07 pm
Yeah, I’m Black too.
I am attracted to Asian women, but Asian women like just about any race but Blacks. It’s evident in Japan. In Japan, you are welcomed with open arms and legs as long as you are not Black. If you are Black, you cannot get a job, everyone hates you, and you couldn’t even hire a hooker.
Glenn Yu
29 Sep 2007 @ 8:13 pm
ROFL.
yeah degrade asian guys more
that;s why asian guys made hondo
that;s why china managed to keep itself in tact after 80 years of war and 1000X natural disaster than that of america.
that;s why japan became a super world power with no oil, no coal, no iron in their landmass.
tsk tsk, wake up white morons. who is superior? who should get all the girls?
Natalie D
30 Sep 2007 @ 5:33 am
I don’t know how people could generalize this much.. I’m a white girl and I do find guys of any race attractive, as long as they could win my heart. There are more to someone for me other than looks.. But I still don’t get what you mean by asian guys are boring? Are you really kidding me? I have an asian (who happens to be a guy) friend who is very interesting… In fact he is one of the funniest person I’ve met, he is very smart and to be honest (pardon my generalization here) but he doesn’t try to act like he is the biggest tough guy in the universe like most white guys with their big muscles trying to pick fights with people.. but at the end of the day, he usually defends his “white” friends when they get into a fight..
So yeh, I’m confused really.. he respects his family and girlfriend.. from what I’ve seen most white guys do is just always talks about sex, or how tough they are.. and you call that not boring..
I guess we have diff definition of boring.. but yeh..
Rikus
30 Sep 2007 @ 8:41 am
To Natalie D
“I don’t know how people could generalize this much..”
-Good thought but don’t generalize yourself, your personality depends only on the community you’ve grown up in.
To Glenn Yu
“yeah degrade asian guys more”
-exactly no race is superior then others!
“tsk tsk, wake up white morons. who is superior? who should get all the girls?”
-what? yeah degrade white guys more… i’m not gonna get mad but man! don’t be an asshole!
more than a 150 posts and we still can’t get a common point.
VW
30 Sep 2007 @ 1:26 pm
Gill, your comments are the most immature and insulting ones I have ever heard. “Asian girls don’t have tits and look like they’ve been run over by a train? White guys would be GAY to date us? The only difference between the girls and the guys is that the guys have DICKS?” Well here’s what I have to say – FUCK YOU. And go get run over by a train.
Hostile Witness
30 Sep 2007 @ 2:06 pm
Hi VW –
If you don’t like Gill’s comments here, you should see the ones I deleted.
*Sigh
30 Sep 2007 @ 8:55 pm
*sigh. theres no point arguing with all ur racist comments. i am an asian girl myself, and yes, im not that pretty. well, to be honest, i thought i was neither pretty nor ugly.. until i read this page. i am absolutely shocked by the comments made. how can u say such things? it just shows how superiorly unstable and inssecure u r urselves. place urselves in an asians’ position. wat if it was asians that dominated hollywood, influencing peeple to think asians perplexion was better and more superior than caucasians? o, and u shouldnt judge all asians by how one asian may look. i myself am not ashamed to say that i am everything ‘gill’ described.. except: i am not hairy, smelly, thick stomached, small, short, extremely flat chested, looks like a man, and has thick, short and stumpy legs. completely opposite actaully. Hairless, stench free, flat and thin stomach, tall, looks like a female, and has long, thin, and slender legs.
Completely the opposite u see. u mite laugh at the ‘looks like a female’ part, and comment, thats wat she thinks. But take into account, the feminine look is influenced by Hollywood stars. Just like y is the middle finger the rude one?
Think before u make racist comments. im pretty sure im younger than some of u racist peeple, and that just shows how immature some of u r.
*Sigh
30 Sep 2007 @ 9:38 pm
To asian degraders,
get a life. all women are equal. some of the most beautiful women in the world ARE not necessarily westerners, but women of other races INCLUDING asian women. only sluts would like racist, heartless, ungrateful, and stupid idiots like u. ever heard of school, education, and civil people? u wer probably turned down as a child. even the orphanages didnt want u. nobody likes users, and losers.
another asian
30 Sep 2007 @ 10:50 pm
i dunno those girls on the left look about the same level as that guy on the right, what are u talking about way better looking?..lol (and i think u other girls are disagreeing cuz u want to think ur hot)
*Sigh
1 Oct 2007 @ 4:02 am
woooo i second another asian..
asian 2
2 Oct 2007 @ 1:52 pm
well all i got to say is that the race don’t matter to me as long as i find them attractive and that’s it. Not all asian get into business or engineering type things, we all have our own intentions on what we want to be. most of us asians get in the army and such things like that. and not all asian girls are good looking(sorry if i offended any of you) will i’m a dude and to tell the truth i’m not that good looking either, but hey it doesn’t matter what race you are as long as you play ur game right then you can end up with a good looking girl even if ur ugly lookin. It only matters how you play ur game. I;m just bein logical and that’s it.
once again i’m sorry if i’ve offended and of you girls, don’t worry about being single all ur life a guy might walk across ur path and think that you are the most pretty girl he’s ever seen. so don’t give ur hopes up
asian 2
2 Oct 2007 @ 1:58 pm
o and to those black guys out there that are attracted to asian women you do have chances as well some asian girls do like black men so don’t worry about it, my sis is attracted to any race, i don’t mind if she likes them, as long as they don’t do her wrong then i don’t mind at all. so don’t get ur hopes up either ayte~.^
asian 2
2 Oct 2007 @ 2:04 pm
o and *sigh the way that you descibed urself makes me think that you are a pretty girl after all, and looks don’t really matter to me tho and i’m sorry thaht i didn’t put that in my previous comment that i had posted up. the thing that matters the most to me is a girls personality, if she’s pretty but has a bad personality then i won’t be attracted to her at all. so looks aren’t everything for those picky guys out there so you fuckers don’t think that you can get any girls that you want. and for those chicks out there that think you hot and good lookin and act all stuck up fuck you too ayte!
PEACE
P.S sorry for the language but i had to get out some anger about this races thing i was pretty offended so yea, sorry for the language again
*Sigh
2 Oct 2007 @ 8:17 pm
hey asian 2. awesome advice. hope nobody misses that comment.
Michael I
3 Oct 2007 @ 9:35 am
WTF!! This is the most racist piece of trash blog I have ever seen in my life? How could people be so ignorant!! Race is a weak term created by ignorant human beings like 99 % of the people who wrote on this blog! Seriously, we are all human beings! You fall in love with who you fall in love with, it doesn’t matter where that person is from. If two people love each other and their lives are better as a result, then so be it! I would much rather have a multi-racial happy, positive couple than a single-race but miserable and negative couple. Seriously, I doubt most of the people here have an IQ higher than borderline retarded.
Rikus
3 Oct 2007 @ 12:41 pm
I’m sorry to say this Michael I but you can’t get the message through the thick skulls of these people with just one post… as far as i can see it this thread is only for… ummm… what the hell are we discussing in this thread again?
If i wouldn’t have read the name of the thread i would have thought that we are having a race of the races.
Hostile Witness
4 Oct 2007 @ 8:17 pm
I’ve decided from reading many of these comments that all races are equal, at least as far as being humorless simpletons. How some of you mushheads get a date with anyone is beyond me….
sam
4 Oct 2007 @ 9:55 pm
white women age in dog years. who cares?
Why would a japanese man trade a low divorce rate asian female for a high divorce rate white female?
And interracial unions only account for 2% of all marriages so who cares? most peopel marry their own race anyways.
serenevalley
5 Oct 2007 @ 12:35 pm
My wife is Korean-Americn and we have been married for nearly a quarter century. We think as one and feed off of each other
SpaceDustNutz
5 Oct 2007 @ 8:59 pm
I am alien from a still unformed galaxy. I am the size of a dust mite, and I have malformed sexual organs, but thats ok – as I mate with myself. I find this discussion about men and woman and stuff to be confusing.
KD
6 Oct 2007 @ 12:29 pm
In my opinion as an Asian artist, most Asian women are dull and conventional. To each their own, I prefer Persian and Caucasian girls. I have no problem with a couple that is a similar age, with lots of stuff in common that may have met in high school or college. That’s cool. Here in LA, I’ve seen most Asian women tend to settle for these guys like twice their age with money. Particularly Asian women who are uneducated immigrants ie. Army wives. It’s pretty repulsive. Their children are usually ashamed of being Asian because their mother is seen as being so subservient in the relationship.
I read something really funny the other day. Thought I’d share it:
“I’m an insecure Asian girl who is only into White guys. I have an inferiority complex, am insecure about my identity, want to be White, and only date White men to feel better about myself. I assimilate by fulfilling your stereotypes, and bashing my own culture and people to fuel your ego. Above all, I love to spread my legs for any White man; it gives me self esteem to sleep with a White man.
Ideally I’m looking for someone tall, financially secure, nice, and funny. For some reason I have a thing for blond men!!”
Rikus
7 Oct 2007 @ 10:37 am
KD…
I think i don’t have to lose myself screaming at you because i’m sure most people understood that what you said isn’t true. Anything based on generalizations can’t be taken serious. And that thing you posted (if you didn’t make that up) isn’t funny but sad and i wonder why is she feeling like that *winks at KD*
Jamie
9 Oct 2007 @ 8:03 am
Dying of laughter.
I like asian women, because they are nice, considerate, and sexy, even the nerdy ones. What can I say, I am an addict. But….. Nothing has topped my Latin love experience, so I suggest… Try before you buy.
daegu killer
9 Oct 2007 @ 4:47 pm
wtf, middle eastern men are the hottest men in the world. i’d fuck the entire populations of lebanon, israel and iran.
and “mystical oriental hotness” is reserved for retards and 50 year old german men who buy 15 year old girls out of prostitution in thailand.
asian men also need to come to the forefront. there is nothing stopping them from being attractive except their clothes. chinese guys, wake the fuck up, learn from korean and japanese guys, because asian men are hot fucksluts waiting to happen. and gaijin/wai go ren hunters in asia, shame fucking shame on you. we all like a little variety in our lives, but by fetishizing foreigners you’re just as bad as them fetishizing your “mystical oriental hottness.”
Hostile Witness
9 Oct 2007 @ 6:18 pm
Hi Daegu Killer –
I was thisclose to deleting your post…it adds nothing and your language is disgraceful.
The only reason I kept it is the shock value of the fact that you posted it from Vassar College, “a highly selective, residential, liberal arts college located in the heart of the Hudson Valley in New York State.”
KD
9 Oct 2007 @ 6:25 pm
Rikus-
That’s why I posted it. It was funny, in a half-true kind of way. Asian girls tend to believe that they are a big deal…so do most other girls who are half-way decent looking. Asians who grew up in America tend to be attracted to what they are conditioned to be attracted to. This is the result of media, film, tv, music, etc. I’m guilty of the same thing. So what it will lead to is the loss of Asian heritage amongst Asian-Americans.
You see, it’s not like mixing Brits with Italians or Germans with French. When an Asian person mixes with any Caucasian, the Asian traits will disappear almost completely in two generations. There is no obligation to learn about your heritage if you don’t even look like you come from that country. I’m a very liberal person, don’t get me wrong. I just think it will be sad that the only Asians left in America will be first and second generation immigrants or staunch traditionalists.
aboyinthelife
9 Oct 2007 @ 10:01 pm
hilarious! kudos to h.w. glad i stumbled upon this post. so many interesting comments. a very nice birthday surprise.
to p.e., good luck with the job search, and in regards to your marriage, i hope for the best.
being asian, i will now sulk and cry myself to sleep over my small penis,flat skinny ass, ugly features, boring occupation, unoriginal asianess, lack of social skills, and loss of the female asian gender to the manlier, more handsome, wittier, successful, and completely superior white man.
Rikus
10 Oct 2007 @ 5:19 am
oh yeah what a shame it will be if there are no more asians… in america…
hey all of you imagine that in a parallel asian site they are discussing our race and calling us big, clumsy, ugly etc.
Grunt-Man
11 Oct 2007 @ 8:42 pm
Actually, I’ve served in the U.S. Army as an infantryman and you don’t see many asians serving. Granted, they are a smaller percentage of the population, but it’s not like the days of the 442nd in World War 2. There’s an average of one asian/pacific islander per 136 man company I kid you not. Maybe there’s an extra filipino or two. I have friends in California that tell me about the brigades of asian airsofters and “milsim” enthusiasts who love the military so much they decline enlisting and instead spend beacoup bucks to play dress up and pretend to be SEALs, SF guys, Marines, etc, and then post their photos on their myspace pages. It sounds like racial stereoyping, but the numbers I’ve seen of them on the internet are vast. There are plenty of white military wannabes as well but if you add in the ones in Asia, of course, it’s a freaking LOT of specifically asian wannabes. And not kids who can’t join up, they’re grown ass men. Weak ossifer material all.
I will say this, I do find asian women’s excuses for not wanting to date their own race ridiculous.
1.) “It’d be like dating my brother/father/etc.” I don’t hear that crap from white, latina, or black women not once.
2.) “They all have the same hair/haircut.” No shit. Same with black guys. Only white people have eye/hair variety. No one can help what they’re born with.
3.) “Asian guys all have the same majors/jobs.” But a white guy with one of those same jobs come along and it’s a non-issue.
4.) “They’re too close to their parents.” WTF? That’s the problem with this generation, not a race thing. Respecting and taking care of your elders is the right thing to do, not dumping them in a f-ed up nursing home.
5.) “They’re not tall.” If an asian guy was Yao Ming’s height they still wouldn’t care, she’d think of some other excuse.
liza
15 Oct 2007 @ 9:03 pm
It’s kind of weird how beauty is perceived differently in different parts of the world. Like back in my country, men don’t like Asian women at all. They think that Asian women are just way too stiff and not feminine. On my country there is a Chinese town and all that, but I don’t think anyone goes there to like find a girlfriend or a boyfrined, we all would just go to eat some Chinese food. In general I never had many Asain friends so i guess I just follwed everyone’s elses stereotype about Asian people; I believed thay all were very inteligent but at the same time very calculating with their money, they just loved their own race, they weren’t funny, they spoke with a funny accent and so on. It wasn’t until I came to the US that I noticed the obsession there is with Asain wome; to me that was kind of a shock. I guess in general we are atracted to that of what our culture influences us to be atracted to.
Whateverfloatstheboat
16 Oct 2007 @ 10:34 pm
To start I am a straight white/native american girl. I am dating a white guy, although I have dated asians previously. I have friends who are black, latina, middle eastern, etc. who I admire greatly.
All I have to say, is that all races are beautiful. YES, there are unattractive people in every race, but that doesn’t mean that the race as a whole is unattractive. Like asian men, for example. I personally find many Japanese rockstars to be very attractive and beautiful. They have awesomely fine hair, their eyes are dazzling, and they actually look good in make up. (Thinking of Dir en grey specifically). But my ex asian boyfriend? He was skinny (6 ft tall 90 lbs), had bad skin (really bad back acne) and never showered. Two completely opposite poles in the same race. and there are examples just like this for ALL of the races and genders.
This is a world of differences in opinion and of looks. No two people are the same, and no race is all the same. Generalities can be helpful, but they are just that, generalities. they do not, and cannot, define every single person in a race.
and as for asian women who like white men? this is just a generality. Not all asian women like white men. in fact, there are some that like black men, that like asian men, that like latino men, that like indigenous men… etc, etc. Just like not all white men are handsome or hot. some are downright ugly. but the same goes for black, asian, indigenous etc…
Francis
17 Oct 2007 @ 11:49 am
Asian girls are not particularly attractive. They pretty much just look like female versions of asian guys. Heheh, so if most asian guys are ugly, then most asian girls are too I guess.
Wo ai ne
18 Oct 2007 @ 7:56 am
I live in Hawaii and asian women are everywhere all nations. When you ask tham about asian guys they laugh and tell you they don’t want asian guys. Its like a mama’s boy thing They say they are spoild and they all want a woman who will act like their mother. asian women are very cool most asian guys seem pretty insecure.
Erik
18 Oct 2007 @ 10:27 am
I agree with Francis. Asian women pretty much look like Asian men with more hair. From a facial feature perspective, no one looks more like Asian women than Asian men.
That would explain why so many self-hating Asian women don’t want to date Asian guys. They can’t even stand to look in the mirror and see their own ugliness. Explains why they settle for ugly white guys too.
So for those guys who are despise Asian men take a closer look at your Asian girl and you will see an Asian man looking back at ya.
*Sigh
18 Oct 2007 @ 8:33 pm
thanks alot erik and francis. u guys r seriously insecure.
im asian and im offended. u know, there r such thing as fugly caucasians and europeans… o, im sorry, ur so shallow minded u would neva hav thought that was possible!
Bernard
18 Oct 2007 @ 8:36 pm
Hostile Witness -
The topic of this blog is INCREDIBLY offensive to all asians in the world. Clearly you don’t have the slightest respect towards asian men.
Just like you won’t be throwing insults to men of other races (like calling black men the N word), this blog shouldn’t be published in the first place out of respect to your fellow (asian) men.
I can’t help to think what is your motive behind this blog? To sound your opinion? Is that all? From the sound of your writings, either you got a white men superiority complex or racism towards asian males (for whatever reasons!?). Deny this if you like, but do so after an honest contemplation.
kakaroto
20 Oct 2007 @ 6:42 am
Does it really matter??????
kakaroto
20 Oct 2007 @ 6:45 am
Can we just let the ladies choose? Asian, caucasian, black, or hispanic, just let them choose who they want!!! please!!! for goodness sake!!!
To be honest...
22 Oct 2007 @ 6:30 pm
I hate to say it, but the blogger is totally right… I’m sorry, I know you are all offended and what-not, but I’ve spent years in various parts of China and Taiwan, and it’s true… There are a fair amount of good-looking Asian guys, but the ratio to good looking Asian guys to good looking Asian girls is totally out of whack.
It’s mostly the guys fault too. Asian girls (in general – yes, we have to use generalizations here, just as with every other topic in life, or we could speak of nothing at all)take care of their skin, hair, clothes, etc, etc, etc – the guys usually do the minimum or waaaay to much – and they can be very crude in terms of body odor and gas.
First there are what some Asians call the “flower” boys. I’ve met many Asian guys over here who wear large purses and are constantly looking at their hair in the mirror. They are thin and soft, I don’t feel I’m standing next to a man when I am next to them (and I would be considered skinny in the states).
Then there are the guys who either spend too much time at their computer playing games/coding programs or doing… something else that makes them look very dirty (I have no idea why they look so dirty). They don’t change often, they eat with their mouths open (you can hear them eating even if your sitting tables away) and they burp loud… I mean, REALLY loud. I have no idea why the girls try to pass an image of sweet, polite, refined, and these guys don’t.
Now, I will say that many of the Asian guys I met were good-lookin’ guys who had a good personality and probably could get a white chick if they wanted to, but by far MOST of them were not. My roomates in Asia were an Italian girl and a Costa Rican girl, and they were constantly complaining about being single and lonely because there were no men in the city – they eventually ended up dating some pretty good-looking black guys though.
I’m white, my gf is Asian, and it’s only because I had to move to Asia. I will say this though, there are a LOT of pretty girls here who are thin, smart, and well-mannered (although sometimes sneaky), and I’ve seen a lot of single guys have fun here – sometimes at the expense of the Asian girls’ heart, but that’s another story (where the Asian guys do a little better, although I’ve seen them bad there too).
OK, so honestly, you guys can’t really say “everyone is the same – don’t be so ignorant – blah blah blah”. That was my attitude when I came here and…well… really… it’s true – the girls are better than the guys here – the girls know it too.
Still, Whites in Asia have horrible reputations in some areas (which we’ve earned), so while a lot of girls prefer white guys, a lot of them don’t too.
Now, about the Asian girls in the US. I’ve met some that really seem American – they don’t know any of their native language, and don’t want to – and that’s fine with me. They are afterall, US citizens – it’s the Chinese (for example) that say to them “You are Chinese! Act like a Chinese! Don’t sell out! Asian pride!”. Talk about racist. I can’t stand that crap. They aren’t Chinese/Korean/Taiwanese- they are from the US.
They might have Chinese ancestors, but they don’t belong to the Chinese nation – so learn to look past the skin, huh? I’ve met a lot of messed up girls who are either trying to “find their roots” by joining every Asian Frat or Sorority on the planet, or escape by dating a white guy than I care to remember… and only part of that is due to “social pressure from the white majority”. Social pressure… honestly, there is more social pressure/prejudice/racism here in Asia against foreigners than there is in the US – ask a native Chinese or Korean about that the next time they say whites in the US are so terrible. People always focus on the “positive” prejudices in Asia, but trust me – there is a lot of terrible things said and done against foreigners in the name of prejudice/racism here. I can speak Mandarin (which they don’t know, because I’m white), so I hear a lot of it. I will say that Taiwan is better than most of the other Asian countries – I’ve never been to Japan, so I can’t be sure.
OK, I’ve strayed of topic – enough of this… I probably won’t return because when some people see this they won’t think and act rationally but react emotionally and type some garbage, but I do hope some people got a look at my thoughts and experiences and think… oh yea, and Asian girls are better-looking than the guys, but the guys are pretty smart, so who knows what the future holds for us all!
Pinay
22 Oct 2007 @ 9:11 pm
Dude, let me tell you one thing.
I am a full-blooded Filipino woman and what you have to say about Asian men
Makes me feel very sorry for you.
Your blog entry is so ill-informed.
I am not speaking for all Filipino women, because most of them are sell-out whores that you can pick up in a strip club in Angeles, Pampanga (Philippines). Same with your white cock-loving wife and her cousin.
All you white guys do is put all the Asian men down. Why the hell are you so insecure?
The only thing that you’re in for when you marry an Asian woman is a very willing servant and sex slave. You do not really love or respect Asian women–you FETISHIZE them. You propagate the idea that that all Asian women need to be rescued from the evil and cold-hearted Asian man with machetes planting rice in their rice paddies with their water buffaloes.
It is really degrading to see this sort of mentality that you, white men, propagate. You paint a picture where it shows that ALL ASIAN WOMEN needs to be saved by the “White Knight.”
Well, you are wrong!
Your blog entry is completely offensive and it justifies more racism against people of color.
Don’t you see that you are contributing to the self-hatred that afflict a lot of Asian women?
Look, I know you are so proud to have landed a beautiful Asian woman as your wife, but remember, her father is an Asian Man. If he did not marry your wife’s mother–YOUR MOTHER-IN-LAW, then you wouldn’t have that beautiful sell-out-whore wife of yours to bang every night.
You need to think about who will get hurt because of your words and your thoughts. You just come off as boorish, ignorant, and racist.
Hostile Witness
22 Oct 2007 @ 9:23 pm
Hi Pinay –
Your thoughtful post raises an important issue: Why the heck is “Filipino” spelled with an F?
Pinay
22 Oct 2007 @ 10:49 pm
Hostile,
To answer your question, let me give you a short version of Philippine history.
In 1521, a Portuguese name Ferdinand Magellan (Fernando de Magallanes) landed in Cebu, and claimed it for Spain. Then in 1543, another Spanish explorer named Ruy López de Villalobos led an expedition to the neighboring islands of Leyte and Samar, giving the islands the name “Las Islas de Felipenas” after the King of Spain, King Philip II.
And later on, the namesake will be given to the whole archipelago from Luzon, Visayas and Mindanao.
Are you still with me???
Anyway, the term “Filipino” is derived from the Spanish namesake given to the country. Spaniards uses “F” instead of “ph.” The name was anglicized and given the spelling of Philippines instead of “Felipenas” which was very Spanish.
You think what I say is bull?? Read THIS if you want better and thorough information.
cheekiest monkey
23 Oct 2007 @ 2:57 pm
Hmm…
To be honest with you, as an Asian woman, I used to be only into white guys (like Josh Hartnett, Orlando Bloom, Brad Pitt). But that was when I was little, and, frankly, didn’t know any better.
I was only exposed to so much and most of which came from white-centered media, which parlayed the beauty of whiteness. I only thought white was beautiful because that was what I was told via constant exposure. I didn’t think much of Asian men.
However, the older I grew, the more I invested my time into studying other culture and looking into Asian media; and, let me tell you, there are plenty of HOT (by hot, I mean smoking hot…so hot I could cry kind of hot) Asian men out there.
To name a few: Takeshi Kaneshiro, Ichiro Suzuki, Lee Dong Wook, Joe Odagiri.
And now, I find white beauty to be sort of generic. But hey, that just shows how beauty is in the eye of the beholder (to use a cliche).
Happy
24 Oct 2007 @ 3:46 pm
i like chicken ^^
joe
24 Oct 2007 @ 5:06 pm
Asian women are hot but they could not handle my 12 inch foot. My right one. Its huge AND sexy. I’m very proud of it and I am 3/10 Asian 6/10 Canadian and one part chimpanzee. and YES – I am VERY proud of my Elven heritage. I think chimpanzees are so hot… they’re so… I don’t know…. EXOTIC! Probably because I never knew any growing up and they can scream so loudly – HOT! I think a lot of baboons are gorgeous too. They have that “girl next door” kind of look – but only the males. But definitely Asian women are still the best looking men in the solar system. Lets keep this thread going – I love to talk about social issues with my friends. We are bettering our lives. I’m drunk? YOU THINK YOU’RE BETTER THAN ME?! you think you KNOW ME???!!!
James
24 Oct 2007 @ 9:37 pm
Hostile Witness,
Does your wife and son know about this post? Your son looks more Asian than White so I guess he is unattractive too. Your post is pretty stupid cause the women of EVERY race is much hotter than their men. Who even checks out other guys and thinks about their attractiveness anyway? Are you bi?
sean
25 Oct 2007 @ 4:06 am
LOTS OF JEALOUS WHITE GIRLS POSTING IN HERE! IF ASIAN GIRLS ARE NOT A THREAT WHY DO YOU DEGRADE THEM?
Tokubi
25 Oct 2007 @ 1:56 pm
o_____o WWwwow.
Um…ok. Well, I’ll first establish that I am chinese.
Then I’m going to say that in general I think Asian men are more handsome on average than White or Black men, so based purely on looks standpoint, I like Asian men better (especially chinese or korean guys). But that is just looks preference (I’d sooner go out with a good kind smart white guy than an lazy dumpy asian guy).
But I don’t know where this idea that Asian girls like white guys, what the heck? I have pretty much never had sexual attraction to American white guys whatsoever. Nothing personal, I just find that I don’t (and being in America where there are lot of white guys at first I thought this was because I was lesbian…actually I just don’t like American guys very much).
But I like Asian guys much more. I dunno, when I’m with them I just feel like I sit next to them and trust them not to grope me or make sexual jokes about me. Asian guys are much harder workers, understand the importants of going to college, saving money, and being responsible and polite (Not that there aren’t any white American guys who aren’t this way, just on average.). I usually walk behind a guy because I don’t trust the guy to walk behind me (haha, I don’t care if it makes me look subserviant). But for an asian guy I know well, I might even trust him enough to walk beside him (something I would usually only do with another girl).
Also, I must stress. I HATE HATE it when some guy is like “Ohmigosh Asian girls are sooo hot!!” It makes me feel really embarrassed and humiliated, like they just want me to fufil some fetish fantasy of theirs. It’s gross and it makes me scared like they’re gonna pounce me because I look like some fantasy they have. Yes, people have their physical preference and as I said earlier, so do I, but I generally don’t go around declaring it, and especially not to people I am trying to flirt with. It’s so creepy when they do that!!! *shudders*
luda
26 Oct 2007 @ 9:58 pm
don`t discuss taste, write an essey or keep it in your head, don`t start a forum.
ceffo
31 Oct 2007 @ 10:17 pm
On a deviation of the topic.Im speaking from a asian guy who dates white guys point of view.
I am 6 foot chinese/viet whom was born into the causcasion way of growing up even though my parents were old fashioned. Only dif being im a amatuer bodybuilder and not skinny/fat..
1. Why do some white guys have to get all busy with me when im out with my brunnete/blonde GF at parties/clubs etc etc.. Ive nevr had issues with getting white women. heck they were more assertive than me. and would go up to grope my a$$ at parties/clubs etc.. Most of these white guys are overweight and yet wouldnt know how to handle a glamour if they wanted to yet get all fussed when they see this.
2. Why do some asian girls start hating when they see us around and speak to me in the own language cussing behind my womans back or do that stare?.. hahahahaha..
hot girl
1 Nov 2007 @ 12:32 pm
Hi there
i’m a hot blonde girl and my ex bf was obsessed with assians women, he left me and after three month he was with a tiny, ugly chinese girl! is this an illness?!
Rikus
1 Nov 2007 @ 2:40 pm
…nope just jealousy (and never say hot blonde… it sounds retarded)
hot girl
3 Nov 2007 @ 6:38 am
how would i get jealous of an uglier person who has her teeth 2 meters out of her mouth and with those typical small eyes and flat body? my ex bf was cheating me with chinese girls and left me to have a relationship with that ugly creature. you can not get jealous of someone who is beneath you in all!
Genius
3 Nov 2007 @ 10:38 am
Dear my Asian / Chinese brothers,
this means our success rates would be higher – we get ‘their’ (irony, since white guys are not getting them any more haha)- for dating white girls.
There is no need to be jealous or upset about this. I have carried out some logical analyses, which will be published below:
1) Some asian girls are only into white males
2) The majority of these are like this is because they are mostly: a)short, b) fat, and c) ugly . So they are unable to find Asian men who are willing to date them.
3) By similar extrapolations, some white guys have the inevitable ‘Asian fetish’.
4) This phenomenon need not to upset us, because these white guys are usually the ones who are also fat, ugly, smelly, intellectually inferior, so the local white girls don’t even consider them
5) this is why white guys have to go to Thailand to look for wives there, because they are only into their American money and passport.
6) On the premise that 3) is correct, I hereby conclude that there will be less competition for Asian guys when it comes dating white girls
Asian guys are stealing all the white girls! EVERY-
BODY PANIC!
7) On the assumption that 2) is correct, those Asian girls who have not got a ‘white fetish’ are thus attractive and thereby available to Asian guys.
From 2) and 4), there will be a paradigm shift when it comes to attractiveness: a subset of the entire population will consist of beautiful couples and their offspring (AM/WF or AM/AF), whereas the other unfortunate subset will have ugly White guy / fat Asian girls. This is evolution at its best, where these couples and offspring will eventually be eliminated from the gene pool.
9) If we (asian males) are all look the same and have the same jobs (you know chinky physical characteristics and doctors / investment bankers / engineers), surely white guys would all be selling burgers, cleaning toilets, clearing my trash cans. The former situation is evidently more attractive for white females – the offspring will all be clever
, whereas in the latter, the offspring will inevitably be ugly, and a viscious cycle occurs, whereby the kids will not only be selling burgers, but because of inflation and decline in the quality of the education system, go out and steal like 20 bucks.
10) Finally, China is the superpower of the 21st century. We are getting all the fit girls, including White girls, who will inevitably find us most attractive because
a) we are cleverer
b) we can kung fu your asses
c) we all look the same (we’re all attractive)
d) we are rich
e) we are actually caring
f) we actually have ambitions in life (no, not talking about how many songs you have on your ipod.
g) we are not smelly :p
h) weactually have proper jobs
i) we have more degrees than you have primary school certificates
Yours sincerely
Asian Genius.
Genius
3 Nov 2007 @ 10:53 am
Hi Pinay -
Your thoughtful post raises an important issue: Why the heck is “Filipino” spelled with an F?
Hostile Witness
Argumentum ad hominem.
Look it up. I know speaking your own language might be difficult for you, let alone Latin.
Hostile Witness
3 Nov 2007 @ 2:18 pm
Hi Genius –
I was speaking Latin when you were still in reform school, and it is you who will be wanting to look the phrase up because the way you used it doesn’t make sense.
BTW, because you posted the same comment four times and I had to delete three of them, I’m changing your name from Asian Genius to Asian Tool.
Genius
3 Nov 2007 @ 4:59 pm
1) Really? I speak six languages fluently, one of which is Latin.
I know very well what it means. Instead of arguing logically, you chose to pick on the minor detail of spelling, which was irrelevant to the argument / discussion.
2) Because your board does not allow editing.
Hostile Witness
3 Nov 2007 @ 5:10 pm
Well, Genius, maybe you meant to say it was a “non sequitur.” An “ad hominem” argument is an argument “to the person,” i.e., instead of responding to the argument, you attack the person making the argument.
You can probably find several good books on logical fallacies at your local library…
Genius
3 Nov 2007 @ 5:28 pm
Pinay made an argument. Instead of replying to it, you attacked him by attacking the mistake he made (which turned out not to be a mistake at all…)
Hostile Witness
3 Nov 2007 @ 7:50 pm
Genius — or should I say “Genius” — first of all, Pinay identified herself as a *woman*. Second, I didn’t attack her spelling, I asked why “Filipino” starts with an F when “Phillipines” starts with “Ph.”
Maybe we should converse in one of the languages you’re fluent in, since English obviously isn’t one of them.
Jonny Boy
3 Nov 2007 @ 11:36 pm
Hostile Witness was just making a point, asian men do look all the same and you can describe all of them with a few descriptions: slanty eyed, black haired, and short. That covers all asian men in general, they fit all 3 descriptions. You really can’t tell them apart until you ask them their names which are like 2 pages long and who really cares anyway? Just cook and deliver my chinese food, I could care less who you are.
As far as personality, they fit into two groups they are either nerdy losers that get picked on at school or the group that desperately tries to be “different” by acting “gangsta” or dying their hair crazy colors and such. And they do all this because they KNOW they all look the same so they try to stand out somehow. So really it all goes back to Hostile’s point ASIAN MEN ARE ALL THE SAME.
At my school you always see asian girls dating white guys, but never asian males with white girls. And why do you think this is? It’s cause asian men are just boring looking and boring to even interact with, they hardly even speak english sometimes! How sexy is it when some asian guy comes up to a girl and says “Hi, I like you, dating me yes?” With that heavy asian accent? Just imagine that, what a turn off! It makes me laugh whenever they try to speak english! But yet a French, Italian, Irish or any european heavy accent is SUPER sexy, and girls of ALL races (even that of asian) just melt at the sound of it. I’ve dated so many gorgeous asian girls and they all say the same thing, asian men are pretty much the same and they’re tired of it.
Can you really deny anything that I had said, I didn’t just MAKE this up, this is society as it exsists. Some of you act as if Hostile is being racist and he’s not, he’s stating a FACT. Just go out to society and see it for yourself, everything I’ve written comes from what I see and experience in life. Now I’ll admit there are some weird girls out there that dig asian guys but maybe it’s because they weren’t raised properly, are fat/ugly and don’t have a choice, or have a low self esteem. But then again we should be glad that those types of girls go to asian men so we don’t have to deal with them! I know there are a lot of asian guys out there reading this and getting pissed off but hey, don’t blame me, blame your god for making you all the same. Sorry but better luck next time!
Genius
4 Nov 2007 @ 3:27 am
1) I haven’t got slanty eyes, though I do have black hair, I am actually tall. You do realise how ignorant you actually are? Asian names are shorter (if you’re talking about Chinese)…
What about – you cook my burgers, fry my chips and clean my toilet? I don’t care who you are either…
2)if nerdy and getting picked on you mean because most Asians (no, some whites are clever too. But you’re obviously not one of them) are clever and you cannot compete with them on an intellectual basis, so you resort to physical intimidation and feel the need for such lower, animalistic behaviour. Homo habilis discovering his opposable thumb says what?
3) Hardly speak English? I hardly think so. I’ve only spoken English for seven years, and I do not have an Asian accent at all. Ironically I came top of my English Literature class…. haha – you can’t even speak your own language. Speak something simplier… emm… Mandarin may be?
4) Please… I have more degrees than you had diapers… do not even attempt to try to patronise me.
Genius
4 Nov 2007 @ 3:29 am
Hostile,
Maybe we should converse in one of the languages you’re fluent in, since English obviously isn’t one of them.
Quite difficult for me really, because I don’t know what other people speak.
I speak:
English
Cantonese
Mandarin
French
German
Latin…
but still learning beginners Spanish :p
Pick one and we shall progress from there.
Genius
Rikus
4 Nov 2007 @ 6:16 am
You should be ashamed of yourselves boasting and arguing like little children! Why can’t you all agree that everyone is equal?! (i would like to hear an answer)
To hot girl… you are a yankee aren’t you
PlayGOD
5 Nov 2007 @ 10:25 am
I guess i had enough of asian female stepping on asian guys like dirt and dissing them
infront of a western guy just for the sole sake of impressing him.
I’ve read tons of article on how asian females are insulting and degrading their guys of their race just to fit in the white community,something typical i expect
from those living in america.
Seems to me that americans are hard up and desperate to fit in the social circle everywhere…
Foolish human beings..
Now please,don’t assume nor pass your final judgement to conclude i’m your typical whinny asian male.
Really,because…
Because i’m not here to plead on behalf of all asian male for a chance that u girls will accept a date with me…or those asian guys.
Perhaps to convince u,i’m not even your typical human being for i have no intrest in dating,sex,relationship or fitting in social circle.
I don’t need any effort to fit in nor do i bother because ppl are attracted to me somehow even though i have a cold personality.
Let’s admit,human relationship has no value in the eyes of satan agree?
It’s fallible.
I’m here not because i want some asian women to give my asian male counterpart a chance to date u but rather,i’m pissed with insults on asian male from u asian ladies.
By insulting the american born asian male in american using “using asian male”,it is an insensitive and indirect insult to a asian guy in singapore and anywhere.
Perhaps what i want to acheive here is to whip up the anger and hatred among the asian males reading this message.
I do envision a day whereby dawn rise an asian politcian who will bring about new reforms to the law.
A law that will forbid and dictate the dating/marriage and interaction between asian male and asian female.
Perhaps such law will be hard to accept but with intense hatred residing within the majority of the asian male who have been unfairly judge and put down by their own asian female
whom the love,i’m sure it will be alot easier.
And on,they will pass this hatred down to their decents,reminding them of how asian females segregate themselve from their fellow race to fit the media sterotype.
why,that’s not all.
When such laws are pass,there will be the minority of asian females who wants to date asian guys but cannot when this laws are being put in place.
This in turn generate hatred towards the majority of the asian female sellout.
Such pleasure to witness fighting everywhere.
I’m sure that’s it’s really sickening to hear asian female dissing asian man and it’s embrassing to see asian man behaving like whinny kids instead of doing something.
So if u wanna do something,spread this message and hopefully,there will be one asian who’s willing to put this law in place.
Since asian ladies love the segregation,then i might as well help em segregate to the very end.
Discrimination…the best punishment would be a mirror effect of one’s action.
That is my defination of justice and it will not change even after majoring in criminal justice.
Pleasure comes when i use ppl as my tools to materialise my idealistic agenda taking place.
U guys must realise that there is nothing special in asian female.
In my school,i happily reject those asian girls who ask me out and i take pleasure in doing so.
I believe lovey dovey is sweet but having the strong intent of revenge pulsing through is heavenly.
Whinny about why the asian ladies are not dating u is pointless for they no longer see them as part of your race.
Hatred is essential to motivate.
LeRonne Washington
8 Nov 2007 @ 9:04 am
I am a black man and I don’t know what all the commotion about beautiful women. No women are beautiful! I luv oriental men, they are beautiful! I luv their tight little asses. Chinese men make the best lovers.
Rikus
9 Nov 2007 @ 3:40 am
LeRonne we are discussing this from a heterosexual’s point of view.
PlayGOD
9 Nov 2007 @ 6:15 am
There’s nothing to discuss.
I hope there will be segregation between asian man and asian women.
I want to see a day where asian man will hold their pride and never mingle with asian women who detest them so much.
There will be a day where i can see asian man having their revenge.
I’m waiting a political uproar.
Tokubi
10 Nov 2007 @ 12:50 pm
If we segregate all the asian men from their women….where are more asian women gonna come from?
Also, there are many tall asian men…like my dad 6′1 and my grandpa 6′3 …and…that one basketball player guy. And I’ve seen asian men with big eyes.
One of my asian girl friends have really big eyes and I’m sure that there’s some asian guy out there with eyes as big as her too.
response to Zhou (earlier comment)
11 Nov 2007 @ 3:59 pm
As i was reading through the top half of these statements i noticed a comment made about Falun Gong (made by Zhou).
The statement made by Zhou about Falun Gong has no bearing to this thread or topic we are discussing…so i would like to clarify the facts.
Firstly, this person ‘Zhou’ needs to understand that the reason why Falun Gong practitioners are letting the world people know about the Chinese Government’s persecution of Falun Gong practitioners is so that they (the chinese communist govt) can stop hurting innocent people who want to be good people.
The statement made by Zhou; “FUCK FALONGON for messing with peoples heads…though u claim ur trying to abolish the communist party in china…ur just a cult thats after peoples money….all u sickfucks dont and wont accomplish anything…..i just feel sorry for the people thats been brainwashed by the sick fucks” is all groundless.
Falun Gong is NOT a CULT! I define a cult being an EVIL practice where all followers detach from society and give all their money and change their names etc. Falun Gong teaches ‘Truth-Compassion-Forbearance’, to be kind to people, to perform their jobs in daily life good and to live normally like everyone else. ALso, Falun Gong does NOT WANT A SINGLE PENNY FROM ANYONE! Why would they want other people’s money when they have got their own? Obviously this person ‘Zhou’ has himself been brainwashed by the CHinese Govt’s propoganda.
Just take a look at the Dalai Lama. His religion is also persecuted by the chinese gov’t and he himself wants people to know that the chinese gov’t is persecuting people who want to be good.
Actually, the Chinese Communist Party (CCP) that is in China at the moment is not actually ‘CHINESE’. The Communist Party is actually something foreign that came from the Soviet Union. Before communism went into CHina, China had the most properous culture and was semi-devine (this is all unanimously aggreed by all historians). When Communism came in, it only took a matter of a few years for the Communists to destroy 5ooo years of culture, temples, beliefs, and chinese way of life (even the writing was changes – hence traditional and simplified chinese characters exist). Since then, the CCP has destroyed the core of chinese culture and through that has given CHinese people a bad image. True chinese culture now exists in Taiwan.
I would like to take this opportunity to mention to ‘ZHOU’ and other’s out there who do not understand Falun Gong… I know many Falun Gong practitioners. They are normal people like you and me. The only difference is that they adhere to the principles of ‘Truth-Compassion and Tolerance’ in daily life. They are good people. They have high moral standards. The reason why Falun Gong practitioners want to let people know about the persecution is so that the CCP can stop hurting innocent people. After all, If Falun Gong can be accepted in all other democratic countries and not in Communist CHina is says a lot about China’s communist policy: they do not allow freedom!
Though this thread does not necessarily fit in to this overall discussion, i hope everyone who reads this finds this helpful and mind-opening.
all the best!
rc
17 Nov 2007 @ 1:12 am
any asian guys here, been to Europe? how were you treated by european girls?
VX
19 Nov 2007 @ 3:11 pm
I’m an asian guy dating a white girl. I’m not hated on by anyone and neither is she, all our friends just see us as a cute couple. I love her and she loves me and we’ve been going out for two years now (phenomenally long for a high school relationship)
I don’t know where you live but in my town in New Jersey there are no bias or harmful stereotyping of asians
Sure there are still asian jokes, everyone should be a good sport about these things, but when it comes down to it nobody really is scared of an asian senior driving around in a car.
And one of the most important things is that your cultural identity is what you live. You’re not a sellout just because you’re an American-born asian like I am who has one foot in one culture and another foot in the other. I lived in China for 3-4 years and 13 years in America. There is no sane socially active person who would force himself to conform to his heritage when the common sense thing to do is to simply be American. And considering how very loose the term “American” is, you can just be an American person who knows more about Asia than your friends.
Genius
22 Nov 2007 @ 5:38 pm
Hostile witness,
“Asian guys are stealing all the white girls! EVERY-
BODY PANIC!” – the picture.
You’re engaging in the logical fallacy of reductio ad absurdum.
Go back to school.
Venom
25 Nov 2007 @ 8:44 pm
Since when are Middle Eastern and Indian/South Asian women (and men) ugly? Lebanese and Persians are gorgeous and many Punjabis and Pakistanis from South Asia are too.
Lin
26 Nov 2007 @ 1:56 am
You people make me laugh; I can’t believe the ignorance here. I was born in China and let me tell you I am far from short. 6′1 or 185 cm for you metric users out there. That is all I got to say, wasting my time here.
Non-Asian Woman's Man
26 Nov 2007 @ 11:25 pm
Well, I myself is Chinese-American and my girlfriend is Persian. We’ve been (happily) together for more than 7 years. I also think that Middle Eastern women (Lebanese, Armenian, and yes even the Aryan Indians!) are most beautiful, also, second is eastern European such as Russian.
We look at these self-loathing far eastern Asian women and they are despicable. They are from the bottom of the food chain and reserved for geeky-feminine paled skinned ‘in-the-closet’ white male. The far eastern women are loud and very very unattractive; and at most times, low class!
Funny, when the ‘angry’ white man and his “bottom of the barrel/$40 dollar item” crosses our way, their knees start to buckle. I say angry because we see it in their eyes because they are incapable of achieving more than what they’ve got.
Non-Asian Woman's Man
28 Nov 2007 @ 1:02 am
>>original post by Stephen Harper
24 Sep 2007 @ 5:15 pm (post 151)
“I’m a white dude and I think you’re totally off. Look around…the only white guys Oriental Asian women seem to find are the ones that no one else wants (read fat, old or ugly). You comment on Middle Eastern/Indian women is the biggest shocker. Middle Eastern & Indian women are THE most beautiful women in the world. Don’t believe me? Just type “most beautiful woman” on google images and see for yourself. You’ll find mainly Middle Eastern or Indian women.
Asian women are too small and flat. I wouldn’t ever date them.”
Likewise – and couldn’t agree more!
kandice
4 Dec 2007 @ 10:35 pm
I stumbled upon this blog while “googling” something entirely different. However, I found it so interesting that I have an uncontrollable, compelling urge to say something… particularly about what luvu_luvunot had to say. Quite frankly, people like him disgust me. This is why:
People here are intelligently discussing race, gender, and beauty [on the most part, in intelligent terms]. Yet, what is the first thing this perverse prick talks about? Not being able to comprehend this crap about “asians being tighter.” For some reason, I have the feeling that this person is really a white girl who is jealous that asian girls are considered exotic in America. She’s jealous that she looks strikingly similar to so many other girls here because the majority of people in this country are white. She’s jealous because she has a thin lip that disappears when she smiles, a nose that looks like a skii slope, and other features that are, most likely, terribly bland. By no means am I saying that all white girls are ugly– I’m just saying that in American, most white girls look so similar simply because there are so many of them. My advice for this unextrodinary looking girl? Move to the Asian country of your choice… there you can stop being jealous because for once you’ll know what it like to be considered exotic… perhaps [if your lucky] someone will even find you attractive.
Additionally, I’m repulsed by luvu_luvunot’s claim that “asian girls are hairy” and “YUCKKY!” Aside from that being terribly rude, that is horribly flawed reasoning. Of the small percentage of asians in this country, this kid
kandice
4 Dec 2007 @ 10:46 pm
[my message sent on accident]
… this kid fools around with ONE asian girl and concludes that all are hairy. Could this oddly bitter and jealous person really be so ignorant to believe that one prson, a case study if I may, is a representative of the asian population in America? Then, this individual says that they went back to the “white queens,” and puts down Zhou for being what he/she considers on “his high horse.” He/she even mocks asian culture by putting the phrase “rich culture” in quotation marks. His/her caustic remark is so bitter.
So, if that idiot happens to read this, I offer him a challenge:
If you are a girl, I guarantee you that I, an asian, am better looking than you. Let’s compare pictures.
If you really are a boy, I guarantee you that I am better looking your current girlfriend [if you actually have the ability to attract other human beings] or your most recent ex.
I really hope that, I’m sorry, asshole reads this. [I probably sound like an arrogant asshole as well... his comments provoked me.]
Tae
8 Dec 2007 @ 3:23 pm
Kandice we need more strong asian females who can speak up like you in this world.
respect
Asian American
11 Dec 2007 @ 11:37 pm
If Asian men are really ugly compare to white men than we should be really proud, because we made very beautiful women.
Without Asian men there will be no Asian women. If white men are all handsome, logically they should produce beautiful women. Why are they all flogging to date Asian women and leave their beauties at home? For those of you who have to put down men from a different race in order to date “their women”, you truly have an inferiority complex. Heal thyself. Love needs no justification or damnation. You don’t have to put others down to raise yourself up. Worse still, if you have to put yourself and your own people down to feel good,you are truly the victim of yourself and the media. You have lost your mind and soul. Be proud of who you are, but no need to put others down; you are only showing how insecure and inferior you are. An advice for those white males who date Asian women and put down Asian men, if you keep on doing what you are doing, in 200 years there won’t be a white person in the audience.
1DA-MAN
13 Dec 2007 @ 1:34 am
Im a filipino boy and i dunno what use are all on about but wher i live its alot of the filipino’s who get the girls around here. I dunno why but just happens. In my area its the filipinos and fobs but in the town next to me its the west europeans like the greeks , italians, bosnians who get them. wierd :s im from australia by the way.
I think its got to do with wher you live and media, the way you dress, act and shit. what one person finds ugly anthoer might find hot which is heaps common here .
Wher im from alot of the white girls say str8 up they only like brown boys like filipnios, pacific islanders coz thats mainly the boys form here and we usually hang round together n den u have the white bois who are left out. but then you go about 100km away and then its the opposite. i kinda feel lucky where i live but sorry for some of my white friends because they getting nothing while if they lived 100km awya they could be getting heaps and heaps.
Alot of my cousins are mixed with evry culture. my mum and dad are probably the only one out of there bros n sistas who are not mixed. Some of them handsome, some of them look like monkeys hahaha.
But the cousins who look like monkeys are funny as and have the personality to make up for it and even sometimes have the better looking girlfreinds.
My boys usually crack racist jokes 2 me but so do i bout them bein a fob or wog or white so its all good.
My girlfriends white/caucasian , Bosnian too be exact. But my last gf was halfcast filo and aussie.
i just came from a holiday in the Philippines and definately proud of being a part of asia . When i was there it shocked me too see how happy everyone was no matter the circumstance how wealthy or poor, single or taken, ugly or handsome, they all knew how to have a good time and have a laugh which made them happy as a whole and i think thats what matters because with that comes girls.
Yeah..No.
16 Dec 2007 @ 8:34 am
um Hostile Witness. i find it really rude and offensive what you said about Indian people. i’m indian. and i’m not being conceited or anything here,but me and my sisters, even my mom are FAR “incredibly ugly” and i dont just say this because its what i think personally, but because of what comments people have made. you are honestly so ignorant if you think indian AND middle eastern women are ugly. you must be OUT of your mind actually. are you not aware of how many times an indian woman has won the title “miss world” or “miss universe” india holds the highest number of miss world winners (tied with Venezuela). it is your own misfortune that you have been in places where the indian women you see are ‘incredibly’ ugly. and im sorry, but middle eastern women are too damn pretty. they’re like..white people, only more interesting. i’m sorry, some white guys are okay hot, but the girls are just too boring. they’re all the same. especially blondes its like okay get over it. you’re blonde. wow, so is everyone else. but whatever im not hating or anything. but middle eastern women. are. damn beautiful.
i myself find me to be more attracted to mixed people. but there are hot indian guys out there. prolly not in india. but try england. or canada. they ARE hot. and tehy’re not ALL dark. the ones from NORTH india! i’m from north india, and i am NOT dark.
but whatever, i guess everyone has their own views. different ideas of beauty vary from different people. but its still quite offensive to say something as outrageous as “incredibly” ugly. i mean i can barely bring myself to call ANYONE ugly no matter what.
its sad tho. because indian and middle eastern women are truly beautiful. but i guess with whatever view you already have on them, you’ll never see that..
sean
16 Dec 2007 @ 5:05 pm
here in california white girls are nearly hysterical about wm/af dating. get a life ladies!!!!!!!! when white girls are faced with asian competition-they usually lose. i hear its the same on the east coast. poor fat white girls getting kicked to the curb! lol!!! its the future…………..
Nicola
17 Dec 2007 @ 1:49 pm
Although this post is USELESS, I find it quite entertaining. Truth be said, I agree with the poster of this blog and anyone else who is convinced that Asian men are less attractive than Asian women for the sole reason that that’s my taste – and my taste is set on girls because I am homosexual, thus making men of all ethnicities less attractive to me. Yet, are we here to speak out our opinions? I read some posts saying things like “opinions do not matter, so state the fact”. But that is wrong, where are all the facts? There’s none that can be brought for sure, except for the “statistics” that Asian men have smaller penises. This is all about opinions. Nobody holds the truth because beauty is not a science. It’s relative.
Why is it that we must use stereotypes to prove our arguments? My father is Asian, and my mother is Germanic, and I’m very proud to be their daughter because they are beautiful people inside and out. On my father’s side, you’ll be wrong to say that the men are unattractive, because they aren’t. Most of the second-generation men in my family are tall, athletic and good-looking. Of course, I have a few cousins who aren’t as attractive, more frail and geekier, but isn’t that the case for everybody’s family? Just to say, I have attractive and less attractive white cousins as well. It’s just normal. And as for the girls, my father’s sister had 3 daughters and they all are amazingly gorgeous. But then again, I have an overweight, less feminine cousin from the same side of the family.
Being half-Asian and half-white, it hurts me to hear all those things. Even around my friends, opinions are shared. Some of my Asian friends consider me white, because of my mentality (I’ve been raised in Quebec and therefore I think like a Quebecer; not like my father nor like my mother). And yet my white friends consider me Asian, because I am not totally white, right? I honestly do not care what people call me, and I do not take pride in being Asian or white, because in the end, everyone is proud of their own “race” (I hate using that term because we are of the human race, not Asian race, or Persian race, or white race, etc. – ethnicity is a more proper term, I believe), and that’s how arguments start. Arguments like these never end, because one’s opinions will never make the unanimity.
Janet
21 Dec 2007 @ 3:51 pm
First of all let me start by saying …………this is such BS! I am an attractive asian gal and trust me, none of my girl friends nor I think white men are more attractive than asian men!!!! LOL! The fact is there are so many White guys hitting on us, it really gets tiring after awhile. I am sorry but I am just not interested in the pasty, hairy, pot bellied look that most white guys have and than once they turn 30, they start looking like 50 and start going bald…………no hunny, that is not for me. MOST asian women who date white guys are what my gal friends and I call (bottom dwellers!!!). They date white guys because the hot asian guy they might want, certainly dont want them!!! And also, there are more white guys than asians in this country so obviously if there are 15 white guys for every asian guy, the pool of asian men to chose from is limited. But we are DEFINITELY NOT INTERESTED IN WHITE GUYS. I prefer Asian and to some extent latin men because they resemble asian men at times with the darker features. Also the american media plays a huge role in how asian men are perceived. There is so much blatant racist stereotypes that hollywood and american advertisers have of Asian men. And when the public sees these negative images of Asian men over and over again on TV, there is no doubt it influences how people think. If you don’t think it’s true, just ask any prominent psychologist. For example if we just predominantly see asian men as characters like Long Duk dong and Willam Hung (nerdy weak figures), which by the way got so much play from the american media, what do you think a young child growing up who may have no clue of Asian men might think???????? It’s no different than the way the media used to depict black men, always portraying them as drug addicts or ignorant or lazy. But lately because of all the black organizations protest and boycotts of these type of racist stereotypes, you really dont see much anymore. And there is a much more positive, diverse and fair representation of blacks in movies and the media in general. But not so with Asian American men. They are almost always depicted as weak, nerdy figures who can’t speak english well and never as an American who is a strong and masculine figure. TAlk about racist stereotype. That would be like just showing WHITE MEN ONLY as child molesters or beer guzzlin, fat bellied, balding wife beaters. And just what type of perception do you think we would have of white men if most of the images we saw were just this type of blatant racist stereotypes of white guys????? But instead white guys are usually the hero at the end of the movie who saves the day and American white male movie producers, directors and writers are usually the ones making the movies!!!!
mick
21 Dec 2007 @ 6:49 pm
janet is either a white chick or an asian guy! i can see right through the jealousy!!!!!
*sigh*
23 Dec 2007 @ 4:16 am
ha, stumbled across this website again…
firstly, i should point out that not ALL asian girls are ‘… tiny and ugly with flat chests and faces…’! who the HELL came up with that! it is the most weakest put down ever. people see asians the way they want to. (im chinese by the way). it’s like anorexia. you see urself fat so you keep on dieting till ur merely skin and bone. u think asians are ugly so u find urself on this website posting stupid put downs about them. ha.
oh yes, i should also point out that westernisation has increased the vulnerability and sensitivity of many asians (if that makes sense). And as you can already tell, i dont giv a shit if you dont like asians. its ur opinion and im not going to hang myself for thinking that some stranger thinks im ugly. *smirk*
oh and by the way ‘hotgirl’, no wonder ur ex-bf left u for an ‘unsuperior’ race. ur ‘hotness’ must of been ‘too’ much for him. *smirks again*
dev
24 Dec 2007 @ 11:05 am
all the white guys here trying to show off are those same white guys who need go to asia to find asian girls or they date asian girls who are ugly to the asian standards so they prefer to go with white guys? and posting not good looking asian guys photos here doesn’t really prove much but shows your stupidity and guess what i am white? so are you gonna call me jealous? lol
Chico
26 Dec 2007 @ 10:01 am
Hi all,
First of all, a merry christmas to everyone!
Im a black guy from Holland and i see more and more asian chicks dating white guys.
This is how it is:
Black guys white chicks.
White guys asian chicks.
Greetz.
johnny
29 Dec 2007 @ 10:26 pm
lotta jealous white chicks up in this peice……..
Matt
3 Jan 2008 @ 1:38 pm
It’s really like this. The asian girls who like white guys are either 1)really prepped out and have too many white girlfriends 2) Perhaps had a really good experience (probably sexually) with a white man or had a really bad one with an asian man 3) Some white guys (just as any other ethnicities) are just plain good looking so all you nerdy asian guys who are UGLY to all standards get mad at that one asian girl who’s your fantasy going out with a GOOD looking white guy need to stop tripping. Just because she goes out with a white guy who’s probably good looking to all standards doesnt mean she only likes white guys. I’m sure if a good looking asian guy came around she would go for him. This really is just a case of those asian guys seeing his crush go out with a white guy. Despite the fact perhaps she is out of his league and the white guy is in her league. I know plenty of gorgeous asian girls who stick to asian men. But the difference between those asian men and the whining ones is that well, they’re simply got more game and/or are alot better looking.
Than of course there is the sex factor and the stereotypes of asian and white men. I’ll admit the fact that MOST asian men are smaller than whites. However there are plenty of FULL blooded asians that are up there with whites. Just as there are plenty of FULL blooded caucasians who are cursed with a smaller package. I myself am full asian but I don’t care if that hot asian girl is going out with a black or white. You know why? Because I know there are plenty of gorgeous asian girls I can get with. All these complaining asian guys are those skinny shy ugly nerds who have no game. Face it, even IF there was no way an asian girl can be with someone outside her ethnicity, SHE STILL would not be with you. She’d be with that great looking asian guy.
liz
13 Jan 2008 @ 11:47 pm
It’s a shame that you’re too scared to post this under your real name, Paul, and instead use the pseudonym “Hostile Witness.” I almost had a sliver of respect for you, but it turns out you’re just another whiny wimp. Next time try putting up some of those handsome photos of yourself, instead of pulling random candid photos of others from the Internet. I must say, I think you look particularly sexy in this one: http://www.flickr.com/photos/paulepps/192361082/.
Kisses,
Lizzy
Hostile Witness
14 Jan 2008 @ 9:31 am
Hi Lizzy –
Paul is not what you’d call “handsome” in a classical sense, but he looks pretty good for his age.
As for me, people say I look like a rodeo rider.
HW
New Yorker
14 Jan 2008 @ 1:51 pm
Oh yes, according to the author of this blog ALL Asian women cannot help but lust after the super masculine–ultra beautiful white man–so much that they would rather be with him than other Asian men. What a bunch of horse shit. Spare us with your 19th century colonist/slave master self aggrandizement. Stop blowing your own horn by thinking your such hot shit. I’m a white dude and I’ve dated Asian women before and I’ll tell you this…most of the Asian women dating white guys in the major cities are NOT that attractive! There average, to below average looking. The Hottest, most drop dead gorgeous Asian women always, about 99% of the time date other Asian men! It’s a fact. Open your eyes and you’ll see. Quantity doesn’t equal quality. Now, put that in your pipe and smoke it.
ViolentAJ
16 Jan 2008 @ 3:16 pm
Asian girls like every race except for Blacks. I have been to Japan, and j-girls are an easy lay for foreigners, unless you are Black.
Jennifer
16 Jan 2008 @ 8:06 pm
im a chinese girl from HK raised in Australia and i would like to say what a load of BS!
First of all Asian, Indian and middle eastern men are not ugly – just like any race they have a mix of the good the bad and the ugly, and many are more attractive than the so called white guy.
Secondly like janet said most asian girls that date white guys are bottomdwellers cos they can’t score the fine asian boys!
Most white guys that date Asian girls are ugly and can’t score – and many of those Asian girls just date them for a free ride – money visa whatever and this is true! Asian girls are awesome and smart many just screw over white guys and get what they want – give them what they need and get what they want in return – but thet are too stupid to see that they are getting soooo screwed over…As i notice around me half the Asian girls can’t even speak english so you know they didnt form a relationship based on verbal communication so clearly it based on services from both parties> White men – who date only asians have a sick fetish and cant score any other race so they think they are so clever – going and getting these exotic women who are just using them for a ticket, i have no problem with my Asian sistas cos at the end of the day they are both just exploiting and using each other:
Please note when you look around its always the repulsive white guys they go for – physically and here the hot Asian girls always date other Asians, indians or middle easterns.
So let people do what they want its all good at the end of the day if it works for them, no need to hate on it its just funny
Thedrip
21 Jan 2008 @ 12:45 am
Asian + German = hottest. My girlfriend is Asian and European, she is the most beautiful creature to ever walk the Earth, inside and out.
OneRace
21 Jan 2008 @ 6:33 am
Hi, I hit upon this site just today and am amazed at the bile and bitterness of the races on this site. I have had my issues with other races being a black guy in the UK. I am however of the opinion that black white brown and “yellow” if I can say that without insulting anyone is ok. My point being that those green people get on my nerves. They steal our jobs and our women and cause all sorts of trouble. sounds idiotic. It is, but that is how you lot sound about the races.
In that I believe that Genius is correct to a point. China IS going to be the super power of the 21st century, however what he failed to tell you that this is achieved because China is making friends with the only continent with the most natural resources and most put upon people, the Africans. They are both at fault. African nations are falling over their greedy selves grabbing very fat money contracts so that the Chinese can sucker them with suspect deals that the corrupt African leaders turn a blind eye too, over diamonds, coal, silver, gold, oil. The only difference is the Chinese don’t set any conditions like the west and quite frankly don’t sell the Africans down the river by blatantly charging in and taking over every oil field and gold and diamond mine they can get their greedy sneaky hands on. At the least they are both as bad, at the most the Chinese are more desperate and willing to pay top dollar.
Another thing is I don’t really care if Japanese girls dont like black guys, judging by films like “Audition” and “Itchy the Killer”, I don’t want any part of them!I don’t want to be stuck in a sack eating some one elses sick, yuck.
Random Dude
21 Jan 2008 @ 5:30 pm
What the hell is this drivel? You need to get with the times and stop living in your hot little bubble of antiquated Oriental fantasies.
People like you are sad. Seriously. When you actually get a life, you will see Asian guys with girls of all backgrounds and nationalities. And believe me, Asian guys are the most diversified group of people I’ve met. Hell, I’ve seen them rap, skateboard, game, dance, … But listing more hobbies is irrelevant, because after all, apparently any Asian that doesn’t study 24/7 is not an Asian.
TheVoiceOfReason
24 Jan 2008 @ 7:19 pm
Race is irrelevant. Only stupid people let their race/nationality define what kind of person they are or their actions. People who engage in interracial relationships but have problems with other races doing the same thing are hypocrites.
Kane
26 Jan 2008 @ 7:12 am
I got this theory. I’m gonna go by colour here just for ease, I’m not a racist (least I don’t think I am)….
Black people have superior physical attributes, Yellow people, superior intellect and white people got a mix of both. I think that nature wants us all to mix up and become hybrids with the best of all the races built into one “super race”!
In the future, Alienz gonna invade this planet to mine the Tiberium here (AKA Tiberium Wars) but because we’ll all be a mixed up by then, we will be better prepared to survive!
Remember it’s always survival of the entire human species that counts! Nature finds a way!
ashley
27 Jan 2008 @ 12:03 am
i think middle eastern man are super hot, but there is no way in hell i will date an asian guy.
ashley
27 Jan 2008 @ 12:04 am
i think middle eastern men are super hot, but there is no way in hell i will date an asian guy.
ashley
27 Jan 2008 @ 12:09 am
ok i take it back i am sorry, after reading this page you might be right, we are all equal and we must respect others..but i still want to date a middle eastern guy i think they are hot.
Rikus
27 Jan 2008 @ 2:03 pm
Following the rules of attraction your own race in most cases will seem more attractive. I mean that in this case no one can say that a specific race is ugly. You simply aren’t attracted to them just like dogs aren’t attracted to wolfs… in most cases….
kansai
28 Jan 2008 @ 12:43 am
to: ViolentAJ who said that, he has been to Japan and that J-girls are easy for foreign guys.
well, i live in Japan and i can tell you from personal experiences and many observations that western girls are easy lays for Japanese guys, here in Japan.
art
28 Jan 2008 @ 10:01 pm
gandhi is not asian uhhh the last time i checked India is in Asia but nice try ‘hosile witness’ and how does a rodeo rider look like? Lol people who claim they are hot or good looking on the web are just to pathetic.
ryan
28 Jan 2008 @ 10:20 pm
I’m a white guy who has dated most US born backgrounds (white, black, Latina, Native American, Southeast Asian, East Asian, Indian ,Jewish, Middle Eastern, hapa) as well as a decent amount of foreign born backgrounds (Europe; German, English, Italian, French – South America; Peru, Mexico, Brazilian, Chilean – Asia; Japanese, Chinese, Indian – Africa; Moroccan) and in all honestly Asian American (US raised) girls are the best I’ve ever come across. I know that generalizing is not good but most Asian American women are very sexual and at the same time can have an interesting, in depth conversation. They are caring and supportive but also kick ass in their own right and usually do very well on their own in regards to their career. I thank Asian parents for being such a stickler in education…”you got an A-, why not an A? You got into UCLA, what about Berkeley?” The result of this is two fold; 1. A girl who is ready to explode behind closed doors with someone she likes (similar to a catholic school girl raised in a strict environment) and 2. A girl that even if she is gorgeous still has a brain and her own opinions (contrast this to a blonde girl I dated that asked me if dragons really breathed fire and what kind of dinosaurs humans used to eat).
TouchofInk
29 Jan 2008 @ 3:08 pm
Wow… This topic is Gold. Extreme Gold.
I guess I’ll add my two cents to it though.
My background is Asian American. Honestly speaking it’s very true. I do lots of traveling and plenty of White men are with Asian women. I don’t have a lot of Asian friends to be honest though, but most Asian women I’ve talked to have either been interested in me or have dated me. But, I’m pretty white washed.
There’s a lot about Asian American culture that lacks. It just lacks. Asians are afraid to step outside of their genre. Mostly by parents. And who wouldn’t? It’s a good genre. People stereotype us as Smart, Harmless, Hardworking, Dedicated. Some more ignorant stereotypes is that we’re all Kung Fu Masters and that our Penises are short.
-Shrugs- The penis thing I don’t think I would even fight against to be honest. Not that it’s a pointless debate, because there’s a lot of attention towards it, so hey, it must be important to someone.
There was an article that I really enjoyed. That white men’s Genes have extremely more variation than asian men’s. Which is true. Even to hair color and eye color and personality traits.
Asian men are typically going to be close to the same height of their gene pool. I’m 5′ 9″ which is odd for most Asians. And I also ended up putting a lot of muscle and body mass as a child, I spent a lot of time wrestling and boxing (no martial arts).
Because of this lack of variation, there are probably few asian men who go outside the bounds of their physical stature. But whereas many asian men will not vary. There will be VERY small white men, and VERY large white men.
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I am pretty unbiased, which leads me to seem fairly femenine. I don’t take insults… Seriously. And I do try to look at things from other people’s points of views. I stand up to bullies, but I’ll understand why they bully. Some girls will think it’s attractive how I’ll defend others or defend myself. But later will think I’m weak for helping offensive or derogatory people.
Most of the women I’ve dated were Caucasian girls. In fact, in my life I’ve only been with three Asian women. And honestly speaking, I think they were kind of crazy. In fact… I’m pretty sure they were.
Caucasian girls like my hair, they enjoy my attitude in living life. In taking things without bias. I have a slight retardation that sort of makes it difficult for me to be attracted to people based on their looks. It’s actually really annoying, because it’s hard for me to relate to many other men.
However, a lot of these Caucasian girls were looking for Asian men to begin with. There are a bunch of girls that really Love attractive Asian men. However. A LOT of asian men I’ve seen are… Well
Really fugly.
They don’t work out. They don’t take care of their bodies. They dress in depressed clothing. They don’t care about themselves. Most of them really DO look stereotypical. And at the same time. The asian men I’ve seen wearing tight collared shirts and hair short in spikes. They look too much like they’re trying to be white.
Both of these are really… Well.. Bad.
I like lots of different looks. I like Business looks, I like Gothic Victorian. A lot of times though I wear whatever I went to sleep in though (pair of joggers and a tanktop).
I think in the end, All women want is someone special. Someone different. Someone whose not a wimp. And they can only make these choices on that based on what they perceive. And that’s not just women. That’s everyone.
You could say. Men want someone special, different, a girl whose strong. And can only make these choices based on what they perceive.
White men are good at PROVING that they are these things. They have attitudes that are loud, and defensive egos. They all atest that they are “different” from others. Regardless that they’re all pretty much the same.
They’re human. We’re all human.
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I noticed a lot of asian people take offense to this post from Hostile Witness.
But he/she is just calling it how it is.
Lots of asian men don’t care about how they look. Lots of them are extremely boring. The ones who try not to be boring (see asian “Gangstas” -shudders-) come off as copies of otherwise superior caucasian males.
The parenting isn’t just that it’s focused on academics. The parenting teaches us not to think about who we really are. What we really want. We’re taught from an early age to put others before ourselves. And whilst this seems very “honorable”, it is also very bad for creating an “Identity”
Part of identity is that a person is moving towards the goals that they set out for themselves. And that, is something most asians never receive. Making them machine like and dull. Even though there are many, extremely good asian artists. Very few asians can completely make themselves impassioned. Very few asians can be in touch with who they are inside. They hide it all behind an aegis of “Responsibility” and “Honor”. To “Serving one’s Parents”
Instead. Asian men, and those who defend Asian men should look at Hostile Witnesses post as a marker.
You can argue with people or you can prove them wrong.
If you’re already being yourself, you have nothing to worry about. Your life is complete regardless of whether people acknowledge it or not.
But if you aren’t doing that. If you’re not attracting women. If you’re not doing things for yourself and adding more good things to our stereotype. (Don’t fight the stereotype, just add more good things to it. We’ve got a really good thing going for us so far, we just need to add more things) Then do ‘yourself’ a favor.
Asian men can look good. Take care of yourself. Eat more proteins, work out. Take care of your skin. STOP SQUINTING. LoL. I know it’s a big joke against asians squinting, but let’s be honest. If we just open our eyes a little more, than our eyes actually seem extremely exotic by most women’s standards. Instead of typically retarded asian who can’t open his eyes.
There are plenty of ugly white men, that JUST TAKE CARE of themselves. And they end up looking good too.
If you read through Asian History, there are never many debates in our history. A difference in belief was solved with Results. Not words. There’s no way to prove that “Asian men can be handsome” or “Asian men can’t get girls” except proving it.
Don’t complain about it. Don’t whine about it. OP (Hostile Witness) is just saying what he/she SEES, and it’s NOT ridiculous. Instead, you should all be silently thanking him/her for showing us where we stand in society from the most unbiased and opinionated source.
Where else you going to get that? CNN? AsianAvenue.com? This is the truth guys. The truth isn’t that Asian men are ugly. But that’s the stereotype you’ve got to fight.
ryan
30 Jan 2008 @ 12:45 pm
I agree with TouchofInk 100% and actually just came back to this site to express these sentiments. My best friend is Korean, born in Korea, raised in K-Town and Orange County and before I met him in college did not have any friends that were not Asian, so he is definitely proud of being Asian and is not white washed However, he pulls more ass than most that I know, White and Asian girls. Why? Because he is a good looking, self-confident dude. He lifts weights, doesn’t have the typical spiky haircut and dresses in nice threads. He also drives a truck and not a lowered import (stereotyping I know). TouchofInk is 100% right. In my third party observation (third party because I’m outside the culture), Asian girls like the white guys because of their individuality and if an Asian guy expresses this (as my buddy does) he will have no problem getting girls. Heck, if I dressed like a stereotypical white boy in khaki pants, and polo and drove some bland car no Asian or any other chick would talk to me either.
shannon
31 Jan 2008 @ 11:05 pm
funny how this epps guys claims he is 6′1 and 160 thats a skinny ass and there he is making fun that asian guys are short he is one of those skinny nerd guys that had white girls reject him so now he found one of those asian girls that no asian guy would really want and he thinks they are hot shot couple and yet despite all of bragging he wont prove his claims and post a photo of himself and his girly he just puts on some asian guys in comedies photos keep on living in denial dude
marcus
4 Feb 2008 @ 5:42 am
Intro:
Okay I stumbled on this thread and had to speak. It’s funny how we can all make interpretations of how and why we see most couples together. I’m asian and grew up in the suburbs. My best friend is filipino but other than that all of our other friends are white or close to it. We got 2 italians, white & ecuadorian, a white & asian, and so on. We all go out every weekend and we are pretty much always the best looking group. I’m not kidding I swear we sound like girls sometimes the way we’ll look at a girl and say she’s disgusting. I mean girls go up to us, and we never buy girls drinks. I have to say a good amount of us has done some acting.
There are different strokes for different folks. My best friend (filipino) loves Chinese girls. But the thing is he’s sort of socially awkward and has trouble not gazing at women’s breast. I have another friend who’s italian and girls really love him who dated this Korean girl tall 5′9.” He broke up with her after 4-5mo. My other friend who’s half white half asian, is really good looking, he doesn’t like asian girls at all, just blondes. And another good looking friend also thinks asian girls are ugly. For me personally I think after dating white girls and hanging out with latinas that I love…Brazilians. The tan ones with olive skin, blond hair, green eyes, and a booty. They want guys with color and actually come to think of it, we’re all tan! Any guy with any taste would love that. They are the most fun, and interesting to talk to, but they don’t care for pasty white guys. I’m actually hanging out with a group of 5 girls that came from Brazil with cute accents, perfect 10s. Anyways People say asian guys are boring? What about asian girls? If you have the luxury of being with beautiful girls most of them happen to not be asian, black or indian. Hence, asians are easy to pick up, because they rarely get hit on in the first place. I could tell you about guys dating asian girls that could be categorized as desperate looking. Now I’m not dissing asian girls I have met 1 asian girl and she’s a sweetheart, very cute, super bubbly but she’s just not my preference. Average looking asians will date average looking white guys. Same goes with average looking asian guys. I’ve seen some really plain couples, but oh well seems to happen more with girls who get….lame guys.
Anyways my advice if your like me is to just not settle for anything less than perfection. Asian guys can get any race they want, and not just that they can get hot ones. I’m so shy but I’ve got the greatest friends who hype me up and who are so smooth and confident I don’t get shy at all. You can’t be a lemming out there. Hot girls don’t want the average and I swear I’ve had some hot girls, and none of them were asian. Half white, half latinas…the best! I had girls visiting 300miles to see me when I happened to be in town. I got the nice and the ghetto girls on me. Shit I’m still in college after 5 years so it’s not my brain. I don’t know what people talk about asian guys not getting girls. Guys care about looks more than girls anyways…I love being asian and different, for whatever reason a lot of white guys try to be asian.
card
4 Feb 2008 @ 5:42 pm
white guys trying to be asians? what the hell are you talking about? i have never seen that before. not in america, anyways.
*sigh*
10 Feb 2008 @ 3:10 am
woah marcus. i should mention that its mainly the players and the bastards that go for girls ONLY becos of their good looks (not to mention other ‘points of interests’). ever heard of ‘getting to know the person properly’?
Yeah, i know that it’s hard not to judge peeple by how they look, but u neva know until uve tried. i hav actually found from walking through shopping centres with my (blond and brunette) frends, that the guys approach me the most (actually im the only who has been approached) for a chat. actually, now that i think about it, that’s probably becos im the only non-desperate looking member of our intimading bunch (apart from the other asians, they’re too shy). oo.
i should also mention that african american males are incredible. Don’t do the Michael Jackson guys, cos ur amazing just the way u r.
sailor
10 Feb 2008 @ 2:58 pm
Think before you act, which will prevent so much jeopardies to be happening in life.
Let a sailor lead you out of the maze.
We have to think outside of the box. The person, who have thought that he or she is better than others; and I know your knowledge is so contained.
Nowadays, what do most girls want?
Money (can buy what they want materialistically! Most inconveniences will be gone.)
Family (always be there and can’t be divorced like a marriage; if you are smart eough, only things can separate parental, brotherhood love in the unit is disease and age.)
Health (accomplish and sharing more in a longer period of time.)
Companionship (which due to marriage for most people to fullfil saturated securities by adding a new member to a family; and hoping they will be there when difficulties do encounter or when needed.)
I generalize that there are three types involvements in companionship to bring happiness.
(1) Physically attracted (appearance)
(2) Mentally attracted (supportive)
(3) Curiously attracted (curiosity)
Physically attracted: is that you see things by appearances, which sexually arouse you.
Mentally attracted: is that your sweetened words have made thousands of orgasms.
Curiously attracted: is that you don’t know what is inside the box and you want to give it a try.) Hmmmmm…………. thinking of that I might get lucky! or ETC.
Can you live a sucessful life without the above? And which of those is more important to you?
I have a bad feeling that a lot of people will check on ” curiously attracted” box.
I don’t have to explain into more details; I know you’ve got the point.
which of those will make a relationship last longer?
Being more visualized on appearances?
want to be supportive?
Or being curious?
People are too easily influenced by advertisements, commercials, TV episodes, Movies and ETC. Most tend not to put in deep thoughts about our daily ocurrences. Everyone know there are million of things that we have to think about in life, those are not that important we perceived has been changing us in the way of thinking and action.
love comes with a lots of optional sidedishes:
(Money) can buy talents, beautiful hookers, or even true love provide to a supportive couples instead of for you. (or keeping you heathier if you know how to make your money worked) haha……..! who said that Money can’t buy love.
(supportive) will not change by time unless something stimulates/affects our brain with imformation that perceive it is right without thinking thoroughly or mishap.
(curiosity) very hard to sustain because you have never had. Tell me! If you opened the box, you saw what was inside that you didn’t like. And after awhile, you were being offered another well-decorated box from the same person; you knew D thing he got already. Then, you said that you didn’t like the box. In fact, it is not that you don’t like the box; what you don’t like is inside the box. Something that has been there and could be impossibly expensive to replace, is very easily to decorate. (what I am trying to tell is that something you tried will no longer ignite a curious feeling; could be mysterious!)
(Appearance) which everyone knows will mostly die down in ages. And then, what you have got left?
Asian pride, and I could be influenced, but nothing can change my originality, which will be always the best to me.
Sincerely,
Sailor,
who has cruised around the world.
ViolentAJ
10 Feb 2008 @ 6:44 pm
I said that japanese girls are easy lays for all NON-BLACK foreigners. Asian girls will give anyone a chance except for Blacks, and in Japan it’s almost impossible not to get laid (unless you are Black, where it is almost impossibile to get laid).
Race is the only thing that matters in life.
Dan Myers
11 Feb 2008 @ 11:29 pm
Hi guys,
I thought a lot of racism in here. In General I know and have dated asian women that cant stand asian guys. This is personal perference. I do sit pon the train from time to time and wonder how did that guy get with that chick, but this once again is all races. I find some asian women attractivebut not all are attractive. Some have the flat nose and no tits and a 12 year old boys arse. Ones to steer clear of.
The truth about penis size.
IT IS A WELL KNOWN FACT THAT ANSELL HAD TO START MAKING smaller condoms for the IDIAN Market. Nothing said about the chinese. My thoughts are that the Average in DICK in china is 5″ – 6″. I think the average in australia is higher.
ARE ASIAN GUYS ATTRACTIVE –
Generally NOT. I have meet some asian guys that have been good looking, but on a whole no i have found they have there own particular smell, and they lack eating ettiquet.
The Asian women I dated actually mentioned to me that she cant stand the slurping and etc.
I have even meet an asian guy who HATES asia, he said im australian see, i cant stand asians. now that was strange.
WHERE AM I GOING WITH THIS. I DONT KNOW
The nicer looking asian girls like Not so much WHITE GUYS, but like guys from different cultures other than asian. Its the cultural difference they want to experience and some eventually fall in love with the culture. SIMPLE.
If i was a women I would not date an asian guy.
Slurping, smelly small dicked, with no sense of humor most of the time.
Although Japanese people are great Guys and Gals.
I think i have it in for the chinese
doomsday4766
20 Feb 2008 @ 11:57 pm
Omg please its lk you tube comments all over again!! first every body is good looking and no one can say white or asian there are only 3 races in the world caucasian … then some other two (i know ima get attacked for that one) any wHay….im not accusing any one but my asian friend says she likes guys with blue/green eyes and typcally “white” males have that then of course i have another friend not asian who is with an asian guy…. so this only leaves us at WTF are we all arguing about …..hostile whitness… well if u see it that way thats fine but please dont generalize im am a hispanic/itallian/asian. and here in america there is no such thing as a pure race anymore so who is “white”? *sigh* all im tryiing to say is that no one race is superior or minor i see beutiful males and females every day of all sorts of races as JazzyChojin 16 Jun 2007 said ” i find asians attractive but i also find so many other women attactive” we all have our traits and hostile whitness im sorry if it seems lk im accusing you and making a big deal but this isnt directed to you but to EVERY BODY no one is ignorant because of a single mistake and no one is below or above anyone we are all equal and luckily, although we still have prejidice ppl were seeing less and less racist ppl, so were making progression
FTW HUMANITY!!
doomsday4766
21 Feb 2008 @ 12:06 am
oh and violent aj you are a doutch plz dont make this into a crazy debate go to my site and confront me there but plz listen before you say there are tons of jappos and blacks asians and blacks every body is with every body nowadays so dont be the hick inbred R-tard or the hitler “arian” superior race. because race dosent matter before maybe it did, but we are living in the 21’st century and we can travel country to country people from al over are mixing and merging i have no idea what “race” you are and if i misunderstood you comment forgive me but seriously nobody likes doutch bags anymore and im sure the “blacks” dont like shit lk that either. so there
FTW NON-DOUTCHES!!
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ViolentAJ
28 Feb 2008 @ 2:41 am
Doomsday, you moron. Japanese hate Blacks and race is very important.
You being itlaian/hispanic should know that (itlaians hate Blacks and hispanics kill us for sport in LA). Asian girls also like those two race but will not touch a Black.
Rebecca
29 Feb 2008 @ 9:31 am
I used to feel the same way as half the sex-racist posters in here…
But frankly, White guys never lived up to their hype. Far from it, in fact.
So, it took a while, but I finally came to my senses! I turned around and have never looked back. Never again, ew!
*sigh*
4 Mar 2008 @ 3:29 am
Hey ViolentAJ, now there’s where you are wrong. Unless ur an asian girl like myself, I have no idea how you would no all this. but obviously ur not, or else u wouldnt be coming out with all this crap. and plz, dont start referring to asian women as ‘objects’ cos that is really insulting. o yeah, and dont start bagging black guys, cos they’re awesome. anyways, men who go to asia just to ‘get laid’ r f***ing perverts, and belong in a prison.
Randy Moss RLZ
5 Mar 2008 @ 8:24 pm
As an American guy, I think the hottest girls are Swedish or South African. As for Asian girls and white guys:
Filipino girls seem the most DESPERATE for white men. This group of asians has to be the most represented group of “Asian girl-white guy”. They seem to be insecure dating asian guys and just like to rub it in, “Hey look what I’ve got!” I think filipino girls are the most curvy and full-figured of the asian subtypes. I like Filipino’s body the best of the asians, but the Japanese have the best skin tone.
Indian girls=tooooooo shy, I could be wrong. The more south the Indian, the more studious she is and focused on getting into medical school. This is a huge turnoff for a guy. This makes alot of American men think she is standoffish and arrogant and too sophisticated to hang out. On the contrary, she really is shy and finding a way to kill time studying and achieve a stable financial life. It’s a sad deal, Indian women are really beautiful but they are wasting away their talent. I’m talking Indian american here, not Indian indian. Moreover, she probably never has held hands with a guy until 21 years of age. Northern indians tend to study less and get more play, not sure why
Chinese girls tend to stick to their Asian groups more. Ting tang ding cung pang ding. I love the sounds, but I love the women more. I just wish I could understand what they are saying, they are really beautiful. I hate the stereotypes they get, because they are nice people to get along with and are very friendly.
Japs are the most loyal to their Japanese men. Their skin tone is sooo beautiful to me. That milky white is irresistible! What I like about Japanese women is they are curious creatures, and will allow a white , black or indian guy into her social life. Group sex is a beautiful thing down there. Japan is an amazing place and such a mystical culture. I’m not sure my parents would let me marry a Japanese though because it’s too exotic.
TrueToHeart
8 Mar 2008 @ 5:44 am
First off I’m an Asian Girl and i admit that i like white guys and i think they are the hottest!
well in general i think white people in general are the best among other races.
sounds kinda racist. sorry but that’s how i see it.
(i think everyone is beautiful in their own ways but some are justprettier. too pretty they stand out)
@Randy Moss RLZ
yea i live in the Philippines. I usually see Filipino Women with White Men. There is one in common. The White is already old and the Filipina is not that aesthetically pleasing.
….sorry to say but i don’t really find filipinos attractive.
Those Attractive filipinos are celebrities and most of them are mixed! and they to have White skin!! which most people in this country wants. whitening here and there.
so maybe they want white for a change.
——–
This article makes me feel insecure like i feel so ugly i wanna kill myself.
I have no idea why i really hate how i look and want to change myself.
I’m 5′2″ , around 115 lbs ish. Chinese. crap. Most Chinese want their spouse to be Chinese too! if not,,at least 50% would do.
well i think Chinese are pretty but so not me.
well whatever.
————
Indian or Middle Eastern men, not really familiar with them but women!! they are pretty, they got gorgeous eyes!
not Chinese eyes!! XD
so yeah..peace.
TrueToHeart(again)
8 Mar 2008 @ 5:54 am
pardon for the grammatical errors.
——
When it comes to attitude Filipinos are really good and kind, that’s what i like about them..
when it comes to White..well what i see in news and stuff they tend to be the one who are the mean types .
!!!! and i believe money has something to do with how someone looks to someone. and how they act.
Core Countries are where White People live!
They have money! they can beautify themselves.
In Asia, most countries are periphery.
so maybe it’s about the money too.
I’ve seen one desription of a asian girl on some dating website
she said something like, she wants to marry a white guy so that…someone will help her get put of poverty.
—-
i’m kinda running out of the topic..
ok ’til here..
Sabadaba
8 Mar 2008 @ 11:21 am
In response to this statement:My wife’s cousin, also an Asian girl, agrees with my theory, but adds something I hadn’t thought of: Asian guys are boring, she says, because they’re all the same. They all have the same story, same parents, same college major (engineering or business), same, same, same . . .
>>>how is it possible that this Asian girl believes that only all asian guys are the same and boring, and major in the same courses. Asian girls are equally as boring as their male other halves. Society tends to overlook the same boring characteristics in asian women, as present in the men. It’s HUGE double standard.
This asian girl has overlooked the fact that asian women too, have the same story, same parents, same college major (engineering and business) same, same, same… Seems like this asian chick is in denial with the help of so many horny white guys giving them a break in criticism.
ViolentAJ
8 Mar 2008 @ 1:37 pm
TrueToHeart is typical of asian women. She hates Blacks and is a whore for the white man.
Randy Moss, jap girls are attractive, but they will NOT allow a Black inot their lives. They love whites, indians, latinos, arabs, jews, pakis, hmong tribesmen etc. I live in Japan so I know. Japanese people despise Blacks.
In fact, we Blacks are hated all over the world and we will not have peace until we are segregated from all non-Black races.
14 Black Words.
Jason Mulgrew aka Lod J Rocka aka Fantasy Football Legend
8 Mar 2008 @ 7:34 pm
Zhou is a jerk. I don’t agree with anything he wrote. I’d like to punch him.
I would love to have sex with a black woman, but it will never happen. No self-respecting black woman would ever have sex with me.
I’d like to do it with an Asian chick. I think that may happen for me someday.
Jason Mulgrew aka Lord J Rocka aka Fantasy Football Legend
8 Mar 2008 @ 10:20 pm
Now I am drunk and would bone anything, even aa Arabian chick.
cherry
11 Mar 2008 @ 8:04 am
i think asain people all look alike
Random Dude
14 Mar 2008 @ 1:49 pm
Hostile Witness: what is the point of this blog? Someone with the credentials that you claim to have should know better than to voice these offensive comments. You continuously attacked semantics and petty details instead of responding intelligently to sound arguments. When your racist rantings were exposed, you turn a blind eye and patronize your just accuser: (”Genius”, Asian Tool.. And let’s not forget that you deliberately changed pictures to support your own flimsy arguments)
It is a scary thought: knowing that you are teaching your fallacies to a generation of students. Do you think they or their parents will be pleased when they see this blog? Mull it over, Hostile Witness. it is disappointing that a teacher could be so condescending and close-minded.
Benito
14 Mar 2008 @ 3:02 pm
Asian women in my personal opinion, are the dullest and least attractive (save black women). They do not have the hips, the breasts, or the eyes of a desirable woman. They annoy me when they giggle, and I find their language primitive and disgusting. It is difficult for me to see how anyone (other than an Asian) could see the individual beauty in one of them as they tend to look so similar.
Hostile Witness
14 Mar 2008 @ 4:19 pm
Hi Random Dude -
Thanks for your comment.
1. You sound Asian to me — dull and humorless. You must be lots of fun on a date.
2. There are multiple authors on this site. I’m not a teacher. I’m an angry, death-obsessed loner.
BooBoo
15 Mar 2008 @ 12:07 pm
I have no problem with asian girls dating white guys, its just the asian girls like “Truetoheart” I despise, I noticed alot of girls like that are closed minded and ignorant. They often tend to think they are too good for their own kind and act stuck up towards them. Either way I give it another 10 years before this trend will die…
mooc
20 Mar 2008 @ 6:36 pm
Hi,
You’re a moron.
Bye.
mooc
20 Mar 2008 @ 6:43 pm
By the way, maybe I should start a thread on my blog called “People I Think Should Be Dead.” And have you on the list.
Hostile Witness
20 Mar 2008 @ 9:51 pm
Hi Mooc –
You’re posting from a Swarthmore College IP address and this is the best you could come up with? Were you some kind of diversity admit?
Seattle
21 Apr 2008 @ 3:59 pm
I think this entire blog is ridiculous. One race is no better than the other. There are extremes in every culture. I myself am half korean and half european and know i am not the least bit ugly. To “truetoheart”, exclaiming that you think white men are “better” is improper. If you prefer them, and would rather “americanize” yourself just to fit in…so be it. i don’t find white men attractive at all not to say there aren’t some pretty good looking ones out there. i prefer men of color, but to me it is what is inside so i don’t hunt someone based on their looks. right now i am dating a lebanese stud. shame on whoever brought the topic of middle eastern men unattractive. to me he’s my exotic knight. not some washed up stocky frat white wanna be boy or a beer bellied white lazy couch potato. now when i said white here it honestly could be any race..it could be anybody it just depends on the person
HalleOorts
22 Apr 2008 @ 7:25 am
This is actually a very interesting forum. I am an Asian myself living in Norway. My boyfriend is white and my 3 other former bfs are also white. To be completely honest, I don’t find any Asian guys attractive at all. Well except for my cute old dad! I don’t really understand why I don’t find Asian men attractive, probably they just look like me.
To the folks saying that Asian women are marrying white men for economic reasons, I must say you guys are wrong. I am living here in Norway and therefore I meet white guys. It feels like I grew up with them and well..making me feel like I am one of them too. My mom is married to a Norwegian, not because she needs money (since she is already wealthy in her country) but because she found her love. She was a tourist here and they met. About me, I’m not going to marry my bf due to economic stability. I am actually on my third year in pre-med and soon I’ll be rich as heck!;) and of course helping folks too:D
About the looks of Asian women, I think we vary from one another. I am very fair in complexion in comparison with others. I am also skinny but I’m not short and I do have one notorious nice ass. When it comes to sex, people are also different. Some maybe tigers in bed while others are just well..boring?
HostileWTF?
28 Apr 2008 @ 2:25 pm
OMGWTFBBQ y u c4r35 aboot h0st1le l0xer?
Larry
28 Apr 2008 @ 7:42 pm
I like Asian Girls, becasue they often have small pretty feet and I am a white guy with a foot fetish… It is just fine as far as most Asian Girls go, for aWhite man to want to have sex with their feet, but they’d freek if it was their Asian Boyfriends… Asin Girls feel very comfortable having sex with White guys, why I do not know, but it’s sure a good reason to have an Asian girlfriend!!!
One more ass adding his opion
28 Apr 2008 @ 9:09 pm
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
I do agree with you on the whole asian female hotness to asian male uglyness thing. Try going to Poland it’s the same way. Most of the women are walk into a pole hot, while most of the men look like they were beaten in the face with a stick every day until puberty.
And stop hating on the white guys chasing asian chicks. It’s the only chance an whitey like me of German/Irish desent can feel well endowed.
One more ass adding his opion part 2
28 Apr 2008 @ 9:12 pm
Oh about sex. I’ve been with black women that would make you about fall asleep and asians that would make your eyes pop out of your head.
Sexual skill is sexual skill. Some women have it and some don’t.
Manda
5 May 2008 @ 10:17 pm
I like Asian guys MUCH better than white guys. I find white guys to be flabby, pale, hairy, rude, loud, completely clueless about style, and frankly, often rather stupid, while Asian guys – especially Japanese, in my experience – are so often lean, strong, respectful, smart, handsome and styley. Average Japanese snowboarder compared to average white snowboarder = MILES APART in terms of sexiness. Give me the Japanese guy anyday.
JT
13 May 2008 @ 10:23 pm
Hostile Witness-
You’re an amazing troll, and I sincerely respect that. Keep up the good work torturing these poor idiots. And yes, my IP address is out of Alabama. We’re not all backwards and stupid here, especially ones like me who aren’t from Alabama. ; )
As for me, I like asian girls because of their lovely eyes, dark hair and beautiful complexion. No other reason. : )
lol
20 May 2008 @ 7:50 pm
lol, i feel so sorry for this blogger, he likes ASIAN women, lol.
lol
20 May 2008 @ 7:51 pm
i also find it funny how guys are judging the hotness of other guys, LOL!
lol
20 May 2008 @ 7:59 pm
i don’t really understand the motives of the white people here. I think they’re all afraid of asians exceeding them in the world. It’s like they have such issues with asians that they have to make fun of them. It exhibits behavior that essentially relates to primal instinct, such as that of apes and chimps.
lol
20 May 2008 @ 8:02 pm
oh and i don’t think those asian women whom worship white guys are going to make any difference. Having sex with them is nothing to be proud of, they’re used to being sluts, they’re trying to be white women for some psychotic reason. Then being proud of being in a relationship with a slut…lol. Oh and if and when you do have children with them, your children will be half ASIAN, AND POSSIBLY A MALE, LOOOOL! White men (some women), you have GOT to be the dumbest people on the planet.
lol
20 May 2008 @ 8:05 pm
I mean, it’s really sad when an asian woman would rather be with a racist person than a non racist. So I guess there are an ASSLOAD of sad asian women, but the fact that they’re mixing with white people is most likely good for the rest of the asian race.
Johannastown
3 Jun 2008 @ 9:23 am
MIDDLE EASTERN AND INDIAN WOMEN ARE UGLY??!?!?!??! WTF!!?
tamy
9 Jun 2008 @ 10:23 pm
the only asian girls who just prefer white guys are the ones who are ugly in asian standards (dark skinned,chubby) or they have had bad experiences with asian guys in the past. And usually white guys who didn’t have much luck with the white girls have that asian fetish that all asian girls want them and so on, so let them live in their own little world, by watching how this epps guy post pics of some comedy show where the guys are dressed up for the just shows how insecure he is so epps think he is better looking then these asian guys then he can prove it and show what a gift to asian woman he is or just shut it
epps and hostile witness would just wish to look like these guys
tamy
9 Jun 2008 @ 10:29 pm
awww to bad epps doesn’t allow others to post pics, seems like someone is afraid and in denial well whoever wants to see some hot asian guys just click on my name
i am sure the guys on that page have had more action with asian women and whites then the epps and that hostile guy even ever meet.
Hostile Witness
10 Jun 2008 @ 10:05 am
Hi Tamy –
You can’t post photos (what could possibly go wrong?) but here are the links you posted:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/27527103@N03/2567199452/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/27527103@N03/2567199370/
I look a bit like the first guy, but more masculine, like a rodeo rider.
The best I can say for Epps is he looks pretty good for his age.
HW
Tiredashell
10 Jun 2008 @ 11:18 pm
Those guys are hot! Are you sure you don’t want to turn this blog into a hot Asian male dating site? What would Anne Frank say about that? I bet she’d say “OMG WTF? Ur pwnd w00t!” Maybe not…
KSS
12 Jun 2008 @ 10:49 pm
- This is so childish and pointless. Every race has good looking people but the blog owner just doesn’t understand this. How typical – another white American male who is unable to appreciate other cultures and thinks the world revolves around himself. I am sorry. Ignorance and close mindedness is just not acceptable anymore. If you have any sense, i hope you will learn from some of the posts made here by others who understand this.
- For God’s sake man, your wife is asian, believe it or not that means your children are as much asian as white. Think about it and reflect and grow – please don’t give me smart ass childish responses. if you are going to respond please contribute something enlightening and not your usual cop out, half-baked replies that i see you posting.
- Please stop tracking everyones IP address- it’s creepy in a middle-aged-white-male stalker kinda way. In case you can’t satisfy your urge to classify me, let me just tell you up front: I am South Asian and i attended an elite private college on the east coast, and i mean Ivy league elite.
!deal
13 Jun 2008 @ 12:08 pm
maybe the initial attraction is primarily physical…did ANYONE mention PHEREMONES?
maybe it isnt. WOMEN WANT TO BE DESIRED, AND THE STATUS QUO\PRIMARY STEREOTYPE IS THAT WHITE MEN FIND ASIAN WOMEN ATTRACTIVE, THEY WANT US BECAUSE WE EXPRESS AN INTEREST IN THEM.
lets hear real answers, from the asian girls, who do and dont date white/other men…
i think its a combination of the 3, and the ‘novelty’ of new experience…anyway you shake it though, as a white or asian person you either are or arent going to have success with the opposite gender based on your qualities/compatibilies/skill/game not so much based on your race. HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE THERE IN THE WORLD. if you arent getting laid, blame yourself, not another race. in conclusion i would like to posit another question appropriate to the forum…. and its not why are asian girls hooking up with white guys…it is why ARENT more asian guys hooking up with white girls?
GO GET ‘EM! there really are plenty of possible partners for all of us.
tamy
17 Jun 2008 @ 2:16 am
“I look a bit like the first guy, but more masculine, like a rodeo rider.”
that makes no sense so you look asian huh?
Hostile Witness
17 Jun 2008 @ 9:44 am
I meant the physique, know wha’m sayin? Come on, tamy, you know wha’m sayin…
raj
26 Jun 2008 @ 4:45 pm
lol this person who ever wrote this obviously is chatting rubbish. indian woman have won miss world, miss universe etc how many times….. exactly in comparison to asian oriental woman 0. so that fact alone proves that indian woman are hotter. then the comment about guys, asian bollywood actors are one of the most good looking men, in fairness every colour has there good batch of good looking people. me being bengali asian, i have had loads of black girls who like me, white girls, and asian girls that find me attractive…..your theory is incorrect, perhaps you need to travel outside of your local street and actually look at the entire world. i understand chinese guys are not very good looking and have not been blessed with large manlihood, but this isn’t brown asians fault, or arab mens fault so stop trying to bad mouth.
kat xing su
26 Jun 2008 @ 4:48 pm
i think brown asian are hot, so are arabs and also white guys and blacks, chinese guys are ugly and im being honest, i agree with the above they have small penis and are hairy in the wrong places.
with regards to woman i think there are too many beautiful woman in all races.
elo
29 Jun 2008 @ 8:03 am
u guyz r a bunch of sados!
violent aj wat iz it wiv u n black ppl + japs!
benito u need 2 go f*** ur self!
4 all of those who r rascist u r a bunch of slags and Desire u really r jelous wiv asian gals.
man u guyz need 2 get a life.
i’m in da army and i work wiv people from different races! so da soldiers who fight 4 ur nation are frm different backgrounds!
boomshaka
1 Jul 2008 @ 2:18 pm
It’s very sad that a lot of Asian women here are going out with white men or prefer white men over their own race. Of course some do it because it’s true love, but unfortunately this is not always the case. This is the reason why you see many Asian women with ugly/old white men because they will say “yes” to the first white guy that asks them out. Again I’m saying this is not always the case, but you can find a lot of cases like this.
I am telling you this from my own observation, I have a lot of close Asian girl friends in college and I can tell you about 80% of them want to date a white guy or already is. I asked them why is this, and all of them said pretty much the same thing. They said because white guys are more masculine than Asian guys and white guys means more power. This obviously means that these girls want go out with a white guys because for more power and class. It sad that
boomshaka
1 Jul 2008 @ 2:21 pm
… they put down their own race like that. And don’t you guys get the wrong idea, I am not white, I am a Bengali male myself. I was curious about this asian/white thingy, so I decided to interview some of these asian girl friends I have lol.
Also I can tell you that when these Asian women come to America or grow up here, they automatically fall in love with the society here, so the only way to fully live in this type of culture and society is go out/marry a white guy so they can be “popular”.
boomshaka
1 Jul 2008 @ 2:27 pm
and btw I live in NYC so when you are walking around the city, you will notice ALOT of good looking asian women going out with ugly/fat/old white guys which makes you go wtf. Just today I saw a hot asian milf dressed up and all probably in her 30s holding hands with this white dude who looks at least 60 years old and dressed up like a total bum. It’s ridiculous, he was wearing an AOL 6.0 t-shirt! lmfao
deidre
18 Jul 2008 @ 8:29 am
first off all you negative ppl out there are just so hilarious….what the hell would any of you know about “ASIANS” or asian women to be exact? saying asian women are flat… flat face… flat bodies? like an adolescent boy? well sorry to wake you up but every culture has their full figured women and more lean ones…..I’m ASIAN FROM PHILIPPINES and i can tell you right now im nowhere near looking like an adolescent boy nor are any of the women in my whole CLAN… and FYI Desirae….
“He says Im the funniest, most beautiful, sexiest girl he has ever been with and that I have brought out more sides of him than anyone.” <—- WHAT EVERY GUY SAYS TO HIS CURRENT GIRL duh!!! or maybe that was just cause he didn’t get to experience your out of this world pussy..YET haha and if you think this makes you better than his ex fiance….and all they did was “study” and the SEX WAS TERRIBLE why did he make that ASIAN BORING GIRL WHO IS SO INFERIOR TO YOU HIS FIANCE??? you are so lame to actually believe this and actually post it up all high and proud….
“I agree with Gill…Asian women aren’t particularily attractive…they are flat. They almost look like pre-adolesecent boys.” -Desirae <—-seriously grow up and open your big eyes
“I believe that women with curves are beautiful. Dark tanned skin…large dark or light eyes. Not pale…colorful…exotic,natural.
Middle eastern women are very beautiful. So are white women with their honey hair and fair eyes…Latin women are also beautiful and full of life…music, laughter and opinions. Asian women are non the less attractive. But they are not best.”<—–and um thanks for your one sided oppinion. its good to know what people think they know
deidre
haha
19 Jul 2008 @ 3:08 pm
Above: they’re right, asian women aren’t attractive. They’re realllly hairy down there, their pussies aren’t that great and they look like 10 year olds.
Samantha
24 Jul 2008 @ 4:05 pm
I am a white woman who never thought about dating an asian… no particular reason now we’re having babies and everyone is saying how freaking adorable they’ll be! I can’t wait… but point is my asian bf is definitly more attracted to white girls… why is that?
Chinese Dude
28 Jul 2008 @ 12:25 pm
This is an interesting read ^^
From what I know in my area, people like Asian girls cause white and black girls seem more demanding and have more attitude. That is, however, quickly changing due to thee amount of Korean girls acting black. It is also changing Asian men who want Asian girls to want to act black, cause EVERY Korean person I know listens to hip hop, does popping or some kind or breakdancing. Wears the baggiest clothes ever, and they talk and have the attitude of a black person. As for the other Asians, I guess they are normal? @_@ I dunno.
I guess there are a lot of Asians that are the same, but it doesn’t matter to me. I have an Asian girlfriend and I’m fine with it, heck she used to love white people and the moment she got with me, she’d only ever love asians are half asians from then on x]
britney
28 Jul 2008 @ 7:00 pm
no way asian guys are hot. You think they are ugly cause your not a girl or a gay guy. So, my comment is that asian women are into the money and whatever you guys want to believe they are truely into the green card. I have many asian friends and they can fake it well that they are in love!!!!! They tell me they want a green card no matter who they have to marry!!!!
Mike
29 Jul 2008 @ 9:18 pm
Okay for the record, asian girls are the ugliest women of all races, and the only reason guys like them is because they’re sluts, VERY easy, and because they’re disgusting bodies are so small, they are tight and no matter how small the guy’s dick is, he will get pleasure. It IS true that most asian girls date white men for money and green cards, the evidence is all around us. I have nothing asgainst the asian race, as they are good people and bring a lot of culture, its just those hidious little tramps they call theyre women. And if asian girls are so “hot”, then why the hell do they get the surgery to make theyre eyes like white peoples. They have nasty faces, that look like theyve been smacked with a nine-iron, they’re bodies are flat, anerexic and repulsive. they dress like whores to make themselves feel better about the nastiness they possess. As much as I disslike Arabs, I do have to admit, they’re women are WAY better looking as are Indian women.
Reader
31 Jul 2008 @ 1:10 pm
I live in North America and to tell you the truth i haven’t seen that hot Asian that many have been talking about even though North America is being invaded by Asians -~-. A good looking Asian only comes around once in a blue moon…
Also it is true that Asian women are targeting white men.
Brady D
1 Aug 2008 @ 11:04 am
I do have to agree with Mike on his comment, I made the mistake opf dating an Asian girl for 3 weeks and now I can’t find a single attractive Asian chick. Even she was pretty ugly. Being a white Canadian, I was a vulnerable target for the asian female predator. They all look the same, they are all sluts and they all look as if they fell out of an ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down.
A Chinese Guy
1 Aug 2008 @ 2:44 pm
“Okay for the record, asian girls are the ugliest women of all races”
-Do you have any proof that they are the ugliest in all the races?
“the only reason guys like them is because they’re sluts”
-Does Paris Hilton, Pamela Anderson, Nicole Ritchie, etc. ring anything? By the way, they are all white.
“disgusting bodies are so small, they are tight and no matter how small the guy’s dick is, he will get pleasure”
-So you blame a woman’s size due to her genetic inheritence, which she had no control or say in?
“It IS true that most asian girls date white men for money and green cards, the evidence is all around us”
-Do you have any citeable proof that ‘most’ asian girls date only white men for money, green cards? Where are your statistics? I can easily say ‘most’ white men are racist, stereotypical, hypocritical, pigs that only crave dominance, power, chaos, and bloodlust.
“I have nothing asgainst the asian race, as they are good people and bring a lot of culture, its just those hidious little tramps they call theyre women”
-If you have nothing against the race, then why are you insulting all the women of that race?
“And if asian girls are so “hot”, then why the hell do they get the surgery to make theyre eyes like white peoples”
-Same reason as ‘all’ white women get breast implants
“They have nasty faces, that look like theyve been smacked with a nine-iron, they’re bodies are flat, anerexic and repulsive”
-Do you know who have nasty faces? When the KKK sneer and laugh as they lynch black men, women and children all because of skin color.
Also, have you looked at the white models of America lately?
“they dress like whores to make themselves feel better about the nastiness they possess”
-I’m pretty sure Jessica Alba and Jennifer Lopez dress more like whores than Asian women
“As much as I disslike Arabs I do have to admit, they’re women are WAY better looking as are Indian women”
-Racist much?
I do believe Mike has been dumped by an Asian women. Due to spite and bitterness, he clumped all the stereotypes and negative examples of Asian women portrayed by the media into one to formulate his opinion on all Asian women.
I find it very interesting that there are people here who think that a few bad apples mean that the whole should be condemned.
This might be a good topic for a college paper in the future
Tori
4 Aug 2008 @ 7:00 pm
Eh. I’m a “white” girl who is a relationship with an “asian” guy.
tina
8 Aug 2008 @ 4:03 pm
randomly tumbled across this website through google im an asian girl…but sure in hell can assure you racist fuckers im not a typical chinese girl yous all seem to portray.. fair enough what yous are describing is just stereotypes of asian girls but im not…. i certainly dont date white guys for green cards?…. i live in the uk all my life born and raised so uno not exactly a gold-digger either…i date white guys due to their persona…from where i am from most chinese guys are related to me some way..im not “anorexic” looking either….im all curves..nice bum,nice boobs?…and im definitely not a slut…i respect myself not to sell myself out… bunch of fucking pathetic comments from the lot of yous..
Sam
12 Aug 2008 @ 12:01 pm
there are many reasons..first..the Asian man typically behave like western guys wana wear like them walk like them..they have no origin so the girls go to the original white guy rather than an asian playing funky and acting baggy..haha..also the misconception that white skin means clean..they have cleaner you know..and the cast system in asian countries like india and china etc..poverty too..white guys usually wear better attractive cloths..have a nice nationality..more clubbing more invites..more cash..also taller..and the Asian girls think OH we got something better..8 out of ten cases..usually they get them selves worst than whore abuse just to be with a white guy..they let the guy abuse them MORE than a person can imagine..I m middle easten..very handsome NOT from gulf haha..or india..so i have had an experience where i met an asian goddess looking..she was playing really mean..to me..and i didnt understand why she didnt want to be respected..then i came out to know she had a fling before me with a half paki half belguim guy who only throat fuc*ed her for just being with her ?? she liked every moment and torture just because OH he is a westener but amazing with me i treated her like a queen..she was super mean with me..then i felt its the racial abuse its the feeling of insecurity in these indian asian cultures where they look at west hollywood like GOD..please abuse me..its okay..but with other man i play hard..any ways..i played real hard on her she turned out to be an inner Bitc** i have visited india for my studies and found out..their cast system insecurity looks height matters a lot..any 6 ft white guy playing mean alpha and rich can FUC* THEM kinky style..
i personally find most of the westener girls a quicky girls..giving their body doesent matter for one night..superficial..and the men are same..they might divorce their women cuz they find another girl who can give better oral.. hahaha..values have no place in those countries..and they come to asian countries and spoil it.. I AM proud to be a middle eastern..no one can come to our country and mess like they do in india and asia..and we still cling to our deep culture and respect..in Lebanon we respect women more than any country on earth.. you dont hear that throat fucking issues kinky abuse sex which most asian girls began to like cuz it was forced on them..any ways..now you know why..good for you
shelly
13 Aug 2008 @ 10:47 pm
Well I dont have a problem I am married to an asian man and I am white.
But european decendent lithuianian to be exact.
Respect with family and respect to them. Very big thing for respect to an Asian man more then a white guy.
christi
15 Aug 2008 @ 2:39 am
ok, so i used to date asian boys. and actually, i felt that my parents would be happiest if i ended up with a nice chinese boy.
but here’s the thing – i was born and raised in the US. i played sports, grew tall and strong, traveled all over the world, and have never been afraid to speak my mind. when i did find some asian guy who i was interested in, he usually couldn’t keep my interest for long. for some reason, possibly culture (?) asian american guys are not as tough or manly as white guys. now that is really a gross generality, but the statement tends to be more true than not. i’ve known so many asian-am guys who talk A LOT about how tough they are, like to get in fights, and are so quick to shoot their mouths off and show their “gangsta-ly” attitude. but once you get to know them, they’re just a lot of hot air.
so now, and not cuz “i-date-white-guys,” but cuz we’re more compatible, i married a white boy who’s about as white as they get! and he’s not one that used to fetishize and chase asian girls. amf, i’m the first he’d ever even gotten to know.
asian-am guys have never understood me, and despite the cultural differences, this redneck does.
all y’all offended lil asian boys can just get over it and stop hating on hostile witness and the rest. it’s just an opinion based on personal preference and personality.
(and, btw, i may not have been a classical hottie when i was a teenage, but i think it’s pretty safe to say that i’m not too hard on the eyes now – so for you skeptics – i did NOT end up with “a white guy who can’t tell the difference b/w ugly and cute asians.”)
Rosalie
15 Aug 2008 @ 10:26 pm
Greetings! Okay, so I am a white female in a relationship with a japanese (japanese citizen, he comes to america in the summer) man. To add my own, blatantly racist comment, I would say that WM/AF often seem to be less ‘healthy’ to me. It seems that either the white guy has an asian fetish or the asian woman has a white fetish. Even looking at the comments. The white men in this blog ( HIII!!!!!^^) are talking in sexual-stalker style about asian women, and asian men tend to ( HHIIIIII!!!!!!!!!!^^) be talking more ’sanely’ about the issue presented.
Anyways, the guy I am with says he especially appreciates my ability to be ‘innocent, cute, and timid’ and other white women I know who date asian men say that that is what they like. And that is also what white men who are looking mainly at personality in asian women say is their turn on. I have had experiences with white men in the past, and in general they seem to take advantage of me for having a more submissive attitude. I also believe that the ideal asian guys tend to have a more intelligent sexy feel to them:
http://media.photobucket.com/image/akanishi%20jin/lara1112/Akanishi%20Jin/546jv1.jpg?o=161
while the ‘ideal’ white guy have a stupid, buff-and-blunt look to them:
http://media.photobucket.com/image/hot%20guy/kruedawg/Hot%20Guys/posing2BJosh.jpg?o=23
I tend to go for the sexy intelligent guys o(^-^)o
And besides, japanese phones have special buttons on them just for emoticons, so they are automatically more awesome.
I am not saying that all white guys are jerks and asian guys, because I have met both that are opposites. I am just pointing out what both of their pop cultures present. In america, it is all about rappers who brag about how many women they get. In Asia (generally) there are a bunch of hot guys doing wicked awesome pelvic moves and not bragging about being a player and such.
Thank you for reading! I am sorry of my grammar, as I can see it is sloshing around all over the page -.-
Byebye <3
GEH
22 Aug 2008 @ 7:06 pm
You are so wrong! In my experience in Sydney, Australia, most Asian girls I have seen have been incredibly ugly, just like the guys! However, many Middle-Eastern girls have looked quite good. I am a white guy, and I have no interest in Asian girls. Call me racist, but I’d prefer to stick to my own type and I find it weird to see some Asian girl in a white guy’s arms. Maybe he can’t get anything else?
Harhar
23 Aug 2008 @ 1:12 pm
This crap is funny, because in the end alot of it is crap. To generalize groups of ethnicities with such lame descriptions. For a large part I would have to say that asian woman who only, and I mean only white me have a stereotypical view of asian men. I have no problems with interraccial relationships, but the fact is that the asian man is depicted by the media with such crap that I wouldn’t blame any ethnicity that would stay away from asian men. Blogs like this which just simply bash asian men are full of crap.
“What could be worse than being an Asian woman in Asia and having to surrender your mystical Oriental hotness to Asian men?”
lmao hostile witness your speaking as all asian women are goddesses-
To surrender their hotness to asian men?
its people like you with such a negative perspective on asian men who make them seem so bad.
Next you would say all black men are gonna rob you, get all scared when you see a black guy.
My point is you are following many misconceptions about asian men and women. A person should be judged individually as a person for who they are not how they look like or their background.
Its just so stupid how you depict some ethnicity/sex combinations as beautiful and others and ugly. Your probably ugly as shit and you just got lucky to get a chick that happens to be asian and you think you are all high and mighty. How come with all those depictions of asians, hispanics, and middle eastern people you fail to depict your own ethnicity group? Do you know why, because you probably don’t believe half the shit people say to depict white guys.
For the asian chicks who happen to support his theory, to be honest I don’t think you even know what you want. I think your brains are so stuck on the media that if the channel seven news said that all white guys had a small penis, you would believe it. I don’t blame people for their ignorance, I blame the media and people like hostile witness you would educate those who don’t know better into following these stereotypical ideas.
Get it out of your system! Everyone is different its not fair to characterize people with this bullshit.
Hostile Witness
23 Aug 2008 @ 2:44 pm
Hi HarHar –
Thanks for your comment. Give my regards to Lippy the Lion.
There’s been some speculation in this thread — most of it negative — about what I look like.
Here’s a photo:
A lot of people say I look like Jack Kerouac, the famous author, but I don’t really see it myself.
And here’s what I’d look like if I were Asian:
cjt
24 Aug 2008 @ 5:24 am
yo, i am a full-blooded korean male adopted by an all-white family when i was 5 months old. that bein’ said, asians are some of the most judgemental, racist people i’ve met, and i’m asian! growin’ up i’ve only ever known bein’ “white” and i’m fine with that, i’ve been called a “sell-out” but i don’t give a shit! every time i’ve ever come across an asian, male or female they’ve treated me like shit even when i tried bein’ polite to them! this mentality of mine ain’t because of my family, my mom has raised me to be respectful of all races, so this is my heart-felt opinion. i am nothing like 85-90% of asians in america, i ain’t weak, i ain’t over-studious, though i ain’t dumb, and i’m no model, but i sure as hell ain’t ugly as shit. when i get along with all people no matter what their “race” but asians look at me like i’m a piece a shit, wtf?! i hate bein’ associated with a race that is so pathetic, and any one of you “asian pride” guys can look in the mirrior and know it’s true, i’ve been called a twinkie many times, but i take that as a damn compliment! also, asian women are shit! i’ve been readin’ this stuff and i gotta say all those who say asian women are ugly, gold-digging, sluts are right on the money. as far as i’m concerned you can’t beat white girls and mexican girls, they are the epitome of women, disagree if you like, but that’s just how i feel, especially about mexican girls, lol 2 desirae who sounds hot as hell. like or hate what i say, i needed to get this off my chest, peace.
cjt
24 Aug 2008 @ 5:26 am
also, sorry for my shitty grammar.
Pele
31 Aug 2008 @ 11:17 pm
>.> wtf are u talking about… Asian men are hot as all hell. I think white men are some of the ugliest on the planet. Brad Pitt… wtf…. Have you ever seen Mana of Moi dix Mois? Male, and beautiful enough to pass as female. Which is probably why the author of this thinks only the not as hot males are the only males in asia. Human’s human so do what floats your boat and have fun with the limited amount of time u have with your life
cjt
1 Sep 2008 @ 5:41 am
to pele, (assumin’ ur talkin’ to me) ok i got carried away in my first statement and am sorry. however, i do mean what i say when i talk about bein’ looked down upon by other asians. i have always gotten along with others despite race, white, mexican, black, ect. and have always treated every asian i’ve met (and believe me, it’s been alot) with respect, but have been treated like shit. the only asians i’ve ever gotten along with were all fillipino, i ain’t shittin’ you either. all asians ain’t weak, ugly, ect. and all asian women aren’t gold-diggin’ sluts, i got caught up in my first statement and am not above admittin’ i made an ass outta myself, but i am proud of my ‘white heritage’ and family. still i apologize for my earlier harsh comments and to any asian-american i offended. (which is probably alot) but still i am sorry.
bandr
28 Sep 2008 @ 10:14 am
My wife is Korean-American and I am white. I met her in S. Carolina over a quarter century ago and we are happily together. We have two daughters…one hooked up with a white guy and one hooked up with a Korean-American guy.
Both guys are equally good in our eyes. In other words, their ethnicity is of no consequence.
This is the way is should be. Judge the person for who he or she is…not what he or she is.
Kevoz
1 Oct 2008 @ 3:51 am
Any body on this site who has said Asian women
are ugly have never been to Asia.I am a white dude from London of Irish decent and really just give my ownest opinions.
It is all about percentages, If you ride around
Europe or North America you will see some fine
women. If you ride around Asia you will see
hotties everywhere and I mean everywhere.
Love these women had lots of fun with them they are really nice to be with and look so good when you get their clothes off.and anybody who says anything negative about them I would say is probably jealous.
Asian men do not be angry about this, it is a compliment. People say that Asian men do not
have relationships with other races so much, I
do not blame them, why look else where when
the have women like that.
crispin
14 Oct 2008 @ 7:34 pm
Asian girls do not I like white guys, im white and there are a ton of asian girls where I live, all of whom only date asian guys, anyone who falls for this crap is an idiot
Faeliae
28 Oct 2008 @ 11:02 am
Well, where to start… first of all, I’m Asian. Does this matter? Unfortunately, in this day and age (and especially this blog), I suppose that it does. Oh,and to many of the comment posters, way to stereotype absolutely everything. Nothing saddens me more than when people put down others, whether they’re from the same race or not. Like many people have said before me on this blog, all races (all though there is no gene for “race, per se), have attractive/gorgeous women and men and unattractive as well. What people are attracted to varies. It’s completely absurd and frankly ridiculous and naive to say that “all men of one race like all women of this race!” or vice versa. True, there may be some gerneralizations that are valid to make based on cultural tradtions, such as Asian men dating Asian women because anything else would be considered “dishonorable” or something like that, but it can not be said that a certain race likes another. People vary.
I personally know people that will only date Asian guys because that’s who they’re attracted to, I know people that will only date other races, and I myself normally like white men because, unfortunately, in the US, people say “all Asians look alike..” I think this stereotype and generalization has made me believe it in some way, whether consciously or subconcsiously, and so I do not date Asian men; I don’t want to be walking with my boyfriend and having ignorant people say “is that your brother?” That would be quite awkward indeed. I’m 100% Korean, born there and adopted, in fact, and my boyfriend is 100% German, born and raised for 6 years. I’m not racist, but I’m only attracted to white men. This is my preference, it’s who I’m attracted to, but that doesn’t mean that all Asian women like white men.
Oh, and as far as the people that say “Asians are flat and look like boys,” well thanks. Because it’s people like you that make me feel bad about the way I look, even though I have curves and I don’t look like a guy, but it hurts when people make hasty stereotypes like that. Even though I was a model and everyone reassures me that I don’t look like a boy, it still crosses my mind from time to time, and I always wonder what people see in me.
In general, stop being racist and agree to disagree; some people are more attracted to certain types, even within the same race. White women may prefer blonde-haired men or brown-haired; it all varies based on the person, not on the race.
Hopefully, more thought will be put into life and people will stop being prejudiced and racist, but only in a perfect world.
Have a nice day.
Am
30 Oct 2008 @ 3:37 am
I’m an asian girl from thailand. i like western guy, white guy or prefer men with european descent. It’s just my taste, they looks beautiful in my eyes. I don’t like myself,i just wish i could born to be a white girl in the next life (if it exist). However, ever ethnicity have their own beauty. All is just a personal preference. sorry for my bad english.
ER
16 Nov 2008 @ 2:25 pm
There are a bunch of beautiful people of every races out there. You people are sick thinking one is superior than another. It is just all about personal preferences. Why some prefer german cars over japanese cars. I am not saying dating is like choosing a car, it just goes to show that people believe in what they believe, desire, or in this case attract to what they like. Look matters but in the end it all comes down to the personality and attraction of the two.
Dear Am,
It is really sad to know you wish you were white. I am sure you are beautiful in your own way. Thais have very rich traditional cultures, embrace it. Be proud of it I have met many many caucasians, educated caucasians i am talking about businessman, doctors, professors, engineer, that appreciate thai cultures. Some said they are dying to go there. Some have been there numerous times and wanting to go back. Many saying Thai women are beautiful, people are friendly, and of course the food is incredibly good. They are really interested about other cultures, and that is how i am too.
I was born and raised in Thailand. Moved out here in the states during high school and that’s where i met my boyfriend. Yes a high school sweetheart, and now three years after we are still going strong. We are now in college. He is half british and half Irish. He doesn’t particularly attracted to asians. He will date anyone regardless of their races.
I do not think that asians who date white guys are bottom dwellers. How could you even say that? But if so then millions of white girls are bottom-dwellers because they date white guys, people of their own race. My boyfriend is a hard worker and has a really good heart. He works full time, or even 6 days a week by choice, and still manage to go to school full time earning his BS. We earn everything we want by our hard works and obviously not spoil but we deserve it.
My boyfriend’s sister is blond and pretty and guess what she has been dating an asian guy for over a year now. My boyfriend and his sister’s friends are mostly white. They had dated people of other race before. Nothing seems to be a problem, so why are people so ignorant and presumtuous.
Please excuse my English. I might sound better when i talk since people said i don’t have accent or some say little accent but not so noticeable. So that’s another proof that asians don’t always have thick accent. Get over yourself people . Be proud of who you are and who you have in life. It’s nothing worth talking about really. You know what’s best for you, and sometimes you don’t have to convince of prove it to other people. Prejudgement is not okay, but do those dumb_ucks prevent you from achiving your goal? They are the least of my problem, well as long as they stray away from me.
For those who think asians are ugly, please, if you think you are beautiful, i suppose you are materialistic. Where is your “inner beauty” then? Aren’t you supposed to be miss perfect and not look down upon others. What makes a good person nowadays? The more come out from your mouth, the more stupidity and shallow you appear to me.
Marcus Lee
24 Nov 2008 @ 10:15 am
I’m glad my caucasian friends find it funny to stereotype Asian guys with all the old deregatory comments, anything new?
The sad fact is that caucasian guys generally have some sort of supressed Asian fetish and really can’t deal with caucasian women.
So they generalize why asian guys are one step lower than white guys.
Jody
24 Nov 2008 @ 10:05 pm
I’m white, and I love Asian people. I love the culture. I don’t know much about Asian women (because I’m a straight woman) but the rumor that all Asian men have a small penis is FALSE. I’ve had 3 Asian men. One was only about 5 inches, but the other two were bigger. One was average (probably about 6 inches or so), but the other one had one of the largest I’ve ever seen: 10 1/2 inches long, and about the width of a redbull can. I had to measure it in my disbelief.
I’ve been with men of different races, and I’ve found that Asian men and Caucasian men seem to be the best in bed. Black men tend to be lazy in bed (and no they don’t have larger penises). I do however, believe part of the reason for black men’s laziness in bed is because they have become overconfident after hearing and believing the myth that they have a bigger penis than everyone else and they think big penis = good in bed. That’s just my theory based upon my experiences with men of different races.
In my opinion, white men and asian men are the best both in physical features and in bed. As far as personality, it depends on the person. Perhaps Asian men come off as being shy at first, but once you get to know them they can either turn out to be the sweetest man in the world or the most controlling. It just depends on the individual and on their background I guess. The same as any other ethnicity. That’s my two cents.
I know I’m way off subject, but I just wanted to set some of these people straight. You can’t make generalizations about people based upon race. Everyone is different. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. It’s like they say: “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”.
college guy
26 Nov 2008 @ 5:44 am
hey everyone im 16 i go out with an asian girl and ive never been so happy in my life. a while ago i never would have imagined me bieng with a chinese girl, as personally a chinese person was somebody to make jokes about. but then i came across this girl and she was asian but she was very beautifull and i though it sounds shallow saying i talked to her because of this but at the end of the day it was the best thing i ever did. i just spoke to her as friends to begin with but she was so alike that i cudnt help begin to fall in love eith her. i used to call my friend a ‘chink’ because he resembled one, and it was just a laugh but now my whole perception has changed and i wudnt dare. my gf is a prime example of a gorgeous asian girl, and where others might disagree, she has a brother and he is a good looking guy. he is very popular aswell. her family are from china but she was born locally and has been brought up alongside an english culture, aswell as her brother. she is perfect for me in every way possible and hopefully my words are a good example of how if you just allow yourself to be more open minded you might be pleasently surprised. theres someone out there for everybody despite looks, race, gender, etc. do what you want poeple you only live once fuck what everybody else thinks. your happy there not and thats there problem.
college guy
26 Nov 2008 @ 5:50 am
btw hostile witness thankyou for making this blog ive spent a while reading most comments and overall i feel ive widened my knowledge. i was worried if i had children with my gf when im older the children will be asian. not because im racist but because others are. its a bad day an age when you have to worry about your kids before they are born dont you think?
Batir
28 Nov 2008 @ 10:23 pm
I’m a well build asian man with white pale skin , green eyes , light brown to gray hair
)) 6′ tall and I own 7″ equipment …..Kazan Tatar 
))) Welcome if you need goodlooking & smart asian kids 
DD
Batir
28 Nov 2008 @ 10:30 pm
Buy the way Nepali and Korean girls are very sweet , soft and charming ,carying …..treat them equaly and warm and they will bring you to Heaven
))
Jenna
27 Dec 2008 @ 10:34 am
BAHAHAHAHA i just read the comments from gill and luvu_luvunot and i couldnt do anything but laugh. sounds to me like these are two insecure ugly white girls who try to beat on other races to make their ugly selves feel better. hahahha laugh of the day
rolf
17 Jan 2009 @ 6:14 am
Asian people are interchangeable. They all act the same.
rolf
17 Jan 2009 @ 6:54 am
i forgot to add, i love asian girls because theyre fun and upbeat. Theyre smiling, clingy, lost little things full of life, and they look up to white men, like they respect them…
One thing i dont like though is how they seem to treat white men like nothing more then casanovas… or is it only me, i alwasy felt treated like the affair type guy, not the serious guy. The serious guy would be some gay looking man back home who calls her all theh time, showers her with gifts, and treats her like a child.
rolf
17 Jan 2009 @ 7:12 am
asian girls have no idea how hot they are. Its all about the attitude and confidence, and if they had a bit more confidence in themself they would be 100 times better in bed.
But lots of girls have this stupid stereotype that men are only interested in the size of their boobs. I wish they would wake up.
And also, white girls do not have these fascinating eyes.
Maybe asian girls lack confidence and white men exploit that. The thing i personally like about asian girls is how they are playful…
The thing that i dont like is how they get desperate for sex and clingy, and i think it has to do with self confidence.
Larry Sun
18 Jan 2009 @ 6:28 pm
I just checked on Wikipedia.
In America
50% of asian women have white husbands
41% of asian women have asian husbands
9% of asian woman have ‘other’ husbands
59%. Thats insane…
FieldGeneral
21 Jan 2009 @ 1:07 am
I think that asian women are the most beautiful women on the planet, they are real, and are honest, I have been involved with a couple of asians and they the most honest and upbeat women I have ever met. I would chose a asian over a fake pretintious white women any day. Cum on my honest asian woman, tell the truth, white guys are the best.
NepLESE PRINCE
21 Jan 2009 @ 2:31 pm
Lucky DOG,
I think you are so stupid, that u belive what yours 10 yr younger nepalese wife said.She hasnt meet the Real man from Nepal.May be she lived her life in some very remote part of the himalayas.when she will be of ur age after 10 years she’ll realise.
ace
24 Jan 2009 @ 9:11 pm
i think the zhou guy from china is right .u.s. people only know what t.v. says. i was taught to look outside the box at a young age.our gov. screws us just as much and i find some not all asian woman attractive.there are ugly people in all races.men and woman . o agree with zhou on everything .im proud im white.he is proud to be chinese.
Stevo in Australia
27 Jan 2009 @ 4:15 am
im a kid from australia. vietnamese. ive been reading all of these comments, and i just feel bad for the people that have such narrow minds. i was born and raised in a ‘white’ community, and i dress kind of like a surfer but it doesnt mean im disregarding my whole culture, have the same interests, etc. as my aussie friends. my mates sometimes tease me about being asian, but their just little jokes, and i can put up with that. although it hurts me sometimes, i know that in the time that we are living now, there is still racism. i dont really care that much, when they mean no harm and they are still my best friends.
i have to say that i am attracted to mostly white girls because ive grown up around them. but now that im a bit more mature, (im in high school), ive been growing more and more fond of asian females. it makes me happy to see some of the people in this forum have open minds, and they can accept other cultures and ethnicities. we may be white, black, yellow, whatever. but we will always be red on the inside. we’re all human.
im not the type that sells out his own race either. i eat vietnamese food nearly everyday, i have been to vietnam and other asian countries. i love my family, and am polite to other asians, caucasians, negros, etc. i dont know why people are being horrible to other races, maybe its their own personal experiences. im not old enough to know yet, but this blog has taught me a few things.
Hostile Witness. i strongly disagree when you say that some women are uglier/hotter than others. blah blah. that is just pure ignorance. but im not totally disagreeing with you. i reckon your interracial marriage is wonderful. you have kids, and it doesnt seem as if your wife is one of those asian women wanting a white guy for the money, etc. i hate those kind of asians. the ’sellouts’.
this is just my opinion. im a vietnamese, but was born and raised in aus. i consider myself to be kind of both. my parents dont think im dishounouring anything either. i still celebrate vietnamese new years, and i also speak fluent viet. as for my aussie traits, i speak fluent english with the aussie accent and everything.
i reckon the girls around my area are amazing. their all white, just to give you an idea theire are probably 10 asians in my entire school of a thousand people. i love asia, and i also love australia. i am very open minded, and i think that you shouldnt judge people by how they look, but by how they act or carry themselves. every race would have their uglies and hotties. how can their be one race where there isnt one ugly person? that would be incredible. in the end, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. as for me, i reckon all races are hot. just if the individual is hot or not. every race has their own uniqueness to it, and if i had one wish, i would wish for world peace including no racism, violence, hate, etc. ily all.
Stevo in Australia
27 Jan 2009 @ 4:22 am
ps. just kind of decsribing how i look. i dont have that gangsta look or that nerdy look. im not bragging or anything, but im pretty popular, and i have many freinds. i dress nicely, and smell nice as well, as my best friend that is a girl has stated. and dont try and hate on me, im just putting my thoughts out there, and yes, im pretty insecure about how i look. im not one of those nerdy looking asians. i have average muscles, and i may not be that tall, (165cm and im around 14-17 years old. dont wanna give my real age lol. ) but i assure you im not one of those weak looking sterotypes. that will be all from me.
gracyyyy
29 Jan 2009 @ 11:13 am
damn u gill..
ur such a looser
yes i admit asian girls are flat’s or watever u prefer to say.. lol
but 1 thing important u wyt girls are slut hore!!!!!!!!!!!
u give ur virginity at young age.. which asians don’t do..
and asians are very respectful in their elders not like wyt people..
watch your words b4 u post something.. ok!!!!!!!!!!!11
Lisa
29 Jan 2009 @ 1:29 pm
Insecure much?
Talking crap about other races and going on about how great your own race is, I bet most of you shun people of your own race whether they’re
gay
homeless
nerds/dorks
“ugly”
snotty
weird
Gothic
punk rocker
white gangsters
ravers
wanna be
transsexual
a guy who likes to dress girly/do girly things but still like girls
from a different religion(e.g. for western Jewish/catholic/christian)
from a different country with an accent (e.g french)
some one with different beliefs like polygamy
someone that has had plastic surgery (women or man)
someone who likes to show off
blah blah blah blah
Always finding something to put your self on top because you actually think your so damn special. Going around stating your personal likes as the only way to look at things instead of just you.
There’s “pretty” and “ugly” boys and girls in every race. we’re not like animals where all tigers are the same and all lions are the same. We don’t need to smell each other to know who’s who. clearly everyone has something different. There are such things as a curvy Asian girls and tall/strong Asian men (saw an Asian firefighter last year + there was a tall Asian rocker in my class in high school)
~
If I were to be close minded and judge something as true just because I see it shown repeatedly towards one race (like they do with black people), I would not date/marry white men in fear of them raping my children (pedophiles).
(don’t feel like checking grammar so if you find anything wrong, whatever)
Santino
30 Jan 2009 @ 10:23 pm
HAHAHAHA, what a retarded post!
I lived in Asia for a few years, and you do see the case of asian chicks with white guys once in awhile, unbeknowest to those asian (Japanese/Korean) girls however was that these guys would be considred the bottom of the barrel back in the U.S. I’m talking about dudes that looked like the hunch back of notre dame, holding hands with fairly decent japanese girls. Sadly, it’s not a racial issue but simply that those types of chicks often think all foriegners have limitles bank accounts and they often want to escape their country. So its not that these guys are white but simply that they have foriegn passports which equals a new life for them. Every race of people has ugly and beutifull people equally, just depends on your perception of beuty.
I found that the truly hot, intelligent and classy Asian women always stuck with their own race, and the shallow lower self esteem and loserish ones hooked up with white guys (any Tom Dick or Harry). I can speak from experience, I’m half latino half white, and I should also mention that I had a good looking northern east indian buddy there who easily picked up more girls then any of us white guys whenever we went out.
Stevo in Australia
31 Jan 2009 @ 2:07 am
gracey! you shouldn’t be thinking like that! there are those kinds of asian people as well. asians that give their virginity away at a young age, slutty, disrespect elders. whatever. and there are white girls that don’t! there are asians with curves, beautfiul, hot, etc. and white people that arent. every race has their ups and downs. in the end, we’re all the same. dont just judge others by what you think you know. gracey, asians arent auperior, to any other race. neither is any other race. you should be more open minded. i agree with lisa. shes got the right idea.
PigDog
10 Feb 2009 @ 9:26 am
I am white.
Beautiful white girls are not attracted to me.
Beautiful indian girls are not attracted to me.
Some beautiful asian girls are attracted to me.
I found small tits look very good “in action”. Many asian girls can be staggeringly beautiful.
White girls can be stunning also but not so many.
There is no magic recipe to what I find attractive. Fat or thin big or small can all be attractive in that one special moment.
Many of my white nurd friends have asian wives/girlfriends. Maybe asian girls respect intelligence more than white girls. Asian guys and girls are smart and determined, good to work with. There is nothing inferior about being asian.
Hey you only need to find that one special girl. I would love being with the same girl day after day year after year so beautiful. If she is the right girl.
Hey we are all scared insecure people trying to live a meaningful life. The winds of time sweep us away all too soon. Instead envying other peoples success with the opposite sex, let us just get on with living life to the full.
The right girl is out there somewhere. The trick is finding her.
GoodLookingPakistani
11 Feb 2009 @ 10:54 pm
You are such a bitch!
Whether you are a guy or not. You are so arrogant. I am a Pakistani but I am a HELL OF LOT good looking than those ugly oriental MEN and WOMEN. I personally don’t like orientals and blacks and whites. There is only a certain kind of white guys, I like. Rest of them are simply trash. Just because someone is White, doesn’t mean they become irresistable. Your views about asian and middleastern men and women show that you are one rotten insect which hasn’t come out of its pupa yet. The indian, middleastern, mediteranean men and women are HOT. I am sure there are ugly ones too but aren’t they in every race? Go to Lebanon, Turkey or Lahore(Pakistan), Kashmir (Pakistan) and you will see hot chicks and roosters.
http://supersizeme.wordpress.com/2008/05/19/pakistani-male-models-top-5/
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPdgOrz4Xyk
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=So6GKfRAjCk&feature=PlayList&p=215428DE39585E8C&playnext=1&index=3
http://www.thaindian.com/newsportal/india-news/pakistan-is-a-chick-magnet_10013218.html
Well, I can’t find the pictures of ordinary Pakistanis or Lebanese men but trust me they are HOT. Some of them are mind-blowingly HOT
Random
14 Mar 2009 @ 5:52 pm
…lol…
I’ve grown up in a quite diverse town. Asians, whites, blacks, indians (i know they’re asian too), hispanics, etc…
While I was in middle/high school, there was much diversity.
1) I’m an asian girl. For one, I’m NOT flat and my eyes are not squinty, thanks for asking. For those of you who said asian girls are “hairy down there”…asians have the least hair on their bodies! What are you talking about, lol! Oh, and many girls like to shave there, and others don’t! Point taken?
2) Asian girls go for white guys? Sometimes true. I’m living proof. I don’t prefer a race. I actually prefer a look, or that’s what I like to call it. For some reason I’m attracted to a guy with bangs and medium length hair as a guy. Some people call these girly features. Well, that’s me.
Growing up, white guys in my school had these features and well yeah, I was attracted to them! But before you stamp on me “asian girl that likes white guys”… it’s just because they’re there! Throw me into a school full of asian guys with the features I prefer, and shoot, I would love it.
3) Asian guys are ugly? True and false. Growing up, there was also this asian guy with my favored features that was totally smoking hot, lmao. So asian guys can be hot too! Proven.
Even with that smoking hot asian guy, there were the ugly asian guys too, which I never would have dated in the long run!
Each race has its ups and down, people.
My school had every race with its opposites as well!
Even in the in-crowd, there were whites, hispanics, asians, indians, blacks. Diversity. It was pretty much heaven, once I think back.
P.S. I don’t know what everyone’s talking about, saying asian guys can’t get white girls…in my school, asian guys got the blue eyed blonde girls, are you kidding? LOL. There was also the opposite as well: asian girls with white guys.
Oh, and sorry for my excessive use of exclamation marks
Sophia Phan
15 Mar 2009 @ 4:12 am
Asian men are uglier than asian women?
http://ent.tom.com/img/assets/200607/047_1152697317.jpg
^you guys are idiots if you think that
Ling
16 Mar 2009 @ 8:29 am
Notice how if you ever go to an asian country like the people who are considered beautiful are large eyes white skin , defined noses, and none of their features are like that. They try to be white , so when the asian girls come over here they want white guys to have children with they want genes ! isnt that freaky? u spend so much time trying to be like another race except your own ! disgusting
Stevo in Australia
17 Mar 2009 @ 5:21 am
so is that what every single asian person thinks? im guessing that (just as an example, if i think like ling does) white people all want to be pure white. none of them want to be tanned or anything like that? tanned like say, oh i know, an asian person? every individual has their own beliefs of what is beautiful or not. if i thought like this, do you know how many people i would get mad? luckily i dont think like this. you say that we spend so much time trying to be other races? that is a lie. its so simple minded, i don’t even want to say anything to it. you need to open up your mind, see the big picture..WE ARE ALL HUMANS! get it into your brain, ling. geez.
Hmm
24 Mar 2009 @ 11:43 pm
What a pathetic person. Honestly, most of the middle Eastern people (Persians (Iranians and Afghans)), Arabs, Turks have the most beautiful people ever. Their females have heights, bodies, and facial beauty. Their guys are masculine with very prominent male characteristics. The author of the topic seems to be clueless about the world and I am somewhat surprised hearing such a comment from an individual who is attending UCLA which is full of hot hot hot Middle Eastern girls. I wonder which hole you are living in but you need seriously need to get out and stop watching too much porn cz you are truly clueless about the world. Also, you can not generalize based on one or two ugly girls that you met in the library.
Hmm
24 Mar 2009 @ 11:45 pm
BTW, if that dude in the picture is you then you need to get a mirror before calling yourself handsome or even worthy of being called a guy. You have no height, ugly face and ugly style.
John
27 Mar 2009 @ 6:31 pm
http://twentyfirstcenturycoeds.comicgenesis.com
Sarah
5 Apr 2009 @ 6:29 am
Im a white women and I use to beleive asian women all love white men or whatever the stereo-type was, but while I was living in OC, where there were alot of asians/vietnamese, I found that most really didn’t date outisde there race, and usual hung out with there own people. And because of that we don’t really get to see that many asians unless there dating one of us(white people). kuz the two groups dont really hang out together much. which if you think about it makes it seem like they only date whites guys, kuz their the ones we actually see, kuz its not like were following asian women n men around where they hang out or see who there dating lol. Anyways I know kuz im dating a asian hes vietnamese. And I really don’t date outside my race but hes really cool. B4 i really werent in too asian and I thought they were “small” if you know what I mean from what I heard, and my friends always ask me why im with a asian guy. But too tell you the truth hes really not that much bigger or smaller then the white guys I dated, its all racist stereo typing i guess kuz he sure hell aint under 6 inches…hes not very tall maybe 5′7 but after hanging out with his group(people) they dress and talk n act like any other amercian, they even joke about the stereo types, and most are pretty tall 5′8 to 5′10, some are short like my boy, but reading online its mostly due to the foods they eat, n lack of milk they drink or don’t culturally lol. but the amercian born ones which is most of them are pretty normal sized hieght. When amercians talk about how asians are weird, really short or kant talk english or whateva are really living in the 80’s. and make us real americans look ignorant and uneducated, the white guys who look at asian girls as sexual play things, is kinda creepy, but then again asian men think the same way anyways haha. Sarah
k
5 Apr 2009 @ 6:48 am
I think most of the BS we here about asians is due to the Media, they seems to portral asian either as the Bad english weird foregnier or the kung fu master, and the asian girl as the victim saved by the white hero. Its a shame really, and on top of that noone seems to cast or even stick asians in any media we barely see them on TV unless its one of the persons listed above. Were just portraled as not COOL. lol
Like how black people were(1700-1970, white peopled hated them, stereo typed them, discrimated agianst them n not even put in the media n movies unless its in a negetive light. so at the time no one dated a black person even thought it was disguisting. But since then to now we see Blacks more in the media-movies, have there own TV station genre of music, over time they became adcepted as amercian, and now alot of whites are even dating black men, and the stereo types seem to fade.
shit we even got a black president.
As for asians we only been really in amercia in numbers since the 70’s till now, and we only recently been coming out more into the spot light, and it’ll take time from what i see, till we’re adcepted as americans and not just foregners as most of us are 2nd n 3rd generation ciztens born here. stereo types are just what they are, and the’ll find out soon, i see asian dudes dating all types of races, and no were not women beaters n nerds. shit I never got a A in school or liked math hahaha
miszdimples
22 Apr 2009 @ 6:43 pm
I think everyone comment is dumb.Like you guys are comparing everyone by looks .women are not objects.if some asian girls prefer white guys mainly because of looks thats wrong.like you people shouldn’t put down other races . comparing their features and body type.everyone want their race to be better than everyone get over that thinking. but to answer your question i do see alot of asian girls with white men but that doesn’t mean their gonna marry them. but when i do see a asian guy with a asian girl i think its so beautiful
just be proud of who you are and your cultures its a beautiful thing.black,asian,indian,spanish people are all beautiful .
Supe
27 Apr 2009 @ 1:57 pm
I can’t believe this post!
OK so it’s all subjective and depends upon the individual but honestly…
Which female with eyes, can’t fall in love with these 4 Korean hotties?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M89WTIF6I7g&feature=related
Or Hong Kong actor Takeshi Kaneshiro?
Or Taiwanese actor Mike He?
And I’m not even from that neck of the woods, I’m Pakistani-Kashmiri (albeit with Tajik ancestry), I just believe every country/nationality has its fair share of beautiful and/or fugly people. I personally never really fancied blonde men, I prefer raven-haired hotties.
SaBinh
18 May 2009 @ 10:45 pm
y ask y about it? i see alot of this blog lately. let me tell you all y because we’re in their country that’s why……
Mr. Hapa
19 May 2009 @ 10:50 pm
I’ve read maybe 1/4 or so of the responses. Myself being half Asian and half White American I would have to say these are the women I am most attracted to:
#1 half Asian and half White
#1 half Hawaiian+Asian and half White mix
#1 other similar mixes as those I listed above, e.g. half Native American and half White
#1 half African American and half White (e.g. Halle Berry, Vanessa Williams, Beyonce)
#2 Kazakhstan and Krgystan
#2 women from certain Middle Eastern countries like Iran… uh, don’t know a whole lot… I gotta take a trip there I guess
#2 maybe women from like near North India and Afghanistan
#2 women from certain South American and Central American/Gulf of Mexico nations
I do feel that a lot of “pure” Asian girls are not that attractive and that Asian guys on average are better-looking than their sisters. I’ve seen numerous Asian guys w/ girlfriends less attractive than themselves. I also don’t find a lot of White women attractive if they seem to be rather “pure” in appearance and have bad complexion. The White women who I tend to be more attracted to are a mix of various European ethnicities w/ maybe a dash of Native American. They may tend to have better complexions and/or darker eyes/hair. These types I definitely prefer over a lot of Japanese and Korean women. The Asians I tend to be more attracted to would be from Indochina (Burma, Thailand, Vietnam, Malaysia) or areas where a lot of racial mixing occurred in the past (maybe certain parts of the Phillipines, large Asian metros, former trading posts in Asia, Xinjiang province in China).
Mr. Hapa
19 May 2009 @ 10:58 pm
From the looks of things, I think a lot of Asian and half Asian guys are going to get more play in their 30’s and 40’s than they expected for being of that age, esp. if they’re good-looking and have particularly good aging genes (i.e. some Asians age a bit better than other Asians). I’ve noticed Asian guys in their 30’s and 40’s having more success with White and other non-Asian women than younger Asian guys.
The big reason a lot of White guys go for Asians is better aging, esp. in sunny climates. It might also be more so 30-40 yo White guys going for Asians.
Hostile Witness
20 May 2009 @ 2:43 pm
@Mr. Hapa:
You could have shortened your post by simply saying “I like anything with a vagina — except white girls with bad skin.”
I prefer Asian girls with big tits but I’m not totally locked into that by any means…
zwip778
23 May 2009 @ 6:19 pm
One thing that asian-american don’t know is that they will never be respected as mothers. I am an attractive half asia