Why Asian Girls Like White Guys II
9 Jan 2007 / Hostile WitnessAs in the previous example, these photos are from the same photoset on Flickr:
What could be worse than being an Asian woman in Asia and having to surrender your mystical Oriental hotness to Asian men? In no other race — white, black, Hispanic — are the women so much better-looking than the men.
Now you might say: What about Indian or Middle Eastern men? Aren’t they uglier than Asian men?
Possibly — but my point is that their women are incredibly ugly as well, so it’s a good match.
My wife’s cousin, also an Asian girl, agrees with my theory, but adds something I hadn’t thought of: Asian guys are boring, she says, because they’re all the same. They all have the same story, same parents, same college major (engineering or business), same, same, same . . .
10 Jan 2007 @ 10:40 am
funny…
I have been to the San Blas Islands have noted a similar trait…
The children are gorgeous and the adults are ugly as can be. It’s like they have a ritual to beat the crap out of everybody on their 16th birthday…
http://www.galenfrysinger.com/san_blas_kuna.htm
http://www.galenfrysinger.com/Kuna_women.htm
John
10 Jan 2007 @ 10:26 pm
But do the young gals like White Guys who are middle-aged professionals with silver hair and blue eyes? This is the question.
I miss my dear friend in Chicago. Her name is Iwen. She had a flash in her eyes, a quick and ready smile, she was eager to talk and had beautiful long silky hair and she wasn’t skinny (nor plump).
Lucky Dog
29 Jan 2007 @ 4:37 am
I am White-Blue eyes-yada,yada,yada and i am fortunate to be married to a lovely asian women 10 yrs. my junior. She says men from her country (Nepal) are not very warm and fuzzy. She wanted something different. No not a green card !!!!
Revolving Clown
16 Feb 2007 @ 10:22 pm
Asian girls are on the whole starting to find white women more and more attractive… Next time you go into town notice the increase in the number of white lesbians dating asian girls
Sekerah
2 Mar 2007 @ 1:46 pm
I don’t find most Asian men attractive either but I think your off when you say that Middle-Eastern men and women are ugly. Most Persian and Lebanese women I have seen are incredibly sexy looking. Middle Eastern guys have the same features as white guys, with darker complexions. Indians have really good beautiful features on their face, but their skin complexion is just tooo dark.
Angelina
10 Mar 2007 @ 4:15 am
My friends would agree with it. But actually, I am an Asian girlã…¡Korean girl who is in middle school age. I like both, western and eastern. People say I am look like western girl. Actually my boy friend is american.
jj
18 Mar 2007 @ 8:57 am
There is plenty of BEAUTIFUL Middle-Eastern women! I don’t know what the hell you are talking abput and it really makes me mad how some ppl really don’t have an idea that the world is the most beatuiful when it has ppl who differ from each other. However noone shoul say that one race or gender is better than the other. That’s just WRONG!!
David
31 Mar 2007 @ 2:36 pm
Man, This is the craziest thing Ive ever heard. Not because its absurd but it’s that I think the same thing, to me, in fact, I almost feel sorry for the guys I mean not only do they seem ugly compared to their women but they seem so soft and feminine compared to American men I wonder how the women feel walkiing through say a mall with their fragile little men. On the other hand I could just be jealous that I no longer have my beautiful asian princess?
Danny
15 May 2007 @ 9:30 am
There’s a girl at a china buffet who says hi when my mother and i come in, and her eyes are so mysterious to look into. It is like i forget what she looks like later that day. I have seen similar eyes on asian women, but not all. They are so round and cute, in a way. Anyway, I don’t know the best way to approach her or know if she is attracted to me. I talked to her once about horseback riding, but it took a long time to describe a horse and such. Do you think that she minds dating someone with her having only learned some english?
mrmillineum
23 May 2007 @ 8:52 pm
I don’t know I think that white women just are in it for the money definitely not the looks of white men
mrmillineum
23 May 2007 @ 8:52 pm
asian women in it for the money
24 May 2007 @ 2:14 pm
Alright, first off, most of the comments for this blog made me laugh. And well, I guess second off (I’m not even sure if you can say second off in correct syntax) This blog made me laugh. And, thirdly…lastly…Finally, Hostile Witness made me laugh.
Why?
Because hostile Witness is a cunt.
And so are some of the commenters on this blog.
Oh, harsh words. But let me explain why.
Because of the blatant inconsistencies that a majority of the people have posted about people of other nationalities and races. See, it is easy to stereotype because you can make generalizations. For example, I can easily say that white men who date Asian women are fucking desperate lazy ass fucks. But I don’t, because they aren’t…well except maybe for Hostile Witness. But Hostile Witness apart, I don’t like to generalize.
We live in the fucking 21st century and people like you still have to be as backwards-minded as cavemen. Excuse me for using vulgar language, I just want to stoop as low as you for a minute so we can understand each other in lamens terms. There are plenty of handsome Asian guys out there, who by the way, and I am sure have a much bigger following of girls than any of you (and I) do. I can easily pick the nerdiest or queerest person form another race and say that that represents all of their race. I’m glad you picked the people you picked for your pictures because it shows how insecure you are about putting an Asian man who actually looks good up. Maybe it scares you that an Asian or an Indian or a Persian man may have more game than you.
It’s people like you that create the need for civil rights in this country. It’s people like you that make people miserable because you love to ridicule and judge. Its people like you that make me take time out of my day to make sure that your backwards, idiotic ideas do not penetrate and seep into the minds of people. Its the countless like you that created the Hitlers and the Pol Pots and have killed the Martin Luther Kings, the Gahndis, and the JFK’s. Its people like you that make me ashamed to live free.
Times have changed and if you think you are right, I challenge you to openely–not on a blog–to openly state your claims in public. If it works, good for you. If you are too scared, I invite you to crawl into the little hole you dug for yourself and continue blogging and spreading lies.
From a fellow human being to a racist,
Xyke
Fierce
24 May 2007 @ 2:17 pm
I’m an Asian guy so hot that I keep the ice age from occurring. I’m living proof that you’re full of bullshit ^^
24 May 2007 @ 7:55 pm
Hi Xyke -
Thanks for the post, although I would have expected something more intelligent from a UCLA man.
Which one are you in the photo — the short Asian guy or the really short Asian guy?
25 May 2007 @ 12:07 am
Hi Hostile Witness, I’m glad you added the extra photos after I posted my comment, it just shows how well you can take criticism. I bet you’ll add photos to this one too, and if you don’t it would be just because I wrote this. I’m also glad that you stated that you expected something more intelligent, because as far as I can tell, I don’t see any proof or rebuttal to what I said. But thanks for furthering my claim! I’m not going to waste any more of my time on you.
-Xyke
25 May 2007 @ 10:56 am
Geez, Xyke, I let you crudely insult me on my own web site and now you’re saying I can’t take criticism?!
What a crybaby.
You want a rebuttal? Of what? Your comment was gibberish. I was talking about hot Asian girls and you went off on Hitler, Pol Pot and Ghandi, only one of whom is Asian.
Stick to the topic! Don’t they teach you anything at UCLA?
JD
25 May 2007 @ 1:33 pm
I’m AsianCaucasian(Chinese+Tibetan+Mong+Mongolian+Indian+Anglo), and I found the AsianCaucasian girls the most attractive, inside and out? Can anyone agree?!
Fugee
27 May 2007 @ 6:09 am
The guy who started this thread is so pathetic. He probably only just lost his virginity, because no white girl would give him the time of day. He feels like a conquerer now, and would like to gloat. Start growing some balls please.
cc
31 May 2007 @ 8:02 am
JD -
How about Asian girls with big tits? The best of both cultures!
gill
1 Jun 2007 @ 10:12 am
hi there,i found asian girls ugly for some reasons: they have flat bodies just like men! and ugly flat faces with ugly very narrow eyes..and are expressionless!
gill
1 Jun 2007 @ 10:14 am
i forgot to say they are smelly too!
nicolas
2 Jun 2007 @ 2:08 am
Are they rlly kidding?? Lebanese, Syrian & Arab girls r just gorgeous in general, they have the most amazing features, their features are so rich, its part of their mediterranean beauty
even the middle aged women some r so pretty and good for their age…their middle eastern features? yes, i would say so..no offense but middle eastern girls make american girls look rlly ugly, have rlly ‘flat’ & drowned out, nothingness of features…i just can’t describe how beautiful arab girls are…and some middle aged women (i don’t have a strange attraction towards them or anything) from arab nations, they make american, european mixed women of the same age look like overweight hags w/ chubby cheeks and unbearable sunburntness…all in all, tanned ppl, not to b racist, r usually sexier ALTHOUGH scandinavians from sweden or around there, they r gorgeeeeousss..more so than the girls, the guys w/ their blue eyes, skinny physiques (generally) & blond blong hair r so amazingly cute…!!!
2 Jun 2007 @ 8:04 am
Gill -
Smelly?! What grade are you in?
gill
2 Jun 2007 @ 11:49 am
yes smelly..whenever i get close to a chinese girl..i smell garlic..hahaha…i think they eat too much garlic and never brush their teeth!
Zhou
4 Jun 2007 @ 5:29 pm
I’m very proud of my race and i hate….HATE the “sellouts” as you pple call them.(im chinese guy). However, I hate “sellout” guys way more than “sellout” girls. To me there’s nothing more disgraceful as scourning your own race. Even if is to socially fit in, throwing away your heritage and doing things to make yourself appear white as well as joining in on the asain stereotypes makes me sick. you know the people im talking about…those fucking tools that work for hollywood to portray poor, disgraceful asians in movies and televison..and that sick fuck that appeared on american idol….that ugly piece of shit should go hange himself because hes just making money by giving hollywood what the want….some ugly asian guy they can make fun of…AHHH i hate those people, they dont deserve to call themselves asians. (they should all consider platic surgury like michael jackson…enlarge their eye, hair transplants, boob jobs, penis enlargements or whatever the fuck they think is wrong with themselves)
and for u fucks that are willing to marry asain women right off the boat…shame on you…if you cant even speak the same language, and u marry just to have a house cleaning sex doll, then you are one sick pathetic bastard. dont say ur helping them because you think u saved them from a crappy place…..what the hell makes u so damn self-righteous….using pitty as an excuse for self gain….you bastards make me sick
Everytime i read something like this i notice things related to sex like…asian women are tighter…they are more kinky….they crave giant white cock……..god damn it grow up, u sick fucks that turn such discussion into this stupid shit should be evoked of your online privileges
i really dont care if asian girls date white guys, maybe they prefer them… who the hell knows when it comes to things girls think about. So instead of trying to boost your own egos by saying asian guys have smaller dicks, all u white guys should just stop specualting stupid shit like that.
one other thing i’ve noticed is that asian guys call asian girls sellouts just because they are dating a white guy………u need to shut up and wake the fuck up….maybe if you actually asked them out before some other guy did, they’ed actually go out with u instead…calling girls of your own race sellouts based on situations you don’t fully understand is so damn stupid……..
asian Girls….if you are dating for love and a healthy relationship…power to you..but if your simply doing it to fit in and in the process you consider all asian guys as inferior to whites then i say to u you…. u are a real whitewashed mook thats a sellout to your race (dont blame the media unless you consider yourself a weak minded bimbo)
fianlly i would like to say that all asians should take pride in their heritage….the rich culture, the thousands of years of history…all the good stuff…dont stand for the crap white people put on tv…….and dont believe all the bad things America makes of the “evil” chinese government. If you’ve not lived in china and all your conceptions are from the american eduaction system, you have no right to talk about the matter.
Last but not least…..FUCK FALONGON for messing with peoples heads…though u claim ur trying to abolish the communist party in china…ur just a cult thats after peoples money….all u sickfucks dont and wont accomplish anything…..i just feel sorry for the people thats been brainwashed by the sick fucks
4 Jun 2007 @ 8:19 pm
Hi Zhou -
Your comment gave me a panic attack. Because you used the f-word — repeatedly — your comment went into a moderation queue, meaning I had to approve it before it went live. I approved it because you put so much work into it, but your language … could you clean it up a little next time?
I see you’re posting from an Ohio State IP address … what are they teaching in our universities these days?
luvu_luvunot
5 Jun 2007 @ 7:59 pm
what is this crap about asians being tighter, i tried asian and went right back to white queens …they r way tighter and asian girls r hairy! YUKKY never again
luvu_luvunot
6 Jun 2007 @ 5:36 pm
u know what thats right Zhou asians should take pride in their heritage and “rich culture” depending on where in asia your talking about.
Everyone should be proud of their heritage.
and gt of your high horse, we understand your really feeling depressed and trying to make ppl like your ” culture ” better .Its ok as long as you love yourself…LMAO
luvu_luvunot
8 Jun 2007 @ 8:49 am
where i am from theres alot of asian guys with white girls.
I dont know what its like there…but here,theres alot of sweet, beautiful, educated white women…
i hate how everyone thinks asiains are so special, if you were to live in china that “exoticness” would go away. anyone who hates on white woman is just jealous…
gill
9 Jun 2007 @ 6:02 am
i totally agree with you luvu_luvunot asians looks as if a train passed on their faces and bodies…and i think white men who go with chinese girls are gays…but this didnt discover about it yet
tom
9 Jun 2007 @ 5:24 pm
Zhou i love your ethnocentric rants more power to you by the way you make plenty of good points that i think about my own race.
SHAHIN
13 Jun 2007 @ 9:37 am
What could be worse than being an Asian woman in Asia and having to surrender your mystical Oriental hotness to Asian men? In no other race — white, black, Hispanic — are the women so much better-looking than the men.
HAHAHHAHAH
HAHAHHAHAHHAH
AHA
HAHAHAHHAHHAHA
HAHAHHAHAHAA!!
Now you might say: What about Indian or Middle Eastern men? Aren’t they uglier than Asian men?
Possibly — but my point is that their women are incredibly ugly as well, so it’s a good match
HAHAHHAH HAHAHAHAHHAHAHHHAHHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHHA HAHHAHAAHAHHAHA
gill
14 Jun 2007 @ 10:08 am
assian women are hot? and have mystical oriental beauty? how come? they are not even women! the only difference between them and men is that they dont have penis! and what? middle easten women are ugly? they are the hottest! their bodies are full of curves and feminity,they have wonderful sun kiss and mediterranian features, which is not sharp like europeans or flat like assians! i think you are lying yourself!
hottrain
15 Jun 2007 @ 10:13 pm
every woman is beautiful in their own ways, there are beautiful women in asian cultures, and equally beautiful women in western cultures. there are pretty women, and ugly women. and why do chinese girls go for white guys? maybe it’s just their preferences, why judge from what people look like? and to gill and luvu_luvunot- get a life. keep your racist comments to yourself you sick bastards.
gill
16 Jun 2007 @ 4:20 am
hottrain, you seem asian!
Kz
16 Jun 2007 @ 2:25 pm
For the fact there are ugly and beautifull ppl in each race, and ppl been saying asian men r worst, they have small dick, they are short, weak, and skiny and have flat faces. Well i’m assian, i’m from Kazakhstan but i’m ASIAN, i can’t say i’m short (6 ft), i have (6″) dick and i’m athletic build, and for sure i can knock down most of the black and white dudes in my hood. And one good thing about been asian is NO MONKEY HAIR on my body, clean and freshh,, and i allway gona be young looking, and police the don’t stop you, ther been many times i been driving drunk and hight, only couple of times they stoped me, and u know wt they said -”have a nice evening”-haha F””’ Sweet!
JazzyChojin
16 Jun 2007 @ 6:25 pm
Wow, so much hate and anger.
As a Black Man, I find Asian women attractive. But guess what? I find so many other women attractive too. I like thin women, but sometimes bigger women are beautiful too. Sometimes I see a woman with long hair, and it’s the bomb. Other times, I see a woman with short short hair, and she is absolutely goregeous.
Beauty is definitely in the eye of the beholder. However, GILL, to say that Asian women are not even women is just straight up ignorant. Maybe your “dude where’s my car/American Pie” movie flicks brainwashed you into believing there are no attractive Asian women around. But there are plenty. And yes, there are plenty of ugly ones too.
Same goes with White, Black, Latina…..etc. I see beautiful White and Black women everyday, but on the same day I will see so many MORE ugly White and Black women.
Gill, Back to your comment about Asian women not being women; let me just say, you might want to be real and rethink that. If she has a period once a month, loves shopping, and has indecisive decision making moments during the day, then you better believe she’s a woman; Black, White, Latina or Asian. The Asian woman typically might not have the “over-hyped” Perfect Hollywood image that has “brainwashed” so many men and women these days, but she is definately a woman. And petite Asian women are gorgeous.
As far as Asian women’s attraction to White men goes; well all I can say about that is I see all the time here in California. And it is unfortunate and disconcerting when I ask an Asian woman out on a date, but she’s reluctant, or just “isn’t interested.” But then later I see her with a White guy.
However, if that’s what she likes, then that’s what she likes and is attracted to. I will always be attracted to Asian women. But,in the end, it doesn’t matter, because I still have Black Women, White women, Latina women to choose from and make a connection with.
PZ_on_Earth
21 Jun 2007 @ 10:01 pm
I myself find generally european men more attractive than asian men, and I’m asian, but that’s just my tastes. Everybody is different, lets not generalize races here peeps. Who cares anyways, people are people. Some asians r hot, some r not, same with all racial types.
What matters anyways is personality
englishwhiteman
1 Jul 2007 @ 6:21 am
yeah its personality thats the thing realy. i agree with PZ_on_Earth. I find women from every possible ethnic group attractive and ugly. i suppose though i find darker women more attractive, its that opposites attract thing. i mean in england i’m not exotic, i’m attractive, but not exotic. i went to cyprus, where (to my mind) people look like a mix of medateranian and middle eastern. i was exotic there because i’m tall and blond etc. thats the way it is i think. you wanna shag your own people too, but for some people the ‘unknown’ is exciting. ever since i was a kid i found black women the most sexy, but my girlfreinds white. admittadly she’s very dark skinned. both her parents are white, but everyone assume one of her perents must be asian, even some bengali guy we met thought so. he also said i looked german, wich was annoying for an english person (bad history etc.) but realy, who the fuck cares. its an ineresting question tho. unfortunatly on the internet many un-interesting (un-intelagent) people have opinions too, which is annoying, but neccesary.
englishwhiteman
1 Jul 2007 @ 6:23 am
p.s. i realize i have bad spelling, and that some people will pick on that when all else fails.
marloow
3 Jul 2007 @ 7:19 pm
but i have to confess that most asian women that i know, even the so-called “FOB” have a sense of style and disposition that sets them apart from almost all the other women - black, latina, middle-eastern, white etc…..they can make a faded pair of jeans and a top look oh so chic….and that they often-times are not aware of how sexy they carry themselves makes them that more sexy…
sean
6 Jul 2007 @ 9:34 pm
middle eastern men and women look white? they are white -morons.
sarah
7 Jul 2007 @ 2:11 am
every race has its pretties and uglies
every person has their own perception of whats pretty and ugly
im mixed, my mom is chinese/thai and my dad is german. it breaks my heart to read stuff like this on the internet, on the “sole” reason of why interracial relationships exists, and even more, people start criticizing and calling races and cultures “ugly” because theyre just too ignorant, envious or closed off from the world to look into it more. oh well… the world isnt perfect ;]
sarah
7 Jul 2007 @ 2:13 am
and lol, is gill middle eastern? he sounds really… defensive lmfao
gill
7 Jul 2007 @ 2:16 am
i have a small penis thats why
Rikus
7 Jul 2007 @ 8:42 am
Well so far I see many “retarded” people… Making generalizations like that! Saying that all Asians have hairy bodies and other things they have no way of knowing.
So for part one of the morons reading this… So your penis is 6 inches you have an athletic body. I don’t want to shock you but… THAT DOESN’T DEPEND ON YOUR RACE. You aren’t born with an athletic body you can improve both of those not depending on your race. Some of you will try giving me statistics about the penis size in different races… well at least you will have one thing to be “proud” of.
For the second part saying that people from other races are ugly. I’ll make this a bit easier for the less gifted. Why don’t Dog males like Cat females and why don’t Cat females like Dog males? Don’t even try asking me for the answer clear an afternoon to think about it. I’m sure the rest got it by now.
I’m not nationalist but why is that when I read gills post i had a reflex saying… “pffft Yankee”
Someone give me an answer.
Oh and for the last part try thinking of different races this way. Everyone who looks different is a different race so that must mean that your neighbor who has a smaller nose then yours is from a different race too… doh me make smart. try saying now the other races are ugly.
If gill is still with us give me a description of your perfect women. As if i didn’t know that she has blond hair big bo… sorry almost gave the answer in your place.
Pardon my spelling.
Love,Rikus
Desirae
16 Jul 2007 @ 1:49 pm
I’m a Mexican-French mix and Im dating a white man. That being said.
He almost got married to an Asian women about a year and a half ago. He said that she was the worst sex he had ever had because she “didn’t know what she was doing”. I mean, Im just saying that because I want to put down the idea that Asian women are “tigers in the bedroom”.All he did with her was study. They never went out. She wasn’t very affectionate or opiniated. Boring.
He says Im the funniest, most beautiful, sexiest girl he has ever been with and that I have brought out more sides of him than anyone.
I agree with Gill…Asian women aren’t particularily attractive…they are flat. They almost look like pre-adolesecent boys.
I believe that women with curves are beautiful. Dark tanned skin…large dark or light eyes. Not pale…colorful…exotic,natural.
Middle eastern women are very beautiful. So are white women with their honey hair and fair eyes…Latin women are also beautiful and full of life…music, laughter and opinions. Asian women are non the less attractive. But they are not best.
SumDum Guy
18 Jul 2007 @ 12:09 pm
Me riky, riky asian girls.
Chrissie
20 Jul 2007 @ 10:15 pm
Reading things like this on the internet makes me very sad.. im half asian and i get this every single day of my life even from my OWN dad. It really never stops. All because of what is portrayed on the media. I wish it didnt have too be like this, judging a whole race because of a few people but i guess it will never end. We are the most left out race in the world. Maybe all of us asians should pack up and move to asia and leave all the whites, blacks latino’s etc together becuause it seems like noone wants us around. I think its a good idea.
21 Jul 2007 @ 5:43 pm
you are a pointless ass if thats your opinion… for starters… it isnt only asian girls that like western men… its western girls liking asian men… like Miku from ancafe who happens to be really yum to look at… or maybe even mana he looks better than half the pictures up on here in a dress and he is a guy! many actors and actresses look great for example…. theres the entire cast or the twins effect! who’da thunk it was poible? i drooled over the guy in that untill i had to get out of bed for work! i LOOOOOVE asians mainly because to me they are oh so mysterious compared to the boring lot i know… i mean my friend sasuke happens to be chinese he went out wth my friend sarah and they have been together for a few yrs.
my own family is totally mixed up!
i have chinese, black, irish, argentinean, english, latvian and korean in my blood and thats jut going up two sets of genes! all of thats in me and i dont see what you got wrong with asian girl going with western men… obviously you dont have the guts to as a girl do ya???
21 Jul 2007 @ 5:44 pm
i meant ask
22 Jul 2007 @ 12:22 am
Hi Kora -
I must not be as articulate as I thought. I don’t have a problem with Asian girls hooking up with white guys. I’m all for it. As it happens, my wife is Asian.
UglyAsianGuy
23 Jul 2007 @ 2:48 pm
I’m an ugly Indian Asian guy and your somewhat right, most of the guys of out race are kinda nerdy but some are fairly good looking. Indian Asians have feminine genes that’s why I hate being an Indian guy because I got girly eyelashes and man-boobs. Arghhh I’m such a disgrace to my race that I feel like killing myself=x
UglyAsianGuy
23 Jul 2007 @ 2:49 pm
No girl would ever really like me, I got feminine features=x and dark around the eyes.
23 Jul 2007 @ 8:15 pm
UglyAsianGuy -
And to think some people say that satire is a dying art form…
28 Jul 2007 @ 10:33 pm
Well, I read all the blogs! Wow we ARE some messed up humans aren’t we? Everyone’s giving their comments (which are good), however, in many cases, not all, others are STRONGLY rebutting and attacking each other opinion! I guess that is what this site is for isn’t it? Does anyone remember the old song “live and let live?” Please keep that in mind when someone post their thoughts, and even if THEY are narrow-minded, try to overlook that fault, because I believe in general we can get along and respect each others opinions.
Well, my opinion is this. When I look at women, I tend to go after what I am attracted to at the current time. I am sure a lot of people out there have dated several races, and even possibly gone back and forth, as I have. So what is the deal? Well it is all about what interests you then. If it is due to socio-economic to sexual reasons, it just doesn’t matter. If a union between two people is created and is successful (which is relative to each case), the I thinks it is great for those people and the world in general. On that note, currently and for the last 10 years, I find myself attracted to Asian women. I would not ever say they are the best in the world for everyone, but I will definitely say, THEY ARE THE BEST IN THE WORLD FOR ME!!!! Especially the Filipinas!, and Vietnamese, Thai, Laos, Indonesian, and on and on…lol (order not important)
Thanks for your time…
hostile witness's deadbeat mom
29 Jul 2007 @ 12:16 am
unfortunately, my son here got a lot of inept genes from me. therefore he was never able to establish a normal relationship with a white girl his whole life. as a result, like many loser/ pedaphilic white guys, he settles for the bottom of the female totem pole: THE ASIAN FEMALES.
its the only body he can handle. i mean what other girls have the build of a 12 yr old boy (except without a penis)
jakes
30 Jul 2007 @ 12:54 am
I never have any problem getting an asian woman nor do I have any problem getting mexican, white, and/or black chick. This is coming from an asian guy. To be honest, I prefer mexican chicks over asian. They are sexy and have more to show. Don’t get me wrong, I wouldn’t mind dating an asian girl.
30 Jul 2007 @ 8:54 am
Hi Jakes -
When you say “getting,” do you mean dating or do you mean S-E-X? What would you say is the secret to your success? I’m not asking for myself of course, more as a public service.
Desirae
30 Jul 2007 @ 10:02 am
Hey Jakes! MEXICAN GIRLS ROCK! I mean…I think there are so many hot latin women that alot of White men, and Asian men by association, are forgetting.
Shakira, Christina Agulara, Jennifer Lopez, Penelope Cruz, Jessica Alba, Eve Longoria…they all have a bit of latin in them if not full blooded.
I mean Asian girls are cool too, as I said before I am Mexican part french and I have a cousin who is half Japanese half Mexican but she doesn’t pride one race over the other. Thats a real women. By the way…shes got great curves! Not pre-adolescent boy body!
Hispanics are full of life, laughter, beauty, art and are opininated and not afraid to live a little…They are beautiful just as White women, Indian Women, Polynesian women, Black women. Asian women aren’t best. GET OVER IT WHITE MEN!
BeyondOurBorders
2 Aug 2007 @ 5:59 pm
I would like to comment that among foreign-born Asians living in North America, many are small, short, petite and feminine. Of course, these traits work in favour of Asian females but against Asian males. However, these traits do not necessarily apply to the Asians who were born in North America, especially if they grew up on a North American diet. In any case, it is usually the short skinny Asian dudes who will stick with their own race of women because they prefer women who are smaller then they are, and it is usually only Asian women who will meet this criterion. The taller and larger built Asian guys often do date outside their race. This is what I notice in North America.
As far as Asian men and interracial relationships go, we may fall short in Anglo-cultured nations like the U.S. and Canada. However, the world reaches far beyond North America. Asian men actually do quite fine in Latin America, the Caribbean and parts of Europe. I think one of the reasons for this may be that overseas Asian men who live outside of North America are more open-minded. They don’t have as much of the obnoxious “yellow pride” in them.
There is nothing wrong with Asian women preferring white men. It’s not like Asian women “belong” to us Asians. I personally find beauty in women of all races and kinds: Asian, Latina, black, white, aboriginal, middle-eastern, goths, emos, vampire chicks, etc.
The right answer
5 Aug 2007 @ 12:07 pm
Asian men have the smallest penis sizes recorded and have a smaller average then the rest of men that is the true reason why asian women go for other men
Rikus
5 Aug 2007 @ 2:35 pm
XD I so knew someone would say that… idiot. That’s not the reason and that’s not true. White men are treated as a fashion accessory and that’s why they are treated like that. If and asian girl would live in an all white society she would be treated like that too. (USA doesn’t count)
At least don’t act like the short fat immature 14 year old that you really are. Praise your penis in your hand and not on the internet.
13
7 Aug 2007 @ 6:45 am
Why are all you people thinking of the Asian girls having the body of a pre-adolescent dude?
You people are so close-minded and idiotic. How retarded. Obviously you haven’t seen alot of Asian girls who aren’t flat chested. Or flat butted or whatever.
For those of you using these pathetic ordering of ethnicity, you are one shallow person. Sure there are flat chested, small girls, but it doesn’t have to be in the category of Asians.
There are Latinos, Caucasians, and African Americans that are flat and there are actually Asians that aren’t flat and dead skinny.
Wake up people, your stereotypical images of races are WRONG.
Chi
10 Aug 2007 @ 5:50 am
Dasirae you mentioned that your boyfriend use to date an asian woman..sounds like you’re really jealous. You seem quite insecure in that category. There are beautiful women in every culture. But don’t start hating because you’re insecure about who your boyfriend dated before you.
Desirae
10 Aug 2007 @ 3:17 pm
To Chi,
First of all, my name is Desirae and my boyfriend didn’t just date an Asian woman he almost married one. I’m a little jealous that they almost tied the knot so to speak but I am not insecure. He tells me I am the most beautiful, funny, understanding,sexy person he has ever known. He says he has shown me sides of himself and told me things he has never been able to talk to anyone about. I know he loves me…so I have never felt the need to put down his ex to make myself feel better. So you are wrong there.
Secondly, I don’t hate Asian women. My cousin is Asian. Shes half Japanese and half Mexican and she is by far my best friend. I have even been to Japan when we stayed with her grandparents one summer. So I am not “hating” as you so ignorantly put it.
Thirdly, What I do hate is the obsession of Asian Women over all other women. The other day I overheard a middle aged Caucassian man talk to his friend about how he wanted to “get in on the whole Asian women thing because they are the pick of the litter right now.”
Needless to say I was COMPLETELY DISGUSTED. Its getting ridiculous. Asian Women are beautiful…some are but not all of them. They are not better then all other women.
Proud Asian Man
11 Aug 2007 @ 4:38 pm
White people look like shit! Stop insulting asian men you fags.
Lisa
11 Aug 2007 @ 4:40 pm
It is a persons own business if they don’t find a particular person or race attractive. Get over it, you can’t control people. Why is someone considered a small minded racist if they aren’t attracted to a certain race? Gee, grow up control freaks.
Asians
11 Aug 2007 @ 5:09 pm
Excerpted from UrbanDictionary.com
“On almost all other academic studies and scientific researches ever undertaken has proven that Asian penises are just as large as Caucasian penises. The average for both are approximately 5.5 to 6 inches. However, Asian men do not stray far from this average, whilst Caucasian men do. For every Caucasian man with a 9-inch penis, there is one with a 3-inch one. And for every Asian with a 7-inch penis, there is one with a 5-inch one. There are more Caucasians with large penises, but there are also more Caucasians with smaller penises, even smaller than those of many Asians. This fact has also been known for a long time, but stereotypes remain widely “accepted.”
I realize that Urban Dictionary is not definitely not a reliable source of information, but the definition sure as hell sounds convincing for opressed asian men everwhere.
Rikus
13 Aug 2007 @ 1:48 am
Hey, Desirae
You honestly think that your boyfriend would say that his last girlfriend was better than you?! Of course not if he doesn’t want to be left alone! Any guy will say that you are the best and so on and so on. Jesus, don’t be so naive!
13 Aug 2007 @ 7:48 am
Why is everyone picking on Desirae? She sounds hot to me. In fact, I’m going to start dating Mexican girls — there are lots here in SoCal — if my wife will let me…
Desirae
13 Aug 2007 @ 10:56 am
Thanks Hostile Witness….
To Rikus
(Cute name by the way. Is that Riku from Kingdom Hearts?) I believe my boyfriend because he was very honest. He told me things I wanted to hear and things I didn’t. He didn’t have to tell me everything he did tell me about his past relationship…but he has nothing to hide. He said that he and his ex weren’t particularily sexually active…and he couldn’t show her sides of him that he shows me. He has told me things about his past that he hasn’t even told his family…things that have caused him alot of pain…
Who am I to say he is lying?
After all, if she was really that great, he would be with her now. But he said he realized that she was not what he wanted…and he didn’t think he could ever meet someone like me. It’s been six months and he wants to move in…he bought me a laptop and a bike so we could go bike riding by the beach (one of my favorite past times besides video games)
He never went to concerts with her…(its obvious because he doesn’t know much about music) he didn’t go clubbing (we don’t even want to get into his dancing skills or lack thereof) they didn’t even go to movies (the last movie he saw before me was Finding Nemo) And while he was with her, he spent most of his time of World of Warcraft…he has a level 60 character to prove it. She was obviously not that exciting….and he loves me not because I’m ‘better than her’ because she wasn’t much to compare to…he loves me because I have changed his life. Asian or Mexican-French…does it matter?
Robert
14 Aug 2007 @ 6:11 pm
Well hey there,
I’m a mexican from South Cal, and I didnt read ALL of the posts but just enough. The only thing I disagree is that Asian Men and Middle Eastern men/women are ugly.
I am mexican and I find Asian women attractive, most so than any other race. This was before I saw the whole media and was exposed to the whole white men-asian women thing going on. Ive dated From most races. Hispanic, Caucasian, Indian, and of course Asian girls. Now I’ve already said that I prefer dating Asian girls and thats just me. I see nothing wrong with anyone else and I think that every ethnic background has beautiful women. But from my dating experience I have noticed that Asian women do primarily go for white guys. Just like I prefer Asian girls, Asian girls prefer white men. I sure as heck cant explain why I prefer Asian girls so i dont expect them to either. It is harder to date them, but I’ve been out with enough Asian girls to know that just because they prefer white guys, doesnt mean they’ll only go for white guys. I’m just happy I’ve had the opportinity to share relationships with the women in my life and I hope that my true love is out there and asian
jp
14 Aug 2007 @ 10:25 pm
the two best looking women in the world in my opinion are jessica simpson and marisa miller better looking than any asian models I’ve seen.
Tommy
16 Aug 2007 @ 6:33 am
Let’s get one things straight, all this talk abour race and shit is all old and boring. One thing that nobody mentioned is LOVE. Love is not a race is a feeling.
LeRoi Jones
16 Aug 2007 @ 7:38 am
Hey Tommy -
Love is an evil word. Turn it backwards. See, see what I mean? An evol word. And besides who understands it? I certainly wouldn’t like to go out on that kind of limb.
Rikus
18 Aug 2007 @ 3:47 am
…you know Tommy made a good point…
To Desirae
“I agree with Gill…Asian women aren’t particularily attractive…they are flat. They almost look like pre-adolesecent boys.”
“Asian or Mexican-French…does it matter?”
…i wonder what made you change your thoughts…
If i was a girl things that your boyfriend said would make me feel special and melt like chocholate (just what men want not what they think)
Oh and if he dumped his ex and one of the reasons was no sexual activity… well.. that makes me wonder what he wants out of you…
cj93070
18 Aug 2007 @ 7:03 am
i have to say i have dated a asain girl and i can say they are tighter than the white girls but i cant stop having my own race white girls are the best.
18 Aug 2007 @ 12:23 pm
I think Rikus likes Desirae.
Rikus
19 Aug 2007 @ 3:42 am
I think Hostile Witness is jealous XD
Jay
19 Aug 2007 @ 6:02 am
I disagree on the comment about Asian women being much better-looking than Asian men. In Hawaii I’d say that the Asian men here tend to look better than the Asian girls. LOL! That’s part of the reason I tend to go more for the multiethnic females instead. The Asian and White guys can have the Asian girls here b/c a lot of them aren’t that great. Quite a few major metropolitan areas in Asia and the U.S. mainland have had better-looking Asian girls than in Hawaii.
Desirae
20 Aug 2007 @ 9:47 am
To Rikus…(I’m going to assume thats Riku from Kingdom Hearts..I love that game!)= ^ - ^ =
I’m terribly confused…are you argueing that my boyfriend doesn’t love me? Or that Asian women are better than other women? I think your getting a little too defensive…
I agreed with Gil…Asian women aren’t particularily attractive…not to me. And I do think they (not all of them) look like pre-adolescent boys. I was saying, “Asian or Mexiacn-French, does it matter,” talking about my boyfriend…meaning he doesn’t care what race I am…
As I said before, he tells me things I do want to hear and things I don’t. He is always completely honest. And he didn’t break up with her because they didn’t have sex often. He really isn’t a shallow person. After all, he did ask her to marry him…And he was in a long distance relationship(she lived in Japan he lived here in California)for a year! He broke up with her for a number of reasons one of them being he didn’t love her anymore…their relationship died and she was not what he wanted.
Oh and my cousin (who is half Japanese half Mexican, she has family in Fukuoka) thinks all of this is hilarious…she says that “Asian women aren’t the best and that white men need to wake up and smell the tofu!”
Chuck
20 Aug 2007 @ 9:34 pm
May the future be bright and white, brothers!
All those ugly, stupid BROWN MEN should all be rounded up and sent to Mars or something (or a crematorium) I mean no-ones going to miss their UGLY, FUGLY faces.
God didn’t make them in his image, he ain’t brown or black or Chinese! He’s white, and proud of it. Why else are white countries so superior, and all these brown hordes wanna come over, huh? Only their brown, and yella, women should be allowed in I reckon (and young only). Middle-Eastern men should all be nuked, that’ll stop terrorism.
Robert
21 Aug 2007 @ 9:00 pm
To Chuck..
Dude you totally sound like a Nazi. Very racist comments. Not gonna say anything else, you’ll burn in hell regardless.
Anywho… ;b…. People need to start remembering that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Who you people think is attractive is not necessarily who everyone else thinks is attractive. I mean jessica simpson might be ok looking but she’s so duumb, shes the perfect example of a dumb blonde. And you know what, so are other girls from other ethnic backgrounds. They’re just not that well known for it. Asian girls arent the best in the world but neither is anyone else, its just a matter of preference. Ppl just need to realize that, otherwise we get retarded comments like my friend nazi chuck there.
Candy
22 Aug 2007 @ 1:09 am
may you & your wife be blessed with many sons. unfortunately by what you said, he’d be half asian & therefore ugly & boring. :/ hmmm. Let’s think before we speak, shall we?…
Candy
22 Aug 2007 @ 1:10 am
that was directed toward the author of that blog post.
not to the person above my comment.
22 Aug 2007 @ 9:48 am
Hi Candy -
I didn’t say mixed kids were ugly and boring. Actually mixed kids, or wasians as we call them here in SoCal, are usually pretty good-looking.
My son’s a handsome fellow if I say so myself, and not boring. My wife’s sister is married to a white guy in Australia…they have two attractive daughters who are not boring either.
No wait, we were supposed to be talking about men…
OK, Tiger Woods is half Asian, and he’s a good-looking young man. He is boring though, so maybe you can’t generalize…
Confused
23 Aug 2007 @ 6:05 am
Hi Witness…
Im confused, the site makes generalised statements and lots of claims that are not entirely founded and yet you say “maybe you can’t generalise.”
Its a little hard to take this blog seriously when its overall message is “Im right, you’re wrong, no matter what.”
I just wonder at the accuracy and credability, and ulterior motives, and obvious bias’ this site has… Oh well, we are all entitled to our opinion. Although opinions in the end, are not set in stone, and obviously, if a site like this claims truth, then it is clear there is an obvious surpluss of ignorance.
Snow White Queen
23 Aug 2007 @ 8:58 am
I think your iggnorance is pretty amusing,you talk smack about males of another race who are im guessing much better looking than you with better personalities also,I’ve seen plenty of very good looking,sexy asian males who are in no way shape or form boring….we all have different tastes when it comes to looks and what is considered fun and exciting,you probablly thought writing this blog was just that,I myself find it sad and pathetic you would write something like this but hey whatever floats your boat hun
hmm maybe I should write a blog about arrogant,iggnorant white guys?
Rikus
23 Aug 2007 @ 12:46 pm
To Desirae
(I have no idea what is kingdom of hearts)
I’m just trying to point out that it doesn’t matter what race you are!!! There is no “standart” look for women so you can’t judge what looks good and what doesn’t. I don’t know why but everybody thinks that a woman should have big boobs and a large ass… and they call it normal. I just don’t like this yankee fetish.
Desirae
24 Aug 2007 @ 10:23 am
To Confused
“I just wonder at the accuracy and credability, and ulterior motives, and obvious bias’ this site has”
Well…I’m sorry that this site is particularily low browed but there is somthing you must understand…this is just a forum, not a Parlimentary Debate…and when it comes to race and beauty…there isn’t evidence merely opinion. No one here is credible as no one is expert. Go elsewhere if you want some serious discussions.
To Rikus
Well Kingdom Hearts is a Japanese video game for the Playstation 2…Riku is the name of my favorite character…(i love video games you see…) And I agree. I believe that women of all nationalities are beautiful as Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder.
What I don’t agree with is that just because a woman is Asian she is suddenly irresistable…I don’t think that Asian women are the best. And actually…if we want to talk about “Yankees” well…most Americans like thin women with small breasts and small butts. Just look at our modern day models and actresses…
24 Aug 2007 @ 12:31 pm
Hi Desirae -
Lowbrow!? Ouch.
Some of the comments are lowbrow but I don’t see the site as being lowbrow. Did you know, for example, that there’s a whole page of poetry? What’s more highbrow than poetry? Opera maybe, but that’s about it.
Btw, my original point was not that Asian women are better looking than other women, but that Asian women are far better looking than Asian men, which is why they hook up with big, handsome white guys…
HazenRuneZXT4
24 Aug 2007 @ 6:27 pm
I’m an Asian girl… and my opinion is… I’d totally date an Asian guy. However… it is a bit scary when some of the said-Asian guys are “prettier” than most girls.
The problem with me is that… some of the Asian guys I know are just plain “beautiful”. Not handsome, not pretty, not cute.
But beautiful.
What am I talking about?
Sadly, there seems to be no middle ground for Asian guys @_@. They are either extremely attractive… or they aren’t at all (at least the ones that I’ve seen so far in my life… and believe me, there have been tons).
As far as I’m concerned though, race really doesn’t matter to me.
Though, if I could date THIS guy… I’d be in heaven:
Unfortunately for me, a lot of the hot ones are gay. Bummer… but I’m not surprised LOL!
HazenRuneZXT4
24 Aug 2007 @ 6:28 pm
The pics disappeared @_@!!!
Here’s the URL LOL!!!
http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r157/Tsukiko_Yukisuzu/Hero%20Jaejoong/157.jpg
Candy
25 Aug 2007 @ 3:39 am
Hostile Witness:
Sorry, but, I think you should make up your mind. Either Asian men are ugly or they aren’t. That includes your son, since the predominant gene will be Asian & I’m sure he has the slanty Asian eyes & all that. As far as the outside world goes, he’ll be considered Asian & by your own ignorance and your own standards, you have just called your own son ugly, boring & undesirable. The same goes for your father-in-law & all of your wife’s male relatives. Gee, how nice of you.
As for Asian men being unattractive or weak or whatever, I’d suggest you take a look at: http://www.asianhunk.net/ There’s tons of gorgeous Asian men on that site.
Confused- I agree with what you said.
Snow White Queen- I agree with what you said as well.
HazenRuneZXT4- You have good taste! Hero Jaejoong is really attractive!
You wanna see some “manly” (by western standards) Asian men? Check out this guy: http://male.thedailymodel.com/bae-yung/ or this guy: http://male.thedailymodel.com/brian-yu/#more-224
Maybe the author & the rest of the racist, ignorant people who believe this kind of bullcrap just happen to meet or come across the wrong types of Asian guys. You see what you want to see, not what is really there. You forget that martial arts come from Asia.. You forget that French/European women consider Asian men to be superior lovers.. You forget that on numerous occasions, the world was controlled by Asians… Some of the most feared swordsmen and martial artists were not big, bulky men… But they could very easily drop big, bulky men like flies.
Overall, I find this kind of talk to be very disrespectful, especially to those guys who are white & who are married to or going out with Asian women, because you’re basically calling your father-in-law an ugly, boring, undesirable man.. But at the same time, if it weren’t for him, you wouldn’t have an Asian wife or girlfriend.. Your wife/girlfriend came from an Asian man. You’re also calling your own sons ugly, boring & undesirable, because they’re half Asian & the Asian gene is the dominant one. Either Asian men are ugly, boring & undesirable, or they’re not.
Another thing to think about is that just because your kid has half caucasian genes, doesn’t mean he’s going to be considered caucasian. Most people will think of him as being Asian, because he’s all but guaranteed to have slanty, Asian eyes & a more golden skin tone, which means that when he grows up, he’ll have to face the exact kind of racism and ignorance that you guys are preaching and promoting on this website.. He won’t be able to go to you for advice or help, because you just won’t understand. You’ll be completely oblivious to it, and worse, you’ll have participated in making him feel bad about himself, because he’s Asian… His own dad will think Asian men are ugly and boring and undesirable…. Yet he has Asian sons… The irony!!!!
And you know, guys… I’m really sorry to have to tell you this, but, your sons really won’t be exempt from all of the prejudices against him from people like you. There’s a lot more people like you out there, who think Asian men are ugly, boring, undesirable, etc… So… If this is really how you guys feel about Asian men, you shouldn’t have children with an Asian woman, because your sons will be Asian and they’ll have to face this kind of racism, prejudice and stupidity on a daily basis, from people just like you, and it will hurt him. My suggestion would be for you to either don’t have kids with an Asian woman, or learn how to be more open minded, accepting and less blind and ignorant to the extent of your racism.
I feel sorry for your children.
Rikus
25 Aug 2007 @ 4:16 am
Who said that they’re irresistable?
25 Aug 2007 @ 10:05 am
Hi Candy -
I enjoyed reading your post, but you must live in Arkansas or someplace where there are a) no Asians; and b) no qualified biology teachers.
Slanty Asian eyes? Asian is the dominant gene? I love it! And I’m supposed to be the racist?!
Actually my son doesn’t have slanty eyes. Neither do my mixed-race nieces. Neither do any of the well-known mixed-race people I can think of off the top of my head: Tiger Woods, Johnny Damon, Dean Cain, Apolo Ohno…
My wife’s male relatives are in fact unattractive and boring but I can’t seen how that’s my fault.
As far as discrimination against Asians, I’ve never seen that. Where I live in Irvine, there are lots of Asians. My son’s school is about 60 percent Asian. We like them. They value education and good behavior, just like me.
You really should move somewhere where there are Asians and modern science instruction in the schools. Then you could form opinions based on something other than Asian hunk websites…
W
26 Aug 2007 @ 4:27 am
Obviously you haven’t lived where there are enough white people. I suggest you move to a place where you can actually see completely obnoxious and scrawny (or fat) white guys with every kind of loser-like features. Oh, wait. Forget it. Just look into a mirror.
26 Aug 2007 @ 9:16 am
Hi W -
What grade are you in? Do your parents know you’re looking at grownup sites?
Rikus
26 Aug 2007 @ 12:25 pm
This is a grownup site?!
Sonya
29 Aug 2007 @ 10:46 pm
Stumbled across this site and it’s pretty interesting. I guess I should give the lowdown. A man will never be able to completely figure out why a woman does what she does unless he asks her directly. Being a woman myself, I can tell you, we have complicated, downright ludicrous reasons for our decisions.
The rest is just speculation from men’s perspectives.
I am an asian woman of Chinese & Thai heritage. I am currently with a white guy. However, I’m not with him because he’s “white”. I am a college student. He and I met through a common hobby (video games - I kid you not) and we found we had a lot in common. I cannot tell you how many times he gets dirty looks from Asian guys and even Asian girls when we go to the movies or the mall or something. It is a little saddening to see people who are so BITTER about something that is really none of their business. They make these snap assumptions about us just because of race. They don’t know us, and assume that I’m only with him because he’s white. I’m sorry to say, but I’m extremely picky. Being a certain race is not enough to hold up a relationship for me. We just have a lot of similar hobbies — however none of those people who give dirty looks and say I’m a “sell out” will believe this. I’ve tried explaining to people. They are just so pissed off and angry — and for what?
When I see an asian boy with a white girl, I don’t give him dirty looks. In fact most of the time I try not to stare at people — it’s rude. Who cares what other people do, as long as they are happy? I don’t sit there and give him the death stare and think “wow he’s dating a white girl, he’s a sell out”. Give me a freaking break. How can some of you (the really angry Asian kids - yes kids because only the young ones have been emo angry at me) sit there, and make these judgments when you have no idea how the two people met, the circumstances behind their relationship. Talk to couples who are happy — there is almost always a story for them to tell about how they ran into each other or something. It is never just about “she was white and that was it” unless you’re talking to someone who has a mail order bride. People meet at work, at school, at the mall, the bar, the bookstore, the park…hell now they meet online and half of them don’t even see the pics until later.
How can some of you just sit there and say “sell out” when people meet in so many different ways in mixed quarters? You honestly expect everyone to just not mingle?
Just because you’re friends with someone who is different, or you are going out with someone who is different, this does not mean you’re “abandoning” your race. I still cook Asian food, eat Asian food, celebrate traditional events with my family etc etc. It’s mind boggling that so many Asian youths have this idea that if you’re going out with someone different, suddenly that means you hate being Asian. Nothing could be further from the truth.
Some of you kids need to educate yourselves about the dangers and pitfalls of self segregation. THIS WILL GET YOU NOWHERE IN THE WORKING (re: the real world where mommy and daddy won’t pay for your stuff) WORLD. You will never learn anything about people who are different if you refuse to talk to them, get to know them, hang out with them etc. I have friends of all different races and mostly, we’re all friends because of similar hobbies, or through school or work. It has nothing to do with race. Nothing angers me more than to see Asian kids who only want to hang out with each other because these are the same ones who cry about others being racist towards them even though they are self segregating. It’s ridiculous. And excluding yourself from other groups of people just because they are white/whatever other race is really going to hurt you in the real working world. You’re dreaming if you think you’re going to work at a place that is 100% asian for your entire career. Why not try and make friends with those people who seem so different?
The whole rant aside, and I realize I probably opened a can of worms, but for God’s sake it’s all freaking true. To the angry Asian kids who enjoy saying “sell out” and giving dirty looks: If you want to just hang out with each other, fine, but don’t get all up in arms when you see different people mixing it up. It’s bound to happen in modern society and heavily populated areas. You could always try mixing it up yourselves - oh wait that’s right… you’re racist and only want to date people who are exactly like you. What a conundrum. Asians who cry racism but can’t possibly be bothered to even so much as say hi to people who are not asian.
Oh and I can’t speak for the other women but here’s my deal.
I’ve dated chinese guys, filipino guys, latino guys, and white guys. Black guys were always out of the question — parents don’t accept them. My dad got robbed twice by young black men. The whole gunpoint thing didn’t exactly sell him on black people. It’s not a matter of the Asian girls not finding black men attractive. I see a black man posted about this. It’s a matter of the girls debating whether they are going to hide or lie about a relationship because their families will not accept that person. It’s sad, but it’s true. And most guys if they are serious, don’t want to be hidden from the girl’s family like some embarassment.
As for what women find attractive — you can’t ever nail this down to one or two factors. Me personally, he’s got to be 5′8″ or taller (this puts him a few inches taller than me - a huge must), not too fat, not too skinny. And before some Asian guys start crying, my 2 older brothers are both 5′10″ and 5′11″. I’ve known plenty who are 5′8 or above, so please don’t use this as some excuse for why you think you get unfairly rejected or something.
Basically no extremes one way or the other. The face is really important but you can’t rationalize this. This is like men trying to rationalize using their 1-10 scale of hotness on women. You just know if she’s hot or not. It’s the same for women in how they view men, and this applies to men of all races etc etc.
Oh and Hostile Witness I wouldn’t worry about people viewing your child/children negatively at all due to having some asian heritage.
Most people find mixed race people extremely attractive. Have friends who are half asian/white or black or latino or mixed asian or what have you. The ladies aren’t going to care what he is - if he’s cute he’s fair game.
30 Aug 2007 @ 7:54 am
Hi Sonya -
Thanks for the great comment. You wrote:
This isn’t specific to Asians…I’ve been trying to put my finger on this for years and could never quite articulate it in one sentence like that.
I hate it when the commenters provide better insights than I do…
Rikus
30 Aug 2007 @ 1:04 pm
Please from now on add the keywords you used to find this site at the end of your comment. (I want to see if anybody used the keywords Asians and Girls.)
30 Aug 2007 @ 1:17 pm
Hi Rikus -
Where are your keywords? You broke your own rule.
I can answer your question though. The words “girls,” “asian,” “white” and “guys” — in that frequency — do show up as search keywords fairly often in the server logs, sometimes in various combinations and sometimes with naughty words included.
Shame on all of you…
Sonya
30 Aug 2007 @ 8:16 pm
Rikus I regularly read modelminority.com and singleasianmale.com. Somehow on one of those sites, there was a cross link to this site.
After reading all of that whining and complaining, I really think some people need to pull their heads out of their a$$es and seriously do something about their seemingly “unfair” experiences of rejection. Clean up one’s image, start working out, take up new hobbies… the women will appear. Oh and the other thing is, for god’s sakes… have the guts to ask a girl out. Do not give cop out excuses for why you think she will say no before you’ve even said hi to her. Sometimes these things are self fulfilling prophecies.
“I’m not going to ask her out, she’s not asian so she’ll say no”
then turn around and think:
“man asian girls are such sell outs, they are always going out with other guys of other races…aka they are going out with anyone but me..poor little me…cry”
Women don’t want emo whiners. They want confident go getters. Race doesn’t matter when you think of it on a basic level like this. There are just as many white guys who are pathetic whiners too. People just need more confidence.
Desirae
31 Aug 2007 @ 11:06 am
I second what Sonya said. You rock! = ^ - ^ =
Robert
3 Sep 2007 @ 12:50 am
i third??? what sonya said ;b
yea talking to friends, the biggest reason these guys cant find girls is b/c they dont spend the time or effort looking for them.
wise man
4 Sep 2007 @ 9:35 am
hey chuck A scoundrel plots evil, and his speech is like a scorching fire.
virgin boy
4 Sep 2007 @ 10:30 pm
My goodness, i can’t believe this. People have time to read such a BULLSHIT thread and react . All of us should understand that such threads and comments are started by a FRUSTRATED loser who have nothing to do, have no way to vent out his anger. So, the best thing to do when you come across such a thread is just to ignore it. Even if you find people PATHETIC don’t try to enlighten them. They are just a bunch of FOOLS who love to play fool.
This discussion ,or whatever you wuould like to call it, has gone too far . Now it should be ended.
PS:: This crap was written by a pathetic and frustrated creature also.
Tyler
5 Sep 2007 @ 4:02 pm
asian girls are sexy =]
JD
5 Sep 2007 @ 10:03 pm
Desiae ’s comment about asian women are right on. There are beautiful and ugly women in all races.
But, there are more uglies in the asian race then most others. Even my mother said so. Oh, by the way, I am an asian male with a quarter of French. A very well adjusted asian American male. And no, we are not a self hating family. My mother is very beautiful, she’s definately not a typical looking asian person. Myself, I have complete confidence in my looks and routinely mistaken for a latino by people of all races.
Before all the “Asian-Pride” losers get all bent out of shape and start attacking my post, open your eyes and look in the mirrors.
It is what it is. I live in Souther California, the biggest concentration of asian in the US. I see asian everywhere I go, and most asian girls are flat ( face and body ). The ugliest tend to be Chinese and Koreans. Big round flat face with slitty eyes.
Oh sure, there are pretty ones too. About one for every 100 of ugly ones. It ’s really hard to find a complete package. If they’re pretty, they are usually short or flat.
I ‘ve dated women of all races: ” White, Hispanic, Asian, Black, even Persian ” . My current girlfriend is a Mexican and to me, she’s very attractive.
We ‘re only discussing physical attributes. Ofcourse, there are more than just physical attraction in a healthy relationship, but that is a totally different subject.
Tyler from above, ” Are you from the LA area and drive a VW ? “. If you are , then know you man, you have an asian fetish.
Rikus
6 Sep 2007 @ 8:09 am
To JD,
Don’t call them ugly just because you are a yank and think women should have giant boobs.
Elm
7 Sep 2007 @ 9:07 am
JD,
That means inherently, you’re 3/4 ugly by 99/100 chance.
Poor thing.
7 Sep 2007 @ 4:53 pm
U.S. Asian girls saclude themselves. Even more so, when you “put yourself out there.” Especially in N.O. I had the privalage to go to San Francisco,I was aproached by (one) a beautiful chinese girl,then she turned around and started dateing some random black guy. HAHA, am I lucky or what! I’m being sarcastic! I dono maybe they have there reasons. You’d go crazy tring to figure it out though. Any advice or comments hit me up at myspace.com/DYNASTY191 (pics are also posted)
Nicholas McCartney
7 Sep 2007 @ 8:32 pm
Hi, I’m white and I can say for certainty that I will not EVER procreate outside my own race. Why, you wonder. It is because I believe that no person should be left to the dog of impurity. I think it is sick the way some people try to capitalize off of others’ so called “weaknesses”. We are all weak in our own ways “racially speaking”.
Why, I do think that Asian people (women) are very attractive, but I believe the principal in purity of the race comes first and foremost as all different cultures. (mostly) every country brings something to the table of what is modern day humanity. The (mostly) is relative to me being an American first, humanitarian second and how these individuals hurt, maim and destroy more than they contribute. I am a Caucasian of a lighter hue consisting of blond a hair and eyes of azure and I would be damned if my genes are sullied by the likes of those who have darker features. Not that I think that other kinds of people are inferior to mine, brown or black hair I could understand, but take my eyes and I have nothing substantial to pass on. My existence would be futile as if I were better off slaying myself in my mother’s womb.I despise race traitors, or supremacists for these assholes offset the balance of all communities but most importantly show neglect and dishonor to people Who are heartfelt and diligent family aspiring guys and girls.. to think you have to settle ( for something less than their true potential). Thank you and I did not mean to offend. I love all different cultures and for true Love there is no countermeasure. I humbly apologize to all who might have found acceptance in true compassionate intimacy in another race. In fact out of good faith you can leave your comments/complaints to my Email address which is : Electric_brigand@sbcglobal.net
Nicholas McCartney
7 Sep 2007 @ 9:24 pm
Sorry, forgot to add, I’m a male of 6′2 and I would not settle for an offspring less than, unless by an inch or so. It’s just that a lot of males in my town of Lawrence,Kansas are sometimes 6′4 and “short” is not in the inevitable future, sorry about that.
J.Q
8 Sep 2007 @ 11:42 pm
For those Asian girls prefer dating white guys over Asian guys are truly sad, I believe the reason for that is many believe being with a white guy gave em a better perception from society point of view. Somehow put them in a higher class category (not the white trash type). I had a white girl told me once at the bar, she truly thinks the reason most white girls do not go for Asian guys are then think they might have a smaller dick.(she only assume that because the media and how society views Asian men) Here is a fun fact- National average is 6’, so my follow Asian brothers if u meet the min requirements, feel free go out there and feel confident explore it (not in a gay way thou). I am a little buzzed….lol
Nicholas M.
9 Sep 2007 @ 11:57 am
J.Q.
There are white women who’ll get into relationships with Asian men,(take that Japanese guy from Miami Ink) but these are “nice” girls. I wish the U.S. was full of these kinds of woman, but it seems the opposite. It’s not their fault really considering the way “we” have exploited them. The point is that any woman that puts emphasis on penis size probably isn’t worth much more in her current state than a hook-up or a late night booty-call.
If that’s what you want then go for it, but remember “pack those condoms”. Biologically speaking Penis size doesn’t matter (I won’t go into to that since most already know..) Of course since their are more promiscuous people today, there are more psychological implications involved. Sadly my friend 6′ isn’t going to please these girls…I mean my penis is longer than 6′ by 1.3′ and two ladies out of my 15 lady sexual history, commented that my penis was small, but here’s the kicker, they had sex with me anyway. another factor you have to add is girth which is physically more important than length. The most important thing for men to remember is if your not happy with your size, you can fix this problem via devices,techniques,or surgery(pills too although I’m skeptical..) The point is that “hook-up” girls aren’t worth it when it comes to marriage,family,etc. (in their current state) and of course these ladies can change(here’s hoping..) I converted to Christianity about two years ago, so cheers to you Lord. I’ve only fallen victim to my most depraved desires once with a woman since then. human-sexuality (such a burden) I’m 26 though and you might be younger than I so it’s only natural for you to want to explore it further, just take care and be wise about it, but I finally found a lady I can take it slow with and hopefully in the future I might be a husband and a father and that is all that is important to me anymore and I’m proud to say she’s Caucasian like me. By the way, why are Asians so happy all the time. I mean every