Wives of Spanking Husbands Club
26 Jan 2008 / PEFrom the front page of the Los Angeles Times 70 years ago today, Jan. 26, 1938:
Wives of Spanking Husbands
Form Girls’ Auxiliary to ClubSIOUX FALLS (S. D.) Jan. 25 (AP) — Wives of Spanking Husbands’ Club, organized in Sioux City, Iowa, and parent organization of fifty-nine such clubs throughout the nation according to its own figures–reached out for another slice of territory today.
The Iowa housewives who consider it a mark of esteem for their husbands to wield a disciplinary hairbrush once in a while, announced plans today for a junior auxiliary–Daughters of Spanking Parents.
ELIGIBLE GIRLS
A letter received here from Sioux City and signed “Rita Rae, general delivery,” told of plans for the new organization for which she claimed an initial membership of seventeen. Any girl above the age of 11 years is eligible to join, Mrs. Rae wrote.
“We think all parents should spank their daughters when they don’t behave,” Mrs. Rae wrote. “Some girls won’t admit it, but the really know it is better to get spanked than scolded and nagged. Spanking creates a better understanding between parents and daughters.”
MERELY SPANKED
Mrs. Rae is the president of the Wives of Spanking Husbands, which was organized last June 26 under the broad-minded slogan “Spare the hairbrush and spoil the wife.”
“Our husbands don’t beat us,” the Sioux City woman was careful to explain. “They just turn us over their knees and give us a good sound spanking.”
mike
8 Feb 2008 @ 10:52 am
I am into spanking also wife kids.
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joe
4 Mar 2008 @ 4:23 pm
My wife if not spanked becomes a brat.We have a friend who we role play with and he comes to assist in her spanking when she gets real naughty,it puts a nice erotic edge to the scene.
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hugh
23 Apr 2008 @ 5:06 am
i get spanked by my wife when i do something which gets her upset. i agree to be punished otk bare with her hairbrush. it is quite painful but sure is better than getting arguments along with hours of silemce.
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Janine Harewood
12 Aug 2008 @ 1:37 am
I was spanked by my parents as a child and now am spanked by my husband sometimes. I have never liked being spanked but sometimes I am bratty and a spanking makes me snap out of it.
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pansy
30 Aug 2008 @ 10:23 pm
My husband, and his parents, spank my bare fanny regularly. It is very humiliating, not to mention painful to be spanked and made to stand in the corner or to have my bare bottom paddled privately or publically. i know i deserve each punishment and always thank the person spanking me for teaching me a good lesson, because I know I have been naughty and disobedient. Yesterday, my husband disapproved of my actions and he turned me over his knee and spanked me at Wal-Mart. People laughed and applauded and encouraged him to take my panties down and spank my bare fanny – which he did. After that, he took me to his parents’ house and his daddy paddled me with a hairbrush.
Often, i am naughty and need a good, hard spanking. My husband and his family try to correct me and I know my punishment is deserved. My mother-in-law always paddles my bare bottom with a wooden spoon and reminds my husband to spank me again when he takes me home. i hope my sore bottom will help me behave.
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hugh kitrkpatrick
28 Sep 2008 @ 8:22 am
this story is about me. an adult male who was spanked aschild and after marriage, we entered into the spencer plan of consentual spanking. it works and we each have used spanking for punishment when agreed for it. this works and beats former arguing and silence lasting long periods.
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WTF?
29 Sep 2008 @ 2:28 pm
Y’all live in Utah, doncha…
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BIGHANK2 AOL
1 Oct 2008 @ 12:28 am
I once spanked my girl for using the f-word over my knee with a wooden hairbrush on the bare. She didn’t say that again for a while. She said it again a few days later and I gave her an assignment to write five-hundred times “I will not curse or be disrespectful.” Then I took her over my knee, bared her behind and gave her a sound hand spanking until she apologized.
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hugh kirkpatrick
11 Oct 2008 @ 2:52 am
getting a real old fashioned spanking turns me on. my wifce obliges when i ask for it and she orderes me to go to the bathroom, disrobe. and wait for her. once across her knees, i must tell her why my bottom is going to be tanned. usually it is to relieve built up stress that makes me unbearable. initally the procedure is exciting for me but as the spanking continues the paini becomes quite evident and i beg her to stop. from that point on, i end up crying and promising to behave
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Heather Lottmann
30 Oct 2008 @ 6:44 am
My husband also spanks me. We are in aggreement with DD HOH and when I do smething wrong I am disciplined as well. yesterday my husband caught me in a lie for buying purfume when I was told DO NOT spend any money. He spanked me bare bottom otk and I actually got upset and through a fit after that spanking. BOY WAS THAT THE WRONG THING TO DO. He pulled my pants down again an began spanking me until I wasn’t moving my legs anymore. Lesson learned….never disobey your husbands ladies. But always know that a spanking is out of love!
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Lightning Epps
30 Oct 2008 @ 9:02 am
Hi Heather Lottmann –
Is this you?
http://www.hollywoodauditions.com/talent/lottmann.htm
Bow Wow!
My owner says you deserve another spanking for your bad spelling.
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Rosey
15 Nov 2008 @ 2:56 pm
I would love to be in a relationship with a man who would discipline me when I need it. Not in a mean way, but in a strict way and with love. I can be very bratty at times and I know that if I were to get a maintenance spanking on a weekly basis I would be a much better woman for it. Any men out there looking to be that one special man in my life?
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PE
15 Nov 2008 @ 3:13 pm
@Rosey –
My friend HW is into that kind of thing. He says to send a picture of your ass.
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Marty Smith
21 Nov 2008 @ 8:44 am
I was wondering how you join this club? and where is it located? thank you
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MS
21 Nov 2008 @ 6:59 pm
Marty “Smith”? It would have been a whole lot cooler if you were really Marty McFly, because the club is in Sioux City in 1938. Say hello to Doc Brown for me during your trip to the club meeting.
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PE
21 Nov 2008 @ 8:10 pm
@MS:
You are so funny! He could go back in time and spank Lea Thompson!
No, wait — Lea Thompson was his *mom*. Never mind …
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26 Nov 2008 @ 7:38 am
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knapsi
26 Nov 2008 @ 10:18 am
BTW i was spanked twice in the 5th grade.The 1st time was OTK in the cloak room&administered pretty hard with a ruler by a gorgeous female teacher.during the spanking i got extremley excited&orgasmed(i think).The very next day for no reason she took me into the cloak room again.i thought i was in for a treat until she bent me over the bench,&with a wooden pointer in her hand whipped me until i was screaming so loud the principal came running in&made her stop.i longingly want to receive that treatment&feeling(tho very painful for awhile)again at least once(maybe much more.
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Kit
1 Dec 2008 @ 12:22 pm
My husband spanks me sometimes. It’s usually more part of sex than anything else, but I rack up swats. Bad grades and teasing my husband are two ways I get into trouble. I would like to see him just take me over his knee for real punishment. Not his parents, though (response to pansy). That would be more than I could handle.
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Kit
1 Dec 2008 @ 12:24 pm
There really needs to be another club like this. I’d love to meet other women who get spanked by their husbands.
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Ted
9 Dec 2008 @ 3:13 pm
Hi,I’m a 65 year old man and get spanked by my wife on a regular basis.Sometimes it’s a prelude to sex and other times it’s for pure discipline and punishment.It’s always across her knee and bare bottomed,and administered with a wooden hairbrush or spatula.It hurts like the devil but i wouldn’t want it any other way.The after care makes it all worth while.
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Sharon
9 Dec 2008 @ 10:53 pm
I am a “Born Spoiled Brat” professional and very demanding in every relationship I have had. I am very attractive and know it and throw fits and tamptrums; most men do not want to be with me due to my childish behavior. Looking for a man to take control and bend me over for along due otk bare bottom spanking.
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annie
20 Dec 2008 @ 11:31 pm
i am a sixty some year old woman–married over forty years to the same man——was raised by a mom who used a hairbrush and a dad who never even raised his voice—was spanked til i was married—-shortly after my wedding went to visit my husband’s family in va–we stayed at his gran’s house—he went out with friends and i stayed with his gran–soon was bored (only 19)–started reading some little pamplets she had on the table—whe asked what i was doing–when i told her she walked away and then called me into her room—had no idea what was up–she pulled me over her knee and spanked my bottom for about three minutes with a hair brush for snooping–after spanking she told me she would spank me every time for sass or snooping or anything—when i told my husband he just laughed and said be glad it was not the switch (she had raised him)–we only saw her once a year but i was always spanked at least once–she died many years ago but i still remember those bare bottom spankings–boy did they ever hurt–(my husband used spankings on me as discipline too–even today once in a while–too much on credit card) and they hurt too
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terri
22 Dec 2008 @ 1:49 pm
I am a 24 year old lady and my fiancee spanks me at lest twice a month, usually more . It always the same ritual he leads me to the bedroom lowers my jeans and boyshorts then guides me into the classic spanking position bum up and pants down . I usually get about twenty with the hairbrush.
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Emilio
1 Jan 2009 @ 12:06 am
I can add what I’ve decided most seriously (and with a smile):
I’m going to marry only a woman raised by spanking parents, notwithstanding she should be almost 30 yo. Of course, while not always happy about it, YOU my sweetheart must acknowledge full loving authority of your parents (while not married) and of your husband (when married)…
Too old for a spanking? NOT at all, because as a husband I’ll follow such best traditions
More, only for the ONE!
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Kit
10 Jan 2009 @ 10:51 am
For anyone looking for someone to have a spanking relationship, try spankfinder.com
It’s a free site, which is cool. People from all over the world, U.S., Canada, even Germany. I am looking for a lady friend who is also spanked. I want to have someone to talk to who understands the dynamic.
I am planning to buy my husband a proper leather-bound paddle to use on me. I really want him to spank me more frquently.
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JOhn Joyce
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Amber
17 Jan 2009 @ 6:06 am
My husband started spanking me for fun shortly after we were married. We are both in our late twenties and he says I learned to be a spoiled brat because of my looks. In the last couple of months he has actually started spanking me really hard for punishments. But on the upside he is never angry afterwords and we never fight. Last night I got it for spending two hundred dollars on hilights for my hair. He bent me over his knees, pulled down my panties and gave me about 25 whacks with a ruler! I usually act up and tease him on purpose because I like the attention and I know it turns him on.
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Kit
19 Jan 2009 @ 1:07 pm
I’m not a grandparent, (response to JOhn Joyce) but I wouldn’t mind age play. I don’t want to be a little boy, though. I can be a little girl and “play” for my “Daddy”.
When my husband and I buy a home we are going to have a domestic discipline relationship. That means I will have rules and there will be stiff penalties for breaking those rules. I have a contract I drew up that outlines everything I feel I need and want. The good thing about this contract is I know what the boundaries are and we both sign it and agree to it. Domestic discipline is great, but both parties have to agree.
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chicagogirl
19 Jan 2009 @ 7:15 pm
I crave a nice hard spanking for my bad behavior. I have never been able to find a guy who is willing and able to do it. So for now I must do without. But, I read the above posts and wonder, how can I find such a thing? To be taken into the bedroom, pants around my ankle, bent over and spanked with hair brush or paddle or belt until I have learned that being a brat and using vulgar language is not acceptable behavior
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Hostile Witness
19 Jan 2009 @ 7:32 pm
@chicagogirl –
Let me get this straight…you want to drop your pants, bend over and have your ass spanked, and you can’t find a guy in Chicago who’s willing to do that?
Carl Sandburg must be spinning in his grave.
I personally do not like girls who use vulgar language. My spanking hand is twitching just thinking about it…
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Mary
21 Jan 2009 @ 11:59 am
Growing up, I was often over Mother’s knee for a bare bottomed paddling or bent over the edge of the bed for a whipping with Daddy’s belt on my bare bottom. Now I find myself spanked by my husband with his hand, a wooden spoon, a paddle, his belt, a leather strop, or a switch when I am disobedient, dishonest, or disrespectful. The spanking and the corner time are always done with my panties at my ankles.
I wish there was a club such as this now; I would like to know other women with old-fashioned husbands.
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Kit
21 Jan 2009 @ 8:17 pm
Response to Mary – search for a site called “fondly and firmly”. This is all about domestic discipline. I said the same thing about there needing to be a club like this today. (Where are you?) You can find other like-minded people on Yahoo, in the groups. Try searching by your region.
And to chicagogirl – look on spankfinder.com to find a guy to give you what you need.
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cincy
15 Feb 2009 @ 2:34 am
I’m a spanked wife. My husband says i’m still immature and irresponsible and he’s right, I know, still doesn’t make it much easier to be spanked and punished like some 12 yr old.
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Kit
17 Feb 2009 @ 9:31 pm
Cincy,
If your spanking relationship isn’t consensual (and it sounds as though you resent it) then it’s abuse. You can leave him or press assualt charges. You have the right to be protected and cherished, not subjugated. If you want a spanking relationship, that’s fine. But if you don’t, make that clear. Your husband has no right to lay a hand on you (without your consent). It does not sound like this is something you want, only what he has told you that you need. That is abusive, both physically and psychologically.
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bill shite
21 Feb 2009 @ 3:50 am
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Kit
21 Feb 2009 @ 11:17 am
Bill,
What consenting adults do is their own business, and not your place to judge. Spanking is a very common fetish, and I believe that many women want their men to be strong and assume a leadership role.
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Sharon
4 Mar 2009 @ 4:45 am
I am 45 married and spanked by my husband and have been thoughtout the 15 years we have been married. I have never been spanked before I met my husband but before we married he had informed me of his attitude to discipline so I married him knowing full well that I would end up across his knee when I misbehaved or stepped out of line. A the time I married by husband I was a brat and had a very volatile nature and knew I needed someone strong, who could stand up to. We had been married just two weeks and I had just turned 30 when he put me over his knee for the first time and gave me a very sound spanking
Being spanked is never pleasant but he only spanks me when I truly deserve it and we have had 15 very happy years of marriage
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Phil
5 Mar 2009 @ 4:39 am
I am a spanking husband, I started spanking my wife soon after we married and on the advise of my father in law. It came about when I complained to him about his daughter, about her over spending, staying out late and behaving as if she was still a single girl. He turned around and told me that I was not being firm enough with her and that I should take her across my knee take her panties down and give her a good sound spanking because if I did not she was going to make my life difficult and unpleasant. I took his advise and 21 years later I am still spanking my wife when the need arises.
We have a very happy,loving and caring marraige and all thanks to my father in laws good advise
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Mrs X
10 Mar 2009 @ 8:21 pm
I am 25 and spanked by my husband, we married a little over a year ago, he is older than me by 20 years. When I have broken one of his major rules (overspending, lying, disobedience) he escorts me to his study with a firm hand on my bottom. He bends me over his desk, causing my panties to show, lifts my skirt out of the way and “warms my bottom” with his hand. Then he pulls my panties down and spanks my bottom, HARD. After that he removes a large wooden school style paddle from his desk drawer, pulls my panties back up for the first few swats and then lowers them again all the way and gives me at least ten wallops with the paddle completely bare until I literally fall into the corner clutching my behind. Later he takes me in my arms and gently rubs my sore bottom and helps me get my panties back up smoothing them with is hand over my swollen ass and patting me very lightly on the rear as we leave his study.
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Larry
13 Mar 2009 @ 10:16 am
I am a spanking husband and spank my wife when she needs it. I really enjoy the posts from the womens poiint of view.
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jeannie
17 Mar 2009 @ 8:43 pm
I enjoyed the posts here. I’m 52, divorced and live in Happy Valley in Utah and I gotta tell ya, it isn’t easy finding someone who is safe and sane to spank you. I used to have a male spanker who was very good, but he’s in a serious relationship and his girlfriend isn’t into discipline/spanking, so I won’t see him again because I don’t want him to jeopardize his relationship. I’d sure love to find someone again…married or single for spankings only. If any of you on this board live in Utah County, or close by, and are open to spanking someone else (provided your spouse is okay with it), please contact me here first. I both like to be spanked with the hand, paddle, ruler, etc. and I’d like to get some real discipline spankings too. I need the focus on the homefront. You’re never to old for a spanking. Thanks.
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Kit
20 Mar 2009 @ 11:53 am
Jeannie,
Go to spankfinder.com to find someone in your area. It’s free to join and contact other members. You could also try groups, such as on Yahoo!.
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Ammon
21 Mar 2009 @ 2:36 pm
Jeannie….I dream of Jeannie…I may have already met you on the web…maybe I could help you. We should talk more. Contact me if you can…
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sherry
21 Mar 2009 @ 5:16 pm
I live in Chicago, am a happily married lady at 42. My husband spanks me and I will be honest, when he travels out of town for extended periods of time, I cannot wait until he gets home. Luckily I have not had another man paddle me but I have come very close!
sherry
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Corinna
22 Mar 2009 @ 12:33 am
i’m a german girl, 24yrs, and my girlfriend and me like to spank each other very much => i dont like bloody asses, but red ones => so we us our hands, paddles etc !
corinna
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spanked soundly
23 Mar 2009 @ 7:28 pm
I was spanked all weekend because, i would not learn to just say ok and do what was aske of me. I am still wearing a sore bottom, but i dont question what my boyfriend says to do. When i know what he is saying is for the good.
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controlled by wife
24 Mar 2009 @ 1:58 pm
I am totally controlled by my wife.
It all started when we were a couple before marriage.
She took control in bed almost every time.
I was never spank´t before my wife, and i thot it was fun to play.
Won day she got angry at me and we started to argue.
She did not like it at all and we had an argument for days after.
In the end i asked her how we can stop this and she sad “i want to punish you”. Technically it was my fault but as a man i had a had time saying that i was wrong. I agreed because i loved her so much.
We had many arguments but never as long.
She told me to go to our bedroom and wait for her. She came and spank´t me over her knee. And paddled me over the make up table (man it heart). The same day she gave me all the rules of the house and from that day she control´d me and the house. Every time i did something wrong i was punished, most of the time in the same way.
I realized that this is what i need. And we never argue´d agen.
Mostly i get spanked twice a week depends on how i´ve been. But ad least wons a week. That is 1 of her rules even if i did nothing it keeps me strait.
She tried less it dose not work.
Now we have been marred for ten years and i love her more then ever.
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allamerican
6 Apr 2009 @ 8:12 am
I love being spanked by my boyfriend. He usually spanks me OTK. I just love it.
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Rach
10 Apr 2009 @ 1:16 am
I got spank for punishment many times by my daddy and now by my husband. Daddy uses belt and canes. Husband uses cable as well. He spanks whenever and wherever I am naughty (atleast 4-5 time per month). Of cause, very painful. I hate it but I agree that it is needed for me to be good woman.
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Jenny
12 Apr 2009 @ 8:38 pm
I am a very attractive woman, 26 years old. My parents used to spank me growing up but not enough to be effective. I was a true brat, dressed like a slut, and men dropped at my feet. After dating about 4 years with about 15 guys, I realized something was missing. I began to think I was a lesbian. It just seemed that every guy I met was a wimp. Then when I was in college, I got really drunk one night and barfed everywhere then fell asleep. When I woke up the next morning I was on my belly with my wrists and feet tied to the bed. My roomie beat the living s— out of my ass with a hairbrush, paddle, thick leather belt and a tree branch. I can’t describe the pain. No matter how much I begged her for mercy she just told me to shut up and take my punishment like a “woman.”
My butt was bruised and I couldn’t sit but I will say one thing—-I will NEVER get that drunk again…. EVER! That punishment was VERY effective, because I will NEVER forget the pain unlike my parents who used to give me a few swats +and the next day I forgot all about it. When I apologiged to my roomie the next day, she told me that she was spanked by her boyfriend quite often and he would never stop until she was crying and begging. NOW to the point about DD relationships. About 2 years ago, I met a handsome dude, who treated me like a queen, but before the marriage ceremony, he had already whipped my but with his belt numerous times and told me that I could expect the same treatment forever. We have been married almost a year now, and I have never been so happy. So what, stop bitching about being “abused” obey your husband and save your ass. My hubby has spanked me very hard for DUI, telling my boss that he was a neele-dicked, fat, bald, worthless piece of meat. I got caned for that one. The moral of this story is, wait for the right man who has a pair of b–ls and sets reasonable rules, and thank him for punishing you. One last example. Last week I told hubby that I needed to be punished. I admitted that I had started smoking again, after having quit for 2 years, and that I wanted to be punished so that I would be afraid to do it again.
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David
13 Apr 2009 @ 8:10 pm
I spank my wife whenever she is overtly disrespectful towards me or is disobedient. She usually gets paddled only about once every month or so, since she is an excellent wife. I’m blessed!
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Sarah
20 Apr 2009 @ 10:36 am
My husband spanks me when I am bad. He uses his hand, cane & riding crops. He punished me last night, which I did deserve. It was hard to sit down and I can still feel it today. I am glad he does spank me – some times I am desperate for a good spanking. It makes me feel much calmer and loved afterwards.
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kris
28 Apr 2009 @ 1:44 pm
My husband and I have been married 2 years now and I was the one that recently brought this lifestyle up. I firmly believe this has made our marriage so much better on so many levels. I have always thought of him as the hoh. I am glad we practice spankings and corner time because I need it, and I also know he loves me that much to want to do this. I will be receiving my maintence tonight and believe it or not I am looking foward to it because my behavior has been poor.
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kelly
1 May 2009 @ 9:27 pm
Before I got married, my fiance’ introduced me to spanking. One night I came home like real drunk, and he whipped my bare bottom with his belt about 50 times. Then he made me stand in the corner for one hour. That was 1 1/2 years ago and I have never driven drunk since. I hafta say it worked much better than a fine. He has whupped my bottom many times, and doesn’t stop until I am crying and begging. Believe me it works!
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en
24 May 2009 @ 6:20 am
i would love to have a man to spank me when i did wrong. I live in tulsa ok if there is one please let me know.
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Heather Lottmann
2 Jun 2009 @ 12:26 pm
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PJ
2 Jun 2009 @ 8:21 pm
You must give your wife loving discipline (as in the Obey part of the vows) and swatting her bottom sure does the trick in my house. I spank my wife daily, OTk and panties down, a bare bottom spanking is a must. My wife has an ample backside and I find a paddle is the best way to “get through to the other end”. i think she should feel the seat of the chair zapping her pantied behind when she tries to sit or I have not done my job in reminding her who is in charge. I love my wife and patting and rubbing her well spanked behind is just one way to enjoy my handy work if you know what I mean. When in doubt give your wife’s ass a big smack, you won;t be sorry you did, but she might, and isn’t that the whole point? Applying a little heat to the seat works everytime.
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Dan
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danne24
27 Jun 2009 @ 8:26 am
What I’m wondering is how to get my husband to spank and discpline me. I don’t even know how to bring it up to him. I think he’ll think I’m crazy but I know I need it!
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Hostile Witness
27 Jun 2009 @ 9:34 pm
Hi Danne24 –
Could you “accidentally” find some spanking pics on the web and ask your husband what he thinks of them? Could you say something like “I might need something like that myself”?
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Ashesh G
9 Jul 2009 @ 1:05 am
when I spank my wife it’s a Fun, Zingy , Erotic Spanking —-she’s a very well behaved professionally highly qualified girl there’s never been any need for a Bad Girl Disciplinary OTK stuff —I usually pompously order her to proclaim me her Lord & Master & she always cheekily answers in a mocking tone “My Lord & Bastard !”
this entails a butt smacking across her gorgeous butttocks which never seriously damage her sexy ass but does leave it Pink, Pretty & pantin’ for more !!!
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Helen
10 Jul 2009 @ 11:05 pm
I got spanked today at my mother in laws house. I was there during the day helping with some cooking for a get together tomorrow. When hubby came by after work to pick me up his mother complained that I had had a bad mouth during the day. She kind of right but also she doesn’t always think I’m quite good enough I guess. Hubby took his belt and spanked me pants down right there in the kitchen. Really humiliating. His mother just smiled and enjoyed seeing me get my behind whipped like that.
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Britt
15 Jul 2009 @ 12:51 pm
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Kit
16 Jul 2009 @ 8:43 pm
To danne24:
Below is a link to a site that could help you start a conversation with your husband. There is also a site to search for called “fondly and firmly”. There is all kinds of information on domestic discipline out there. Just be careful that you are always consenting. For myself, I like the idea but have always stopped just short (afraid of giving up my power), and I refuse to allow my husband to spank our son. I believe this is something that should be kept between consenting adults, the key being consent. Without that, it’s abuse. (Reference an earlier post I made in response to another woman on that topic.)
http://www.geocities.com/hubby_spanks/
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Ashley
19 Jul 2009 @ 1:59 pm
I am 14 years old and I am a very bad mouthed brat sometimes. My parents don’t spank me or punish me in any way. I’m sure that a good sound smack on the butt would do me good. Any ideas?
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Diane
19 Jul 2009 @ 4:13 pm
Hi,
I am 46 yrs. old, not attrative, just average, and over-weight.
Looking for a man in the elkridge, ellicott city, Maryland area who spanks women to teach them lessons or help them succeed at something, for instance, I would like to lose weight, and I believe my other choice is if I received regular spankings then I would stay on a diet and exercise. Anyone out there who is educated on giving women spankings that lives in this area.
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elaine
22 Jul 2009 @ 5:57 am
hi
im 18 and have been dating my bf for about a year now. just recently, like within the last 4 months or so, he has started spanking me. as a fake punishment. for being a “bad girl” he usually pulls me over his lap and spanks me. only with his hand-that was our agreement-and he usually spanks me bare or in a thong. he does this pretty much every weekend. but i especially liked last weekend. he has a thing for spanking me and pretending to punish. but i like a spanking to just be sweet, a stress reliever i guess. so anyway, i was laying face down, wearing only a thong, and he began to spank me. i lost count after 150. i loved it! sure, it hurt, but not very bad. he never does it to hurt me. just to make me happy, and he gets happy too…then, after the spanking we cuddle for a while. i absolutely love it. its fun to read yalls stories too. keep posting=) lol
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Andrea
26 Jul 2009 @ 8:11 pm
My parents always used old fashioned bare bottom spankings when I was disobedient. Over my mother’s knee, she would then pull my panties to my knees and warm my bottom slowly and surely I would understand she meant business. My husband of 20 years has always said I am one of those women who learn best with a cherry red sore bottom. He doesn’t hesitate to take me over his knee and bare my bottom when things get out of hand. He even has a spanking paddle in our living room hung up on a hook. Once when my in-laws were at our house he became exhausted with my insolence and took me over his lap in front of everyone. I learned a painful but good lesson..once more, Cherry red and sore.
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Guseppi Calamari
26 Jul 2009 @ 8:52 pm
Great Site. Good commentary.
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SL
27 Jul 2009 @ 5:41 pm
I am having to write this to finish my punishment. I was looking at your site for so long that I lost all track of time. My husband came home and I had not even thought about dinner and even cleaned the house yet. He made me bend over the chair that I had been siting at to read your postings and then pulled up my skirt and pulled my panties down and then started spanking me with his hand. After a few minutes he had me wait there and left for a moment came back with his fathers old razor strap then he made sure that my butt was nice and red all over. He told me that since I liked this site so much I should tell you all about what I had done and I had to sit on my burning posterior and think about what I had just received while writing this. He wants to finish with me over his knee when I am done with this posting. I hope he puts on some lotion when he is done to cool my ass done again. My husband is a wonderful man and we have been together for over 21 yrs, he has been spanking me since about 6 months into our relationship. Started off as play and then changed. He knows how to make it hurt soooo good. Have to go thanks for reading
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Shawna
27 Jul 2009 @ 6:52 pm
@SL. You’re funny. I like your comment.
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Ashley
29 Jul 2009 @ 9:20 pm
Can anyone answer my question?
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mark
31 Jul 2009 @ 11:07 pm
Hello Diane, 37 year old man in southern pennsylvania here would love to chat and possibly help provide you with the motivation you need to drop that weight, feel free to email me at billrooter@aol.com if you’d like to chat about it!
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SL
1 Aug 2009 @ 5:31 pm
Mark and Diane, keep us all informed as to how the weight loss is going.
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Kit
3 Aug 2009 @ 11:25 am
Ashley,
Just be honest with your parents. You know them best, just feel your way through it. Maybe start by asking what their thoughts on spanking are.
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Kit
3 Aug 2009 @ 11:29 am
Diane,
Try spankfinder.com to find someone in your area to help you. Just excercise caution in meeting anyone you have contacted via the net. Meet in public places first, use common sense. Lots of weirdos out there!
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markg12156
5 Aug 2009 @ 1:00 pm
jeannie,
You wrote back in March of 2009 that you lived in Utah County and needed a spanking. I am an experienced spanker nearby who is 48 years old. Please let me know if you would like to talk to me. Email: Markg12156@aol.com
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Wes
7 Aug 2009 @ 12:21 pm
Re EN from24 may 2009 (Tulsa) Did you find someone ?
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Pamela Allen
17 Aug 2009 @ 9:14 am
I am Pamela, senior at LSU and was spanked through childhood and wish that I had someone who cared enough about me to use the paddle or belt on my bare bottom now that I need it more that ever. I feel that I would be A better and more focused person for this. Pam sainnla@yahoo.com
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Ann Sacks
12 Sep 2009 @ 10:34 pm
I’m married 24 years and my husband is definitely not one to be pushed around. The only thing I do that ticks him off is not listening to his opinion, after he has listened to mine. I’m a mature woman and very logical, so he finds little reason to be upset with me. I have a tendency to state my views in anger at him and then walk away. One day he decided not to take this. He told me to sit down, shut up and hear his side of things. He yelled at me so loud and give me such a look that it had me in tears. If I got up out of that chair before hearing him out, he’d grab me by the wrist and put me right back in the chair. He’s never spanked me, he doesn’t have to. One of those lectures on not listening to his side, after I’ve had my say, is enough to scare the heck out of me. He’s much taller and bigger than me and his voice alone will make me listen to reason and bring me to tears. I think he has every right to demand I listen to him, after I’ve had my say. He isn’t beyond physically grabbing me and making me sit down to hear him out. He also doesn’t put up with me stomping out of a room mad. He will come after me, grab me and put his arms around me and drag me to sit with him and talk things out then and there. He doesn’t like things festering. This is what I call a man. Not one who spanks, but one who lays down the law, if he thinks I’m being a witch or not respectful toward him. The only time he’s slapped me on the bottom is joking around. If I tickle or tease him, he will grab both my wrists in one hand and slap my butt and tell me to cut it out. He has never put me over his knee and spanked me to get me to reason. When he yells at me and gives me a lecture, I usually desire it for not respecting his viewpoint, after I have stated my viewpoint. It’s a bad habit and walking away from him angry is another. He doesn’t put up with it, but does get physical enough to make me sit and listen to reason. Would I want to be spanked for fun and for sexual pleasure… yes, but my husband said he’d feel silly spanking me and would never seriously do that. You don’t have to spank to be a man in charge and yes, I want my man in charge and that’s why I married him. He’s also smart and a lot wiser than I am and I know this.
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Ann Sacks
12 Sep 2009 @ 11:03 pm
Yes, I have a fantasy, that one day he’ll not lecture me, but pull me over his knee an pull down my pants and spank me with his bare hand. Sometimes I think I’d rather have that, then the lecture. He would never hit me in anger. He considers that abuse.
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Rosey
22 Sep 2009 @ 5:49 pm
PE … How old is that friend of yours and where is he located? I haven’t been back to this site since I left that comment last year. Hope to hear back from you. parallaxviewtoo@yahoo.com
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wifewacker
26 Sep 2009 @ 5:27 pm
I make it a point to “handle” my wife’s bottom, which is extremely well padded. I put her over my knee in our bedroom every day and warm her fanny, but I also make sure to give her praise with some well placed pats and rubs throughout the day to let her know who’s running the show. I have been known to swat my wife’s rear end in public if necessary to get her attention or correct a problem. When we get back home she knows she will get my full attention which for her means panties down, bottom out for what I like to call a little positive reinforcement, that’s a session with the hickory paddle I keep in my desk drawer in my study just for her ass. I swing hard, but boy, her big butt can take it and she certainly needs a good swat session every week or so to adjust her attitude. I like to keep her in short skirts that are full so I have easy access to the seat of her panties, which I lovingly call “my handrest”. Of course, this is just in the privacy of our home, I’m not a total brute, although the UPS guy does seem to enjoy his deliveries to our address, when my wife bends over even the slightest, her white cotton brief panties definitely show, and you can bet my hand’s not far (from her) behind! The best part of spanking my wife is “making up” afterward, when she is sans panties and needs me to soothe her tender globes, which I am happy to oblige as part of my husbandly duties. I can’t understand guys that don’t spank their wives. That paddle sure does come in handy.
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sallyp
27 Sep 2009 @ 6:00 pm
I got spanked at home up until I got married and then my husband took over. I frequently get the hairbrush over his knee almost always on a bare bottom.
Its embarrassing and it stings but it keeps me on my best behavior.
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Fuchsia
2 Oct 2009 @ 4:28 am
Any unattached CT men out there seeking to find this type of relationship? I too can be a real brat at times and need someone long-term willing to discipline me. Check out my profile ‘Fuchsia’ at spankfinder.
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littlelady
17 Oct 2009 @ 6:45 am
i really love this site
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Sue
19 Oct 2009 @ 7:00 pm
My husband has recently started spanking me, more for sexual pleasure. I have tried to work him into discipline spankings but he only jokes and says, I will make your butt so red if you do not quit.
I have gotten a daily spanking for about one week now, starts out with his hand, then the belt and then the paddle.
I feel less stressed afterwards and I am falling in love with him again. We have been married for 19 years. I am very spoiled, always have been. I have not shown him the respect he deserves. We both work outside of the home, but I can be lazy when it comes to housework, we even hired a cleaning lady.
I was never really disciplined as a child. Grew up in a very loving home and very spoiled. I long for his spankings and he can even leave a little bruising, but I absolutely will not cry, what is wrong with me. I dont cry at funerals, I dont cry when he whips me, I cannot bring myself to cry. My father died when i was young, I havent really cried since, not even when I buried my grandmother.
Any ideas on why I long for the punishment but cannot shed the tears?
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kit
20 Oct 2009 @ 12:06 pm
Sue,
If you want to be brought to tears, you might ask him to try a rattan cane. I’ve heard they give a wicked sting. I have seen pics of well-striped bottoms after a caning.
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Sue
20 Oct 2009 @ 5:03 pm
Kit,
Thanks, I will try that. We are new at this and I feel so unemotional at times.
Sue
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kit
21 Oct 2009 @ 9:23 am
Sue,
Be warned – I think a cane has to be used sparingly to avoid real harm. Research it and be safe, please!
But don’t worry too much if you can’t bring out tears. I never did either, not even after 200 strokes with a belt! I don’t think it’s the pain, it’s the situation that can bring the tears. Your hubby may have to scold in order to bring out the emotion. (Mine did not – our sessions were for fun, even long ones.)
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Jesus
23 Oct 2009 @ 3:06 pm
Id like to say that this is quite interesting. I’m from Southern California and reading of this really does make me wonder if its real, a husband spanking his wife to get her to behave? spanking here is looked down upon, and if a husband spanks his wife ive only heard of it gently done during sex as someething erotic, not as a painful experience…most wives wont allow this but i certainly must say this spanking for the wives to behave not of anger seems like a great thing, i dont know why this world doesnt accept it
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Ann Sacks
23 Oct 2009 @ 4:05 pm
Like I said above, my husband won’t spank me… one, because he has no trouble getting me to do what he wants anyway. Two, and the biggest reason… he is afraid of ever leaving a bruise on me. One time after having sex, I was joking around and he did slap me on the butt a couple of times and then got really upset. He checked to make sure he did not bruise me. I was totally turned on by it, but he joked and said he was afraid of being arrested if he ever left one mark on me. Aren’t some of the men afraid a wife will call the police? I’d loved to be spanked, but he’ll never do it and when he jokes around he’s very hesitant to lightly tap me. He told me flat out he’s too afraid to leave any marks on me. He’s never going to spank for discipline, because his knows his voice alone will have me in tears and he’d be too afraid to leave a mark. He also doesn’t believe in hitting anyone for any reason. So, how do I get him to spank for sexual fun? That’s my question. Perhaps I should not be on this board, but I’d at least like him to relax about it sexually. He has slapped me during sex for fun, but then freaks out. He is a very dominate man and has no trouble getting in my face and telling me to sit down and shut up when he’s ticked off. Any suggestions?
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littlelady
1 Nov 2009 @ 2:31 pm
I was spanked today by my honey for being a bad girl. My bottom is still sore.
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Sue
2 Nov 2009 @ 2:50 pm
I am about to get my spanking. I am going to be nude, on the bed ready to get a hard spanking. It has been over one week and he says I am getting hateful and grouchy.
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Hostile Witness
2 Nov 2009 @ 4:53 pm
Hi Sue –
Thanks for the update. Are you lying flat or is your butt elevated, maybe with a pillow or your knees tucked under?
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littlelady
4 Nov 2009 @ 2:46 pm
well sue i know two of us ladies that won’t be sitting too well
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Sue
4 Nov 2009 @ 5:08 pm
Well, I got my spanking. It started out flat on the bed with his hand, then he moved to the paddle and belt. He elevated my ass with a pillow.
I took about 40 swats. I am bruised and sore. I feel better, but I am already getting grumpy again.
I think I need a spanking everyday???
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tzwinger
6 Dec 2009 @ 11:29 am
very interested in knapsi posts
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tzwinger
6 Dec 2009 @ 3:40 pm
have any husbands ever been told to”put these on” when the wives or girl friends took off thier panties&gave them to him.this is an effective way to start a spanking as he knows&sometimes fears (what will soon happen.
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Heather
7 Dec 2009 @ 11:24 am
My hubby and I just started this D.D. Relationship. We have been married five years, and I always got sexual spankings. Here lately, I have been asking for a whole lot more. I feel I need real discipline. He is slowly coming around to it. The thing is, we have two little children and I am afraid of them ever finding out. So we make daily lists of things I have done wrong and when we have time and are alone, he gives me my spankings. Even then it feels like play to me. How can I get the spanking I deserve at the time I need it with little children running around? Thanks for reading.
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Heather
8 Dec 2009 @ 5:38 am
I got my first real spanking yesterday. It wasn’t what I thought it would be,but atleast he has decided to put in an effort. Just so everybody knows, the babies were asleep.
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Heather
11 Dec 2009 @ 7:26 pm
I got spanked again today. I stupidly teased him about my last spanking and how weak it was. He was in no teasing mood. I got spanked with a spatula then with my jeans up, I recieved 3 swats with a wooden rod. Believe me three swats with that thing is all it takes for me. Especially when my bottom is already sore. I apologized and promised to never tease about my punishments ever again. Wether they happened that day, or a week ago.
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ken
16 Dec 2009 @ 1:14 pm
hi sharon. I will spank you till you cry like a baby but where are you located?
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Cinamin
21 Dec 2009 @ 9:12 pm
I used to be a Dominatrix. I loved being in control. I spanked and whipped my husband whenever he got out of line. I moved to cuckolding him, and picked a boyfriend I met on the internet. He subjugated my husband and forced him to watch during our trysts. I controlled my husband and had a strong alpha male…so I was happy. My boyfriend had me wear my outfit to bed one night.. which was a mistake. I gave him dominant attitude in the outfit. My boyfriend had enough, and in front of my husband, grabbed me by neck and put me face down on the bed. He tore my outfit right off…and started beating my ass. I started screaming and swearing, but he continued. When I tried to get up, he started again, so I stood spreadeagled over the bed. My boyfriend was so angry, he did the most humiliating thing he could to me…he ordered my husband to whip me. My boyfriend watched as my slave hubby whipped my ass, and had me count each stroke. My husband got rock hard watching his Dom in her leather boots and naked ass kneel over and cry. I nver felt so submissive. Although my boyfriend is in charge when he visits, he appreciates my conditioning. My husband is firmly in control when he is home. I wear a collar, ask permission for everything, scrub, clean, cook, and perform on command. If not, I get the belt. I have learned my place.
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Heather
23 Dec 2009 @ 3:27 am
My husband and I started a behavior modification list. It helps keep arguments down and I wrote it to help me be a better wife. Of course, not two days after it was written, I broke two very important rules. Never use a screaching voice when showing anger or frustration. Do not interupt him or assume what it is he is trying to say. I didn’t get punished right away. It was a couple of days later, after a party. The kids were gone and he told me I was getting the rod. I recieved 20 swats over my jeans, and 10 with the belt on my bare bottom. It hurt and I was repentive. 4 days later I am still sore. Thru all that, I didn’t cry. I want to feel the release of tears, but I am afraid of what that would take. I need the emotional release, but I am worried that would go beyond the limits of what he is willing to do. How can I get this release without causing too much harm to myself? Could it be just a frame of find thing? Does the punishment have to happen the same time as the bad behavior to get that real feeling? If so, how do you accomplish that with little children around? If anybody has any answers, I would appreciate them! By the way, one of my Christmas gifts is a paddle. It hangs in our room. He hasn’t had to use it yet. We’ll see what the holidays bring!
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Alecia
26 Dec 2009 @ 9:35 am
I would love to be in a relationship with a man who allowed me to spank him when he was dsiobedient, and needed to be punished. I have a sorority paddle that can really teach a good lesson. But it would turn into an all out brawl with the Alpha males I date. They would never allow me to humiliate them, even, when they deserve it.
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Heather
26 Dec 2009 @ 7:43 pm
Well the paddle hurts and I am bruised and sore. I have a real hard time controlling my smart mouth.I have a real hard time keeping that middle finger under control. I also kept getting frustrated at him for no reason at all. My Christmas gift was 30 swats. Tonight I am getting forty. I already received 20. I get 20 more when he gets back. Once again no tears. I just don’t understand that. I really want that release! I think I am subconsciesly pushing him to that. I think he should just spank me till I cry wether I deserve it or not. Once I break, I will know he means business. And I will feel better and respect him more.
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Aly
27 Dec 2009 @ 7:03 am
Like many of you, I am a spanked wife. My husband doesn’t always pick up on my need to be spanked, so sometimes I write him a little note. When he gets an email with “please delete after reading”, he knows EXACTLY what I am up to. I have been slowly moving toward harder, longer spankings. I sometimes have a problems with staying put, but my husband has a great solution for that. Moving (rolling over or turning to the side) or covering up = the next several swats are extremely hard. If I don’t submit to those, he will hold me down and give them to me. Believe me, it’s better to take them willingly.
Most of the spankings I get are erotic ones; however, I do get spanked occasionally for punishment. Those spankings are handled differently than the erotic ones…different implements, different position, different everything. There is something about standing naked for about 20 minutes with your nose pressed up against a door contemplating what your punishment will be. It seems to intensify the entire event. Once, he made me wait nearly a week for the actual spanking. The waiting was worse than the spanking itself!
Do I enjoy being spanked? That’s a two-edged sword. I enjoy aspects of it. I like the feel of submitting to my husband (I am a very independent, outspoken woman). I get very turned on during an erotic spanking because sometimes he’ll pause to stroke certain…um…places. The more turned on I get, the more spanking (and harder!) I can handle. I LOVE the feeling AFTER a spanking when my bottom is all sore and red. I like it when it’s still tender the next day.
I have a fantasy of someday being spanked until I cry real tears, but I am very afraid for that fantasy to ever come true. I don’t think I would actually like that one. We tried for that goal once with the understanding that if I asked him to stop before we reached the goal, I would get three more really hard whacks (in case I was close to tears, he thought the extra whacks might bring them on). We didn’t get there; I chickened out.
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Owen
28 Dec 2009 @ 11:46 am
I knew a woman who wanted to cry when spanked but couldn’t. She and I worked on that several times. Finally, we came to the conclusion that her real reason was emotional. She could and did cry at other times. The spankings were hard enough but it wasn’t real to her. We decided that the next time she was going to get a punishment spanking, she would remove all of her clothes and stand in the corner for one hour. During that time, she was to think about the spanking she was about to get but also about the reason for it. When the time came, I told her I was disappointed in her and she should think about that too. I wanted her to be crying even before the spanking started. I played at being angry and made her think it was very real. She was crying a little and upset before the spanking. She had no problem crying during, and since then she cries almost every time. After the first time she cried, she held me and gave me wonderful gifts. I don’t know if this will help but I hope it will.
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Heather
29 Dec 2009 @ 9:56 am
Hey thanks owen for that advice. I think we are going to try your tactics next time.
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john kelley
15 Jan 2010 @ 4:33 pm
i am 22 year old my sister 30 year old
my sister spank me every day tell me what a bad boy i am.
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Kate
16 Jan 2010 @ 10:19 am
I am a spanked wife and I am glad to see I am not the only one out here! I’ve only been spanked less then a dozen of times I have learned from them. I hate being spanked but it makes me a better person.
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Heather
18 Jan 2010 @ 9:31 am
It has been a while since I last wrote. I have recieved 58 swats with a paddle two nights ago on my bare bottom for ignoring my children while reading books or reading spanking sights once again, here I am. Luckily my littlest is asleepand my oldest has a friend over, however, I’m not allowed on the innernet until bed time. So I will get it agian. What amazes me though, is I still can’t cry. I sooooo want to feel that. Earlier advice was given to put me Ina corner, he won’t he says it’s too childish. Whatever. Oh well, I got 30 last night with a paddle for not taking my medication. Amazingly, I can still sit down and feel nothing. I wonder what he will do when I tell him this? I guess we will see…: )
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Devin
20 Jan 2010 @ 1:23 pm
To Kate-Yes it does make you a better person,especially when you Really deserve and need it.My lady friend got to where she was so self centered that she didn’t even care about little kids safety.thats where i drew the line.i gave her a choice-get out of my life or get over my knee-when she realized i was serious,she pulled’em down and bent over my knee and got the first spanking on her bare butt in her life.herperfect snow white butt was glowing red and she was crying because of the firm hand swats and shame i was putting on her because of the kids she didn’t care about[not hers or my kids]-but after that she started thinking about others more and always asked if i was going to spank her at the smallest disagreement.
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Devin
20 Jan 2010 @ 1:26 pm
To John Kelly-You AND your sister deserve a good OTK whaking for being bad-and you know what i mean
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IowaHouswife
28 Jan 2010 @ 12:19 pm
I am an Iowan housewife, and I do get my backside swatted good when I need it, I am proud of my husband for doing what is hard to make me a better person and a better wife. I am lucky if I only get hand swats, usually it is with the belt, or paddle, both of which leave a horrid stinging for a while after.
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nawty but nice
28 Jan 2010 @ 3:09 pm
I have been married to my husband for 3 years i am 24 he is 20 years older than me. My husband spanks me when i have been rude and disrespectful i love my husband dearly and i know that his spanking helps me become a better person
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nawty but nice
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Shelly
29 Jan 2010 @ 12:49 pm
Ashley, if you genuinely believe you would benefit from receiving spankings when you do something wrong, why not ask your parents if the three of you could sit down for a heart-to-heart discussion? Tell them you love them and that you appreciate that they have chosen not to “hit” you. Then explain that you feel that a spanking on your bottom is not the same as hitting and that you think getting spanked would help you be better behaved. You can suggest a trial timeframe–such as three months–to see how it works out for all of you. At the end of that timeframe, the family should get together again to discuss how each person feels about it before deciding whether to keep the spankings in place for you. Remember a couple of things, though. Spankings HURT! Sometimes they hurt A LOT! If you receive a spanking that hurts more than you expected, do NOT get vindictive and throw it in your parents’ faces or report them for abuse (I’m not saying you would, just letting you know it might not be what you expect). If you ask them to try this, give them the respect of accepting it with grace. It will not work unless you do. Let us know how it turns out for you. Good luck.
A bit about me:
I am 43 years old and have 7 grandchildren. I get spanked by my husband. There are the fun, playful kind that we both enjoy and that generally lead to some great sex. Then there are the no-nonsense punishment kind of spankings. I am the one who brought spankings into our marriage by letting him know I needed it, so those of you who feel that this is abuse–it’s not. He was quite happy to oblige, although at first he hesitated to leave marks on me. I find that a spanking that leaves me with a sore bottom for at least two days after the spanking is the most effective for me–and that kind definitely leaves at least some minor bruising! For the record, I do not enjoy punishment spankings while they are taking place–they HURT!–but it helps us keep a happy relationship going strong between us. Basically, it works for us. If it ain’t for you, then don’t do it!
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nawty but nice
30 Jan 2010 @ 2:28 pm
Today i got the paddle on my bare bum because i went out
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cornertime
2 Feb 2010 @ 10:21 am
After years of trying to get my husband to spank me hard it finally happened last night. We have done sexual spanking for years and I finally told him yesterday I need it to be harder…well…he obliged…My bottom is sore today…he won’t spank me soley for punishment. I think it turns him on too much and he isn’t able to control himself. I have requested “corner time” also. Although we didn’t get to that last night I am sitting here wondering when he is going to say “get in the corner”. I mean…it is driving me nuts…it could be any minute…it could be days or months…Ugh…he has agreed that “corner time” can be used in “play” and also as punishement. I am thinking I might be a brat today just to see if he actually does it…Now…to get him to punish me by spanking…give it time people…I am working on it…
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saywhat
2 Feb 2010 @ 2:41 pm
is this a joke? I’m kind of literal. If so, it’s potentially disrespectful and creates a chain of command which does not exist naturally. Very creepy. Potentially dangerous.
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kit
3 Feb 2010 @ 2:34 pm
nawty but nice:
Your entries really concern me. (And others, I notice your entries are getting thumbs-down.) I notice you do not mention your parents or friends – do you have a support system? Domestic discipline is fine if it is consensual, if not it is abuse.
You were spanked for leaving the house? You’re not allowed to speak without permission? Yikes, woman! What kind of control freak are you married to? Also your comment that your husband works hard and you can be lazy sounds like you are parroting something. It sounds like something an abuser brainwashes into his victim.
I am also concerned that his parents feel they have the right to touch you. Not without your permission. You have the right to say “No”. If anyone touches you without your permission – call the police. Do not think spanking withing a marriage is never abuse – it all hinges on consent. If this treatment is not what you want or what you need, talk to your husband and tell him this. If he loves you he will understand. If he doesn’t stop, then end the marriage before his controlling behavior and violence really gets out of control and he does something serious to you.
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kit
3 Feb 2010 @ 2:39 pm
nawty but nice:
I am also concerned for any children you may have in the future. This guy sounds seriously scary.
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kit
3 Feb 2010 @ 2:46 pm
nawty but nice:
Last note, I promise. The reason I asked about your parents and friends is because an abuser often isolates the victim so they feel they have nowhere to turn. This increases the control over the victim and make the victim completely dependant upon the abuser for approval and affection.
I am all for domestic disipline, but safely and with limits. Consent is the key. If both parties are on board, great. If not, it is dangerous.
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Smacio
5 Feb 2010 @ 2:45 am
There is a naughty little girl in evry woman. And they are not too old to be spanked.
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christy
6 Feb 2010 @ 5:11 pm
I act out alot and have asked my husband to spank me when I am bad to help me remember to behave. He wont. I know I get turn on even thinking about it, but how to I convince him it’s a good thing to help me stay in line and it’s not a bad thing.
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kit
12 Feb 2010 @ 7:31 pm
Christy,
Domestic discipline can be great for a marriage. Find some websites or books on the subject and ask hubby to read through them. Maybe if he is better informed he will be open to discussing it with you.
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Otkhusband
12 Feb 2010 @ 10:20 pm
Im a man 31 years old spanking my 22 year old wife when needed. As often i take her in front of me, pulls down her jeans and panties and we have a talk why she now has to go over my knee. The spankings are always on her bare bottom and sometimes she gets the slipper. Cornertime is given 30 minutes after each spanking so she can reflect about her behavior. Then she gives me a big hug and cries out on my shoulder. She was spanked at home and now i have taken over. She agrees she need the punishment to keep her in line and we have a happy domestic dicipline marriage. The number of spankings of course varies from time to time depending on her behavior.
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emenem
15 Feb 2010 @ 11:36 pm
i like spanking as a sex fanteses but my wife is not into in the same way
i like spanking hard and very hard she like it as fun and not into all time
what can i do?
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kit
21 Feb 2010 @ 12:08 pm
Emenem:
Do prefer to give or recieve the spanking, or are you happy to switch? It may be that you and your wife simply have to be content to give the other what is desired.
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Sweet Melissa
28 Feb 2010 @ 6:24 am
I have been married for 11 years to a VERY wonderful man, who has dropped hints of wanting to discipline me with spanking, throughout our marriage. I always tease him and say, “you love me too much, you would never do that to me.” He always comes back with some funny remark and we both laugh and leave it at that. One time he began singing, “What’s Love Got To Do With It”, by Tina turner. It was hilarious.
Well, anyway, we are coming up on my fortieth birthday, and he told me (way in advance) that my birthday present is going to be a paddle, made by him. He said it will be beautiful with flowers down one side and the words, “SWEET MELISSA” down the other side. He’s always mentioned that to me, but this time I sense that he really means it. He said that he loves me so much and plans to spend the rest of his life with me, however, if this is to happen without him going in sane, he must spank me when I need it. He says I am a very bad girl. Of course, we never see the bad side of ourselves. Every once in a while, I ask him if he’s joking, or if there is anything I can do to change his mind, and he says, “absolutely not, and that I’ve pushed things too far, and that 10 good whacks with the paddle will remind me to be good or just calm down when I begin to get out of control” He said he feels that after the first spanking, he will probably be able to just look at me most of the time to change my attitude.
At first, I was so angry at him, I did not even want to talk to him. It made me sad that he does not like me that much, that he must spank me to make me a different person. I work approximately 45 minutes from our home and have a long drive in and back, leaving me much time to think. It’s funny, but I was so angry, until I really began thinking about it. I am bad at times and VERY deserving of a spanking. I do things like talk over him, interrupt phone conversations, speak out while he is trying to watch something on T.V. Maybe a good spanking would change my attitued, or maybe slow me down and make me think before I do.
I’m scared to death of the spanking I am about to get; however, I’ve been thinking that a lot of people get spanked, and they are still alive. What makes me any different.
I love my husband so much. He is so good to me. He is the only person I would ever trust with my life. So, if he feels I need a good spanking to settle me down, I guess I can go with it. I told him this yesterday. I even told him I would take the spanking now, but he said, “no, we will just wait until your birthday.”
Wish me luck.
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markiee
28 Feb 2010 @ 4:37 pm
My wife (6′2″ 190 lbs.) gave me (5′10′ 165 lbs.) my first bare bottomed spanking on our honeymoon and hasn’t stopped yet. Now 28 years later she won’t make love to me unless I first go over her knee as foreplay (fiveplay as we like to call it).
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OvrhisKnee
8 Mar 2010 @ 6:31 pm
My fiance and I have been dating for 6 years and he has always spanked me for play but the last few years he has spanked me for misbehaving. We are getting married in a year and he plans to continue this thru to our marriage and thats great to me. It works I can get out of control and bratty being the youngest in my family i’m used to stomping my foot and getting my way. my fiance is very strong and in control man and just the other day I told him I failed my test in school and that i lied when he first asked and he had me pull down my pants and panties and bend over the bed with my knees under my stomach and bottom up and out and whipped me with the switch like soo many times I couldn’t count and he lectured me about misbehaving and lying. After forever he finished and layed with me lecturing me more about being a good girl and studying – Now there is large bruises all over my bottom and trust me I will study every day b/c I know that if I come to him with another 58 on a test I won’t be able to sit in the class for a long time. I think every woman should be spanked!
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Giorgio
10 Mar 2010 @ 12:51 pm
If any adult daughter (eg. over 27 yo) is still spanked by her parents on a regular basis, pls write me about her precious (while difficult) experience.
Serious and traditional gentleman has a caring ear.
giorgio.imzadi@gmail.com
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