From the front page of the Los Angeles Times 70 years ago today, Jan. 26, 1938:
Wives of Spanking Husbands
Form Girls’ Auxiliary to ClubSIOUX FALLS (S. D.) Jan. 25 (AP) — Wives of Spanking Husbands’ Club, organized in Sioux City, Iowa, and parent organization of fifty-nine such clubs throughout the nation according to its own figures–reached out for another slice of territory today.
The Iowa housewives who consider it a mark of esteem for their husbands to wield a disciplinary hairbrush once in a while, announced plans today for a junior auxiliary–Daughters of Spanking Parents.
ELIGIBLE GIRLS
A letter received here from Sioux City and signed “Rita Rae, general delivery,” told of plans for the new organization for which she claimed an initial membership of seventeen. Any girl above the age of 11 years is eligible to join, Mrs. Rae wrote.
“We think all parents should spank their daughters when they don’t behave,” Mrs. Rae wrote. “Some girls won’t admit it, but the really know it is better to get spanked than scolded and nagged. Spanking creates a better understanding between parents and daughters.”
MERELY SPANKED
Mrs. Rae is the president of the Wives of Spanking Husbands, which was organized last June 26 under the broad-minded slogan “Spare the hairbrush and spoil the wife.”
“Our husbands don’t beat us,” the Sioux City woman was careful to explain. “They just turn us over their knees and give us a good sound spanking.”
My husband is very strict and i have learnt to only speak when i am told to in his presence i obey him i have set chores to do around the house which he will inspect. One day i was late doing his dinner when he came home it wasnt ready and i was still wearing my morning clothes he was extremely cross by my laziness that he ordered me to go and get undressed and report to him with in five minutes. When i came down stairs he was waiting for me in his study like routine i stood in front of his desk i was made to explain why his dinner wasnt on the table waiting for him and why i was still in my morning clothes i explained but he was satisfied he made me spread my legs and bend over his desk he took the wooden ruler to my bare bum and spanked me extremely hard 10 times. I then had to go and cook his dinner whilst he was eating i had to stand and face the wall after he had eaten his dinner i was given several more with the ruler then he went on to the wooden paddle. I love my husband and i know he loves me i can be very rude and some what lazy my husband works hard. My husband thinks i should be greatful for my spanking his parents are very strick and i have had several spanking off my father in law and my mother inlaw. Once we were visiting his parents house my husband and his father were out in the garden when my mother inlaw asked me would i like a cup of tea i replied yes she became very cross with me and said hasnt my son taught you any manners i was ushered in to the living room were she told me to bend over the desk and lift up my skirt which i did she took the cane and first caned me over my panties before telling me to remove them she carried on with the smacking untill i started crying my husband walked in with my father inlaw i could tell my husband was cross with my rudeness i was then made to face the wall with my panties round my ankles the whole time we were there i was humilated but i knew that i had been disobedient. When we got home my husband ordered me to go and stand againt the wall i love being spanked because it makes me realise what i have done wrong and i learn to be a good respectable wife
Ashley, if you genuinely believe you would benefit from receiving spankings when you do something wrong, why not ask your parents if the three of you could sit down for a heart-to-heart discussion? Tell them you love them and that you appreciate that they have chosen not to “hit” you. Then explain that you feel that a spanking on your bottom is not the same as hitting and that you think getting spanked would help you be better behaved. You can suggest a trial timeframe–such as three months–to see how it works out for all of you. At the end of that timeframe, the family should get together again to discuss how each person feels about it before deciding whether to keep the spankings in place for you. Remember a couple of things, though. Spankings HURT! Sometimes they hurt A LOT! If you receive a spanking that hurts more than you expected, do NOT get vindictive and throw it in your parents’ faces or report them for abuse (I’m not saying you would, just letting you know it might not be what you expect). If you ask them to try this, give them the respect of accepting it with grace. It will not work unless you do. Let us know how it turns out for you. Good luck.
A bit about me:
I am 43 years old and have 7 grandchildren. I get spanked by my husband. There are the fun, playful kind that we both enjoy and that generally lead to some great sex. Then there are the no-nonsense punishment kind of spankings. I am the one who brought spankings into our marriage by letting him know I needed it, so those of you who feel that this is abuse–it’s not. He was quite happy to oblige, although at first he hesitated to leave marks on me. I find that a spanking that leaves me with a sore bottom for at least two days after the spanking is the most effective for me–and that kind definitely leaves at least some minor bruising! For the record, I do not enjoy punishment spankings while they are taking place–they HURT!–but it helps us keep a happy relationship going strong between us. Basically, it works for us. If it ain’t for you, then don’t do it! 😛
Today i got the paddle on my bare bum because i went out
After years of trying to get my husband to spank me hard it finally happened last night. We have done sexual spanking for years and I finally told him yesterday I need it to be harder…well…he obliged…My bottom is sore today…he won’t spank me soley for punishment. I think it turns him on too much and he isn’t able to control himself. I have requested “corner time” also. Although we didn’t get to that last night I am sitting here wondering when he is going to say “get in the corner”. I mean…it is driving me nuts…it could be any minute…it could be days or months…Ugh…he has agreed that “corner time” can be used in “play” and also as punishement. I am thinking I might be a brat today just to see if he actually does it…Now…to get him to punish me by spanking…give it time people…I am working on it…
is this a joke? I’m kind of literal. If so, it’s potentially disrespectful and creates a chain of command which does not exist naturally. Very creepy. Potentially dangerous.
nawty but nice:
Your entries really concern me. (And others, I notice your entries are getting thumbs-down.) I notice you do not mention your parents or friends – do you have a support system? Domestic discipline is fine if it is consensual, if not it is abuse.
You were spanked for leaving the house? You’re not allowed to speak without permission? Yikes, woman! What kind of control freak are you married to? Also your comment that your husband works hard and you can be lazy sounds like you are parroting something. It sounds like something an abuser brainwashes into his victim.
I am also concerned that his parents feel they have the right to touch you. Not without your permission. You have the right to say “No”. If anyone touches you without your permission – call the police. Do not think spanking withing a marriage is never abuse – it all hinges on consent. If this treatment is not what you want or what you need, talk to your husband and tell him this. If he loves you he will understand. If he doesn’t stop, then end the marriage before his controlling behavior and violence really gets out of control and he does something serious to you.
nawty but nice:
I am also concerned for any children you may have in the future. This guy sounds seriously scary.
nawty but nice:
Last note, I promise. The reason I asked about your parents and friends is because an abuser often isolates the victim so they feel they have nowhere to turn. This increases the control over the victim and make the victim completely dependant upon the abuser for approval and affection.
I am all for domestic disipline, but safely and with limits. Consent is the key. If both parties are on board, great. If not, it is dangerous.
There is a naughty little girl in evry woman. And they are not too old to be spanked.
I act out alot and have asked my husband to spank me when I am bad to help me remember to behave. He wont. I know I get turn on even thinking about it, but how to I convince him it’s a good thing to help me stay in line and it’s not a bad thing.
Christy,
Domestic discipline can be great for a marriage. Find some websites or books on the subject and ask hubby to read through them. Maybe if he is better informed he will be open to discussing it with you.
Im a man 31 years old spanking my 22 year old wife when needed. As often i take her in front of me, pulls down her jeans and panties and we have a talk why she now has to go over my knee. The spankings are always on her bare bottom and sometimes she gets the slipper. Cornertime is given 30 minutes after each spanking so she can reflect about her behavior. Then she gives me a big hug and cries out on my shoulder. She was spanked at home and now i have taken over. She agrees she need the punishment to keep her in line and we have a happy domestic dicipline marriage. The number of spankings of course varies from time to time depending on her behavior.
i like spanking as a sex fanteses but my wife is not into in the same way
i like spanking hard and very hard she like it as fun and not into all time
what can i do?
Emenem:
Do prefer to give or recieve the spanking, or are you happy to switch? It may be that you and your wife simply have to be content to give the other what is desired.
I have been married for 11 years to a VERY wonderful man, who has dropped hints of wanting to discipline me with spanking, throughout our marriage. I always tease him and say, “you love me too much, you would never do that to me.” He always comes back with some funny remark and we both laugh and leave it at that. One time he began singing, “What’s Love Got To Do With It”, by Tina turner. It was hilarious.
Well, anyway, we are coming up on my fortieth birthday, and he told me (way in advance) that my birthday present is going to be a paddle, made by him. He said it will be beautiful with flowers down one side and the words, “SWEET MELISSA” down the other side. He’s always mentioned that to me, but this time I sense that he really means it. He said that he loves me so much and plans to spend the rest of his life with me, however, if this is to happen without him going in sane, he must spank me when I need it. He says I am a very bad girl. Of course, we never see the bad side of ourselves. Every once in a while, I ask him if he’s joking, or if there is anything I can do to change his mind, and he says, “absolutely not, and that I’ve pushed things too far, and that 10 good whacks with the paddle will remind me to be good or just calm down when I begin to get out of control” He said he feels that after the first spanking, he will probably be able to just look at me most of the time to change my attitude.
At first, I was so angry at him, I did not even want to talk to him. It made me sad that he does not like me that much, that he must spank me to make me a different person. I work approximately 45 minutes from our home and have a long drive in and back, leaving me much time to think. It’s funny, but I was so angry, until I really began thinking about it. I am bad at times and VERY deserving of a spanking. I do things like talk over him, interrupt phone conversations, speak out while he is trying to watch something on T.V. Maybe a good spanking would change my attitued, or maybe slow me down and make me think before I do.
I’m scared to death of the spanking I am about to get; however, I’ve been thinking that a lot of people get spanked, and they are still alive. What makes me any different.
I love my husband so much. He is so good to me. He is the only person I would ever trust with my life. So, if he feels I need a good spanking to settle me down, I guess I can go with it. I told him this yesterday. I even told him I would take the spanking now, but he said, “no, we will just wait until your birthday.”
Wish me luck.
My wife (6’2″ 190 lbs.) gave me (5’10’ 165 lbs.) my first bare bottomed spanking on our honeymoon and hasn’t stopped yet. Now 28 years later she won’t make love to me unless I first go over her knee as foreplay (fiveplay as we like to call it).
My fiance and I have been dating for 6 years and he has always spanked me for play but the last few years he has spanked me for misbehaving. We are getting married in a year and he plans to continue this thru to our marriage and thats great to me. It works I can get out of control and bratty being the youngest in my family i’m used to stomping my foot and getting my way. my fiance is very strong and in control man and just the other day I told him I failed my test in school and that i lied when he first asked and he had me pull down my pants and panties and bend over the bed with my knees under my stomach and bottom up and out and whipped me with the switch like soo many times I couldn’t count and he lectured me about misbehaving and lying. After forever he finished and layed with me lecturing me more about being a good girl and studying – Now there is large bruises all over my bottom and trust me I will study every day b/c I know that if I come to him with another 58 on a test I won’t be able to sit in the class for a long time. I think every woman should be spanked!
If any adult daughter (eg. over 27 yo) is still spanked by her parents on a regular basis, pls write me about her precious (while difficult) experience.
Serious and traditional gentleman has a caring ear.
giorgio.imzadi@gmail.com
my parent have never punished me in any way so i decided i didnt want to live with them anymore i asked if i could move in with my bf they didnt care since it was just across the street so i moved into his house and his parents were awsome…or so i thought when i moved in i did something wrong…no one told me wat i did wrong and that was the first time but they just grabbed a wooded spoon put my over their knee and my bf dads wife yanked off my pants and pulled down my panties, i was screaming but that made him whack harder i was begging them to stop it was embarrassing and scary bc i have never been spanked before i thought that only YOUR OWN parents were supposed to spank you and i knew it happened with husbands and wives and older bf and gfs not with 13 year old girls they aren’t even my parents they are my bfs parents and once my bf saw he started doing it too the same day just for looking around bc i wanted to know where stuff was like the bathroom and his room and the kitchen and he saw me and asked what i was doing i told him he said “dont you go looking around in my house looking for something to steal!”
so he took me into his room and told me to bend over his knees i said “no!” i had no place to go bc my parents wouldn’t let me come back home bc i decided to live with my bf so he said if i wanted a place to live i would do it and that i would do it now i started to cry but i pulled my pants down i didnt need to pull down my panties bc i was wearing a thong i laid over his knees and then he started spanking me with his hand it hurt alot but i didnt manke a sound exept for crying very quietly bc i didnt want his parents comeing in but it was loud and that was the same day his parents spanked my and my butt was still sore bc it was just an hour later after about 15 mins into the spanking and i still didnt make a sound …but i guess the could hear the slaps they came running in my bf stoped spanking me and looked up his father asked why he was spanking me he said ” sh was wondering around looking for stuff to steal” i shouted “NO I WAS-” ‘SLAP!!’ “shut up!!!” i started to cry harder then his dad told him to finish then to meet him in the kitchen after 15 more mins of spanking i was bawling them he pushed me off him i fell on the ground. i carefully pulled up my pants and followed him into the kitchen then his dad spanked him it was way worse then what he gave me i just hoped that if he decided to spanked me again its bad as bad as he gave my bf he used a spoon a spatula his belt a tree branch
and yes i know that this isnt what everybody else is posting but idk what to do and i know this is site for ppl that want and like and say that they should be spanked and i have no problem with that but i dont want to be….just not at this age can some one help me….plez???
sharon you may be a spoiled brat,however i would have you broke of those tantrams 0f your reas fast. you would not scare me away with your behaviour. your bottom would be sore until you came up with a better attitiude.