This is the first, and most important, lesson of teams: ask for help.
So we live by this lesson. If they don’t ask us for help, they never learn who we are and what we have to give. It can be frustrating for us, and hard for them, but not as frustrating and hard for both as us wasting ourselves upon people who do not want what we urge upon them.
Asking for help…so appreciated in some circles, so frowned upon in others…
http://tastelesswisdom.com/2011/01/12/the-healthy-strong-individual-is-the-one-who-asks-for-help-when-he-needs-it/