If You Tolerate It, You Insist On It

19 Nov 2011 /

Whenever you perceive that a virtue is missing or that a vice is present, you either tolerate the situation or try to change it. If you cannot “fix” it, you can at least withdraw your participation. The problem with tolerating the absence of virtue or the existence of vice is that this choice summons them into your life.

You might tell yourself stories about the problem you perceive and your tolerance of it:

  • That’s just the way it is in the real world.
  • Others will not listen even-handedly to your perceptions and advice.
  • It’s not your place to say truthful but difficult things.
  • The problem lies in another department.
  • You are not reading the situation correctly. You may not be able to discern beauty from ugliness or efficiency from waste, and your ignorance will be exposed. You’ll be rejected or ridiculed.
  • You will look dumb if you ask for help to resolve any uncertainty.

Acknowledge that if you tolerate it, you insist on it. If you insist on something, you are its creator.

— Jim and Michele McCarthy, Software for Your Head

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