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Why Asian Girls Like White Guys

3 Jul 2006 / Hostile Witness

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Yeah!

1 Jan 2007 @ 8:30 am

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Asian girls like white guys, because white guys are white. They also like white guys because white guys have the features that they want for themselves and for their CHILD. Visit Asia some time and see for yourself.
Lucky Dog

29 Jan 2007 @ 4:44 am

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I am a white guy with an asian wife and she just wanted her 2nd marriage to be closer,more affectionate. Besides white girls are crazy, too demanding. Asian women are more beutiful inside and out.
suzanne

15 May 2007 @ 2:59 am

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i’m an asian girl with a white boyfriend, and i’m really tired of hearing white guys write that asian women all left their “cold, heartless” asian men for “warm, caring” white men. that is simple stereotyping and completely egotistical on the part of the white males that write these things. i had a wonderful warm father and a wonderful brother, and i have had many great relationships with asian boyfriends in the past. it just so happens that the last guy i fell for was white. but it is totally wrong and racist to equate positive emotional qualities to just the white race. asian men have just as much to give to women of all races as men of other racial groups.
ed

29 Jun 2007 @ 7:32 pm

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Answer: He’s her cousin!
trick

16 Aug 2007 @ 2:00 pm

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asian girls like all the white nerds that the white girls wont date.

they can have them!!
Chuck

20 Aug 2007 @ 9:28 pm

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Your a complete bloody moron Hostile Witness and a racist/white supremist. I’m not trying to be too insulting, you probably are the latter. I would have laughed at this, thinking it was put up for humourous reasons, if I did not also stumble upon number two of this article where you wholeheartedly state your opinion on the inferiority, in appearance, of not only Asian men (including Indians), but Middle-Eastern men (and women) as well (to their respective women, but also I’m assuming ,and you can confirm this if you wish, to White men, like yourself, eh?).
There’s really nothing I can say that will hurt you of course or make you take notice, but you really are a twisted, somewhat pathectic individual. You ain’t unique I guess, there are probably another million white people who hold the same kinda view as you as well.
May the future be bright and white (exept for exotic women who should ALWAYS be up for grabs, cause we, god knows, deserve it)!
aboyinthelife

9 Oct 2007 @ 8:24 pm

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yes, asian girls like white guys. however, they also like black, brown, and yellow guys. oh, also, oreos, bananas and eggs.
bheja fry

20 Oct 2007 @ 1:21 pm

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Because they can dump the white guys any time like a 50 cents worth gigolo. But when it comes to serious relationships most aisans, especially south asian girls want their own men. It is a fact that asian (boys or girs) think (and is true) that whites are easy and promiscuous; so some prefer to sleep with them before getting permanatly settled. There is nothing to be proud of in being considered cheap and easy, okay!
Patrick

26 Dec 2007 @ 7:09 pm

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bheja fry, you are stereotyping white men, just as bad as the other white men who claim asian women are more affectionate/submissive/blah blah blah. I am a white American male and hate men who stereotype asian women like that, especially since I know it to be false (I dated a Chinese girl in college and she was high maintenance and self-centered and just mental … long story that one).

However you did (by chance no doubt) tangentially hit on the truth that women, no matter what race they are, prefer men of their own ethnicity when it comes straight to looks. This was in a british research article that I can’t seem to remember where it was. Anyway, point is men are less likely than women to prefer their own ethnicity in that same study. However, statistics can say anything you want if you slice it the right way.

The important thing is what is on the inside. I have no ethnic preferences myself, it’s just I found a wonderful woman who’s fun, complements me well, encourages me, and I love her. She just happens to be Japanese.
YeaImWhite

7 Jan 2008 @ 8:54 pm

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Yea, Im white and I have been with 8 different asian girls (sexually). Also I have dated asian girls my whole life because I dont know they look better to me. You cant stereotype them all because all the girls I have dated are different. But I can say that I did have sex with all the girls on the first date, which I think is dumb because theres no mystery left after that. I have (am) kinda dating a girl from Japan and she says that Japanese men arent “strong” like white guys. Thats not always the case, but everytime I have been to Japan, Japanese men tend to be more fashionable which would be protrayed as metrosexual in our society. Truthfully, I just think asian women are beautiful, ive been with ones that my friends thought were ugly, and ones that my friends thought were hot. But the funny thing is I kind of like dorky looking pale asian girls, thats my thing. But it is true for atleast Japanese girls, that some of them dont like their eyes or their features and what european characteristics. I think thats dumb though. People just like what they like , they look exotic to us, we look exotic to them, case closed
dana

12 Jan 2008 @ 11:24 pm

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haha you got the whole thing wrong. asian girls are not pretty on the inside trust me.. theyre ugly. thats why im with a white girl. im an asian guy and rather be with an white girl. asian girls are stuck up they want guys with money nd looks.. but who doesnt.
ftyuh

13 Jan 2008 @ 3:14 pm

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lets face it - a good looking white guy is way better looking than a good looking Asian guy. As for the other 99% of society - you are all dorks. Most of those girls the foriegners bag as friggin ugly with fat faces, buck teeth and no body. So its fitting the earwax boys would have them.

The facts are what they are. People arguing about it is funny.
Magnum*

18 Jan 2008 @ 1:05 pm

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“Japanese women prefer western men because they will be treated more as an equal. Many Japanese women want to live in a western country because the lifestyle is more relaxed. Japanese girls are also very aware how loving, loyal, and appreciative a western man can be.”

“Many guys are tired of the U.S. or Canadian singles scene. You know…insincere women who like to play games or expect constant material gifts. In contrast these Japanese ladies are honest, faithful, and Japanese women rarely lose their figures as they age, are extremely supportive, and care more about your heart than your wallet.”

So, how it is? Is this all just bullcrap. Maybe I should stick with white girls? heheh
gtbradford

19 Jan 2008 @ 1:37 am

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Naahhh ! Latin women !!! All the way !
AzN pRyDe

12 Feb 2008 @ 3:44 am

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You know, I’ve been thinking about this for a very long while now but I didn’t wanna care too much about it cause I don’t believe in racism or the whole “sticking to your own race” b.s.! However, it seems like each and everyday I see alot of Asian girls/White guys relationship, now I might be wrong, but for the most part I think Asian girls wanna hook up with a white guy because 1. they wanna be more Americanized and try to be less Asian as they can, 2. just like what Dana said they mostly wanna hook up with someone who’s known to have the money and looks, and 3. if the Asian girl was born in Asia they see the white man as their ticket to a green card and a better life in America. Once again I can be wrong, but me being Asian myself, I know how females within my own race acts. Not to say all Asian girls are like that tho and I respect the ones who aren’t like that, but I seriously have no respect for those who are stuck up and high maintanance no matter how pretty you are. If she likes the white guy for who he is and not because of his money and other worldly possessions, then I can respect that, but just remember that Asian guys are just as successful as the white man are.
Sammo

17 Feb 2008 @ 2:09 pm

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I’m chinese, born in hong kong but lived in california since the age of 7 and still a resident. I have a thing for both white girls and asian girls, but the truth is, from what I’ve experienced at the clubs or anywhere in public, asian girls tend to be alittle more cruel than white girls. There are some asian girls that are nice and there are some white girls who are cruel also, but so far I’ve been able to get along with white girls more than asian girls. Whenever I go to the clubs, alot of the asian girls tend to reject me but as soon as they see a white guy around they throw themselves all over him, even if he wasn’t asking to be hit on, but when I see white girls around, they accept me, talk with me, dance with me, and so on. I would like to know why from an asian girl’s perspective who’s obsessed with white guys do you look down on us asian guys? I might have a thing for white girls, but I still love you asian girls, so why do some of you act like us asian guys are nothing but losers and you think white guys are more superior to us?
Andrew

21 Feb 2008 @ 10:14 pm

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Asian girls go for white guys? Honestly to say, they’re americanized. I observe a few things, the more they’re still able to speak their parents’ language, keep and practice the culture the less they would go to white guys. I have some friends marrying to white guys and girls, almost none of them are capable of properly speaking their parents’ language. They look asians but they’re not asians. They’re banana (I don’t mean the term I use offending anyone ). Some choose white guys for the physical appearance, one of my friend’s friend did so and white guys would never ask them to do the cooking or fulfill some traditional asian female family functions. Others think being with whites they would feel more white. What a low self-esteem thinking. And lastly they’ll have more freedom with whites culture.
My cousin married to a white guy, has 3 kids, and then divorced after 13 years. It seems that if you’re not divorced once you’re not american. I don’t like my cousin so I’ll never be nosy with her life.
Sean

24 Feb 2008 @ 3:23 pm

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Any man or women who who thinks that the opposite gender in a particular race is superior or better, or they predetermine they will not date a particular race is foolish. Every race/individual has pro, and cons.

Certain people are not very conscious of the influence from family, friends, peers, culture, media, and etc. I myself awhile ago came to that realization so I started looking at my own faith, and seen race did not matter in my faith. Next I looked at my familys, and realized thats where I got my viewpoints on race, and relationships. Then I looked at each race, and realized there was nice, and mean, sexy, and not so sexy, etc.Kinda simple I know but to reject one group of people on the grounds they are all the same is stupid even twins have there differences.Do no misunderstand me I know there are undeniable statistics you should consider, and keep in mind. But no matter what race they are If they are of my faith, and that’s their prime Identity, and they take their faith seriously we will be fine. For me anymore one day may I may be attracted to an asian women, then the next an Indian women, then an arab women then a white, etc. We all bleed red, but the differences can be sexy.
PeterBent

5 Mar 2008 @ 12:51 am

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I just find it hard to be asian these days. Its demoralizing when asian girls refuse to date other asians. sometimes, i just wake up in the morning hoping i’m white so i can get an asian girl.
Ling Ling

22 Mar 2008 @ 6:59 pm

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they like white men because they have big dicks.
Hostile Witness

22 Mar 2008 @ 7:43 pm

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Hi Ling Ling -

Thanks for your comment. Are you a panda?
Damon

4 May 2008 @ 3:07 pm

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People in AF/WM couples typically state that personality is really the main reason for choosing their partner. Such an answer is to be expected considering Western society places so much emphasis on non-superficial relationships. In fact, this mainstream view of “deeper” relationship criteria blinds many AF and WM to the real reason for their attraction.

Eventually, both partners often find personality-related justifications for their courtship. What cannot be denied is the PREFERENCE AF and WM consistently have for one another, and how this systematically alienates AF as equal-footed bachelors. Socially programmed responses aside, the main reasons for the AF/WM attraction is actually more superficial than these couples would have you to believe. Here are some of those superficial reasons.

AF: they age better, more attractive, submissive to WM, media portrayal as sexual objects

WM: social/racial status, height, gives AF the sense they “made it”

Other interesting facts:
A social scientist Dan Rodriguez-Garcia found that visible minorities are often better educated and paid than white spouses. Minority members have to compensate for marrying someone with higher racial status.

Men prefer women who are more submissive to them. Studies show that men prefer women who have lower IQ and jobs with less social status than them.
wong

30 May 2008 @ 10:55 am

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asian girls think white men are superior and often end up dating the non good looking fat / geeky ones just for the sake of having one which is pretty sad. asian boys all the way! chinese guys are generally more well mannered
we are all flowers..

1 Jun 2008 @ 9:36 am

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Come on this is just bullshit and you all know it, some asian girls like white guys, some asian guys like white girls etc etc, and its not just asian guys who has the problem of asian girls looking for guys of different cultures.

I’m a swedish guy with blonde hair and blue eyes, here in sweden it’s quite common that swedish white girls date middle eastern looking guys because of their sun tanned bodies etc etc..

Who gives a shit which country you’re from and who u date etc etc, I wouldnt mind dating an asian girl because I would find it interesting to get to know a person from another culture and get another point of view on different things, And of course asian girls are among the most good looking girls out there..

But I’m not out there trying to say I look better than asian guys, I probably look good in some girls eyes and ugly in others, thats just way shit is, everyone is beautiful, you just have to find the right person for you…
kykeon2

2 Jun 2008 @ 6:29 pm

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Hmmm… I am speechless at how so many people can be so ignorant. Some people date for the wrong reasons but some people date for the right reasons. I am Asian and have dated Asian men. I normally prefer Asian men (particularly Viet and Buddhist) and I never thought that I would date a white man but eventually, I fell for one. Neither of us are unattractive; we both get approached by people of our races and of different races. My bf is tall and considered a Ken doll whose sisters modeled for Guess and Playboy and as for me, I may not have a high-bridged nose but people think I am very cute with my button nose (baby-face?) and I am also curvy for an Asian. Anyway, it was hard at first to date him because his color kind of wiped out everything else about him. As the relationship grew, I started seeing him as less of a white boy and more for who he is, a smart, fun, kind man. I used to think he had yellow fever and I gave him a hard time about it but in reality, he just loves me for me. We are not a stereotypical white-boy-Asian-girl couple, we are just a couple.
Shirlz

9 Jun 2008 @ 7:09 pm

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I must agree with kykeon2. Interracial dating could be fun. but at the end of the day, finding a guy who treats you well is what matters most. I’m Asian and have dated asian and non-asian men. i personally find “white” men are more fun and exciting. they are definitely more adventurous than asian men (no offense to asian men out there). any way for me to meet more exciting and fun white men?
chillout

20 Jun 2008 @ 1:16 am

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you guys need to chill out. yea some asian girls really dig white dudes whatever. find a fine biddie of your own, f**k her, and be happy for yourself. jeez.
laine

8 Aug 2008 @ 9:46 pm

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here it is…………… white guys who date out of thier race do so because they have a strango fetish nothing more.
they cycle around in the same racial group to get off on thier wierd fantasy. some white guys are trying to get up the ladder of attractiveness without being attractive themselves. that is why you asian female with unattractive white male.
its pretty sick.
we know why the ethnic girl does it………… status and to try to get the darkness off herself.
good thing we have dna testing now. in the future men and women will select thier pure blooded mates by blood alone.
those of mixed bloodlines or out of thier racial order will not even be considered for marriage. asian girls you can try but you will never win. mix your bloodlines and destroy the future of your desendants!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
men are mostly at fault for all this, women go along becasue men are open to it. if men did not want the ethnic woman the ethnic woman would stick to her own kind.
we all know what your doing, your not fooling us.
Lisa

11 Aug 2008 @ 2:23 am

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I don’t want to add much to this, but I was an exchange student in Japan last year and it just boggled my mind how so many of my friends adored white guys…a few of them didn’t like Japanese guys at all, which I found quite funny since that’s about all they have there, lol.
On a field day in Kobe we walked by a middle aged white guy/Japanese lady couple and one of my friends was like “ii naaa?(nice isn’t it?)”. I got the feeling that Japanese women on the whole really don’t like how they look and have an inferiority complex. There’s one commercial that bothered me, it was for shampoo and featured a Japanese woman running up something to a white guy while music was playing and they were surrounded by blond girls applauding them…. how much more painfully obvious can they make it? It’s like recently they realized that western guys like them and that they don’t have to try and live up to western ideals of beauty anymore so there are slogans now like “Japanese women are beautiful” and stuff.
Sorry for the tangent, really though most girls there find guys of all races attractive I think. As for me, I’m half Asian and grew up in a place with VERY few Asians and gravitate more towards white guys and other half (or 1/4) Asians. I developed my share of crushes on Asian guys when I was over there though, especially celebrities! <3
shelly

11 Aug 2008 @ 10:50 pm

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well I am a white girl with an asian guy and i dont see the problem.
As long as you love each other that is what counts. He is chinese indonesian and I am american. You have repsect his family and respect is VEry big to asian men.

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Lucky Dog

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ed

trick

Chuck

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AzN pRyDe

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Sean

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we are all flowers..

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