These are from the same photo set on Flickr, taken at a local beach here in Orange County:
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See Also: Why Asian Girls Like White Guys II
These are from the same photo set on Flickr, taken at a local beach here in Orange County:
Any questions?
See Also: Why Asian Girls Like White Guys II
Hi Ling Ling –
Thanks for your comment. Are you a panda?
People in AF/WM couples typically state that personality is really the main reason for choosing their partner. Such an answer is to be expected considering Western society places so much emphasis on non-superficial relationships. In fact, this mainstream view of “deeper” relationship criteria blinds many AF and WM to the real reason for their attraction.
Eventually, both partners often find personality-related justifications for their courtship. What cannot be denied is the PREFERENCE AF and WM consistently have for one another, and how this systematically alienates AF as equal-footed bachelors. Socially programmed responses aside, the main reasons for the AF/WM attraction is actually more superficial than these couples would have you to believe. Here are some of those superficial reasons.
AF: they age better, more attractive, submissive to WM, media portrayal as sexual objects
WM: social/racial status, height, gives AF the sense they “made it”
Other interesting facts:
A social scientist Dan Rodriguez-Garcia found that visible minorities are often better educated and paid than white spouses. Minority members have to compensate for marrying someone with higher racial status.
Men prefer women who are more submissive to them. Studies show that men prefer women who have lower IQ and jobs with less social status than them.
asian girls think white men are superior and often end up dating the non good looking fat / geeky ones just for the sake of having one which is pretty sad. asian boys all the way! chinese guys are generally more well mannered
Come on this is just bullshit and you all know it, some asian girls like white guys, some asian guys like white girls etc etc, and its not just asian guys who has the problem of asian girls looking for guys of different cultures.
I’m a swedish guy with blonde hair and blue eyes, here in sweden it’s quite common that swedish white girls date middle eastern looking guys because of their sun tanned bodies etc etc..
Who gives a shit which country you’re from and who u date etc etc, I wouldnt mind dating an asian girl because I would find it interesting to get to know a person from another culture and get another point of view on different things, And of course asian girls are among the most good looking girls out there..
But I’m not out there trying to say I look better than asian guys, I probably look good in some girls eyes and ugly in others, thats just way shit is, everyone is beautiful, you just have to find the right person for you…
Hmmm… I am speechless at how so many people can be so ignorant. Some people date for the wrong reasons but some people date for the right reasons. I am Asian and have dated Asian men. I normally prefer Asian men (particularly Viet and Buddhist) and I never thought that I would date a white man but eventually, I fell for one. Neither of us are unattractive; we both get approached by people of our races and of different races. My bf is tall and considered a Ken doll whose sisters modeled for Guess and Playboy and as for me, I may not have a high-bridged nose but people think I am very cute with my button nose (baby-face?) and I am also curvy for an Asian. Anyway, it was hard at first to date him because his color kind of wiped out everything else about him. As the relationship grew, I started seeing him as less of a white boy and more for who he is, a smart, fun, kind man. I used to think he had yellow fever and I gave him a hard time about it but in reality, he just loves me for me. We are not a stereotypical white-boy-Asian-girl couple, we are just a couple.
I must agree with kykeon2. Interracial dating could be fun. but at the end of the day, finding a guy who treats you well is what matters most. I’m Asian and have dated asian and non-asian men. i personally find “white” men are more fun and exciting. they are definitely more adventurous than asian men (no offense to asian men out there). any way for me to meet more exciting and fun white men?
you guys need to chill out. yea some asian girls really dig white dudes whatever. find a fine biddie of your own, f**k her, and be happy for yourself. jeez.
here it is…………… white guys who date out of thier race do so because they have a strango fetish nothing more.
they cycle around in the same racial group to get off on thier wierd fantasy. some white guys are trying to get up the ladder of attractiveness without being attractive themselves. that is why you asian female with unattractive white male.
its pretty sick.
we know why the ethnic girl does it………… status and to try to get the darkness off herself.
good thing we have dna testing now. in the future men and women will select thier pure blooded mates by blood alone.
those of mixed bloodlines or out of thier racial order will not even be considered for marriage. asian girls you can try but you will never win. mix your bloodlines and destroy the future of your desendants!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
men are mostly at fault for all this, women go along becasue men are open to it. if men did not want the ethnic woman the ethnic woman would stick to her own kind.
we all know what your doing, your not fooling us.
I don’t want to add much to this, but I was an exchange student in Japan last year and it just boggled my mind how so many of my friends adored white guys…a few of them didn’t like Japanese guys at all, which I found quite funny since that’s about all they have there, lol.
On a field day in Kobe we walked by a middle aged white guy/Japanese lady couple and one of my friends was like “ii naaa?(nice isn’t it?)”. I got the feeling that Japanese women on the whole really don’t like how they look and have an inferiority complex. There’s one commercial that bothered me, it was for shampoo and featured a Japanese woman running up something to a white guy while music was playing and they were surrounded by blond girls applauding them…. how much more painfully obvious can they make it? It’s like recently they realized that western guys like them and that they don’t have to try and live up to western ideals of beauty anymore so there are slogans now like “Japanese women are beautiful” and stuff.
Sorry for the tangent, really though most girls there find guys of all races attractive I think. As for me, I’m half Asian and grew up in a place with VERY few Asians and gravitate more towards white guys and other half (or 1/4) Asians. I developed my share of crushes on Asian guys when I was over there though, especially celebrities! <3
well I am a white girl with an asian guy and i dont see the problem.
As long as you love each other that is what counts. He is chinese indonesian and I am american. You have repsect his family and respect is VEry big to asian men.
What is with this theory? As a white guy I dissagree because not only have I never dated an asian girl, I rarely ever see white/asian couples. I dont know where you got this idea, but most asian girls will fall for asian guys.
Hi Crispin —
Are you from the big city? Are you near the big city? Can you name a big city?
In your less cosmopolitan burgs, Asians are probably scared of white people, but this is the OC, man! Nothing is inevitable here! And everyone knows that there’s nothing an Asian girl wants more than a big, handsome white guy!
I have white BF and am Asian .. He asked me to stay with him in U.S. when I was there since my family is there too.. I sais NO and I want to live here in Asia .. so my point here is not all Asian Female want to stay in BORING AMERICA ..
i’m sure there are some asian lesbians who would be all over that “dude”.
I am a Half japanese (my dad) And Half white French, Finish, ect..(My Mom).
Now when you say asian girl, what do you really mean by asian? People ask me all the time, what ethinicity i am, i tell them im a hapa. My white friends-or caucasians, See me as a really pale full japanese. Then my Asian friend’s tell me i look white, barely asian at all. Funny how people see me, eh?
Anyways i woudl’nt steriotype myself as anything, but the typical “american” girl. I mean okay, IF YOU LIVE IN AMERICA..YOUR A fucking AMERICAN, PERIOD[[dot-dot]].
Anywaysss……get to the point. I don’t really like Asian guys becuase i guess i could say i don’t like myself. I don’t care for my eyes, even though people tell me there really not that small, And i don’t care for my high cheek bones, and japanese lips, and my round nose, which in this case many white people dont have. They have big beautifull eyes, they have good sized noses, and there..TALLER THEN ME, and they seem to be more affectionate. I eman MANY ASIAN girls are cute, the way they are, i really just hate the way i look. But you see one of my problems here is that it doesnt really matter what they look like it’s who they are on the inside, and I have to say Asian men and White men, and Black men, Mexican’s could be just as good as anybody but you’ll never find out unless you give it a try, and stop careing so much about your fucking skin color, and who looks the best because you might have made a big mistake taking someone for how they look then rather for who they are, and be missing out on maybe the most wonderfull guy(this goes for girls too) you could ever meet.
I totally agree with “We are all flowers” And “PeterBent” Thats pretty sad, I just wanna say i think you’re good enough for any girl. Jsut need to find the right one.
🙂
I am Asian. I have a boyfriend who is half white. I love him very much because he is a kind, considerate, loving, intelligent and mature person. I love him more for his qualities than any superficial quality such as race. I think most people who want to be in a long term relationship would put a greater emphasis on the character, personality and prospects of their partner than other superficial things like race or looks etc.
haha, this is really funny. people always have this inferior complex in their genes. it doesn’t matter if he/she is a super model, have a high level education. the easterners view westerners as superior (have d best education and university) , the westerners view easterners as superior (scoring the best in western university), why can’t we be proud of our own race? luckily males have their ego to deny other race as superior (in d open, but inside, it’s another story, haha). i tot having d feminist movement and the internet, females are well informed , and would change to see more highly of themselves, but it seems tat something doesn’t change. tat’s why highly educated professionals still get cheated by simple con plan. d best evidence is d current economy downfall. a leading country making bad choices, not a smart move. same thing applies to asian females….lucky for u white dudes. btw, are white woman really tat bad?
Every country is experiencing this. Even in Japan there is increasing number of mixed marriages. Who’s to say right or wrong, it just happens
http://japansugoi.com/wordpress/japan-becoming-a-more-mixed-society/
hello everyone
im a asian woman and open to tell you the thruth.
i was born in australia where there are many asian people from different countries, asians women prefer to marry white guys because of their images features, white skin, pretty face and white men are more caring futhermore some for money and easy life.
there are also some africans people who recently immigrate to australia some asian women are starting to date them because of their mysterious big penis even though here black men prefer blond white girls. anyway.all my sisters bleached themselves because they want to look white and beautiful.asian men in australia are loser , nowdays asian girls want a tall and white boy.absolutly true.
this debate will never EVER end…
but this video called “yellow fever” will explain a lot.
okay, maybe it won’t explain a lot… but it’s really entertaining…