From the front page of the Los Angeles Times 70 years ago today, Jan. 26, 1938:
Wives of Spanking Husbands
Form Girls’ Auxiliary to ClubSIOUX FALLS (S. D.) Jan. 25 (AP) — Wives of Spanking Husbands’ Club, organized in Sioux City, Iowa, and parent organization of fifty-nine such clubs throughout the nation according to its own figures–reached out for another slice of territory today.
The Iowa housewives who consider it a mark of esteem for their husbands to wield a disciplinary hairbrush once in a while, announced plans today for a junior auxiliary–Daughters of Spanking Parents.
ELIGIBLE GIRLS
A letter received here from Sioux City and signed “Rita Rae, general delivery,” told of plans for the new organization for which she claimed an initial membership of seventeen. Any girl above the age of 11 years is eligible to join, Mrs. Rae wrote.
“We think all parents should spank their daughters when they don’t behave,” Mrs. Rae wrote. “Some girls won’t admit it, but the really know it is better to get spanked than scolded and nagged. Spanking creates a better understanding between parents and daughters.”
MERELY SPANKED
Mrs. Rae is the president of the Wives of Spanking Husbands, which was organized last June 26 under the broad-minded slogan “Spare the hairbrush and spoil the wife.”
“Our husbands don’t beat us,” the Sioux City woman was careful to explain. “They just turn us over their knees and give us a good sound spanking.”
Re EN from24 may 2009 (Tulsa) Did you find someone ?
I am Pamela, senior at LSU and was spanked through childhood and wish that I had someone who cared enough about me to use the paddle or belt on my bare bottom now that I need it more that ever. I feel that I would be A better and more focused person for this. Pam sainnla@yahoo.com
I’m married 24 years and my husband is definitely not one to be pushed around. The only thing I do that ticks him off is not listening to his opinion, after he has listened to mine. I’m a mature woman and very logical, so he finds little reason to be upset with me. I have a tendency to state my views in anger at him and then walk away. One day he decided not to take this. He told me to sit down, shut up and hear his side of things. He yelled at me so loud and give me such a look that it had me in tears. If I got up out of that chair before hearing him out, he’d grab me by the wrist and put me right back in the chair. He’s never spanked me, he doesn’t have to. One of those lectures on not listening to his side, after I’ve had my say, is enough to scare the heck out of me. He’s much taller and bigger than me and his voice alone will make me listen to reason and bring me to tears. I think he has every right to demand I listen to him, after I’ve had my say. He isn’t beyond physically grabbing me and making me sit down to hear him out. He also doesn’t put up with me stomping out of a room mad. He will come after me, grab me and put his arms around me and drag me to sit with him and talk things out then and there. He doesn’t like things festering. This is what I call a man. Not one who spanks, but one who lays down the law, if he thinks I’m being a witch or not respectful toward him. The only time he’s slapped me on the bottom is joking around. If I tickle or tease him, he will grab both my wrists in one hand and slap my butt and tell me to cut it out. He has never put me over his knee and spanked me to get me to reason. When he yells at me and gives me a lecture, I usually desire it for not respecting his viewpoint, after I have stated my viewpoint. It’s a bad habit and walking away from him angry is another. He doesn’t put up with it, but does get physical enough to make me sit and listen to reason. Would I want to be spanked for fun and for sexual pleasure… yes, but my husband said he’d feel silly spanking me and would never seriously do that. You don’t have to spank to be a man in charge and yes, I want my man in charge and that’s why I married him. He’s also smart and a lot wiser than I am and I know this.
Yes, I have a fantasy, that one day he’ll not lecture me, but pull me over his knee an pull down my pants and spank me with his bare hand. Sometimes I think I’d rather have that, then the lecture. He would never hit me in anger. He considers that abuse.
PE … How old is that friend of yours and where is he located? I haven’t been back to this site since I left that comment last year. Hope to hear back from you. parallaxviewtoo@yahoo.com
I make it a point to “handle” my wife’s bottom, which is extremely well padded. I put her over my knee in our bedroom every day and warm her fanny, but I also make sure to give her praise with some well placed pats and rubs throughout the day to let her know who’s running the show. I have been known to swat my wife’s rear end in public if necessary to get her attention or correct a problem. When we get back home she knows she will get my full attention which for her means panties down, bottom out for what I like to call a little positive reinforcement, that’s a session with the hickory paddle I keep in my desk drawer in my study just for her ass. I swing hard, but boy, her big butt can take it and she certainly needs a good swat session every week or so to adjust her attitude. I like to keep her in short skirts that are full so I have easy access to the seat of her panties, which I lovingly call “my handrest”. Of course, this is just in the privacy of our home, I’m not a total brute, although the UPS guy does seem to enjoy his deliveries to our address, when my wife bends over even the slightest, her white cotton brief panties definitely show, and you can bet my hand’s not far (from her) behind! The best part of spanking my wife is “making up” afterward, when she is sans panties and needs me to soothe her tender globes, which I am happy to oblige as part of my husbandly duties. I can’t understand guys that don’t spank their wives. That paddle sure does come in handy.
I got spanked at home up until I got married and then my husband took over. I frequently get the hairbrush over his knee almost always on a bare bottom.
Its embarrassing and it stings but it keeps me on my best behavior.
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My husband has recently started spanking me, more for sexual pleasure. I have tried to work him into discipline spankings but he only jokes and says, I will make your butt so red if you do not quit.
I have gotten a daily spanking for about one week now, starts out with his hand, then the belt and then the paddle.
I feel less stressed afterwards and I am falling in love with him again. We have been married for 19 years. I am very spoiled, always have been. I have not shown him the respect he deserves. We both work outside of the home, but I can be lazy when it comes to housework, we even hired a cleaning lady.
I was never really disciplined as a child. Grew up in a very loving home and very spoiled. I long for his spankings and he can even leave a little bruising, but I absolutely will not cry, what is wrong with me. I dont cry at funerals, I dont cry when he whips me, I cannot bring myself to cry. My father died when i was young, I havent really cried since, not even when I buried my grandmother.
Any ideas on why I long for the punishment but cannot shed the tears?
Sue,
If you want to be brought to tears, you might ask him to try a rattan cane. I’ve heard they give a wicked sting. I have seen pics of well-striped bottoms after a caning.
Kit,
Thanks, I will try that. We are new at this and I feel so unemotional at times.
Sue
Sue,
Be warned – I think a cane has to be used sparingly to avoid real harm. Research it and be safe, please!
But don’t worry too much if you can’t bring out tears. I never did either, not even after 200 strokes with a belt! I don’t think it’s the pain, it’s the situation that can bring the tears. Your hubby may have to scold in order to bring out the emotion. (Mine did not – our sessions were for fun, even long ones.)
Id like to say that this is quite interesting. I’m from Southern California and reading of this really does make me wonder if its real, a husband spanking his wife to get her to behave? spanking here is looked down upon, and if a husband spanks his wife ive only heard of it gently done during sex as someething erotic, not as a painful experience…most wives wont allow this but i certainly must say this spanking for the wives to behave not of anger seems like a great thing, i dont know why this world doesnt accept it
Like I said above, my husband won’t spank me… one, because he has no trouble getting me to do what he wants anyway. Two, and the biggest reason… he is afraid of ever leaving a bruise on me. One time after having sex, I was joking around and he did slap me on the butt a couple of times and then got really upset. He checked to make sure he did not bruise me. I was totally turned on by it, but he joked and said he was afraid of being arrested if he ever left one mark on me. Aren’t some of the men afraid a wife will call the police? I’d loved to be spanked, but he’ll never do it and when he jokes around he’s very hesitant to lightly tap me. He told me flat out he’s too afraid to leave any marks on me. He’s never going to spank for discipline, because his knows his voice alone will have me in tears and he’d be too afraid to leave a mark. He also doesn’t believe in hitting anyone for any reason. So, how do I get him to spank for sexual fun? That’s my question. Perhaps I should not be on this board, but I’d at least like him to relax about it sexually. He has slapped me during sex for fun, but then freaks out. He is a very dominate man and has no trouble getting in my face and telling me to sit down and shut up when he’s ticked off. Any suggestions?
I was spanked today by my honey for being a bad girl. My bottom is still sore.
I am about to get my spanking. I am going to be nude, on the bed ready to get a hard spanking. It has been over one week and he says I am getting hateful and grouchy.
Hi Sue –
Thanks for the update. Are you lying flat or is your butt elevated, maybe with a pillow or your knees tucked under?
well sue i know two of us ladies that won’t be sitting too well
Well, I got my spanking. It started out flat on the bed with his hand, then he moved to the paddle and belt. He elevated my ass with a pillow.
I took about 40 swats. I am bruised and sore. I feel better, but I am already getting grumpy again.
I think I need a spanking everyday???