From the front page of the Los Angeles Times 70 years ago today, Jan. 26, 1938:
Wives of Spanking Husbands
Form Girls’ Auxiliary to ClubSIOUX FALLS (S. D.) Jan. 25 (AP) — Wives of Spanking Husbands’ Club, organized in Sioux City, Iowa, and parent organization of fifty-nine such clubs throughout the nation according to its own figures–reached out for another slice of territory today.
The Iowa housewives who consider it a mark of esteem for their husbands to wield a disciplinary hairbrush once in a while, announced plans today for a junior auxiliary–Daughters of Spanking Parents.
ELIGIBLE GIRLS
A letter received here from Sioux City and signed “Rita Rae, general delivery,” told of plans for the new organization for which she claimed an initial membership of seventeen. Any girl above the age of 11 years is eligible to join, Mrs. Rae wrote.
“We think all parents should spank their daughters when they don’t behave,” Mrs. Rae wrote. “Some girls won’t admit it, but the really know it is better to get spanked than scolded and nagged. Spanking creates a better understanding between parents and daughters.”
MERELY SPANKED
Mrs. Rae is the president of the Wives of Spanking Husbands, which was organized last June 26 under the broad-minded slogan “Spare the hairbrush and spoil the wife.”
“Our husbands don’t beat us,” the Sioux City woman was careful to explain. “They just turn us over their knees and give us a good sound spanking.”
very interested in knapsi posts
have any husbands ever been told to”put these on” when the wives or girl friends took off thier panties&gave them to him.this is an effective way to start a spanking as he knows&sometimes fears (what will soon happen.
My hubby and I just started this D.D. Relationship. We have been married five years, and I always got sexual spankings. Here lately, I have been asking for a whole lot more. I feel I need real discipline. He is slowly coming around to it. The thing is, we have two little children and I am afraid of them ever finding out. So we make daily lists of things I have done wrong and when we have time and are alone, he gives me my spankings. Even then it feels like play to me. How can I get the spanking I deserve at the time I need it with little children running around? Thanks for reading.
I got my first real spanking yesterday. It wasn’t what I thought it would be,but atleast he has decided to put in an effort. Just so everybody knows, the babies were asleep.
I got spanked again today. I stupidly teased him about my last spanking and how weak it was. He was in no teasing mood. I got spanked with a spatula then with my jeans up, I recieved 3 swats with a wooden rod. Believe me three swats with that thing is all it takes for me. Especially when my bottom is already sore. I apologized and promised to never tease about my punishments ever again. Wether they happened that day, or a week ago.
hi sharon. I will spank you till you cry like a baby but where are you located?
I used to be a Dominatrix. I loved being in control. I spanked and whipped my husband whenever he got out of line. I moved to cuckolding him, and picked a boyfriend I met on the internet. He subjugated my husband and forced him to watch during our trysts. I controlled my husband and had a strong alpha male…so I was happy. My boyfriend had me wear my outfit to bed one night.. which was a mistake. I gave him dominant attitude in the outfit. My boyfriend had enough, and in front of my husband, grabbed me by neck and put me face down on the bed. He tore my outfit right off…and started beating my ass. I started screaming and swearing, but he continued. When I tried to get up, he started again, so I stood spreadeagled over the bed. My boyfriend was so angry, he did the most humiliating thing he could to me…he ordered my husband to whip me. My boyfriend watched as my slave hubby whipped my ass, and had me count each stroke. My husband got rock hard watching his Dom in her leather boots and naked ass kneel over and cry. I nver felt so submissive. Although my boyfriend is in charge when he visits, he appreciates my conditioning. My husband is firmly in control when he is home. I wear a collar, ask permission for everything, scrub, clean, cook, and perform on command. If not, I get the belt. I have learned my place.
Dear Cinamin,
Do you have to wear some kind of buttoned up collar when not at home? Or are you only collared at home
My husband and I started a behavior modification list. It helps keep arguments down and I wrote it to help me be a better wife. Of course, not two days after it was written, I broke two very important rules. Never use a screaching voice when showing anger or frustration. Do not interupt him or assume what it is he is trying to say. I didn’t get punished right away. It was a couple of days later, after a party. The kids were gone and he told me I was getting the rod. I recieved 20 swats over my jeans, and 10 with the belt on my bare bottom. It hurt and I was repentive. 4 days later I am still sore. Thru all that, I didn’t cry. I want to feel the release of tears, but I am afraid of what that would take. I need the emotional release, but I am worried that would go beyond the limits of what he is willing to do. How can I get this release without causing too much harm to myself? Could it be just a frame of find thing? Does the punishment have to happen the same time as the bad behavior to get that real feeling? If so, how do you accomplish that with little children around? If anybody has any answers, I would appreciate them! By the way, one of my Christmas gifts is a paddle. It hangs in our room. He hasn’t had to use it yet. We’ll see what the holidays bring!
Heather
If you don’t want to go too far, he should start bare bottom. Only with his hand for 3 to 5 minutes. You’ll taste the release of crying. If not, go up to 10 minutes.
I would love to be in a relationship with a man who allowed me to spank him when he was dsiobedient, and needed to be punished. I have a sorority paddle that can really teach a good lesson. But it would turn into an all out brawl with the Alpha males I date. They would never allow me to humiliate them, even, when they deserve it.
Well the paddle hurts and I am bruised and sore. I have a real hard time controlling my smart mouth.I have a real hard time keeping that middle finger under control. I also kept getting frustrated at him for no reason at all. My Christmas gift was 30 swats. Tonight I am getting forty. I already received 20. I get 20 more when he gets back. Once again no tears. I just don’t understand that. I really want that release! I think I am subconsciesly pushing him to that. I think he should just spank me till I cry wether I deserve it or not. Once I break, I will know he means business. And I will feel better and respect him more.
Like many of you, I am a spanked wife. My husband doesn’t always pick up on my need to be spanked, so sometimes I write him a little note. When he gets an email with “please delete after reading”, he knows EXACTLY what I am up to. I have been slowly moving toward harder, longer spankings. I sometimes have a problems with staying put, but my husband has a great solution for that. Moving (rolling over or turning to the side) or covering up = the next several swats are extremely hard. If I don’t submit to those, he will hold me down and give them to me. Believe me, it’s better to take them willingly.
Most of the spankings I get are erotic ones; however, I do get spanked occasionally for punishment. Those spankings are handled differently than the erotic ones…different implements, different position, different everything. There is something about standing naked for about 20 minutes with your nose pressed up against a door contemplating what your punishment will be. It seems to intensify the entire event. Once, he made me wait nearly a week for the actual spanking. The waiting was worse than the spanking itself!
Do I enjoy being spanked? That’s a two-edged sword. I enjoy aspects of it. I like the feel of submitting to my husband (I am a very independent, outspoken woman). I get very turned on during an erotic spanking because sometimes he’ll pause to stroke certain…um…places. The more turned on I get, the more spanking (and harder!) I can handle. I LOVE the feeling AFTER a spanking when my bottom is all sore and red. I like it when it’s still tender the next day.
I have a fantasy of someday being spanked until I cry real tears, but I am very afraid for that fantasy to ever come true. I don’t think I would actually like that one. We tried for that goal once with the understanding that if I asked him to stop before we reached the goal, I would get three more really hard whacks (in case I was close to tears, he thought the extra whacks might bring them on). We didn’t get there; I chickened out.
I knew a woman who wanted to cry when spanked but couldn’t. She and I worked on that several times. Finally, we came to the conclusion that her real reason was emotional. She could and did cry at other times. The spankings were hard enough but it wasn’t real to her. We decided that the next time she was going to get a punishment spanking, she would remove all of her clothes and stand in the corner for one hour. During that time, she was to think about the spanking she was about to get but also about the reason for it. When the time came, I told her I was disappointed in her and she should think about that too. I wanted her to be crying even before the spanking started. I played at being angry and made her think it was very real. She was crying a little and upset before the spanking. She had no problem crying during, and since then she cries almost every time. After the first time she cried, she held me and gave me wonderful gifts. I don’t know if this will help but I hope it will.
Hey thanks owen for that advice. I think we are going to try your tactics next time.
i am 22 year old my sister 30 year old
my sister spank me every day tell me what a bad boy i am.
I am a spanked wife and I am glad to see I am not the only one out here! I’ve only been spanked less then a dozen of times I have learned from them. I hate being spanked but it makes me a better person.
It has been a while since I last wrote. I have recieved 58 swats with a paddle two nights ago on my bare bottom for ignoring my children while reading books or reading spanking sights once again, here I am. Luckily my littlest is asleepand my oldest has a friend over, however, I’m not allowed on the innernet until bed time. So I will get it agian. What amazes me though, is I still can’t cry. I sooooo want to feel that. Earlier advice was given to put me Ina corner, he won’t he says it’s too childish. Whatever. Oh well, I got 30 last night with a paddle for not taking my medication. Amazingly, I can still sit down and feel nothing. I wonder what he will do when I tell him this? I guess we will see…: )
To Kate-Yes it does make you a better person,especially when you Really deserve and need it.My lady friend got to where she was so self centered that she didn’t even care about little kids safety.thats where i drew the line.i gave her a choice-get out of my life or get over my knee-when she realized i was serious,she pulled’em down and bent over my knee and got the first spanking on her bare butt in her life.herperfect snow white butt was glowing red and she was crying because of the firm hand swats and shame i was putting on her because of the kids she didn’t care about[not hers or my kids]-but after that she started thinking about others more and always asked if i was going to spank her at the smallest disagreement.
To John Kelly-You AND your sister deserve a good OTK whaking for being bad-and you know what i mean
I am an Iowan housewife, and I do get my backside swatted good when I need it, I am proud of my husband for doing what is hard to make me a better person and a better wife. I am lucky if I only get hand swats, usually it is with the belt, or paddle, both of which leave a horrid stinging for a while after.
I have been married to my husband for 3 years i am 24 he is 20 years older than me. My husband spanks me when i have been rude and disrespectful i love my husband dearly and i know that his spanking helps me become a better person