From the front page of the Los Angeles Times 70 years ago today, Jan. 26, 1938:
Wives of Spanking Husbands
Form Girls’ Auxiliary to ClubSIOUX FALLS (S. D.) Jan. 25 (AP) — Wives of Spanking Husbands’ Club, organized in Sioux City, Iowa, and parent organization of fifty-nine such clubs throughout the nation according to its own figures–reached out for another slice of territory today.
The Iowa housewives who consider it a mark of esteem for their husbands to wield a disciplinary hairbrush once in a while, announced plans today for a junior auxiliary–Daughters of Spanking Parents.
ELIGIBLE GIRLS
A letter received here from Sioux City and signed “Rita Rae, general delivery,” told of plans for the new organization for which she claimed an initial membership of seventeen. Any girl above the age of 11 years is eligible to join, Mrs. Rae wrote.
“We think all parents should spank their daughters when they don’t behave,” Mrs. Rae wrote. “Some girls won’t admit it, but the really know it is better to get spanked than scolded and nagged. Spanking creates a better understanding between parents and daughters.”
MERELY SPANKED
Mrs. Rae is the president of the Wives of Spanking Husbands, which was organized last June 26 under the broad-minded slogan “Spare the hairbrush and spoil the wife.”
“Our husbands don’t beat us,” the Sioux City woman was careful to explain. “They just turn us over their knees and give us a good sound spanking.”
hi i really like all what i read above, but not the stories where men are spanked by their women. it’s not logical they r too weak to be called men. it’s icky!
anyway i am happily married and my husband is the head of the house, i obey him and live by his rules because i love him, and because this is the custom in my country, but unfortunately he doesn’t spank me. he disciplines me only with lecture. i think that’s because when he was a child he saw his father beat his mother with violence, and he still has this idea of dd. but i really would like to try some spanking in my life and in my sexual life with him. i love him very much so i think i can handle him spanking me. i have like a lot of fantasies with him spanking me alone or in front of someone close. i know i will be a better person a nd wife if he spanks me for my mistakes. how can i get him to forget his childhood experience and try to get into a dd relationship with him. if not a dd, at least sex spanking or role playing. HELP!
My husband a few years ago told me he was going to start spanking me because I was being really bad I agreed to it. But has never spanked me. If he gets really mad he will give me a hard smack or 2 on the butt when I’m passing by him and tell me to knock it off. I did something bad now and want to be punished for it. I skipped my college classes for 4 days in a row and failed my final exam even though I told my husband I got an A on the exam……. I don’t know do you think this is something my husband should punish me for? I have not told my husband about me skipping or failing the final yet.
my husband never spanks me, he does not want to make me hurt or pain. Sometimes,I suggest him spanking me like a sexual joke but he does not. Frankly, he really loves me, cant see I cry or get pain.
How can I be spanked by husband? I like and want it.
To ‘I Don’t Understand’: I’ve said it before – consent is the issue. Just because you are a kid does not mean you have no say in what is done to your body.
People who are not your parents have no business touching you. You have been assualted and need to call police the next time they try to touch you. Tell them they are not your parents, they have no right, and you call police and will press assualt charges. Chances are you will be made to return home. That is still better than living in fear of being assualted. DO NOT LET ANYONE HURT YOU LIKE THIS! Even your so-called best friend has no right to do this to you. Please call police.
My parents alwais spanked on bare until i leaft home for about when i was 20. then i went to live alone i will be greatefull if i find a houseband who spanked me, i think itis nesesary to get in better my behabior
I haven’t been on in a while cuz my hubby and I quit trying for a domestic discipline lifestyle. He decided to quit, actually. I was devistated and very hurt. Since I was 18, and had my first real boyfriend and sexual experience, I knew spankings turned me on and when I needed it for discipline, it kept me in line. Thru all my other relationships, I had to hide that part of me. I’ve been married now five years and finally told him around oct .that spankings on any level were wanted and needed. He agreed and I finally felt whole again. When he stopped them, I was devisated and became quite depressed. had been months and I kept getting more and more depressed and our intimacy level dropped drastically. We talked about it again. He agreed to a discipline life style as long as it was done on his terms only and he would spank me to tears when he felt I deserved it, not when I did. We completely live by his rules and his consequences. I no longer control when, why, or how I am punished. If I cry, I cry. If I don’t, I don’t. Things are better for me now, and I feel whole again. No longer ashamed of my sexual desires or the lifestyle I chose to lead. Thanks for reading.
This message is for I Dont Understand. If you have friends, or any relative you can talk to get them to help you get out, then run like hell. Don’t let these people who presumably care about you treat you like that. If you have to, find a place to go, call the police and have them escort you out of that house.
Most of the people on this website have stable husbands, wives, boyfriends, and girlfriends. We know what we want and so does our partner. They love us they respect out boundries and out bodies! What you are going through has nothing to do with showing you respect or trying to support and love you. Get Out any way you can. Once you are out, consider counseling to help with the emotional anguish this has probably caused you. You are in my prayers.
I so need a good hard spanking right now. I need it before I loose my patience with my kids. I got one he’ll of a spanking and caning for screaming in my kids faces. He told me if I ever did that again, he would spank me for ten minutes straight. Full swings with the paddle. I am on the verge of making the same mistake. I so want a good maintence spanking before I get one that really hurts.
i got my spanking! but i was sexual not discipline. he wanted to make love and we were cuttling for about 15 mn but i still wasn’t horny, he knows coz he wants my vagina to be wet. so he said what’s with you tonight?” then he spanked me on mu butt with his hands, at first i was surprised not for me i was waiting for too long to be spanked but i was surprised he did it coz he was always against it, then when my bottom began hurting me i was getting horny. i liked that! i wish for more and not only for sex but for discipline too coz i want to be on his knees and get a spanking with a paddle or belt. i have so many fantasies abt that. should i tell you of some fantasy i dream of?
I got my very hard maintance spanking last night. It greatly improved my additude. I see my kids in a different light. My patience has increased by 100 percent. My kids are my world. Being a stay at home mom to two toddlers, sometimes you kind of forget that. My paddlings over astool in the garage for five minutes straight is a great reminder for that.
My husband wasn’t all that into the whole spanking thing – we began as fun, erotic types, and he slowly warmed to the idea. We’ll be married 14 years this summer and he has advanced to the point he now keeps a bamboo wide spatula in the kitchen just for “reminders” of how i should keep my sassy attitude in check. I have a very snarky backtalk when i get steamed or riled. It is not right to direct it at him, but i always seem to. It doesn’t take much for me to remember that he deserves respect! He waits for the house to be cleared of kids – even if just outside – then applies it to my bare ass. As much as i love the erotic ones, I hate these cause they last for days after! But honestly i love that fact too.
I am a much better wife when i have my attitude in check. And i love knowing he will help me when needed. I feel so much closer to him when he gives me a good spanking when I am acting like such a brat 🙂
all of you are crazy..total pain freaks woww nope yo need Christ as the center of your lives…not pain..not violence..this is unreal..spanking, beating, are you all crazy?
On my 50th b’day my mother-in-law unexpectedly came over to the sight of me upended over my wife’s knee getting a bare bottomed spanking on our living room couch. She asked what was going on and my wife said it was my b’day. I tried getting up but she was having non of that and held me down saying that her mom has already seen her giving me a spanking so she might as well finish and continued as they talked. Barbara started laughing and said that she too wanted to wish me a happy birthday and with my wife’s permission I was bent over her knee next. It was the most humiliating spanking I ever received. Here I was a 50 old man being taken over the knee of a 75 year old woman and she was able to spank me to tears. Both my wife and mother-in-law were raised on a farm and have big strong calloused hands that feel like paddles on the receiving end.
My husband gave me my first spanking last night. I can never remember to plug in my cell phone. He is trying to teach our 12 year old daughter that she needs to plug her phone in so she doesn’t get stranded with a dead phone. He called me to the kitchen and told me that I was not setting a good example and ordered me upstairs to prepare for discipline. He came up behind me with a chair, pulled me over his knee and spanked my bare bottom. The pain became so bad that I told him over and over that I had learned my lesson until he finally stopped. Then, he ordered me to the bed where he comforted me and explained why I needed a spanking. Then, to make sure I had learned my lesson, he ordered me to get up and bend over the bend and spanked me again. This time he spanked me very long and hard. I clinched the sheets harder with each smack. When it was finished, I looked in the mirror and saw two very pink cheeks. When we were lying in bed getting ready to go to sleep, I remembered that my cell phone still wasn’t plugged in! I put on a t-shirt and ran downstairs with my pink cheeks peeking out. You better believe I plugged in my cell phone!! When I came back upstairs and my husband saw that the spanking had been effective, he said that there will be other spankings in the future. Uh-Oh!
Hi,
I am a 43-year old businessman who has had 2 experiences with spanking a woman. The first was after my brother died and my other brothers and I got concerned about what was happening to our sister-in-law and her young kids. I spoke to a business colleague about it on the golf course and he gave me some sound advice – go round there and take charge. Which is exactly what I did. What I found made me very upset and angry at the same time. I waited till she put the kids to bed and then poured myself a stiff whisky and lit a cigar. I got in a heated argument with her and it ended up in a big shouting match. I don’t know what came over me but I just grabbed her and put her over my knee and started to smack her ass. At first she tried to wriggle out of the lock I had on her, but then (to my embarrassment) I started to get a serious erection! It was then that the whole set-up changed and she started to submit to my spanking her – which I did using just the open palm of my hand. I felt a bit guilty about getting a boner for my bro’s wife – but she submitted to my spanking and to the lesson I was trying to teach her – to be a better mom to her kids and to pull herself together, whcih she eventually did. A year or so later and everything was OK again on that front – tho I did notice that she had a spark in her eyes when we met up. I think a good spanking bonds a man and a woman together, and I have a feeling that she craved the strong, domineering, heavy hand of a man to discipline her again.Out of respect for my brother, I obviously didn’t do it – but I know – and hope – that he would do the same for me.
The second time I had a young lady wriggling over my knee was when I spent some time In Taipei on business. I went over there with a full beard, but decided to shave it down to a mustache. I was dating a young lady at the time – a nice, pretty young lass, several years younger than me. I shaved my big beard down to a mustache while she was lying in the bath – and I was almost at the point where I had the tache perfect…until Mai Ling insisted on finishing it off for me. She lathered me up some more and then began shaving. You know what’s coming next! She stuffed up the corners of my mustache so badly I had no other option but to shave it all off. I was in a bad mood anyway because of work pressure, but I grabbed that young lady and positioned her over my knee. There I was in my towelling gown, shaving cream all over my face, and Mai Ling over my knee – I gave her a spanking she will never forget. This time I used my slipper – and it must have stung badly! She didn’t like it one little bit. But I wacked that ass of hers like there was no tomorrow. I kept thinking of my mustache that was ruined – and it infuriated me like a man can never imagine. Then I felt she was getting wet and turned on by my caveman actions -so it wasn’t long before I had her panties off and my chopper in her. We had the best night of our lives. I still see her from time to time when I’m over there on business, and we meet up for a round 2. Of course she now loves it when I administer a good solid spanking to her bottom. It always works wonders for me!!
today my husband asked me to clean up the house before noon becoz he wants me to go pick him up in downtown plus he asked me to bring his check book along, unfortunately i got lazy watching a movie and time passed by i still havent cleaned the house so i rushed to get there on time, and i forgot his check book. when i told him abt the book he nodded and said we’ll talk back at home, of course i knew he was upset and i wondered if this could be my first spanking. but he wasn’t that mad. finally when we came back home, we had his assistant with us for lunch and he saw the mess i left behind, he shouted at me:” what were u doin all day? i’m gonna show you how waste your time and be careless from now on.” he turned and told his assistant to wait for him in the sitting room, while he dragged me by my arm to the bed room. there he said that i have a big lesson to learn and that he was out of patience with me “you have to learn it the hard way, maybe this way you will start obeying be! take of your panties!” so he dragged me on his lap and pulled his belt from his pans. ” this will heart u for your own good ” he said giving me the first slap! it really heart like a big sting i was surprised at first, then really sore when the spanking went on and on. after like 10 mn of hard spanking my tears came down and i started apologizing and begging him to stop, promising to never do it again. after 10 more min he stopped but he made me kneel in the corner so i think of what i’ve done. he waited two whole hours before he came back he took me on his lap and hugged me we talked and i was so sorry i didnt respect him and i really felt so much love for him that i wanted to kiss him, he said not now you have to earn my love, ” you will show me your a good girl before you kiss me, for now you can only kiss my hand. which i did with care and love so many times asking him to forgive me. i’m writing this now and i know i will try my best to please him, from now on. you are wright a spanking feels good and can do you good.
My husband has been spanking me since we got together, 16 years ago. I’m 35 now and will never forget that first one, what a shocker! I don’t even remember what we were arguing about now, but I wasn’t getting my way, which just didn’t happen very often to this once very spoiled daddys girl.
We were at his parents house and it was brimming with people, some sort of party with family and friends. We were arguing about something, I’m sure it was just me being me, meaning being a royal pain over nothing. I started getting loud, that much I do remember. Well he had the audacity to walk away!!! I followed him, still bitching loudly, we ended up upstairs in his parents room. He just stood there, not saying a word, clenching his jaw(A sign I learned quickly NOT to ignore). I assumed, wrongly, that he was waiting for me to be done so he could apologize(I was so young, and foolish).
I was in mid-sentence and before I knew what hit me, I was face down over his knee, legs pinned between his, getting my butt spanked. Considering he’s a full foot taller than me and twice my weight, I’m sure it didn’t take much effort on his part. I was so shocked that I just kept bitching! LOL It’s so funny to me now. It didn’t take long before I wasn’t yelling at him so much as pleading with him to stop before someone heard. Silly me, I was worried about being embarassed, I should have been worried about my ass. He just kept going, whack, whack, whack, whack. I honestly don’t remember how long it went on for, it felt like a year or two but was probably only 5-10 minutes. I do remember that by the time he finally stopped, I was the one apologizing, profusely. Even over my jeans my butt was on fire.
He didn’t let me up though, while I was still face down, butt up, he started lectering me! I had never in my life been treated that way, I mean never. I was told that my behavior wasn’t acceptable, it wasn’t just disrespectful to him, but to everyone around that was subjected to it, etc. I was speechless, I remember considering telling him to go fuck himself, but I thought better of it, thankfully. He asked me if I understood, I quickly assured him that I totally understood, no more bitching at him.
He must have realized his advantageous position because he took that opportunity to address a few other things that apparently annoyed him(I was a 19 year old daddys girl, there were plenty of things). He ended his lecture by warning me that I would find myself back in that same position again if need be. Just when I thought it was over…..no such luck. Whack, whack, whack, for another couple of minutes, to make sure he got his point across, I was told afterwards. When I was finally allowed up, my face was smeared with tears and beet red, but he did cuddle me for a few minutes and wipe my face for me. Then I was told to go clean up and we’d go back downstairs together.
Mortification quickly consumed me, I had totally forgotten there were people everywhere, what if they heard? What would they think? He just chuckled and said “I guess they’ll think you got your butt spanked”. I went into the master bath, splashed some water on my face and tried to remove all evidence of tears. I had to pee really bad too, so I did that, and I’ll admit, while my pants were down, I couldn’t resist the urge to assess the damage, no pun intended. My ass was bright red!
We did end up going back downstairs and joining everyone else and no one let on that anything odd had gone on at all. I didn’t sit down much that day, or the next. I did find out years later that one of his younger brothers heard the whole thing, but by then, it didn’t really bother me anymore. It was the first time, but not the last time.
I’m not quite as impatient or brash as I was back then, and I don’t end up, end up nearly as often as I did the first few years we were together(I’m surprised my butt didn’t fall off). Yet from time to time, I still find myself over his knee, getting a very thorough spanking. C’est La Vie
I wish my husband would spank me. I layed over his lap with no pants on and everything. He just won’t do it. Wish I knew how to get him out of this way.
Kelli:
I had always wanted my husband to discipline me and never had the nerve to ask for it.
One day I just sat down and wrote him a letter explaining my need to have him take control of our house and our marriage. He read the letter and totally understood this need I had and agreed to try out domestic discipline.If I stepped out of line and disrespected him or raised my voice to him or didn’t complete a chore he requested me to do – he would punish me by paddling my ass – and one year later we have never been happier in our thirty years together. Just either sit down and talk to him or write it down like I did…if he loves you hopefully he will be willing to try and im pretty sure he will LIKE IT!!!
For those of you trying to get your men to be more in control, you might try drawing up a contract. Outline what rules you think you need, and what punishments your men are permitted to use. Include a line giving him discretion over what punishment is necessary. This way, the men know you understand exactly what you’re asking for, and by both of you signing it you are both agreeing to the terms. Work out the terms together.