Here’s what I learned on the internet today:
Gay refers to any male-identified person who is physically or emotionally attracted to other male-identified people.
Lesbian refers to any female-identified person who is physically or emotionally attracted to other female-identified people.
So if I’m a male-identified person and the female-identified person I’m having sex with decides right in the middle of it to identify as male, am I gay?
More than likely it means you are a crappy lover.