Why Asian Girls Like White Guys

 

These are from the same photo set on Flickr, taken at a local beach here in Orange County:

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  204 comments for “Why Asian Girls Like White Guys

  1. Jan
    26 Jul 2009 at 6:47 pm

    Wow angeline u just proofed my opnion about asian girls,im white and i have too special liking for your kind,especialy japanese cause they look so cute. i agree totaly with you,one question what asian girls think about bulk guys like me? cause pretty all asia man are small… anyway i think white womes are just too confindent and think they are godess,wich is not case with you asian women and i like it,cause i heard that asian are much loving and attached to their husbans then white womens.

  2. Bill
    29 Jul 2009 at 9:14 pm

    Asianboy — no need for me to retaliate, I know things must feel bad right now for you. It’s a good thing I don’t have to choose (big dick vs. big brain), because I have an IQ of above 150+ (true, not trying to piss you off), went to one of the best public colleges in the state, and was a Magnet student. I make $100k+ a year, have a MBA, and have had a pretty decent career so far (knock on wood) — some guys get all the luck (or maybe just genetic destiny to conquer all — so sayeth my Viking ancestors).

    You do seem to be quite the bitter Asian man though, and I won’t take your comments too seriously or personally. I know very well life is hard on some Asian men, and that many don’t get the respect you deserve — rest assured I’m not in that category, and find many Asian men to be handsome, smart, and good catches. Buck up, things will be fine, and eventually Asian men will be judged by their merits and not simply denigrated.

    Btw, are you perhaps in the 18-25 age range? I found that dating life was much harder at that point than later on, so please don’t judge your chances based on this part of your life. There are more than enough women to go around, even Asian ones, so try not to hate so much and call those with white preferences “sell-outs” — everyone has their “thing” they like, and for Asian women like that, that’s their thing.

    If it’s any consolation, many of the Asian women I find attractive are not attractive by Asian men’s standards. I look for traits that are usually stereotypical or exaggerated, and I also look for opportunity as well (someone already predisposed to like me). In general I seem to attract ethnic women more than white, so maybe there is some kind of equalizer in life.

    Take care, AsianBoy, don’t be a hater, and I’m sure you’ll mature into a happy and productive man.

  3. Bill
    29 Jul 2009 at 9:18 pm

    Angeline — you sound very cute. What country are you from originally? When did you decide you liked white men? Very interesting to hear your opinions about white male stereotypes — for the most part they are true.

    Also, what kind of white men do you like the most? What color hair? What ethnic background? Tall? Thin or Thick?

  4. lolz
    3 Aug 2009 at 6:35 am

    Women like power.
    White men rule the world.

    Off to Japan in a few days, already packed some condoms.

  5. Indrid
    17 Aug 2009 at 4:48 pm

    last i checked Obama was black.

  6. samuel welsh
    20 Aug 2009 at 10:19 am

    Guys if a girl from asia loves ya be faithful to them .
    avoid nampering and treat her right.

  7. Amity
    20 Aug 2009 at 1:07 pm

    Okay, so I’ve been hearing about this topic lately and I don’t think that it’s exactly true. I’m an Asian girl who was born in asia and raised in the US. You can say that I am Americanized but I also respect my Asian heritage. I can speak my language and i’m proud to be asian. I’m pretty much who I want to be. I’m not the whole stereotypical submissive, slutty, shy, or cruel Asian girls. I’ve dated guys of different races. It just so happens my husband is white. And no, were not the whole “he’s the dorky, geeky guy and I’m the ugly Asian girl”, the “he has an Asian fetish and I only date white guys” or the “he’s rich and I’m from a third world country and I’m using him”. To be honest,we’re just a regular couple. he’s not the meek ,geeky kid who doesn’t get out of the house and dates Asians cuz they are easy. In fact he’s kinda goofy, outgoing and he skates (skateboard). I do have to admit that I have a slight preference to white guys but it’s not my choice to who and what I am attracted to. It doesn’t matter what skin color you are. We all have a personality and I believe the relationship is based on that. But I wouldnt mind if the kid is goodlooking too. Anyways, the whole asian girls don’t like Asian guys isn’t completely true. I’ve dated a few Asian guys and they aren’t cold and mean. In fact the treat me with respect as do other guys or different races have. I just don’t prefer them as much because sometimes they remind me of my brother and my dad. I have no idea why but it just happens. Love just happens.

  8. Hammer
    24 Aug 2009 at 6:02 pm

    this is starting to sound like angry yellow man forum.

    This is the brutality of truth- white males are spontaneous and show affection in public have generally good —-voices—- not child like >asian< also they look good in suites because of their long legs.

    sorry asian guys— please no celebrity posting of asians guys……….. THX

  9. Kev
    24 Aug 2009 at 6:28 pm

    I’m 1/2 asian 1/2 white, and I think it’s fine that asian women date/marry white men or any other race for that matter. Whatever makes them happy, that’s what is important. I myself was never attracted to asian women, so I can relate to some of the asian ladies comments about not being attracted to asian men. I can’t say exactly what it is but maybe it’s their features or lack thereof that makes asian women unattractive to me. Anyway, that’s being superficial, I’m sure if I tried dating one and got to know her I could fall for what’s on the inside. But I guess I don’t bother because the initial attraction is just not there. I am currently in a relationship with a beautiful (on the outside and inside), intelliegent, witty, honest and loving white woman and couldn’t be happier.

  10. brad
    25 Aug 2009 at 10:46 pm

    now everyone can have an Asian girlfriend, just make your current g/f “Asian” here’s how
    http://japansugoi.com/wordpress/how-to-talk-and-act-like-a-japanese-girl/

  11. vivi
    1 Sep 2009 at 5:53 pm

    I’m 1/2 asian 1/2 white, and I think it’s fine that asian women date/marry white men or any other race for that matter. Whatever makes them happy, that’s what is important. I myself was never attracted to asian women, so I can relate to some of the asian ladies comments about not being attracted to asian men. I can’t say exactly what it is but maybe it’s their features or lack thereof that makes asian women unattractive to me. Anyway, that’s being superficial, I’m sure if I tried dating one and got to know her I could fall for what’s on the inside. But I guess I don’t bother because the initial attraction is just not there. I am currently in a relationship with a beautiful (on the outside and inside), intelliegent, witty, honest and loving white woman and couldn’t be happier.

    –that’s because most of the asian women that you see are chinese – not exactly the best—
    representation of asians.

  12. jacob
    2 Sep 2009 at 8:02 pm

    2 sep 2009 @ 10:02 PM ok stop talking nonsense dudes white and black asians prefer mexicans because we are better in bed I feel sorry for you black and white dont you get it white guys asians wanna get the greencard from you we are more attractive than you’ll OH and one more thing about the black I never seen an asian dating a blackguy sorry black dude your dream is gone go back to africa.

  13. Kev
    8 Sep 2009 at 4:26 pm

    “–that’s because most of the asian women that you see are chinese – not exactly the best—
    representation of asians.”

    That’s not a very nice comment Vivi 🙂 Actually, I’ve seen most of the representatives ie Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese, Filipinos, Thai and various other Southeast asians.

  14. ceffn
    9 Sep 2009 at 4:39 pm

    from what ive seen the left over asian women are the ones dating white guys (ones who are just butt ugly – flat ass/face/no tits).

    So i decided to do a social experiment by “testing” some of these women currently in AF/WM relationships who say they only date white guys and guess what they were all over me given the chance.

    Dumping them after u reeled them in is awesome. I only date white guys my ass – then why u calling me while you with your white boyfriend?

    So get over yourselves u female asian wannabe whites and admit your superficial its not all about love.

    p.s im a 6 2 asian male college footballer who has dated other nationalities in the past.

  15. Amaiah
    12 Sep 2009 at 9:45 pm

    Umm. not exclusively actually. Coming from an Asian girl.
    I’d appreciate if you didn’t make stupid generalizations.
    It’s like in every other country, foreigners are typically considered hot, like Europeans are in America, etc. etc.
    but still that’s not always the case. Most of my Asian friends prefer Asian guys. But they won’t limit their dating range to just Asian guys.

  16. 16 Sep 2009 at 6:46 pm

    well im white and i know its hard for me to fit inside most of the Asian girls ive met So I know its not the size thing.. cause it bothers me when people say that. I think It’s beautiful that white people and Asian people breed.. those kids are so cute!

  17. misha
    4 Oct 2009 at 4:11 pm

    i have dated a few white males already,why because i got along well with them personality.thoughts and yes because i found them hot too.one thing i like about them is because they treat me as an equal and i dont have to comform to certain role that asian society has slotted for us woman kind.dont take me wrong asian man but you know am just stating a fact here.woman like man who gives them enough independence and space and encouragement which i find is a trait missing in most of the asian man sadly.besides that i think most white man especially european they are very sensitive giving adventurous lovers which is also very important in a relationship.
    another true fact asian guys are smaller is true!!!and its no myth that french lovers are the best the truly are and the italian and the germans rank second !

  18. Jesus
    19 Oct 2009 at 4:34 pm

    seriously though, as mexican id like to know why asians generally dont tend to go out with mexicans as much as white people…i know what ive said could be taken the wrong way because its a generalization but its not a hasty generalization ive noticed it after just living here in the OC…its as if i try to talk to an asian sure they’ll respond but its as if ive noticed that unlike mexican girls ive been with, they are hesitant to start the conversation and in my personal case theyve never started the conversation its as if i always have to start it and they just talk for the sake of talking, which really hurts me on the inside to be honest…its like with mexican girls if i say the same stuff if they see me they’ll greet and start up a conversation whereas it appears that with an asian girl it almost seems like theyre avoiding catching eye contact or just me in general to not have to say something and if they do catch me or make eye contact they just give a dry “hi” which really does take a serious stab at my heart…i mean to be honest its like ive always had this preference for asians yet ive tried all these years, keeping in mind im 18 and had no success… its almost as if asian parents sometimes play a role in this ive heard that they say theyre not racist yet they dont want their girls going out with blacks or latinos, to be specific in my case… can anyone please answer me regarding this? PS i did not mean to be hurtful in any manner and respect you all =)

  19. 25 Oct 2009 at 9:44 pm

    ‘why asian girls like white guys’ yea i’ll tell u wat… it depends on the type of asian ur dating… hmong are stuck up (whites and hmong don’t couple well at ALL) jap. and whites, yea sorta, koreans and whites, they want the pampering and crap, thai and whites, they go for the baby, mixed asians and whites, who knows… me? my race doesn’t want white ppl as bfs. why? i dunno but i want a mix white and asian so i kno they’re not racist…

  20. shirtpants
    31 Oct 2009 at 2:13 am

    I am a white guy in his late 20s in southern california.I started to notice asian woman in early juinior high. I never dated them though. I actually dated mostly Latina and white woman.

    The past few years I have noticed I have dated mostly asian woman. My last relationship was with a Korean woman that lasted a little over 2 years. If there is a sterotypical fetish of some kind in the back of my head I dont know. All of a sudden I feel most attracted to asian woman and I dont really know why.

    I know im a nice guy and am not a creepy pervert but its something it seems I have to keep to myself. Its just kind of weird. I definatly see how it could be creepy to a woman. I refuse to feel like a pervert because of it though. I just think they are beautiful.

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