At age 18, people care very much about what others think of them. By age 40, they learn not to worry what others think. By age 60, they figure out that no one was thinking about them in the first place.
I’ve messed up so many times because I was worried what other people would think of me.
You’re perfect the way you are. The worst thing you can do is try to be what you think other people think you should be . . .