These are from the same photo set on Flickr, taken at a local beach here in Orange County:
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See Also: Why Asian Girls Like White Guys II
These are from the same photo set on Flickr, taken at a local beach here in Orange County:
Any questions?
See Also: Why Asian Girls Like White Guys II
I’m an Asian girl.
The media plays a huge deal in all this. Whatever media we’re exposed – they will aid to form our ideals. I remember when I used to look into Hollywood culture a lot. In that period, I found non-Asian men more appealing… for example, Mathias Lauridsen, Andres Segura… Then suddenly, my appeal went towards the Asian music scene where, of course – there was bound to be hot men there, too. They just happened to be of Asian ethnicity.
Right now, I honestly try not to look at one’s appearance to judge whether I want a relationship with them. I want to look at character because that is what lasts and matters.
I’m a Vietnamese girl, out of the guys I’ve dated, 80% of them were white… I grew up around a lot of white people so I guess I relate easier to that race, I find white guys more goofy/funny. The asian guys I’ve met are more quiet, but nonetheless polite! Not to sound rude but white guys tend to be a lot taller, I guess that is what also attracts me? And same thing as someone said up there, I find white guys exotic and white guys find me exotic. That’s my honest opinion 🙂
i don’t know why, but i like it. it’s like a natural attraction. white men and asian women have always hooked up and always will, just like black men and white women, and black women and asian men will always feel left out and pissed off about it. maybe asian dudes and black chicks should start getting together to even things out, but i doubt it will happen vecause they’re not compatible.
i don’t know, i only know asian girls are HOT!
Asian chicks are in love with white features. So therefor they want the white boyfriend, it’s like a prize to them. Maybe they want their kids to inherit some white traits too, but from my experience half asian kids usually end up looking asian.
Asian guys are starting this whole AF/WM parade online so they can all sit back and complain about white guys. They are pissed because they can’t handle not being in control of their women like they are supposed to be brought up for. So they get the ball rolling then insult asian women who date white guys, then they push the whole “insulting our culture” BS to try to make asian women feel bad for having an open mind.
Yep you guessed it, I’m a white boy and I date asian women. I’ve had women fly here to meet up, stay at my place until they go back home (you won’t catch me in any asian country).
The women here, they go crazy over my rugged look. Compliment me all the time about my personality and of course when they hit me in the sack, they are hooked.
The whole asian women want white guys because we are tall is BS. I’m 5’8, I’m muscular (something most asian men can’t do) and arrogant. They love it! But you hate it, don’t ya?
So I decided to ask some of the girls.. why oh why do you prefer white men?
Well see, it appears asian guys would love their women (they think) to see white men as rapists, sexists, abusers, users.. when in fact asian women love our look, culture, the way we romance, our lifestyles and our strength. See, we’re not effeminate, whiny sore losers. When a white girl dates an asian guy (it’s rare) we don’t care. We don’t start a war against our women, insult them, tell them they are going to be shunned from our culture. Wtf is that?
You know, white people have enslaved others in the past.. we feel bad for that, we moved on. Isn’t there still many asian girls being sold in the black market to foreign men, working their asses off in sweat shops, living under a rule of dictatorship over there still to this day? You bet!
This is the shit I’m hearing from these asian women, a lot of them straight from your countries. They want out! They want a better breed and a chance to be free minded, feel feminine and live a good life. No one likes to be bound, especially not by some hairless effeminate punk.
Whoever thinks that all Asian women are traditionally submissive needs a kick to the head – for some Asian societies this is the product of Western colonialism rather than their native Asian values (see the Philippines, where prior to Spanish colonization women were allowed to choose not to have children in marriage, had their own property, were allowed to lead communities, run for office, and could divorce their husbands – as well as having executive veto power over their husband’s financial decisions – husbands were OBLIGED to let their wives know of business transactions. This underlying, far more ancient-than-Spanish-implemented-male-chauvinist set of gender norms is why women in the Philippines can seriously run for President and be elected without the bat of an eyelash as compared to the United States. One of my mother’s ancestors was the first female elected official in her town during the early 1800s, far before the suffrage movement began gaining considerable ground in the US.
well, I was reading a lot of that stuff here. Really interesting. I´m a white guy and it just happened to be that I´ve to work in China for about 3 month. I don´t speak the language which is kind of awkward to me and I stay in a small city (1mill.)down south.
The people here didn´t see many western people and every time, and I mean every time I leave the hotel I get so much attention its freakin´unbelievable.
I´m 1.85, blonde hair and blue eyes. My origin is german so I fill the cliché at its best. Girls in the city see me 500m away and change the side of the street..onto my one.
In the first weeks I found it kind of exciting, c´mon be honest everybody loves the positive attention and some sweet smiles.
But now after over 2month I just feel empty because it´s all looks. Very sad for the asian girls which get so excited as soon as they spot me. The few I met which could speak english I tried to explain that I think they are really beautiful. Because really I think it is like that. Asian hair, man I guess every western woman want to have that thickness, and holy lord the smoothness of asian skin! I don´t mean it in a dirty way, it´s just something which makes a girl beautiful from the outside. Probably the main source for asian woman to complain about themselves is that most of them they share the same features: Black hair and eyes, 1.55-1.65m, and petite. Well nothing wrong for me but kind of hard to differentiate yourself.
But my belief is that you can be just unique on the inside and hopefully some day you´ll meet the person who´s able to sense that uniqueness and can show you the same.
And when that day will come for me than, excuse my french, I don´t give a fuck which kind of race, color or whatever category you can come up with, would suit to describe the woman I love….the one.
So long don´t make a big fuzz about it, lets have fun with each other, cry and laugh together and for god´s sake start to try to understand each other. That´s what life is good for. No matter how your eyes looks like.
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i am a young man . i dispenser and also pharmacist .
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This is entire debate is just stupid.
There is no such thing as one race preferring another. Some people are attracted to certain things. People chose who they want to be with.
Stereotyping and saying things like asian girls like white guys is just ignorant. Sure, some people prefer certain races, thats what they are attracted to. We dont have a choice in what we are attracted to, we just are.
For every Asian girl ive seen with a white guy, Ive seen one with an asian guy.. and a black guy… etc.
Every person is different and everyone has their own preference.
Anyone who thinks its a race thing just needs to grow up and stop crying about it.
This is one of the worst things I’ve stumbled on in my life. I’m a Chinese girl and frankly I don’t care about ethnic backgrounds. But I have met many asian guys and for me personally, the only reason I didn’t “go for them” is because we never had anything in common.
Maybe asian girls go for white guys because they might be funny or really nice or any other quality. Don’t generalise that asian girls go for white guys just because you can’t seem to get one or maybe one of them didn’t treat you nicely or something. I don’t know. Have you ever stopped to think that maybe just MAYBE you just had problems and they didn’t like that quality in you?!!?! because I surely don’t.
asian women are brought up hard. White chicks are brought up like princesses.
Almost every comment here involves stereotypes and generalizations.
Thanks, Socrates.
My next door neighbour only dated black guys when she was still living in the Philippines. Then a white guy went over there and she got married to him. He brought her over here (england) and practically locked her up in the house and didn’t let her get a job or anything. She had 2 kids for him then he beat the shit out of her. She finally left him… for another white guy.
All the Asian chicks I know either date their own, or black guys. I have known a few who thought asian men were gross for no good reason. Those women need slapping. They also need to wake up and smell the roses. A lot of them date white guys for the genes and to have pretty babies but all the half asian babies I’ve seen look asian. Except for the half black ones, who just look black. Lol.
All the asian girls I know who date black guys are usually just brought up around black people and are accepted into the culture and therefore end up liking the men. Maybe that’s the same with asian girls/white guys.
I had a white friend once who loved asian women. He is now with a white as white swedish women. It all depends really. But in London this mix of asian women and white men really doesn’t hardly happen. :S Mainly black/white.
Also, the picture of the asian guy at the beginning of that post is not fair. I have known some absolutely beautiful asian guys in my life!
I also have a white friend who loves japanese men with a passion…
Hi big hairy white guy here,
I have some super important stuff to say so listen up.
I think this whole subject is being way overanalyzed.
Especially by you asian guys.
Actually thats a reason why some asian girls won’t date asian guys…your thinking too much and not acting.
(actually come to think about it maybe thats why you get in car accidents too)<–yeah I went there
Stop it!
It's as simple as this. There is NO specific reason why an asian girl will go out with a white guy or visa versa.
They will both have their own reasons for doing what they do
for example,
maybe they just want to try something different (eating vanilla icecream all the time is boring especially if you know theres a ton of different flavors)
Maybe they grew up around a certain culture and are just more comfortable around it.
(I grew up in vancouver most my friends are asian..I eat PHO after drinking at 2 am, I play big2 for money, I eat dimsum every sunday and I don't know why but I know who H.O.T. is/was.)
maybe they are just attracted to eachother physically.
I've met asian guys/girls that only want to go out with white people
and visa versa.
It's just simply a preference…
I don't like blond girls, I like dark hair. I've dated white girls with dark hair and asian girls even a latina chick once(never again though she was psychotic). It's just my taste…thats what floats my boat and thats really all there is to it.
hey yellow, white, black whatever assed racists! Listen up bee-yotches.
i’m an asian girl and i just think that a lot of today’s thinking are still very underdeveloped. The whole point of this generation is that the world is more connected and cultural differences are more accepted. This is why our generation i improving, because the way of thinking defines status quo. To think in a closed box (e.g. stereotyping, chauvinism, etc.) is just pathetic and anti-progressive.
To me, men are like m&m’s, just like how Kev Jumba sees women as m&m’s. They’re all different, but all sweet inside. Ok, not everyone’s sweet, but at least everyone is human and morals differ per individual and not per ethnicity. Sure, ethnicity is a factor but does not guarantee.
A lot of those racists just attract jerks because like attracts like.
Also, it’s just a matter of personal opinions on what kind of look you like but that doesn’t mean that those that don’t fit your type are ugly.
So you beeyotches out there, just go live in a cave or something, a preggy woman barefoot, or a mindless man with a club.
My next door neighbour only dated black guys when she was still living in the Philippines. Then a white guy went over there and she got married to him.
Well that sort of defeats the purpose of finding an Asian wife. Most guys are willing to marry an Asian woman solely because they think she’s not likely to be a whore. I can’t imagine the black guys she found in the Philippines were looking for a bride. Maybe they were merely looking for a night out in filipino barrio or a long conversation about Pinoy films, which I’m sure a black man has A LOT in common with a filipina. NOT!!!
So supposedly her dead-beat white husband was abusive? I’m not surprised. She lacks common sense, which is why she was previously a piece of ass for the afro sex-tourists.
Ladies, if you have an ex or just some dude whom won’t leave you alone, just tell him you dated a black guy. That’s the scorched earth approach. Nobody is going to touch your ass. I guarantee it. Unless they need money or they can’t get laid by anyone else of course.
My stereotype experience living in the Asian area neighborhood also mixed with other ethnicities. I’m black/puerto-rican by the way. I enter a Chinese owned bakery to buy a pastry. The ladies went into crickets mode (being in silence). So I had in hand a piece of art work in a shoebox so I can show to them. So I revealed it to the cashier and the feedback of return still being in crickets mode. She didn’t wanna touch it of course being handled by a black guy. On top of that all she said was hi after I said it walking in and have a nice day when I got through paying for the item after opening the door to exit. They go back to chatting with each other. Nothing but a uncalled act of travesty.
Why? this is the Americanized asian women who display the princess-and-the-pauper-attitude towards black guys like they’re second class of inferiority. They’re snobby attitude towards them; He can’t support me. He don’t have no money. He can’t provide me security. He can’t buy me a Gucci or Louis Vuitton purse or outfit. This is why the black culture views them as weirdos being “square” meaning the slang of never getting in trouble with the law enforcement personnels. That’s bullshit. They do but the media doesn’t show it. A murder or shooting for example. They like white guys the most because their so-called colonial superiority of global histories in the international relations.
They like white guys the most because they think they’re superior of making more histories worldwide from wars to peace, liberating other countries from their enemies and responding to emergency disasters in third world countries and black guys can’t. They can keep the Second Korean War from happening. They can guard the Japanese from the Chinese and possibly Taiwan from them. They also like white guys because its culture has wealth and military muscle. Filipina women are most open towards black guys (being less likely of asian girls being the antis for black guys) but being super open towards white guys (financial support wise). This is why the black guy will never have yellow fever lust.
Our Vietnamese hottie hit the nail on the head:
“Not to sound rude but white guys tend to be a lot taller, I guess that is what also attracts me?”
A recent British study showed that the #1 predictor of a male’s attractiveness to a female is height (over looks, money, race etc). White guys on average are taller than asians, and this is the simplest reason why so many asian girls go for us. Obviously not ALL white guys are taller than asian guys in deference to our 6’4 korean footballer.
I am only an average height white guy, but still taller than most asians here, and I have dated MANY asian girls at Cal, with little competition from the asian guys. Of course there are other factors, and this is a generalization that asian girls prefer white, but it does explain the phenomenon somewhat.
Why am I attracted to them? Well, I find asian girls pretty as I do most women actually. But since asian girls prefer me to other races, it is easier to pick the low hanging fruit. Another truth people are likely not to admit.