As in the previous example, these photos are from the same photoset on Flickr:
What could be worse than being an Asian woman in Asia and having to surrender your mystical Oriental hotness to Asian men? In no other race — white, black, Hispanic — are the women so much better-looking than the men.
Now you might say: What about Indian or Middle Eastern men? Aren’t they uglier than Asian men?
Possibly — but my point is that their women are incredibly ugly as well, so it’s a good match.
My wife’s cousin, also an Asian girl, agrees with my theory, but adds something I hadn’t thought of: Asian guys are also boring, she says, because they’re all the same. They all have the same story, same parents, same college major (engineering or business), same, same, same . . .
hilarious! kudos to h.w. glad i stumbled upon this post. so many interesting comments. a very nice birthday surprise.
to p.e., good luck with the job search, and in regards to your marriage, i hope for the best.
being asian, i will now sulk and cry myself to sleep over my small penis,flat skinny ass, ugly features, boring occupation, unoriginal asianess, lack of social skills, and loss of the female asian gender to the manlier, more handsome, wittier, successful, and completely superior white man.
oh yeah what a shame it will be if there are no more asians… in america…
hey all of you imagine that in a parallel asian site they are discussing our race and calling us big, clumsy, ugly etc.
Actually, I’ve served in the U.S. Army as an infantryman and you don’t see many asians serving. Granted, they are a smaller percentage of the population, but it’s not like the days of the 442nd in World War 2. There’s an average of one asian/pacific islander per 136 man company I kid you not. Maybe there’s an extra filipino or two. I have friends in California that tell me about the brigades of asian airsofters and “milsim” enthusiasts who love the military so much they decline enlisting and instead spend beacoup bucks to play dress up and pretend to be SEALs, SF guys, Marines, etc, and then post their photos on their myspace pages. It sounds like racial stereoyping, but the numbers I’ve seen of them on the internet are vast. There are plenty of white military wannabes as well but if you add in the ones in Asia, of course, it’s a freaking LOT of specifically asian wannabes. And not kids who can’t join up, they’re grown ass men. Weak ossifer material all.
I will say this, I do find asian women’s excuses for not wanting to date their own race ridiculous.
1.) “It’d be like dating my brother/father/etc.” I don’t hear that crap from white, latina, or black women not once.
2.) “They all have the same hair/haircut.” No shit. Same with black guys. Only white people have eye/hair variety. No one can help what they’re born with.
3.) “Asian guys all have the same majors/jobs.” But a white guy with one of those same jobs come along and it’s a non-issue.
4.) “They’re too close to their parents.” WTF? That’s the problem with this generation, not a race thing. Respecting and taking care of your elders is the right thing to do, not dumping them in a f-ed up nursing home.
5.) “They’re not tall.” If an asian guy was Yao Ming’s height they still wouldn’t care, she’d think of some other excuse.
It’s kind of weird how beauty is perceived differently in different parts of the world. Like back in my country, men don’t like Asian women at all. They think that Asian women are just way too stiff and not feminine. On my country there is a Chinese town and all that, but I don’t think anyone goes there to like find a girlfriend or a boyfrined, we all would just go to eat some Chinese food. In general I never had many Asain friends so i guess I just follwed everyone’s elses stereotype about Asian people; I believed thay all were very inteligent but at the same time very calculating with their money, they just loved their own race, they weren’t funny, they spoke with a funny accent and so on. It wasn’t until I came to the US that I noticed the obsession there is with Asain wome; to me that was kind of a shock. I guess in general we are atracted to that of what our culture influences us to be atracted to.
To start I am a straight white/native american girl. I am dating a white guy, although I have dated asians previously. I have friends who are black, latina, middle eastern, etc. who I admire greatly.
All I have to say, is that all races are beautiful. YES, there are unattractive people in every race, but that doesn’t mean that the race as a whole is unattractive. Like asian men, for example. I personally find many Japanese rockstars to be very attractive and beautiful. They have awesomely fine hair, their eyes are dazzling, and they actually look good in make up. (Thinking of Dir en grey specifically). But my ex asian boyfriend? He was skinny (6 ft tall 90 lbs), had bad skin (really bad back acne) and never showered. Two completely opposite poles in the same race. and there are examples just like this for ALL of the races and genders.
This is a world of differences in opinion and of looks. No two people are the same, and no race is all the same. Generalities can be helpful, but they are just that, generalities. they do not, and cannot, define every single person in a race.
and as for asian women who like white men? this is just a generality. Not all asian women like white men. in fact, there are some that like black men, that like asian men, that like latino men, that like indigenous men… etc, etc. Just like not all white men are handsome or hot. some are downright ugly. but the same goes for black, asian, indigenous etc…
Asian girls are not particularly attractive. They pretty much just look like female versions of asian guys. Heheh, so if most asian guys are ugly, then most asian girls are too I guess.
I live in Hawaii and asian women are everywhere all nations. When you ask tham about asian guys they laugh and tell you they don’t want asian guys. Its like a mama’s boy thing They say they are spoild and they all want a woman who will act like their mother. asian women are very cool most asian guys seem pretty insecure.
I agree with Francis. Asian women pretty much look like Asian men with more hair. From a facial feature perspective, no one looks more like Asian women than Asian men.
That would explain why so many self-hating Asian women don’t want to date Asian guys. They can’t even stand to look in the mirror and see their own ugliness. Explains why they settle for ugly white guys too.
So for those guys who are despise Asian men take a closer look at your Asian girl and you will see an Asian man looking back at ya.
thanks alot erik and francis. u guys r seriously insecure.
im asian and im offended. u know, there r such thing as fugly caucasians and europeans… o, im sorry, ur so shallow minded u would neva hav thought that was possible!
Hostile Witness –
The topic of this blog is INCREDIBLY offensive to all asians in the world. Clearly you don’t have the slightest respect towards asian men.
Just like you won’t be throwing insults to men of other races (like calling black men the N word), this blog shouldn’t be published in the first place out of respect to your fellow (asian) men.
I can’t help to think what is your motive behind this blog? To sound your opinion? Is that all? From the sound of your writings, either you got a white men superiority complex or racism towards asian males (for whatever reasons!?). Deny this if you like, but do so after an honest contemplation.
Does it really matter??????
Can we just let the ladies choose? Asian, caucasian, black, or hispanic, just let them choose who they want!!! please!!! for goodness sake!!!
I hate to say it, but the blogger is totally right… I’m sorry, I know you are all offended and what-not, but I’ve spent years in various parts of China and Taiwan, and it’s true… There are a fair amount of good-looking Asian guys, but the ratio to good looking Asian guys to good looking Asian girls is totally out of whack.
It’s mostly the guys fault too. Asian girls (in general – yes, we have to use generalizations here, just as with every other topic in life, or we could speak of nothing at all)take care of their skin, hair, clothes, etc, etc, etc – the guys usually do the minimum or waaaay to much – and they can be very crude in terms of body odor and gas.
First there are what some Asians call the “flower” boys. I’ve met many Asian guys over here who wear large purses and are constantly looking at their hair in the mirror. They are thin and soft, I don’t feel I’m standing next to a man when I am next to them (and I would be considered skinny in the states).
Then there are the guys who either spend too much time at their computer playing games/coding programs or doing… something else that makes them look very dirty (I have no idea why they look so dirty). They don’t change often, they eat with their mouths open (you can hear them eating even if your sitting tables away) and they burp loud… I mean, REALLY loud. I have no idea why the girls try to pass an image of sweet, polite, refined, and these guys don’t.
Now, I will say that many of the Asian guys I met were good-lookin’ guys who had a good personality and probably could get a white chick if they wanted to, but by far MOST of them were not. My roomates in Asia were an Italian girl and a Costa Rican girl, and they were constantly complaining about being single and lonely because there were no men in the city – they eventually ended up dating some pretty good-looking black guys though.
I’m white, my gf is Asian, and it’s only because I had to move to Asia. I will say this though, there are a LOT of pretty girls here who are thin, smart, and well-mannered (although sometimes sneaky), and I’ve seen a lot of single guys have fun here – sometimes at the expense of the Asian girls’ heart, but that’s another story (where the Asian guys do a little better, although I’ve seen them bad there too).
OK, so honestly, you guys can’t really say “everyone is the same – don’t be so ignorant – blah blah blah”. That was my attitude when I came here and…well… really… it’s true – the girls are better than the guys here – the girls know it too.
Still, Whites in Asia have horrible reputations in some areas (which we’ve earned), so while a lot of girls prefer white guys, a lot of them don’t too.
Now, about the Asian girls in the US. I’ve met some that really seem American – they don’t know any of their native language, and don’t want to – and that’s fine with me. They are afterall, US citizens – it’s the Chinese (for example) that say to them “You are Chinese! Act like a Chinese! Don’t sell out! Asian pride!”. Talk about racist. I can’t stand that crap. They aren’t Chinese/Korean/Taiwanese- they are from the US.
They might have Chinese ancestors, but they don’t belong to the Chinese nation – so learn to look past the skin, huh? I’ve met a lot of messed up girls who are either trying to “find their roots” by joining every Asian Frat or Sorority on the planet, or escape by dating a white guy than I care to remember… and only part of that is due to “social pressure from the white majority”. Social pressure… honestly, there is more social pressure/prejudice/racism here in Asia against foreigners than there is in the US – ask a native Chinese or Korean about that the next time they say whites in the US are so terrible. People always focus on the “positive” prejudices in Asia, but trust me – there is a lot of terrible things said and done against foreigners in the name of prejudice/racism here. I can speak Mandarin (which they don’t know, because I’m white), so I hear a lot of it. I will say that Taiwan is better than most of the other Asian countries – I’ve never been to Japan, so I can’t be sure.
OK, I’ve strayed of topic – enough of this… I probably won’t return because when some people see this they won’t think and act rationally but react emotionally and type some garbage, but I do hope some people got a look at my thoughts and experiences and think… oh yea, and Asian girls are better-looking than the guys, but the guys are pretty smart, so who knows what the future holds for us all! 🙂
Dude, let me tell you one thing.
I am a full-blooded Filipino woman and what you have to say about Asian men
Makes me feel very sorry for you.
Your blog entry is so ill-informed.
I am not speaking for all Filipino women, because most of them are sell-out whores that you can pick up in a strip club in Angeles, Pampanga (Philippines). Same with your white cock-loving wife and her cousin.
All you white guys do is put all the Asian men down. Why the hell are you so insecure?
The only thing that you’re in for when you marry an Asian woman is a very willing servant and sex slave. You do not really love or respect Asian women–you FETISHIZE them. You propagate the idea that that all Asian women need to be rescued from the evil and cold-hearted Asian man with machetes planting rice in their rice paddies with their water buffaloes.
It is really degrading to see this sort of mentality that you, white men, propagate. You paint a picture where it shows that ALL ASIAN WOMEN needs to be saved by the “White Knight.”
Well, you are wrong!
Your blog entry is completely offensive and it justifies more racism against people of color.
Don’t you see that you are contributing to the self-hatred that afflict a lot of Asian women?
Look, I know you are so proud to have landed a beautiful Asian woman as your wife, but remember, her father is an Asian Man. If he did not marry your wife’s mother–YOUR MOTHER-IN-LAW, then you wouldn’t have that beautiful sell-out-whore wife of yours to bang every night.
You need to think about who will get hurt because of your words and your thoughts. You just come off as boorish, ignorant, and racist.
Hi Pinay –
Your thoughtful post raises an important issue: Why the heck is “Filipino” spelled with an F?
Hostile,
To answer your question, let me give you a short version of Philippine history.
In 1521, a Portuguese name Ferdinand Magellan (Fernando de Magallanes) landed in Cebu, and claimed it for Spain. Then in 1543, another Spanish explorer named Ruy López de Villalobos led an expedition to the neighboring islands of Leyte and Samar, giving the islands the name “Las Islas de Felipenas” after the King of Spain, King Philip II.
And later on, the namesake will be given to the whole archipelago from Luzon, Visayas and Mindanao.
Are you still with me???
Anyway, the term “Filipino” is derived from the Spanish namesake given to the country. Spaniards uses “F” instead of “ph.” The name was anglicized and given the spelling of Philippines instead of “Felipenas” which was very Spanish.
You think what I say is bull?? Read THIS if you want better and thorough information.
Hmm…
To be honest with you, as an Asian woman, I used to be only into white guys (like Josh Hartnett, Orlando Bloom, Brad Pitt). But that was when I was little, and, frankly, didn’t know any better.
I was only exposed to so much and most of which came from white-centered media, which parlayed the beauty of whiteness. I only thought white was beautiful because that was what I was told via constant exposure. I didn’t think much of Asian men.
However, the older I grew, the more I invested my time into studying other culture and looking into Asian media; and, let me tell you, there are plenty of HOT (by hot, I mean smoking hot…so hot I could cry kind of hot) Asian men out there.
To name a few: Takeshi Kaneshiro, Ichiro Suzuki, Lee Dong Wook, Joe Odagiri.
And now, I find white beauty to be sort of generic. But hey, that just shows how beauty is in the eye of the beholder (to use a cliche).
i like chicken ^^
Asian women are hot but they could not handle my 12 inch foot. My right one. Its huge AND sexy. I’m very proud of it and I am 3/10 Asian 6/10 Canadian and one part chimpanzee. and YES – I am VERY proud of my Elven heritage. I think chimpanzees are so hot… they’re so… I don’t know…. EXOTIC! Probably because I never knew any growing up and they can scream so loudly – HOT! I think a lot of baboons are gorgeous too. They have that “girl next door” kind of look – but only the males. But definitely Asian women are still the best looking men in the solar system. Lets keep this thread going – I love to talk about social issues with my friends. We are bettering our lives. I’m drunk? YOU THINK YOU’RE BETTER THAN ME?! you think you KNOW ME???!!!
Hostile Witness,
Does your wife and son know about this post? Your son looks more Asian than White so I guess he is unattractive too. Your post is pretty stupid cause the women of EVERY race is much hotter than their men. Who even checks out other guys and thinks about their attractiveness anyway? Are you bi?