As in the previous example, these photos are from the same photoset on Flickr:
What could be worse than being an Asian woman in Asia and having to surrender your mystical Oriental hotness to Asian men? In no other race — white, black, Hispanic — are the women so much better-looking than the men.
Now you might say: What about Indian or Middle Eastern men? Aren’t they uglier than Asian men?
Possibly — but my point is that their women are incredibly ugly as well, so it’s a good match.
My wife’s cousin, also an Asian girl, agrees with my theory, but adds something I hadn’t thought of: Asian guys are also boring, she says, because they’re all the same. They all have the same story, same parents, same college major (engineering or business), same, same, same . . .
Stumbled across this site and it’s pretty interesting. I guess I should give the lowdown. A man will never be able to completely figure out why a woman does what she does unless he asks her directly. Being a woman myself, I can tell you, we have complicated, downright ludicrous reasons for our decisions.
The rest is just speculation from men’s perspectives.
I am an asian woman of Chinese & Thai heritage. I am currently with a white guy. However, I’m not with him because he’s “white”. I am a college student. He and I met through a common hobby (video games – I kid you not) and we found we had a lot in common. I cannot tell you how many times he gets dirty looks from Asian guys and even Asian girls when we go to the movies or the mall or something. It is a little saddening to see people who are so BITTER about something that is really none of their business. They make these snap assumptions about us just because of race. They don’t know us, and assume that I’m only with him because he’s white. I’m sorry to say, but I’m extremely picky. Being a certain race is not enough to hold up a relationship for me. We just have a lot of similar hobbies — however none of those people who give dirty looks and say I’m a “sell out” will believe this. I’ve tried explaining to people. They are just so pissed off and angry — and for what?
When I see an asian boy with a white girl, I don’t give him dirty looks. In fact most of the time I try not to stare at people — it’s rude. Who cares what other people do, as long as they are happy? I don’t sit there and give him the death stare and think “wow he’s dating a white girl, he’s a sell out”. Give me a freaking break. How can some of you (the really angry Asian kids – yes kids because only the young ones have been emo angry at me) sit there, and make these judgments when you have no idea how the two people met, the circumstances behind their relationship. Talk to couples who are happy — there is almost always a story for them to tell about how they ran into each other or something. It is never just about “she was white and that was it” unless you’re talking to someone who has a mail order bride. People meet at work, at school, at the mall, the bar, the bookstore, the park…hell now they meet online and half of them don’t even see the pics until later.
How can some of you just sit there and say “sell out” when people meet in so many different ways in mixed quarters? You honestly expect everyone to just not mingle?
Just because you’re friends with someone who is different, or you are going out with someone who is different, this does not mean you’re “abandoning” your race. I still cook Asian food, eat Asian food, celebrate traditional events with my family etc etc. It’s mind boggling that so many Asian youths have this idea that if you’re going out with someone different, suddenly that means you hate being Asian. Nothing could be further from the truth.
Some of you kids need to educate yourselves about the dangers and pitfalls of self segregation. THIS WILL GET YOU NOWHERE IN THE WORKING (re: the real world where mommy and daddy won’t pay for your stuff) WORLD. You will never learn anything about people who are different if you refuse to talk to them, get to know them, hang out with them etc. I have friends of all different races and mostly, we’re all friends because of similar hobbies, or through school or work. It has nothing to do with race. Nothing angers me more than to see Asian kids who only want to hang out with each other because these are the same ones who cry about others being racist towards them even though they are self segregating. It’s ridiculous. And excluding yourself from other groups of people just because they are white/whatever other race is really going to hurt you in the real working world. You’re dreaming if you think you’re going to work at a place that is 100% asian for your entire career. Why not try and make friends with those people who seem so different?
The whole rant aside, and I realize I probably opened a can of worms, but for God’s sake it’s all freaking true. To the angry Asian kids who enjoy saying “sell out” and giving dirty looks: If you want to just hang out with each other, fine, but don’t get all up in arms when you see different people mixing it up. It’s bound to happen in modern society and heavily populated areas. You could always try mixing it up yourselves – oh wait that’s right… you’re racist and only want to date people who are exactly like you. What a conundrum. Asians who cry racism but can’t possibly be bothered to even so much as say hi to people who are not asian.
Oh and I can’t speak for the other women but here’s my deal.
I’ve dated chinese guys, filipino guys, latino guys, and white guys. Black guys were always out of the question — parents don’t accept them. My dad got robbed twice by young black men. The whole gunpoint thing didn’t exactly sell him on black people. It’s not a matter of the Asian girls not finding black men attractive. I see a black man posted about this. It’s a matter of the girls debating whether they are going to hide or lie about a relationship because their families will not accept that person. It’s sad, but it’s true. And most guys if they are serious, don’t want to be hidden from the girl’s family like some embarassment.
As for what women find attractive — you can’t ever nail this down to one or two factors. Me personally, he’s got to be 5’8″ or taller (this puts him a few inches taller than me – a huge must), not too fat, not too skinny. And before some Asian guys start crying, my 2 older brothers are both 5’10” and 5’11”. I’ve known plenty who are 5’8 or above, so please don’t use this as some excuse for why you think you get unfairly rejected or something.
Basically no extremes one way or the other. The face is really important but you can’t rationalize this. This is like men trying to rationalize using their 1-10 scale of hotness on women. You just know if she’s hot or not. It’s the same for women in how they view men, and this applies to men of all races etc etc.
Oh and Hostile Witness I wouldn’t worry about people viewing your child/children negatively at all due to having some asian heritage.
Most people find mixed race people extremely attractive. Have friends who are half asian/white or black or latino or mixed asian or what have you. The ladies aren’t going to care what he is – if he’s cute he’s fair game.
Hi Sonya –
Thanks for the great comment. You wrote:
This isn’t specific to Asians…I’ve been trying to put my finger on this for years and could never quite articulate it in one sentence like that.
I hate it when the commenters provide better insights than I do… 🙂
Please from now on add the keywords you used to find this site at the end of your comment. (I want to see if anybody used the keywords Asians and Girls.)
Hi Rikus –
Where are your keywords? You broke your own rule.
I can answer your question though. The words “girls,” “asian,” “white” and “guys” — in that frequency — do show up as search keywords fairly often in the server logs, sometimes in various combinations and sometimes with naughty words included.
Shame on all of you…
Rikus I regularly read modelminority.com and singleasianmale.com. Somehow on one of those sites, there was a cross link to this site.
After reading all of that whining and complaining, I really think some people need to pull their heads out of their a$$es and seriously do something about their seemingly “unfair” experiences of rejection. Clean up one’s image, start working out, take up new hobbies… the women will appear. Oh and the other thing is, for god’s sakes… have the guts to ask a girl out. Do not give cop out excuses for why you think she will say no before you’ve even said hi to her. Sometimes these things are self fulfilling prophecies.
“I’m not going to ask her out, she’s not asian so she’ll say no”
then turn around and think:
“man asian girls are such sell outs, they are always going out with other guys of other races…aka they are going out with anyone but me..poor little me…cry”
Women don’t want emo whiners. They want confident go getters. Race doesn’t matter when you think of it on a basic level like this. There are just as many white guys who are pathetic whiners too. People just need more confidence.
I second what Sonya said. You rock! = ^ – ^ =
i third??? what sonya said ;b
yea talking to friends, the biggest reason these guys cant find girls is b/c they dont spend the time or effort looking for them.
hey chuck A scoundrel plots evil, and his speech is like a scorching fire.
My goodness, i can’t believe this. People have time to read such a BULLSHIT thread and react . All of us should understand that such threads and comments are started by a FRUSTRATED loser who have nothing to do, have no way to vent out his anger. So, the best thing to do when you come across such a thread is just to ignore it. Even if you find people PATHETIC don’t try to enlighten them. They are just a bunch of FOOLS who love to play fool.
This discussion ,or whatever you wuould like to call it, has gone too far . Now it should be ended.
PS:: This crap was written by a pathetic and frustrated creature also.
asian girls are sexy =]
Desiae ‘s comment about asian women are right on. There are beautiful and ugly women in all races.
But, there are more uglies in the asian race then most others. Even my mother said so. Oh, by the way, I am an asian male with a quarter of French. A very well adjusted asian American male. And no, we are not a self hating family. My mother is very beautiful, she’s definately not a typical looking asian person. Myself, I have complete confidence in my looks and routinely mistaken for a latino by people of all races.
Before all the “Asian-Pride” losers get all bent out of shape and start attacking my post, open your eyes and look in the mirrors.
It is what it is. I live in Souther California, the biggest concentration of asian in the US. I see asian everywhere I go, and most asian girls are flat ( face and body ). The ugliest tend to be Chinese and Koreans. Big round flat face with slitty eyes.
Oh sure, there are pretty ones too. About one for every 100 of ugly ones. It ‘s really hard to find a complete package. If they’re pretty, they are usually short or flat.
I ‘ve dated women of all races: ” White, Hispanic, Asian, Black, even Persian ” . My current girlfriend is a Mexican and to me, she’s very attractive.
We ‘re only discussing physical attributes. Ofcourse, there are more than just physical attraction in a healthy relationship, but that is a totally different subject.
Tyler from above, ” Are you from the LA area and drive a VW ? “. If you are , then know you man, you have an asian fetish.
To JD,
Don’t call them ugly just because you are a yank and think women should have giant boobs.
JD,
That means inherently, you’re 3/4 ugly by 99/100 chance.
Poor thing.
U.S. Asian girls saclude themselves. Even more so, when you “put yourself out there.” Especially in N.O. I had the privalage to go to San Francisco,I was aproached by (one) a beautiful chinese girl,then she turned around and started dateing some random black guy. HAHA, am I lucky or what! I’m being sarcastic! I dono maybe they have there reasons. You’d go crazy tring to figure it out though. Any advice or comments hit me up at myspace.com/DYNASTY191 (pics are also posted)
Hi, I’m white and I can say for certainty that I will not EVER procreate outside my own race. Why, you wonder. It is because I believe that no person should be left to the dog of impurity. I think it is sick the way some people try to capitalize off of others’ so called “weaknesses”. We are all weak in our own ways “racially speaking”.
Why, I do think that Asian people (women) are very attractive, but I believe the principal in purity of the race comes first and foremost as all different cultures. (mostly) every country brings something to the table of what is modern day humanity. The (mostly) is relative to me being an American first, humanitarian second and how these individuals hurt, maim and destroy more than they contribute. I am a Caucasian of a lighter hue consisting of blond a hair and eyes of azure and I would be damned if my genes are sullied by the likes of those who have darker features. Not that I think that other kinds of people are inferior to mine, brown or black hair I could understand, but take my eyes and I have nothing substantial to pass on. My existence would be futile as if I were better off slaying myself in my mother’s womb.I despise race traitors, or supremacists for these assholes offset the balance of all communities but most importantly show neglect and dishonor to people Who are heartfelt and diligent family aspiring guys and girls.. to think you have to settle ( for something less than their true potential). Thank you and I did not mean to offend. I love all different cultures and for true Love there is no countermeasure. I humbly apologize to all who might have found acceptance in true compassionate intimacy in another race. In fact out of good faith you can leave your comments/complaints to my Email address which is : Electric_brigand@sbcglobal.net
Sorry, forgot to add, I’m a male of 6’2 and I would not settle for an offspring less than, unless by an inch or so. It’s just that a lot of males in my town of Lawrence,Kansas are sometimes 6’4 and “short” is not in the inevitable future, sorry about that.
For those Asian girls prefer dating white guys over Asian guys are truly sad, I believe the reason for that is many believe being with a white guy gave em a better perception from society point of view. Somehow put them in a higher class category (not the white trash type). I had a white girl told me once at the bar, she truly thinks the reason most white girls do not go for Asian guys are then think they might have a smaller dick.(she only assume that because the media and how society views Asian men) Here is a fun fact- National average is 6’, so my follow Asian brothers if u meet the min requirements, feel free go out there and feel confident explore it (not in a gay way thou). I am a little buzzed….lol
J.Q.
There are white women who’ll get into relationships with Asian men,(take that Japanese guy from Miami Ink) but these are “nice” girls. I wish the U.S. was full of these kinds of woman, but it seems the opposite. It’s not their fault really considering the way “we” have exploited them. The point is that any woman that puts emphasis on penis size probably isn’t worth much more in her current state than a hook-up or a late night booty-call.
If that’s what you want then go for it, but remember “pack those condoms”. Biologically speaking Penis size doesn’t matter (I won’t go into to that since most already know..) Of course since their are more promiscuous people today, there are more psychological implications involved. Sadly my friend 6′ isn’t going to please these girls…I mean my penis is longer than 6′ by 1.3′ and two ladies out of my 15 lady sexual history, commented that my penis was small, but here’s the kicker, they had sex with me anyway. another factor you have to add is girth which is physically more important than length. The most important thing for men to remember is if your not happy with your size, you can fix this problem via devices,techniques,or surgery(pills too although I’m skeptical..) The point is that “hook-up” girls aren’t worth it when it comes to marriage,family,etc. (in their current state) and of course these ladies can change(here’s hoping..) I converted to Christianity about two years ago, so cheers to you Lord. I’ve only fallen victim to my most depraved desires once with a woman since then. human-sexuality (such a burden) I’m 26 though and you might be younger than I so it’s only natural for you to want to explore it further, just take care and be wise about it, but I finally found a lady I can take it slow with and hopefully in the future I might be a husband and a father and that is all that is important to me anymore and I’m proud to say she’s Caucasian like me. By the way, why are Asians so happy all the time. I mean every time I see them particularly the females have radiant smiles on their faces. I know an older white guy who’s in a relationship with a woman from Thailand and always a smile on her face…on TV the same..What’s up with that?
Wow your article is pure b.s. full of bigotry and ignorance. Who the hell are you to say that Asian men are ugly, or that Middle-Eastern men are ugly, and that whites are good looking? Beauty is subjective, it depends on who you ask. Maybe those Hollywood flicks brain washed you but in other regions of the world, many people would disagree with your views.
Whoever wrote this original blog is an idiot, probably some frustrated racist white guy who thinks he can up his ego by ridiculing minority men. Sorry, but white privilege is dying and a thing of the past as we speak 🙂