These are from the same photo set on Flickr, taken at a local beach here in Orange County:
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See Also: Why Asian Girls Like White Guys II
These are from the same photo set on Flickr, taken at a local beach here in Orange County:
Any questions?
See Also: Why Asian Girls Like White Guys II
I agree with you, Will. Personality is an important factor. Only the shallow and ignorant Asian girls view white men as superior. Those who truly seek for a sincere relationship would date anyone.
they just wants to get married with an american.. it has nothint to do with the white!
I am an Asian girl and in my opinion, Asians especially the Chinese/ Japs/ Korean/ Taiwanese would date guys whom are lighter skinned then themselves/ their own kind. Anything darker they’ll have to face the music from friends and relatives.. Asian girls are obsessed about being fair. So they’d want their children to be fair hence marring a white guy would be safe.
After reading through so many sites like this one and sifting though the mountain of hate, these pages some how generate, to find the few gems. I must say “race” is like a book cover. Sure there are attractive ones and not so attractive one, but it is what catches the eye and hopefully gets you to look inside. For it is whats on the inside that counts (e.g. what you can learn from each other, their personality, likes/dislikes, and so on.) I don’t know if that makes sense to any of you, but I’ve thrown in my two bits. Have a nice day all.
Actually, there is a matchmaking site that directly targets Asian Girls and White Guys…its called…Asian Girls and White Guys!
asiangirlsandwhiteguys.com
I’m a white guy and I have always found Asian girls very attractive.I like their cute feautures and their femininity,but for some reason I’ve always had white girlfriends until recently.I’m now in love with a gorgeous Asian girl who I’ve known for nearly 10 years,but never thought to ask her out before.I never really thought of her as Asian,she was always just Mel to me.We have the same weird sense of humour and she laughs at my jokes without me having to use a cattle prod.She always dated Asian guys,so it’s kind of a surprise to both of us.I met her through a friend of mine who’s Asian himself and he’s dating my cousin,they had never dated outside their race before but they’re getting married next June,so go figure.People are people,there are good and bad in every race.Some of the white guys here need to be more respectful towards Asian guys,because there are some pretty cool Asian guys out there like my friend Anthony.Ultimately, as Shakespeare once said ,love is not love when it alteration finds.
@Jake –
Thanks for adding some class to the discussion with your Shakespeare quote!
Do you mind if I correct it so it makes a little more sense?
Love is not love / Which alters when it alteration finds.
Sometimes i wonder if these blogs are propaganda by non-asian males. I did some research and found there are others blogs that also belittle other races.
My advise to you asian brothers, don’t let these kind of threads stop you from dating. Carry on the best parts of your culture and leave the bads behind. Don’t close your dating windows. If the asian woman you like don’t like you back, turn your sight to the left and to the right, I’m sure you’ll find other girls who will be daring enough to get to know you and eventually hopefully interested in you. Believe me those girls haven’t get to see the best of our sides yet. Two Hispanic ex-gfs told me how they love to bring me to their parents. Their parents mesmerized by my manner, conversation, and my future/career goal.
And advise to you my asian female friends out there: you have your preferences and we have ours. The nicest thing you can do is not to belittle your fellow asians. I have female cousins who dated asian man and non-asian man one after another and it is funny to watch how they treated the men differently. For example: they would tell the asian bf to wash their dishes after meal; while they would wash the dishes of their non-asian bf; how they easily charm off by the non-asian bf gestures and treatments; while they treat asian bf gesture and treatment as something a bf should do. Interesting ya? I think so too. The bad experiences you had in the past or from a friend do not represent every asian men out there.
I came from a loving asian family in successful asian neighborhood. Despite asian dads are less open or affectionate, but they do create and grow one good sophisticated family and child. If you are good, then you are one good example; if you are not, there always hopes and chances regardless who you would be with in the end.
Advise for other men who belittle asian men to make yourself feel better: go research your own race and learn how they belittle you. There is always sky above sky isn’t?
We need to get over race.Slavery and early discrimination have totally skewed our perceptions.All races and creeds have good and bad.Our collective sexual attractions will eventually settle down,and we will all start loving ourselves and each other in a healthy way,with shared values.Respecting each others history and uniqueness.
from my experience, not all but atleast many from what I have encountered, many tend to go for the white guy becuase:
1. some Asian cultures like Chinese culture is money driven, so you go where the cash is. this may be wrong but its what i have learned from word of mouth.
2. asian women perceive white men to be a path towards a good life, which is a shame. I dated an asian girl who was laos, and her family rejected me (Latino). but I came to find out they were ok with her being with white men. which was a fucking insult.
3. features, again sad. becuase your choosing a partner based on race not identity.
again from my experience, and this is coming from the san francisco area.
Why do Asian females like white guys?? That is a very good question….
Asian females argue that Asian guys are to controlling, abusive, and arrogant…. blah blah blah! I agree to a certain degree! Have you ever seen a marriage between an Asian and Caucasian individual lasting? When a person is half Asian and Half Caucasian they seemed to be more screwed up in the head because their parents are divorced! Asian males may not always have to best qualities regardless if they are Americanized or a FOB. At least we don’t make our wives struggle financially or let our kids become drug addicted crack head. It’s give and take ya! Why the heck did our parents struggle to come to the states? So their daughter can bring home an American Beef Cake? lol! I’m born and raised here, and I have a problem about interracial marriages between Asian females and White guys! 20 years from now, there will be no Asian if this continues! There is a big culture difference between Asians and Whites! Don’t forget where you come!
hmm..nice comments….every1s take is different….wel i lik guys of evry race…i m an asian girl very pretty evn by asian standards…i wud date any guy if our frequency matches…he shud b sweet funny n gudnatured n goodlookin atleast presentable…so guys b confident n ask her out who knows she might b interested…
nah, the trend is reversing where more white women loves Asian guys. My experience is based on: http://www.AsianCaucasianTurf.com
STQ: That is a science fiction site, correct?
I’m European ,Us much as I like asian women but I still want to save my heritage.If whites ain’t gone save their heritage soon their woun’t be left western culture and white ppl with blond hair and blue eyes.For me it would be just simply sad to destroy my own heritage.btw Im not racist.
Btw,I don’t understand why asian women so attracted to white guys?Sometimes they even get annoying.It look’s like they are crazy for white guys.
I came upon this site and forum by chance and would like to say that I am pretty appalled by both some comments and the subject matter of this forum. Sorry to rain on your parade there Dave, but that comment was racist. Who are you, one of Hitler’s henchmen??? Quote-“If whites ain’t gone save their heritage soon their woun’t be left western culture and white ppl with blond hair and blue eyes.” Pretty sure last time I checked, recessive genes still existed so there is no fear of that, and honestly, western culture has already been subjected to other cultures and ‘SURPRISE!’ it’s still there. Also, your grammar is dreadful (Sorry to sound stuck up :P) I’m a “white” girl but I have a thing for “asian” guys, but I have had “white” boyfriends that are just as nice. I don’t think you should just generalise all “asian” girls in the question being asked, everyone has their own feelings and should be allowed to express those feelings. We’re not in the 1900’s any more people, maybe you should stop being sexist and racist for a change…I’m a 16 year old from Australia (that failed the english test at the start of this year) and I know to have more respect and decency than some of these comments. If you’ve noticed I’ve put the races in quotation marks because really we are only talking about eastern asian countries right? I mean with that extreme racist comment on that other thread attatched to this page saying Indians and Middle Eastern (of both gender) are ugly. I was shocked and horrified when I read that statement. I find whoever wrote this to be a complete ass-wipe. And really when we say white in this conversation we are talking about people (Americans, English, etc) that don’t look like they have ethnic backgrounds right? Sorry if I have interpreted something wrong. I apologise in advance for anyone who might take offence to anything I have said (except to the person who started this article ‘Hostile Witness’ I think you are an immature person that really, just wanted to start something).
There are racial reasons for dating white men opposed to Asian men. Many Asians which includes asian men dont find Asian features appealling. I’ve heard it since I was a young girl that I was not as good as a white person directly from my family and Asian social circle. Infact, an Asian boyfriend in college didnt like that I sometimes acted too “Asian”. This Asian boyfriend of mine was straight from Hong Kong and spoke with a heavy accent I had difficulty understanding. Since I grew up in the states all my life, I dont even have an accent. So how he could say such a thing to me was very disturbing and didnt make me fall in love with him. Also, Asian men dont stick up for their culture or their Asian women. My Asian boyfriend did not care that his boss fondled my breasts and I sat there is shock. He never came to my defense. I dont think a white guy would have put up with such a thing. Yes, there is racism in white society but a white guy is dating me because he thinks I am incredibly beautiful and he tells me so, and I believe it. Women want romance and want to be the princess with the guy she is with. Feeling beautiful is very important to every woman and it trumps even the racism she has to deal with. It’s not something I wish to acknowledge but have had to face the hard facts when it came to life and dating.
I’m a caucasian male married to an asian female. We met in the US, much like any typical american singles might meet. She is from the Philippines and I’m from Texas. Aside from those facts, we probably defy any type of stereotype out there. When I visited my in-laws in the Philippines, I could see the kinds of relationships that fit the stereotypes one hears about. Old American or European men with younger wifes. It bothered me that people would see my relationship as the same way as these creeps. Our relationship was out of mutual love and respect. I have several awesome asian male friends in Dallas who are happily married to caucasian women. But I see the stares and reactions. The wheels spinning. And I can honestly say that it pisses me off when people dwell on these racial curiosities. Does anybody consider that perhaps we are two human beings who have found love and respect in one another? yes, there are negative things going on in the world, but there are many wonderful and beautiful exceptions. It’s sad people can only think in those terms.
I think S2K2003 is right, somehow at least. There is only a little chance that relationships between different races last. I don’t think a marriage with me and an Asian girl would last till I die, although I’ve made my experiences with Asian girls.
Anyway, I think it’s ok for Asian women to have “loose” relationships, or let’s say “sex-driven” relationship with White men. I believe White men – generally, of course!!! – are more potent and passionate in bed, and that’s what some Asian women desire. It’s not an issue of money, that’s a very offending prejudice!!! After some years, at latest when these women are in their 30ies, they’ll realize that there is something else to look for like similar culture, values etc. And that’s the time when Asian men might become more interesting.
Hmmm. It is said but true that many stereotypes are born from truth. I am a black guy and sadly many stereotypes about blacks are true and many blacks live down to them. Many races and cultures have stereotypes that are true. Why do you think marketing to certain groups is so successful? Anyway, I think many Asian women, especially Japanese, desire white men far more than any other outside their own. I would also say that it is more pronounced than any other culture. I have been to Asia numerious times, including Japan. I have many Japanese female friends. Most stay within their own race but the ones who do date outside their race it is most likely white. I have heard that they prefer fairer skin and taller men. Also, it seems Japan may be too traditional for some Japanese women. I have a a dear Chinese friend who I meet in Shanghai. She came to the U.S. to study. She would only date older white men who appeared to have money. She clearly told me she was looking for a man with money and that she was looking to get married before her student visa expired. Unfortunately, she found that many of these white men were broke. The same same happened to my Japanese friend who moved to Seattle. She only dated white men, but her age. Unfortunately, the white men she dated used her for sex and money. But she still only dates white men. Now, the interesting thing is that I have a higher chance of Asian women giving me a chance than white are black women in the U.S. My last two girlfriends were Asian, Chinese and Thai. I have not dated an American girl in over 10 years. South American, European, Middle Eastern and African but no Americans. The last time I was in Japan, my Japanese female friend’s parents had not problem with me staying there and they treated me quite well. The reason I mention this is that perhaps it may not be just because they are white but also because there are more white people in general in the U.S., and who travel to Asia.